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Philip Toscano Obituary
May 15, 1950 - May 20, 2020
Dr. Philip George Toscano, 70, left this physical world Wednesday, May 20 after a year-long battle with cancer. Dr. Toscano worked his professional life as an optometrist and retired after 15 years from LensCrafters. Though a resident of Daytona Beach for many years, Dr. Toscano was born in Vienna, Austria May 15, 1950.
At age 10, he immigrated with his parents to Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. He lived, studied and worked in many places including Miami and California. He holds degrees from the University of Miami and his doctorate is from the Philadelphia School of Optometry. Many faculty and students from Daytona State College will remember Dr. Toscano's smile and contributions to class discussions. There he studied French, German, Italian, Spanish and other subjects. His love of learning provided him endless energy.
Dr. Toscano loved to live a healthy life style which led him often to the gym. It also led him to the open road where he spent some of his fondest moments with friends riding motorcycles through the mountains of Colorado, the highways of Wyoming, North and South Dakota, and the Pacific Highway of California. No one who knew him would be surprised at the Harley-Davidson in his dining room.
His was a life of giving and service – often done privately. For the community at large, he was involved in the LensCrafters charitable organization One Sight that provides free eye exams. For the homeless, in addition to the free eye exams, he provided clothing and meals. For fellow students, he tutored and lent explanations in a friendly one-on-one way. Ultimately, he gave his very self to be used for cancer research. "Greater love has no one than this, than one lay down his life for his friends." (John 15:13)
Dr. Toscano is survived by his loving wife Jeanine (Lhulier) Toscano, step-daughter Erin Jones and step-mother Millie Toscano. Childhood friends who were like brothers to him are Andrew Barbaro, John Mascaro, Paul Fioravanti, Peter Tague and Steve Mallach. He was pre-deceased by parents Joseph and Christine Toscano and step-son Dylan Jones.
In lieu of flowers the family requests that donations be made in his name to cancer research. The family will host a celebration of his life after his ashes are returned.
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Memories and Condolences
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Jared Sandrowicz
June 20, 2025
Think about you all the time Dr.T
There was just something special about you , the way you talk to your patients, the way you treated people, your loving and caring personality. Your always loved and missed my brother
Jeanine Toscano
May 28, 2025
You will always be the love of my life! There isn´t a day that goes by that I don´t think or cry or laugh at my beautiful husband! He was one in a million! My heart is broken that we didn´t have more time. They say that grief is all of the love you didn´t get to give. I miss him every day & he was the sweetest person a woman could have as a husband & he had so many friends that were his family! We all loved him!
Edward Ling
May 24, 2025
Thanks for being a friend. All your optometry friends miss you.
Larry Flanagan
May 23, 2025
Can´t believe it´s been five years since the man came calling for you. You are remembered and missed by many. You may be gone but never forgotten. We all still share stories.
Ron Baldwin
May 22, 2025
I can't believe it has been 5 years already. You are missed by everyone you every met. You were one of the nicest guys I've ever met and you were taken from us way too soon!!
June Harraka
May 21, 2025
It's been five years since you left, but you're never forgotten for the person you were. You were intelligent, kind, giving, compassionate, and easy to talk with. You helped so many people through your years and never had a bad word to say about anyone. You were one of a kind. When we moved to FL in 2001 and went to you for our eye doctor, it turned out that we were so blessed to have had you as our eye doctor, and you became our dearest friend. I feel beyond blessed that we were able to be a part of your life and spend so many good times together. You are sorely missed by so many wonderful people. You are now an angel in heaven.
Ali Sarwi
June 11, 2024
Dr Toscano was one of the nicest, most generous person I've ever met.alwasys had a smile on his face. I couldn't believe it when I heard the news of his passing. Rest in peace my friend.
David
May 24, 2023
Phil was an amazing man and I was very lucky to be his friend.
He is missed every day... gone but not forgotten.
