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Steven PUGH Obituary
Steven James Pugh, 32, of Lynchburg, passed away Saturday, May 31, 2008. He was the loving companion of Sara Sutton.
Steven was born in Danville on Sept. 23, 1975. He was the son of Becky Pugh Martin of Lynchburg and James Oliver Pugh and his wife, Willie S. Pugh, of Mechanicsville. He was a 1993 graduate of Heritage High School and was employed by Logan's Roadhouse in Lynchburg and transferred to Goldsboro, N.C., and was a former employee of Texas Roadhouse. He was well-known for his sense of humor and quick wit and avidly enjoyed fishing and the outdoors with his close friends.
In addition to his parents and companion, Steven is survived by three daughters, Caroline Noelle Anderson, Skyler Davis Pugh and Camden Leona Sutton; a sister, Amy Elizabeth Pugh of Lorton; his paternal grandparents, Mr. and Mrs. Oliver B. Pugh of Lynchburg; his maternal grandmother, Willie May Kendrick of Danville; a nephew, Jordan Pugh; two stepbrothers; and numerous aunts, uncles and cousins.
The family will receive friends from 6:30 to 8:30 p.m. Wednesday, June 4, 2008, at Tharp Funeral Home, Lynchburg.
A private family service will be held at a later date.
Memorial contributions may be made to Boonsboro Volunteer Fire and Rescue Co., 1065 Lee Jackson Highway, Lynchburg, VA 24503; or the Lynchburg Humane Society, 3305 Naval Reserve Road, Lynchburg, VA 24501
Tharp Funeral Home and Crematory, Lynchburg, is assisting the family, (434) 237-9424. Condolences may be sent to the family by visiting www.tharpfuneralhome.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Steven PUGH
Brandon Wilson
September 6, 2017
Espy, I wish you were still here brother. I have missed you for almost a decade and you still cross my mind often. I still have a hard time listening to Wik and he left us almost 5 years ago. I guess losing a loved one never stops hurting but I can imagine the fun you two must be having together if there is an afterlife and it's what we imagine. You can fill me in on the Chadrach tracks that I have missed when I see you brother.
Till we meet again,
Brandon. (AKA to you) - Chavez
Jonathan Ordelt
May 19, 2009
As I sit here for hours on end I try to imagine how to begin this. I have grown up as the son of a minister. I have seen countless people come into this world and leave it. All the while I have have had calm perspective about it, comforting those who need it and just being that shoulder for the others. I was Steve's manager at Logan's for one day until I realized I needed him. Growing up I was known as the one to bring a smile upon anyone's face. For people like me in the world there was Steve. We all have problems and Steve taught me to look upon the more humorous side of things and how to deal with them. After twenty five years I thought I knew how to laugh until I met Steve. Steve was an amazing man. A man that could bring the world to laughter and a man that could bring the world to tears. Yet while I type this message I am crying like I haven't cried before I still can't help but laugh at everything Steve and I did before and everything he has taught me. I have read every entree that has come before me and each one has reminded me more and more of who the man Steve was. I can't help but feel ecstatic that he affected your lives as much as he had of mine. I know it might sound cliche but growing up with two older sister, a mother, and a father as a minister, Steve was the closest thing to a brother and a father I had. I have read it before in everyone's post but that is the affect that Steve had on us. I was one of the few to talk to, to be with, and to laugh with Steve before that day. I promise you if I had one wish I would do it all over again and laugh one more time with him. He cared for everyone more then I could ever imagine. I've tried. He cared for all his friends more then I could ever imagine. He love his daughters more then I could ever imagine. His impact on everyone that has ever met him has been more then I can ever imagine.
Jim Pugh
September 27, 2008
I never figured I would have to write something like this about my son. I don't really know where to begin. Lots of people have written wonderful things about him, and I am so proud when I read them. His mother loved him so much, his sister loved him more than life itself, and I loved him as much as I possibly could.
A piece of my heart was taken when he went to be with Jesus. I know I will see him again and I can't wait to feel his strong arms around my shoulders and to hear him say "I love you, Dad".
Jim Pugh
Dad
Melissa Mueller
September 23, 2008
Steve,
As you spend your first birthday in heaven, know that I (and so many others!) think of you today and EVERYDAY.
Love,
Melissa
Amy Pugh
September 17, 2008
My Brother,
Over the past few months I have learned a lot about my brother. At times it has felt like I didn’t really know my brother, and that has made me sad. So many of you know him in ways I didn’t. So many of you know things about him and experienced things with him that I never did.
