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Stephen Gerber Obituary

Stephen Andrew Gerber of Ludowici, GA, age 46, passed away in the early morning hours of April 19, 2020. Steve was born in Chardon, Ohio on December 3, 1973. He was a member and a starter on the 1991 Chardon High School varsity football team, proudly wearing number 21 and passing that number on to future Gerbers. Steve was graduated from CHS in the spring of 1992 and soon after began what would become a long and distinguished career of service to his country. Steve enlisted in the United States Army, trained as a medic, and served for two years in Grafenwoehr, Germany. During his time in Germany, Steve received an opportunity to attend the US Army Military Academy at West Point. Steve accepted the offer, attended the academy, and was graduated with a degree in civil engineering as a member of the West Point Class of 1999. Steve’s career as an Army officer continued until his retirement in 2016. All told, Steve dedicated more than 20 years to the Army, including multiple decorated tours to Iraq during Operation Iraqi Freedom. Away from his work, Steve was an automobile enthusiast who enjoyed working on and racing his Corvette and restoring his 1939 Packard. Steve was also a lifelong fan of Ohio State football, the Cleveland Browns and the Cleveland Indians. Steve’s quirky sense of humor, love of anything Seinfeld and the silliness of his laugh will be desperately missed by those closest to him. Steve is survived by his wife Jill of Ludowici, GA, his parents Gerald and Elaine Gerber of Chardon, OH, his little brother Jason (wife Tammy) of Ludington, MI, numerous aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, nephews, friends and his three beloved cats. Memorial services will be scheduled at a later date. The family requests that, in lieu of flowers, donations be made to Greater Cleveland Foodbank or The National Veterans Foundation.

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Published by News-Herald from Apr. 30 to May 3, 2020.

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Stephen P. Gerber

April 11, 2025

Mr. And Mrs Gerber, loved ones, and friends of Stephen A. Gerber, I am terribly sorry for your loss. I just came across this page by accident and am heart sick to have found it. Stephen and I never met in person, but we exchanged phone calls and emails due to sort through name mix ups in various Army systems as well as occasional phone calls when those mix ups were time sensitive (approving the requests of soldiers either one of us commanded, medical record mix ups due to common conditions and the similarity of our names. We quickly became friends during these communications as we shared the same sense of humor and sense of duty to our soldiers. Your son was a beautiful person and I was always happy to see another error in some Army system would give me an opportunity to contact Stephen. I lost contact with Stephen after I was medically discharged from the Army wounded warrior program (one picture is me with late President George Bush´s service dog who the president stipulated in his will be sent to Walter Reed to serve as a therapy dog helping servicemembers going through recovery. Your some had a huge heart, amazing wit, and hilarious sense of humor that I am sure lives on in those he loved.I am honored to have met and become friends with him. With deepest sympathy, Stephen P. Gerber

LAURA MAZANEC

December 31, 2020

Dear Gerry and Elaine and Jason and family (cats included). This Lolly (Jesionek) Mazanec in Denver. I have been looking for you for a long time. I found old letters, I found your address in Chardon, OH. The last letters I have are from 1996. I am saddened by the loss of your son, Stephen. So many memories shared. I will reach out to the last known address I have for you.

Steph

May 11, 2020

Steve was my team leader at West Point, when he was a sophomore and I was a freshman. He truly was the kindest person. I remember him fondly. I'm so sorry for your loss.

Erika

May 5, 2020

I am so very sorry to hear of Stevens passing. I went to school with him at chardon. He was always so sweet and kind to everyone! He always made everyone smile. He will be missed but heaven gained a beautiful angel. God bless you all!

Karen longeRt

May 5, 2020

To Jerry ,Elaine my deep sympathy. May the you be comforted in the knowledge that you were blessed. By Stephens presences take care .Warm hugs Karen.

Cathy Simunich

May 5, 2020

We are saddened by the news of Stephen's passing. May God comfort you during these difficult days. You and your family are in our thoughs and prayers.

John Pelka

May 4, 2020

God Bless you and your family, Brother. I never personaly knew you in high school and was unaware of your enlistment, we enlisted and retired almost the same time. Though we may have never formally met while serving, you will forever be my brother. Until we meet in the service of our Lord, may you be at ease and rest in peace.

Monica

May 4, 2020

I knew Steve from high-school. He was a great guy. Steve was a good listener and a friend to all. I am so sorry.ro hear of his passing. He will be missed by many!

Corrine

May 4, 2020

So very sorry to hear of the loss of Steve. He will truly be missed by all those who were privileged to know him. I was blessed to know him through school. My deepest condolences.

Don Navatsyk

May 4, 2020

This is awful, awful news. Steve and I were extremely close when he was in high school. Mr. and Mrs. Gerber - please know that we are grieving with you and praying for the Gerber family. Don Navatsyk

Maria Padilla

May 3, 2020

I met Stephen through my brother, SSG Joel Rodriguez, whom also passed away four years ago. I knew him briefly but nonetheless he left a lasting memory in my family. I searched for him the last four years to let him know of my brother's passing but was unsuccessful. It is very painful to finally know something about him and that he has made his journey to Valhalla. His family has my deepest and sincere condolences from me and my mother Lupe who also met him many years ago when they were all in Ft. Riley, we always remember him with a smile, very humble but a proud patriot and a great military leader. i just found out a couple of days ago and it didn't take long for me to pull out the pictures I have of him with my brother and his platoon. I lit a candle for him.I cannot believe he is gone and together with my brother again. Our hearts are shattered. Rest in peace Gerber.

Doug Thomas

May 3, 2020

Steve was an amazing Soldier and friend. He will be missed by so many and his impact on this world will live on. God Bless his family during this very difficult time.

Lee&Becky

May 1, 2020

Gerber family, Were sorry for your loss. Praying you are surrounded by the love of God and family ❤ your cousin Becky and Lee

WAYNE

May 1, 2020

Always remember when I let you drive my 65 Pontiac and your dad told me I was nuts letting you use it had too much power for you but you made it back safe

April 30, 2020

My condolences to family and friends. Find hope and comfort in God above.

Tawney

April 30, 2020

We are so very sorry for you loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers and we are here for you always. We will be making a donation in honor of Steve. With love, Kevin & Tawney Wilske

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