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Paul Alexander Sands, 58, of Fort Myers, FL, passed away on Wednesday, April 14, 2010 from cancer.
A proud native Virginian, Paul relocated to Fort Myers after spending four years pitching in the Chicago White Sox organization where Paul had been a first round draft choice. Since 1974, Paul had an award winning career in commercial real estate in Southwest Florida. He spent 20 of those years at VIP Realty. Paul was an active member in several professional organizations including; the Real Estate Investment Society (REIS) and the International Council of Shopping Centers (ICSC). He was a Commercial Investment Professional (CIP).
Paul loved his work; he was a great captain of his team and he took care of them like family.
Paul served his community as well, believing it was important to give back. He was on the boards of several prestigious local businesses and non-profits. These include: Commerce Bank of Southwest Florida, Cypress Lake Country Club, Greater Fort Myers Chamber of Commerce and the YMCA of Lee County. He was also heavily involved in the American Cancer Society's Cattle Baron's Ball, but was most famous for the Slaw Dog Invitational Golf Tournament which he co-hosted with Scott Fischer the last 13 years to benefit various local charities.
Nothing was dearer to Paul than his family. He was the cornerstone of their lives. He is survived by the light of his life, son: Charles Nicholas Sands of Orlando, FL; his dear friend Lisa Joy Sands of Fort Myers; his brother: Charles Duane Sands of Naples, FL; his sister: Kay Campbell Sands of Charlottesville, VA; his longtime companion Lana Vantine of Fort Myers; Nick's mom Marty Sands of Fort Myers and his brother from another mother Scott Fischer of Fort Myers along with his 4 favorites nieces, 3 favorite nephews, Aunt Opal, Uncle Dave and Aunt Betty Jo, Cousins Alex, Kelly and Annalie.
In lieu of flowers, the family is requesting that donations be made to the Paul Sands Scholarship Fund through the Real Estate Investment Society to benefit a young commercial realtor.
www.REIS-swfl.org or to fulfill the recent financial commitment Paul made to First Assembly of God to benefit the Fort Myers Master's Commission student housing fund. www.firstassemblyministries.com
A memorial service will be held at 11:00 am on Saturday, April 17th at First Assembly of God on 4701 Summerlin Rd in Fort Myers, FL. A public reception will follow, 1:00pm-3:00pm, at Cypress Lake Country Club.
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Memories and Condolences
for PAUL SANDS
Pamela Mazzone
April 10, 2022
Paul it´s hard to believe you have been gone this many years.
You lite up the room with your smile. I remember your laugh and sense of humor.
You will not be forgotten. Nick is a fine young man and father of two beautiful girls, you would be so proud. Pam
Janet Lockstampfor
May 6, 2010
Dear Sands Family and Friends,
You are in our prayers and thoughts at this time of your loss..
May our God surround each of you with comfort and peace.
Matthew 5:4 Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.
I have been looking for this for weeks and a classmate let me know that you were in Florida. I also had just found Paul on Facebook but we did not get to connect. I knew Paul from school days and really thought a lot about him. It has been 41 years since I have seen him. I'm sorry I didn't get to know you all. Yes he will be missed. I have given to the ACS for many years. Also donated to Locks of Love twice.
In my Father's house are many rooms; if it were not so, I would have told you.
I am going there to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you,
I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am.
You know the way to the place where I am going." -John 14:2-4
Grace,Peace,and Love,Janet Lockstampfor
I will post this on Facebook so others can read about your special Father/Friend.
April 28, 2010
Paul was a tremendous force in our community. He served on the Chamber Board of Directors and generously (without being asked) supported the Chamber's efforts. He was a friend in the true sense of the word. His support of our area often went unknown, but he made a difference in the quality of life for many folks. He loved his family. He is missed.
Marietta
Sally Chavez
April 24, 2010
To all of the Sands family and everyone that was dear to Paul, I am so sorry for your loss.
I am from Newport News, Va, Paul's hometown. Paul was my first serious boyfriend. We dated when he was in his early twenties and was playing ball.
I don't have to tell everyone that was in his life what a wonderful man he was. I had not had any contact with him in 36 years. I joined FB 2 months ago and found him on there and only 1 month ago he accepted my friend request. This was very touching to me. From everything I have read about him, in tributes to him, it sounds like his wonderful qualities just grew even more over the years.
Nick, I am so sorry for your loss. If you are anything like your Dad, I am sure that you are a wonderful man. Again, to all those that were close to Paul, my deepest sympathies.
Paul, everyone in your hometown of Newport News loved you and have the fondest memories of your charming good looks, sense of humor and wonderful personality and they are sad to see you leave us. May you rest in peace.
Sally Streker Chavez
Loree Gunter
April 21, 2010
Paul was my neighbor in 1985-86. He always spoke of his son with sooo much love. We would run into each other throughout the years and Paul was always the same happy person with a huge smile every time I saw him.. I'm certain he left everyone with someone wonderful memories..Loree
Selina
April 21, 2010
Paul,
I was truly sad when I heard that you have left us. I will always remember you as the jolly guy with a huge smile and a great sense of humour. Love always, Selina from Canada.
Pamela Mazzone
April 17, 2010
Paul it has been years since I saw you but I will always remember your smile and your sense of humor. My thoughts and prayers are with you, your son, and family.
Mike Cannington
April 17, 2010
What a wonderful and moving tribute to a true southern gentleman today. Paul will be dearly missed by many. But his legacy will live on forever in the hearts and minds of all of us who were fortunate to call him our friend. We love you Paul!
Verna Valentine
April 17, 2010
Paul- you will be missed.I knew you for a short time but enjoyed talking to you and taking care of you while you were receiving your chemo. Rest in Peace and now you are not suffering anymore. sorry i missed your service but i was in Fort Lauderdale but thinking of u. Lisa, Kay and the Sands family my thoughts are with you through this difficult time.
Sincerely Verna RN
Florida Cancer Specialists
Gary and Karen Tasman
April 17, 2010
To The Sands family and friends,
I will alway remember Paul as a fair and generous person whose true and pastionate love for people was reflected in every word he spoke and deed he accomplisned. The world and Fort Myers will be better off forever because of his unselfish giving. He has had a profoundly positive impact on my life and my business. Thank you Paul, may God bless your memory and may you continue to look over those you have infulenced. Rest in Peace. Gary and Karen Tasman
Karen Guise Mollberg
April 16, 2010
May your hearts be filled with memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived. I am so sorry for your loss, I will remember Paul with a huge smile in my heart and charish the fun times we had together.
Jackie Chang
April 16, 2010
Lana, Nick, Kay, Charles, Lisa,
He lived every moment to the fullest. He is the model of what it is to be an extraordinary human being. His love and contribution will never be forgotten. Celebrate his life and know how much he loved you and life itself.
My deepest sympathy to all of you. With Love,
Jackie
Barry Eisenberg
April 16, 2010
Lisa,
My thoughts are with you.
Bill Keenan
April 16, 2010
A gregarious individual with always a smile on his face Paul was a good person and one who will be missed by all. Find peace in forever.
Bill Keenan
Wendy Shuker
April 16, 2010
Marty and Nick,
I'm soo very sorry for your loss. Nick, Your dad is at peace now and no longer suffering and will be watching over you as your angel. Hope you find comfort in your memories of you and your dad.
Wendy Shuker- (work with your mom)
Nancy Johnson
April 16, 2010
Lana - you're in my thoughts! Love You, Nancy
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