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Thomas Peter Lalli

1953 - 2019

Thomas Peter Lalli obituary, 1953-2019, Providence, RI

BORN

1953

DIED

2019

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Newport, Rhode Island

Thomas Lalli Obituary

Thomas Peter Lalli
Thomas "Tom" Peter Lalli, 65, of Middletown, RI, passed away peacefully on Thursday, July 18, 2019, surrounded by his loving family, at Rhode Island Hospital, in Providence, RI.
He is survived by his devoted wife of 41 years, Linda M. (Sullivan) Lalli.
In addition to his wife Linda, Tom is survived by his beloved daughters Gina Therese Lalli of Middletown, RI and Maria Eve Lalli Moisan; his much-loved son-in-law, Daniel Moisan; and his two cherished grandsons, Dominic Thomas Moisan and Dean Gregory Moisan, all of North Kingstown, RI. He also leaves a sister, R. Celeste Lalli of Middletown, RI, and his brothers, John E. Lalli of Cranston, RI, Michael A. Lalli III and his wife Christine of Middletown, RI and P. Blake Lalli and his wife Lynn of Mt. Pleasant, SC.
Proudly born in Newport, RI, on November 24,1953, he was the son of the late Michael A. and Anne (Murray) Lalli, Jr. Tom began his education at Hazard Memorial School, graduated from Rogers High School in 1972 and attended Saint Anselm College in Manchester, NH. Previous employments include Safeway Systems, Middletown Fire Department, St. George's School, and Cappy's Hillside Cafe, where he developed life-long friendships. In 2013, he retired from a 30-year career as a letter carrier for the U.S. Postal Service in Newport, where he was known as the "Mayor of the Point".
Tom Lalli belonged to everyone. He was happiest with his family and friends, especially his treasured grandsons, and will be sorely missed by all. He was a huge personality, with a smile that brightened a room and a laugh that was raucous and infectious. He was always there to lend a helping hand, asking nothing in return. On July 18, 2019, a bright, shining light went out on Aquidneck Island.
Calling hours will be held Wednesday, July 24, 2019 from 4:00 PM to 8:00 PM at Memorial Funeral Home, 375 Broadway, Newport, RI. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated Thursday, July 25, 2019, at 9:30 AM at St. Joseph's Church, Broadway at Mann Avenue, Newport. Burial will follow at St. Columba Cemetery, Middletown, RI.
Donations in his memory may be made to Hillside Charitable Organization, P. O. Box 594, Newport, RI 02840 or to the charity of your choice. For additional information, please visit www.memorialfuneralhome.com.

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Published by Newport Daily News from Jul. 22 to Jul. 24, 2019.

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Paul Cormier

July 17, 2024

As always, a terrific guy and great friend. He will always be remembered. The Fifth Ward and all over Newport he was loved! He is missed.

Paul Cormier

Jenny Collier

August 7, 2019

Linda,

I just learned about Tommy and I am so sorry for your loss. Please know you and your family are in my heart and my prayers. All my love. Jenny

Mary Hunter

July 29, 2019

To The Lalli Family-
Tom was our mailman for the duration of the Newport Dinner Train's business office location on Bridge Street.
Seeing his cheerful face, bright smile and warm personality daily was an injection of sunshine into our work week routines.
I am heartbroken to learn of his passing.
Prayers and deepest condolences to you all.
Mary Hunter

Nicholas

July 25, 2019

Blake, remember the penny gumball dispenser in your parent's store? They would put gold beads in with them. If you got a bead (for a penny) you could exchange it for a candy bar. One of my favorite childhood memories is from when you were in Germany visiting Johnny. I went to the store every day to hear what you were up to. And I always tried for a gold bead. One day, Tommy was running the place and we both noticed the gumballs were low and there were at least two dozen gold beads sitting among them. I ran home and loaded up on pennies, went back to the store and emptied the dispenser. It was like hitting the jackpot. It wasn't until much later that I realized Tommy could have easily topped off the dispenser before I first arrived, or before I returned. But he didn't. As a lone son with two sisters, your big brothers were my big brothers. Rest in peace, Tommy. You are well-remembered.
My best to you, Celeste, Mick, and John

Anne Nagle

July 25, 2019

Linda, Gina, Maria and all the family - I am heartbroken to learn of Tommi's passing. I can't quite believe it. He was the happiest, friendliest, kindest man and always made me laugh so hard. My deepest sympathies to all of the Lalli family. With love, Anne (Martin) Nagle

Nina Thompson

July 24, 2019

Tommy was my favorite Newport mailman when we lived on the point. Always smiling and happy. Sorry for your loss.