Many know his funny side, his sweet side, his mean side. Many of you called him friend, best friend or close friend. Many have called him boyfriend, or “my man”, lover or confidant. But no one could call him BROTHER. No one knew how proud I was to hear him call me sister when I called him brother.
Growing up my brother and I were always so close. He followed me everywhere, I could make him do anything I wanted by simply saying I’m going to count to three and if you haven’t done it, you aren’t sleeping with me tonight… and IT, whatever IT was, was always done by the time I got to three. I am sure that is hard for some of you to believe. It’s pretty hard for me to believe now too. When he got too big to keep sleeping with me, we would still lay our blankets and pillows in our door ways, so we would still be next to each other and we would talk all night until we fell asleep. There was a time when he was my little brother, and I wouldn’t allow anyone to mess with him. Then he became my BIG little brother, and then no one would mess with me. I miss those days too. I miss our closeness. I just miss him!
Steven was the BEST little brother anyone could ever ask for. From the day my parents brought him home from the hospital I loved him and shared a bond with him that no one else will ever have. Don’t get me wrong, we fought like all brothers and sisters do. We had our time when we weren’t close and didn’t talk and see each other. I regret those days now so much. But my brother was my favorite person in the world. I don’t think he knew how much I just wanted to be around him or how his presence always calmed me, even when we fought. It’s hard to explain. I don’t think my brother knew how much I loved him. More than any sister could love a brother.
It’s been three long months since my brother left us. Of course there isn’t a moment in any day that I don’t think about him, miss him and love him. I still have the “this isn’t happening” feeling. That feeling is so much better than the “this is really real” feeling. That feeling is unbearable.
My brothers’ birthday is fast approaching, which is why I am writing this now. I want to honor my brother. I want to let him, and you, know how much I love him, how much I truly miss him and how my life will never be the same without him. My son’s life will never be the same with out him either.
On September 23rd, please stop, for a moment in your day and think of my brother. Tell him you love him. Say a prayer for him, our family, and his children.
I love you Brother!!!
Sister
Alison Arthur
July 23, 2008
Steve was one of the most fun loving and entertaining people I ever met... we were great friends when I was in high school and he was dating one of my friends who is the mother of one of his daughters. Then years later we had some great times on Rivermont! He used to call me half pint and tell me my chicken sandwiches were bigger than me! If a smile was what you needed Steve was the one to go to! My thoughts and prayers are with all his family, friends, loved ones and children.
Lora Drinkard
June 26, 2008
I just wanted to write and tell you what I know you all already know....that Steve was an amazing man no one will ever forget. He and I went to school together, from our early years on, and each time I'd see him since he was always the same nice guy I always knew. My thoughts & prayers are with you all in the coming weeks, months, and years, as I know you will miss him always and forever. God bless you all.
Ruthie Stoll
June 18, 2008
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
The Guidry Family
June 16, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
With deepest sympathy,
Sarina Gray
June 16, 2008
You and your family are in my prayers.
Cathy Buntua
June 16, 2008
Jesus answered and said to him, "What I am doing, you do not understand now, but you will understand later." JOHN 13:7
Amy, Jordan, and family - I'm really sorry for your loss. Love, Cathy
Chris "Rooster" Lloyd
June 14, 2008
Steve,
You and I have been brothers our whole life. We have known and been best friends for over 25 years. I will always miss you and think about you every minute. I miss your phone calls everyday. I miss the way you made me feel when I talked to you. You may be gone gone, but not forgotten. I will always remember you, love you, and try my damndest to help raise and take care of your children. For I am your friend always and for ever. I love you.
Lloyd
Cathy Hutson
June 13, 2008
Amy and family, I am so sorry for your loss. May God help you through your time of need.
Deborah Espinola
June 13, 2008
AMY - My condolences go out to you and your family. I love you and Jordan very much. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers! May God bring you Peace.
Gregg Burris
June 13, 2008
My heartfelt prayer goes out to the family and friends of Steven Pugh. Although I didn't know him personally, Amy spoke of him often and with great admiration and love. It is evident from the comments in this guest book that he was a great man and will truly be missed. God Bless you all in this difficult time.
Amy (Sister) Pugh
June 13, 2008
To many he was a friend and a companion. To my parents he was their only son. To me he was my heart, my protector, my love, my joy; my only brother. There are no words to describe the unbelievable sorrow and pain I feel. The hole in my heart will never be filled again. Not until the day I can hold my baby brother and tell him just how much I truly love him. My son, his nephew, loves and misses him SO much, which only adds to my pain. Brother you were truly MY blessing and your memory will live on forever. Don't worry about your girls! I got 'em! You know that! Know that you are in my heart forever. I love you more than you ever knew I'm afraid, and my love will continue for you until my last day. I continue to pray for you everyday.
