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Louis Deak Childress

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Louis Deak Childress obituary, 1950-2024, Lynchburg, VA

BORN

1950

DIED

2024

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Lynchburg, Virginia

Louis Childress Obituary

Louis Deak Childress, 73, passed away peacefully in the early morning hours of February 24, 2024, at the hands of Amyotrophic lateral sclerosis (ALS, a.k.a. "Lou Gehrig's Disease"). He hated his first name, always went by his second, and like Lou Gehrig, he often described himself as the luckiest man on earth. His passing leaves an enormous void in the hearts of his family and friends. However, the story of his life is also testament to the amazing accomplishments made by this Lynchburg, Virginia Gentleman.

Deak was born at the Virginia Baptist Hospital on Rivermont Avenue on April 30, 1950. He was a standout student athlete as a young man, excelling at basketball, football, and track & field; even helping lead the E.C. Glass Hilltoppers basketball team to the 1967 Virginia State Championship. It was during high school that Deak and Mary Sue Duckworth found each other, setting into motion their lifelong romance.

Deak's ability and drive in both the classroom and gym led to his acceptance to the College of William & Mary, where he was a two-sport athlete for the Tribe's football and basketball programs. Notable was Deak's opportunity to experience lessons in leadership and preparation by three legendary NCAA and NFL football coaches: Bobby Ross, Marv Leavy, and Lou Holtz during the 1968 & 1969 seasons. Although Deak's athletic career ended early due to injury, he continued to excel in the classroom, graduating in 1972 with a Bachelor of Science in Biology from William & Mary, a school way too good for the "dumb kid from Lynchburg," as Deak would describe himself over the course of his life.

Deak was truly a fan and student of the rapid development ongoing at that time in the fields of aviation and space exploration. He was both inspired by, and the product of, things like NASA's Gemini and Apollo space programs, and pioneering aviators like Chuck Yeager. So, after working a small handful of unfulfilling jobs, he decided to follow his dreams by seeking out a commission as a US Navy Officer and becoming a Naval Aviator.

Deak again excelled, earning the much coveted "fighter pilot" pipeline within the larger Naval Aviation training program. He first flew the F-4 Phantom; and flew it well enough to be selected to become a Navy Fighter Weapons School (a.k.a "Top Gun") student, as evidenced by his very subtle "TOPGN 82" vanity license plates. He was subsequently one of the first handful of pilots selected to lead the Navy's training program for the brand new F/A-18 Hornet; He would go on to fly the Hornet for roughly the next thirty years, racking up more than five thousand hours of flight time and countless arrested landings (a.k.a. "traps") onboard Navy aircraft carriers.

Due at least in part to the U.S. Navy, Deak and his family had a series of adventures so remarkable they often seem unbelievable. Deployments. Family moves every two-to-three years. Serving as a Squadron Commanding Officer. Serving as the Commanding Officer of Naval Air Station – Lemoore, California; one-of-two bases that the Navy identifies as "Master Jet Bases" based on their size and capability. Taking assignments in Italy, Germany and ultimately as the US Naval Attaché to France, rubbing elbows with a staggering cast of international diplomats and senior military officers. Generally speaking: the kind of men and women who make you wonder what they're really up to, and how in the heck they got so smart and looked so good. All this and more from an extremely humble, small town kid from Lynchburg, Virginia.

Above all of his professional accomplishments, he was always most proud of his family, stating, "Marrying Mary Sue was the best thing that ever happened to me." Their love story, which began on the basketball court at E.C. Glass, was cemented in marriage on August 29th, 1970, and went on to celebrate more than fifty three years of joyful and loving companionship.

Deak was predeceased by his loving parents, Fred and Shirley Childress. He was stubbornly loyal to his mom & dad, but also to his siblings: his brothers Braun and Fred; and his sister, Mendy. Deak is survived by, and was a proud father to, Brent and Christopher Childress. He was a doting grandfather for six grandchildren: Isabella (16), Dylan (14), Ava May (12), Annalisa (12), Zoe (12), and Lawson (7). He will be dearly missed by all of these and many more.

Rest in Peace.

We love you.

In lieu of flowers, the family asks you to consider donating to the ALS Association (https://www.als.org/) or the Navy-Marine Corps Relief Society (https://support.nmcrs.org/a/homepage).

Information on the funeral and remembrance services will be forthcoming.

Tharp Funeral Home & Crematory, Lynchburg is assisting the family. To send condolences please visit www.tharpfuneralhome.com.

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Published by The News & Advance on Mar. 3, 2024.

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CDR Eric E Mercker

March 4, 2024

Saddened to hear of Deaks passing. We served in we served in Phantoms and have a special feeling for those who married in 1970. Fair winds and following seas

Rod and Rochelle Ray

March 4, 2024

Mary Sue and the entire family, you have our prayers for comfort and guidance during this difficult time. I know you have many family and friends who will be there for you but if you need anything at all, let me know and my family will be there.
Although we have not had the time to know Deak and your family really well, I remember when we first met you at Mr. Goodies as my son was introducing us to his future in laws. I was just at the end of a migraine so I wasn't the best version of myself that day but Deak was such an amazing conversationalist, that I walked away feeling like I'd known him for a lifetime. He had a way of making one feel at ease instantly and made me laugh no matter how bad my head hurt. He just emulated class and respect. His humor, even at the wedding was always in good timing and it was obvious how much he loved his family and looked at you like there was no one else that mattered. For the only few times I was blessed to be in his presence, his reputation through the family is even more impressive. To say he lived a full life sounds like an understatement. May we all be so lucky! God bless you and your family! We are honored to donate to the ALS in his good name!

Connie Schwartzman

March 1, 2024

Oh Mary Sue and Family, I am heartbroken to read this. And yet smiling at the amazing life, full of adventures, that you and Deak led for 53+ years.

It has been almost 55 years since we lived across the hall from each other at Ludwell, but I will never forget how kind you both were to me while Chuck was in Vietnam. And then, years later, we visited you, I think in Pensacola.

You and your boys and grands are in my heart and in my prayers.

Connie Schwartzman

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