June Harraka
May 23, 2023
You are thought of very often and so very missed. I have wonderful memories of the trips out west and coming to the house tinkering with your motorcycle and bringing lunch.
David Damore
May 22, 2021
Dr. Phil was one of the finest men I’ve ever had the privilege of knowing. His positive attitude and generosity were an inspiration to me. I miss him and wish I could have one more opportunity to share a laugh with him.
I believe I can speak for all who knew him and were able to call him their friend that we were better for the experience.
Andrea Erwin
November 16, 2020
I met Phil at Fort Hill Apts in Fort Washington PA when I was eighteen. Richie Erwin lived there also and he and Phil were lifelong friends. Richie and I hooked up and moved to John Mascaras place in Jenkintown pa. Phil was always there. Phil did not have a sister and I did not have a brother so we adopted each other and considered ourselves real siblings through our lifelong friendship. When Phil and Lynn were in Miami going to school we went down. Also when they moved to Leiper st in pa. Then Richie and I moved. To the farm in Quakertown
and the Poconos and Phil spent lots of time with us at both places. My son Miles loved Phil and Lynn. (Phil's first wife) he loved Phil taking him for rides in his green Porsche on the winding mountain roads. We spent time in Atlantic City all together and made lots of memories. We liked to go to the beach and boating. I have some great pics of Phil out in the boat but for some reason I can't get them on here from my photos. I will keep trying. Then Phil would go to Ca. And eventually moved to the house he bought in Daytona. Phil was a gentle soul a man who had more personalities then the average bear knew. We always enjoyed our time spent together. Phil, my brother, you will live on in my heart forever. Love, your Seeeester (as you used to call me) Andrea
Edward Ling
June 26, 2020
Goodbye Phil! Weiling and I will miss spending good times with you at Atlanta ! We'll remember you when we go to SECO again.
Tom Tramontina
June 25, 2020
Friend spans time and distance! Phil's great smile and powerful hugs of greeting let you know you were with a brother. The good fight till the end Valhalla has won a new Warrior
Rahelyn
June 25, 2020
I met Phil sometime in 2013. Meeting him I found him to be a very kind, funny and all around accepting person. The simple times I shared with Phil & Jeanine Ill never forget. ❤
Eric Perez
June 23, 2020
It saddens us to have lost a valuable member of our team. Dr. Phil Toscano was our doctor in the Daytona Beach location and he has been an integral part of DPA for 5 years. He cared for his patients deeply and because of that he had a devout patient following throughout his career. Almost every year he would take time to ride his Harley across the country and he would return eager to share his adventures with Dr. Perez and staff. Over the years, Dr. Toscano and Dr. Perezs relationship evolved from a professional partnership to a true friendship and they would spend the years texting and sharing photos of their travels. We are thankful that during his last days, Dr. Toscano and Dr. Perez had the opportunity to once again talk to each other, laugh, share their appreciation, honor their friendship, and say their good-byes. -Dr. Perez & Associates
John & Shannon Foerst
June 17, 2020
Phil you were such a special and happy part of our lives, it's hard to believe we won't be able to see your amazing smile as you fly past us on your bike anymore! Shannon & I are so glad we were able share such special moments with you & Jeanine! Thank you for all the laughs, loyalty and friendship you gave of yourself!
Forever you will be in our hearts!
Love,
John & Shannon Foerst
Niecie Chatas
June 14, 2020
Mike just informed me our old, dear friend has gone. Ours is a friendship from Stockton College almost 50 years ago. Phil was among my first circle of friends at the Mayflower Hotel. As I read wonderful snippets written by his friends I see he changed little. His kindness, humor, caring lasted all his life. He loved animals, working out, his cars and bikes, music and his friends. I vividly recall roadtrips with Phil and John Mascaro up to PA where I met the cast of characters within his orbit. I still have the Cat Stevens album he shoplifted for me...being students we had no money. We were in touch over the past several years and I was overjoyed seeing he finally found 'the special one'. I treasure his memory, never to break apart, and will celebrate his love of life when he crosses my mind. Tonite, I tip a glass in your honor, old friend. You did good things with your life. Now rest easy on the tide.