ALL MY LOVE,
SISTER
George and Pat Adams
June 13, 2008
Becky and family,
We knew Steve when he played baseball at Heritage. Our hearts go out to you at this time. We lost our son 3years ago so we know just how difficult this loss is. Please contact us if you need a shoulder.
Love in Christ,
Eli Harris
June 11, 2008
I am truly without words about this. I just found out today and couldn't believe it, Steve was always a beacon of light to everyone, his humor, smile and charm. Though I haven't seen Steve since High School, he was truly and unforgettable guy. It's without a doubt that he'll be missed, may GOD provide comfort for his family and loved ones.
Berkeley Cale
June 11, 2008
Still remember goofing off in the halls in middle school with Steve (a.k.a Monkey). He was someone who had such an outgoing friendly disposition. He certainly was unforgetable! Steve you will be missed!
Marge Caltagirone
June 11, 2008
I remember the first day I rode the school bus and Steve threw food in my hair, we've been fiends ever since....I miss you Steve! God Bless You!!!
Tracy Wood
June 7, 2008
I will always miss Steve's face. He was always one of the first people I ran into when I came back home to visit and the memories with him were always great- and hilarious. He will be missed dearly.
Ryan Williams
June 7, 2008
You were my best friend for so many years. You were the big brother I never had. You and I had some great times together! Those memories will forever be with me. You saved my life back in 96, if it wasn't for you I wouldnt be here today! You will forever be in my heart! Im blessed to have shared so many memories with you! R.I.P
Bob and Kay cole
June 7, 2008
Becky
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. My heart goes out to you. I will be in touch.
Mike, Diana, Rachel And Jennifer Rackley
June 5, 2008
Our family will miss Steve everytime we eat at Logans. He was one of our favorite waiters and waited on us quite frequently in the last few months. He was always helpful and kind even if he wasn't our waiter. Our hearts are broken and we wish we could have done something to help. We want to offer our prayers to his family and know that your grief is shared by many who knew him. We pray that God will comfort us all during this time of great loss.
Joshua Cassidy
June 5, 2008
RIP
Laura Ferrell
June 5, 2008
I just wanted to say that Steve was a great, funny, and fantastic person. His sense of humor will be greatly missed as well as the high fives and cheers for the Tar Heels!!!
Ill miss ya much Steve!!!!
Melissa Mueller
June 5, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts, prayers, and memories are with your family. Steve was a big part of my life for over three years. I still love you, Steve.
Terry Wright
June 4, 2008
Becky, I am so sorry to hear about Steven. My prayers and thoughts are with you.
Amber Smith
June 4, 2008
Steve, you were loved and will be missed. You will always be in my memories of Lynchburg. Sara and Camden, I love you! I am praying for you. God will comfort you and bring you through this tough time.
Cynthia Wilson Guill
June 4, 2008
Becky, Delma called to tell me of the death of your son. I extend to you a mother's sympathy which only mothers can truly understand at this time. May time heal your heart and please remember that you are in the thoughts and prayers of all of your friends and family. May God continue to watch over you.
Cody Childress
June 4, 2008
Steve invited me to live with him at the "Palace" back in the day. He took me in when times where hard, what a good souled human. Steve will be missed greatly. Your family and friends will be in my prayers. God rest your soul.
Ricky & Teresa Mann
June 4, 2008
We are so sorry to hear of your loss! Please allow family, friends, and most importantly, God, to strengthen you all through this very difficult time! We will always remember Steve's bright smile, and wonderful sense of humor!
Trisha Manning
June 4, 2008
Steve was one of the most amazing people I've ever met. He will always be a part of me. He made all of our lives a little brighter just by knowing him. Steve - I love you and miss you.
Meredith Fix
June 4, 2008
I am just completely shocked and without words. I am so, so sorry to hear of your loss. I pray that God will give all of you the strength to continue on with the precious memories you have of Steven. I went to Sandusky Elem with him and honestly haven't seen him since. Though, I remember him as being so witty with a full sense of humor! That has made a lasting impression on me. Again, my sympathy sincerely goes out to all family and dear friends.
J C
June 4, 2008
To my big brother that I always wished I had, but never did...until I met you: I miss you more than you will ever know. Heard!
Marjorie J. Hunt
June 4, 2008
Steve was known and loved by so many over the years and will be sorely missed! My prayers and deepest sympathies are with his parents, daughters, companions and extended family & friends. I hope you all find comfort in the memories and sweet times shared with Steve. I remember his incredibly charming sense of humor and the way he would keep a crowd laughing more than anything. My brother thought so much of Steve and I am grateful he had such a dear friend in his short life. I'm sure Steve & Jonathan, or "JB" as Steve would call him, are catching up on lost time right now! May God bless and hold each of you close during this tough time. May comfort and peace be yours today and always.