Paul Cormier

July 24, 2019

Tom
It's been a pleasure to have known you over all of these years; from the "WEB" through the "Eastnor CLASSIC" golf outings. I left Newport 45 years ago but never forgot my roots or my friends. You were always someone that we all gravitated to. I was fortunate to have been reconnected over the years and for that I am grateful. It's too bad that tragedies like this bring us together.
My condolences go to you and you family and friends. I will miss your RED SOX hat with the curls sticking out!
GOD bless you and yours. Thanks for the memories.

Paul Cormier
Plymouth, Ma.

Dawn Thurman

July 24, 2019

We are so very sorry to hear to hear of the passing of Tom, he was such a wonderful person and he will truly be missed. Our deepest condolences to the Lalli family.

Paul Cormier

July 24, 2019

Tom
It has been a pleasure to have known you for all of these years; beginning at the WEB and continuing through the periodic "EASTNOR CLASSICS". I left Newport 45 year ago but never forgot my roots or my friends. You were always someone that we all gravitated to. I was fortunate to have been reconnected over the years and for that I am grateful. It's too bad that tragedies like this have to bring us together.

My condolences go out your family and friends. We will all miss your RED SOX hat and the curls sticking out from under!

God bless you and yours.

Paul Cormier
Plymouth, Mass.

July 24, 2019

Tom, it has been a pleasure to have known you. It started years ago at the "WEB" and continued periodically through the "Eastnor Classics". I left Newport 45 years ago but never forgot my roots or my friends. You were always someone that we all gravitated to. I was fortunate to have been reconnected over the years and for that I am grateful. It's too bad that tragedies like this bring us together.
My condolences go to your family and friends. I will miss your RED SOX hat with the gray curls sticking out. Thanks for the memories. GOD bless you all.

Paul Cormier
Plymouth, Mass

Debby McCarthy

July 24, 2019

To all the Lalli family: my sincere condolences on the loss of Tommy. His larger than life personality, infectious smile, and kind and friendly nature will be missed by the many people his life touched, especially his family. Caring thoughts and prayers to you all.

Christine Andrews Cole

July 24, 2019

Celeste, John, Mickey and Blake. I am so sorry to hear of Tommy's passing. Your entire family is a huge, happy memory from my childhood. I will keep all of you in my prayers. RIP Tommy.

Ray Silvia

July 24, 2019

Just heard the sad news today. Tom was a great guy. I'm going to miss you old buddy.
Rest in peace.

Gregg Roy

July 24, 2019

So Sorry for your loss Sending thoughts and prayers.

Whitney Ruggeri

July 23, 2019

I am so sorry to hear about Tommy. He worked with my dad at the post office. He will be remembered as a sweet man and great friend. Sending prayers to all of your family.

Det. James E. Hazel, Ret.

July 23, 2019

Tom was always happy, respectful, and responsible in his duties as as a U.S. Postman serving the Point Section but moreover, his beloved City of Newport . Such a great person and proud local icon. I'm so very saddened to hear of his passing. I am also very grateful to have had the privilege of knowing Tom during my career. My deepest sympathies go out to the entire Lalli family, friends, and all local Newporter's mourning his passing.

Rest In Peace Tom - you have easily earned heavens rewards.

George Greenman

July 23, 2019

RIP Tom

Fr. John Fortin, O.S.B.

July 23, 2019

My sympathies to all the family. I was a classmate of Tom's at Saint Anselm College. I will offer Mass for him and keep all of you in my prayers.

Ray Dufault

July 23, 2019

Very sad to hear!! I was lucky to have a nice talk with Tommy recently. We go back to first grade and he was a very special friend and I have so many fond memories of our childhood and hanging around the web. I will miss him dearly and my thoughts and prayers are with all of you there.
Blessings!
Ray Dufault

Mary Rosenzweig

July 23, 2019

I am so sorry to hear of Tommy's passing. My husband, Andy, and I moved to Newport in 2001 from New York and Tommy was one of the first people we met. He welcomed us immediately with open arms. We maintained a friendship with him until we moved in 2014. We are heartbroken. Deepest condolences to his family.

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