Mike Vineyard
June 13, 2020
I First met Phil in the fall of 1973 at Stockton State College in Pomona, NJ. We were both studying science, took many of the same classes, and became very good friends. I was immediately impressed with Phils easy-going attitude and how effortlessly he seemed to master the course work. Working with him definitely helped me become a better student. We also spent a lot of time together in the gym and partying. I will always remember a road trip we took to Key West during Christmas break in either 1974 or 75. After almost 40 years, I was fortunate enough to reconnect with Phil and meet his wife, Jeanine, in the spring of 2017. We picked up right where we left off and our friendship seemed just as strong as it was in college. Phil was an extremely warm, kind-hearted soul and I will miss him deeply.
Marissa Nicotra
June 12, 2020
It was an honor to be a patient of Dr. Toscano. It was an honor to work for Dr. Toscano at LensCrafters. But... the greatest honor of all is being able to call Dr. Toscano my mentor. I have been blessed to have had Dr. Toscano by my side this far into my journey of becoming a fellow optometrist. The summer before his diagnosis I came back from optometry school to work at his store. We spent days talking about his life journey to how he got to where he was today, he gave advice for the present and shared excitement for my future. That summer he gave me his trail lens kit that was actually passed down from another optometrist before him. I will always cherish this gift and cant wait to use it daily when I get licensed. I will hopefully get to then pass it down to another passionate and giving future optometrist, sharing all of the memories and advice from those before.
Not only was Dr. Toscano one of the most prestigious optometrist in the area based on his knowledge and skills, but he was known for being one of the most genuine human beings. The one word I would describe Dr. Toscano in would be compassionate. If it was up to Dr. Toscano he would give free eye exams to everyone that walked in the door. He took his time with each and every one of his patients to build a personal relationship. He not only talked them step-by-step through their routine eye exam, but also lent his shoulder for those to lean on and both ears to just listen.
Dr. Toscano is missed by so so many. I always pictured one day Dr. Toscano sitting in my exam room so I could do his eye exam. He taught me so much and I will forever be grateful. For those who were blessed to have worked with Dr. Toscano will understand that tonight I will enjoy a Lindt chocolate truffle in his honor.
Larry
June 11, 2020
Had the pleasure to know and work with Phil for 15 years. Always had a smile on his face and a daily joke. Loved helping others no matter what it was. Inspiration to all that knew him. Will be missed but never forgotten. God Bless !!
Lena Miller
June 10, 2020
What a wonderful man! Had such an impact on all those around him. Much loved. Janine Im so sorry for your loss. Much love. Lena Miller
Meghan Styles
June 10, 2020
Phil - I can't think of you without tears rolling down my face, for not only the loss of you but for the pain that I can't even imagine Jeanine is facing right now, without her love there to comfort her and somehow have the right words, the right touch, the right actions, to make it ok even for a moment. The loss that she has suffered makes you question so much in life and spirituality.
Phil - you were literally the most calm, selfless, and genuine people I have met in my life, I will never ever forget what Jeanine and you did for me, and showed me what true friendship looked like. Every time I would see you you would give me a kiss on the forehead and it was a gesture that meant so much to me, it provided comfort, and was a fatherly gesture when that is what I so needed during that time. You made me laugh like no other, and you and Jeanine made such a great pair, a ying and yang if you would say, Phil the calm, thoughtful type, and Jeanine, well....if you know Jeanine ;), I can still see the looks on her face when he would say something to her that she didn't agree with or thought wasn't up to par with the sense of urgency that was needed for the situation, her eyes would roll sideways and her lip turn up just a bit, before turning to him and sweetly saying "ok honey", and being the most adoring, loving wife to him...it was true love, and they both deserved that so very much. Phil, I know you're up there, giving Dillon someone to talk about cars to and share some great stories I am sure you might has missed telling him during his time on this earth.