Lindsay Killette
June 3, 2008
To Sara and Camden and all the family and loved ones, I am very sorry for your loss, I know that Steve will be missed and I know how much Sara and Camden loved him, I pray God's unending love and peace will comfort you during this time of sadness.
Peggy Drinkard
June 3, 2008
Thinking of with love and prayers during the loss of your precious son.
Brooke Blankinship
June 3, 2008
Steves, smile and amazing personality will always be remembered! I have known Steve for many years and I am truly sorry for your lose!
Jan Couch
June 3, 2008
Becky - Jim
I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. May memories be of comfort to you at this time. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Laurie Baugess
June 3, 2008
My deepest Sympathys go to Steve's family. We went to school togehter and he was honestly one of the funniest guys I have ever known. My prayers are with his family and children as they deal with this tragic loss. I know he is making people laugh in heaven right now!
Jamie Pliscofsky
June 3, 2008
I never knew Steve, but Sara was my very best friend in college when we both lived in Lynchburg. If she loved him I know he had to of had a good heart. Sara is a wonderful person and is the mother to his BEAUTIFUL daughter Camden. I love you girls so much and I know that the good Steve brought into this world will be lived through both of you. May the Lord heal your heart and make you better person from all of this. Time heals all.
Barbara Collins
June 3, 2008
Becky, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Please call on me if I can do anything for you.
David Glass Jr
June 3, 2008
Steve and I grew up together playing baseball throughout our youth. I have many memories and good times to remember him by. Steve will always be missed by so many.
Toy Ayers
June 3, 2008
My deepest sympathy goes out to all that were affected by the loss. My thoughts are prayers are with you. Steve always knew how to brighten the room with his humor. We had some great time and he will be missed.
GOD BLESS
Chris Johnson
June 3, 2008
My prayers and thoughts are with the family and friends. He was a great guy of wit and humor. He will be missed dearly. We all had many great times with Steve and they will continue to live on as a great memory. God Bless
matt yates
June 3, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. Steve and I attended school together for many years...he will be missed.
Dwayne,Jennifer and Brian
June 3, 2008
Jim and family; Please know you have our deepest condolences during this difficult time. May the Lords grace shine on you while you celebrate Steven's life. While we can't be there, were thinking of you.
Divine Profitz
June 3, 2008
We Love You and Miss You.
Brian, Ran, Chad, Chris
Aston Lavender
June 3, 2008
"If tears could build a stairway and memories were a lane,
We would walk all the way to Heaven, to bring you home again
No farewell words were spoken, no time to say good-bye
You were gone before we knew it, and only God knows why
Our hearts ache in sadness, and secret tears will flow
What is meant to lose you, no one will ever know" unknown
Mitzi Reno
June 3, 2008
Words cannot even express how much I will miss Steve. What a great person and great friend he was to me among many many others. It's funny, his good friend Jamie and I were just talking about him the other day. Love you man!
PATSY BEAN
June 3, 2008
BECKY, YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ARE IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS . I PRAY GOD WILL GIVE YOU THE STRENTH TO GET THROUGH THIS. YOU HAVE YOUR MEMORIES FOREVER. GOD BLESS YOU.PATSY BEAN
Pam Caldwell
June 3, 2008
My deepest sympathy to you and your family.
(mother of Bryan & Justin Ferrell)
Tim Cook
June 3, 2008
This is an incredible tragedy. Steve's quick wit and unforgettable personality will be missed. To his mother Becky, I am very sorry for your loss. His parents lost a son, his beautiful girls lost a loving father and we his friends lost a brother. Go in peace our dear brother and may the lord keep you safe for eternity.
Margaret (Tinsley) Coussa
June 3, 2008
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to all his family and friends. Steve was a wonderful person and will be greatly missed.
Kelly Lloyd
June 3, 2008
As Steve rests in a perfect place, his adored presence will be missed by many. I wish strength and peace for Steve's children, mother, family, and friends during this time of unfortunate loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Preston Gowen
June 3, 2008
Jim and Family,
I wanted to say that my thoughts and prayers are with you. I wish I could be there for support. I love you and hold you very dear to my heart.
Love, Wade
Jennifer Lloyd-Pitts
June 3, 2008
I will miss the laughter he brought upon everyone around him. He was like a brother to me. Always there for me when my brother wasn't able to be there. I will miss you! I love you!
Norma Turns
June 3, 2008
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Noelle Anderson
June 3, 2008
I will miss you.
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