Phil - You were so loved, by so many, but I am so thankful to be on that list.
J - I love you
Mary Beth Miller
June 9, 2020
Phil was energetic and kind, funny and compassionate. He loved you dearly, Jeanine, and I am so sorry for your loss. You are blessed to have beautiful memories of Phil and the wonderful couple you were together. He will always be with you in spirit. RIP, Phil. Thanks for being the great guy that you were!
Anni Milward-Suadi
June 8, 2020
For at least the last 10 years I have had the pleasure to know the infamous Dr. Phil. I loved his impeccable & contagious smile! Dr Phil was everyones friend in the gym, we all loved his humor. Phil is the most genuine & happiest person I have ever met. The gym will not be the same without our smiling Dr. Phil! Heaven just gained an Angel. May he Rest In Peace as he watches over his beautiful wife, Jeanine. May his wife , his family & his close friends all find peace in their broken hearts. Lets all remember his smile with a smile.
Barbara
June 8, 2020
Dear Jeanine
I'm sending healing prayers and comforting hugs to you. I am so sorry for your loss. Phil will be deeply missed. The few times that I saw phil he always had a smile
Andrea Forster
June 7, 2020
Ive known Phil all my life. He was like a brother to my father. He was family and we loved him. Carl and I will miss seeing him at Sunday dinners and family parties. Until we meet again.
Rob and Sue Johnston
June 6, 2020
Dear Phil,
It was quite obvious the first time we met that you were the love of Jeanines life! In all of her years, I have never seen her so happy and content. Your genuine nature, kindness, and humor made you fit in to our family immediately. It didnt take long for all of us to come to love you! You will forever be remembered in our hearts!!
Love,
Sue (akaMystery Sister) and Rob
Barbara Ann and Mattisyn Nather
June 6, 2020
Dear Jeanine, Mattisyn and I are so sorry for your loss. We had only met Phil a few times, but he always seemed to have a smile on his face. He seemed like such a sweet, genuine man who could make just about anyone smile. You will always be able to carry his memory with you, hell always be there for you! Our hearts go out to you at this troubling time, and just know were always a phone call away. Sending lots of love,
Barbara Ann and Mattisyn
Sandy Warning
June 6, 2020
So few people touch so many lives in their lifetimes, I will always remember your kindness and generosity to everyone you met. Our loss of your physical presence is overwhelming, but we will forever hold you in our hearts. May you rest in peace knowing how much you are loved and missed.
James & Helen Lhulier
June 5, 2020
When we first met Phil, we knew he was the one for our daughter. They were so compatible , even worked for the same company. They never became a couple until one stormy night things were slow and Jeanine & Phil sat and talked the night away. That was the beginning of her happy life. They married in Jamaica. You never saw a happier couple . We were thrilled to be with them on their special day. Whenever they were around, there was always laughter and tears of joy. Life is a journey, we just don't know the future. For Jeanine & Phil, it was a short journey, but we will always remember Phil's smile and the guy we all loved!
Rest in Peace Phil!
With Love,
Mom & Dad Lhulier
Cheryl Cross
June 5, 2020
All I can say is what a guy... I've known Dr.T since 1998... came to work on his motorcycle and stole the hearts of all the staff and patients he saw... kind, patient, thoughtful... it was always a joy to see him, talk to him and to work with him... Jeanine my heart goes out to you... call if you need to talk...
Paige and PJ Schmincke
June 4, 2020
We are so sorry for your loss Aunt Nean. We know Phil will be watching over you. We love you!
sharon barbaro
June 4, 2020
One of a kind! Loving wonderful man. He will be greatly missed. Can't believe he is gone. Heartbreaking.
Barbara Nather
June 4, 2020
MY thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. I am so sorry for your loss. I remember how happy and excited Phil was when you told us you were getting married. May all your beautiful memories comfort you. Love you so much, Aunt Barbara
David Damore
June 4, 2020
Phil Toscano was a man that lived life to the fullest and shared his joy of living and positive attitude with everyone that had the privilege to be his friend.
Simply, he was a good man and wonderful friend and I will miss him.
We were blessed with his memory and better for having known him.
God bless you Phil.
Helen and Patrick Schmincke (sister-in-law, brother-in law)
June 3, 2020
Phil meant so much to us because of how happy he made my sister. He had a larger than life personality and an infectious laugh and smile. The one memory that makes me smile is when Jeanine and I would talk on the phone in the mornings I would ask where Phil was and he was always at Yoga and we would laugh! We are grateful for the time that Phil was in our lives, even though it was too short. We will be sure to take care of your honey pie!
Helen and Patrick Schmincke (sister-in-law and brother-in-law
June 3, 2020
Phil meant so much to us because of how happy he made my sister. In the short time that we have known him, he was larger than life! His laugh and smile were infectious!!! My memory of him that makes me smile is in the mornings when Jeanine and I were on the phone, Phil was always at yoga and we would laugh! We are forever grateful for having him in our lives even though it was too short. We will be sure to take care of your honey pie!!
Bob Esposito
June 3, 2020
First met Phil in 1990 when we interviewed at the Pennsylvania College of Optometry. We became friends immediately and spent the next 4 years grinding away with studying and also having fun riding our motorcycles together and discussing life's ups and downs. Phil was like a big brother to me and I loved him very much. He was always happy and easy going. He was a good soul and always seemed to be able to calm me. After graduating Optometry school, we moved to opposite ends of the country (Phil moved to Florida and I transplanted to Arizona). I would see Phil at meetings every few years and occasionally talk on the phone. I regret not keeping in closure contact with Phil. I believe the last time we spoke on the phone was about 3 years ago. Until we meet again my friend, rest in peace. You will be terribly missed.
joanne horn
June 3, 2020
Phil, you will be deeply missed by all who knew you. You were so full of love, laughter, and truly appreciated the gift of life. You brought so much happiness to my sister, and for that, I am so thankful. I will never forget our night out at Improv. Once of the best evenings of my life. Your sense of humor will remain with me always. Rest in Peace Phil... We love you!
Joanne (sister-in-law)
Pete Harraka
June 3, 2020
Philly,from the first day I met you 19 yrs. ago you have been my brother from another Mother.
It has been absolutely a pleasure and joy to have spent precious time with you and your infinite wisdom.You were always a first human being with a word of gold.
I will never forget you, you'll be with me always Sir and I will carry you on every mile of any motorcycle I ever ride!
I know you will be on my shoulder until we meet again my brother. God be with you in peace, I will never ever stop loving you.....
You brother forever...✝
Pete
Rob Grossmann
June 3, 2020
Difficult to understand why a wonderful person is taken away so soon. Phil always had a smile and strong handshake to greet you. Caring. Compassionate. Thoughtful. I am fortunate to have beautiful pictures of his two wheeled adventures to gaze at. I will miss Phil. I will never forget Phil.
Michael
June 3, 2020
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Talor
June 2, 2020
From the moment I met you, you treated me like family. Thank you for all the advice, laughs and memories. I know you are smiling down on us from heaven. You will be missed by all.
Ben Slicer
June 2, 2020
I have not been blessed with Philips (Phil's) friendship for long in the numerical sense but Phil was the kind of person that the richness of interaction and warm spirit made one feel as if they had known him their entire lives. With his easy-going nature, his sense of selflessness, his tremendous knowledge on a vast variety of subjects, and quest to not just experience life but to live it he was one of those rare people one meets in life that are kindred spirits.
Phi was always there for his friends whether that be with a joke to elicit laughter or a story (and he had some great ones) that always seemed to contain a hidden gem of a life lesson in them he was always there for the ones around him. Be it friends, family, or neighbor Phillip Toscano was a blessing. And that blessing I think every one of us here have experienced in one way or another. I feel privileged to have gotten to intertwine our life's paths even if briefly as the richness of experience more than made up for the shortness of duration. Phil, you will be missed, my friend.
Dave Vickers
June 2, 2020
It was truly was an honor to know Phil, he was such a great guy. May his family and friends find comfort in their memories with Phil in this difficult time. My deepest condolences to all who were fortunate enough to know such a genuine man.
Savannah Hewes
June 2, 2020
Phil was such an amazing guy. I'm beyond saddened by his loss. When my boyfriend (his step son) died, Phil opened up his home to me with love & support. He was a pillar of strength for both me & Dylan's mom & for that I couldn't thank him enough. I smile thinking about him & dylan together again up in heaven.
Michael Hagar
June 1, 2020
I knew Phil for 30 years, we met at PCO. A genuinely kind, engaging and friendly man. A complex and intelligent man with many interests. Humorous and sometimes the 4th stooge. A man whom I was proud to call my good friend. He will always be missed.
Jeanine
June 1, 2020
The love of my life! We would always say before bed did I tell you I love you today & he would say, you show me everyday, I love you honey pie.
Barb
June 1, 2020
Linda Seltz
June 1, 2020
He was a wonderful man and client of mine for over 15 years. He always had a warm smile when I saw him and he was always full of gratitude for all of the blessings in his life. He told me many times how grateful he was for our friendship and I can only hope that I properly expressed my gratitude for him. He was such a good man and there is a hole in my heart with his loss. Please know Jeanine that Im always here to help you in any way I can!
June 1, 2020
Ron Baldwin
June 1, 2020
One of the most genuinely nice guys you will ever meet. You were taken from us much too soon and will be missed greatly
Jared Sandrowicz
June 1, 2020
Words cant describe this man, you will be missed by so many! Always so kind, friendly, happy and giving. Anyone who knew Dr.Phil would say the same. Could brighten anyones day with with smile, I will miss you and I love you brother!
Kim cannon
June 1, 2020
I had the privilege of being Phils friend for 32 years. We rode together. We loved and grew together. His kindness and generosity goes without saying. He was my best friend and brother. We we all miss you. I will always love and miss you my brother. R.I.P until we meet again. Love your brother always Kim Cannon
Shaggy
June 1, 2020
Phil saved my life. He gave me a place to stay & helped me get my life in order & got me to go to gym. Hes been like a brother to me & he will never be forgotten.
June Harraka
June 1, 2020
Phil was an amazing man in every aspect. He was always happy and positive. I was very fortunate to be his friend for many years. My sincerest sympathy. May you find comfort from your family and friends. In time your heart will soften and your memories will give you smiles. Much love, June
John mascaro
June 1, 2020
I've never met anyone like Philip Toscano. His eyes and his smile were an immediate clue to the love and compassion that filled his soul. His way of seeing beyond the surface, to the oneness, lit a spark that endeared him to everyone he met. He was a most powerful, intelligent man with a palpable life force. He taught me much. I'll miss him greatly.
Rita Michelini
June 1, 2020
Miss you my friend!
Stacy wisely
May 31, 2020
I would like to say this news is devastating.. this man knew how to live life and I had the privilege to work with him and a friend for years . His giving and his learning his smile will be missed . We lost a great man but he gave so many so much . Love you and I want to send out my condolences to his family and friends ...
Ray and Margaret Cornelius
May 31, 2020
Phil was a giving and compassionate man. Always smiling and positive, he added goodness to this world and this world is a better place because of his presence.
Carlton A Daily
May 29, 2020
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
Carlton
May 29, 2020
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
Daniel Conti
May 28, 2020
Phill you are The Worlds Most Interesting Man. Miss you brotha man. Dan.
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