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Memories and Condolences
for Adam Fenty
Sponsored by Adam's Loving Parents, Freddy & Irma, and his sisters, Felicia & BriannaI.
April 23, 2015
RIP Adam
Adam, happy day
Mom
October 16, 2012
Adam's NYS Gift of Life Medal of Honor
Irma Fenty
October 16, 2012
Waleska Rivera
October 15, 2012
My heart aches terribly as I sit here crying as I read all the beautiful words about Adam . My prayers are always with you Irma and your family.
Mom
October 11, 2012
This month is more difficult than most, in a few weeks it will be 3 years since your death my beloved son...I feel constant heartache and loss, so hard to feel joy without you in our lives. I miss you so much Adam and yet I am surrounded by you in our home, your room remains untouched, frozen in time, waiting for you. Every morning I wake up and open my eyes and the pain is consuming, it's like re-living the horror over and over. We have a candle in the bay window for you, it's been lit since the day we buried you and will remain so, I hope you can see it from heaven my son. I love you, forever, miss you, forever.
Irma Fenty
January 6, 2010
It's been almost 10 weeks since your death and I can't believe that I continue living and breathing without you in my life. I carried you for 9 months and when you were born I was the happiest mother on earth. Freddy and I became parents on July 4, 1986 and you immediately became the focus of our world. I don't know how to be a mom to 2 children, I am the mother of 3 wonderful children. My heart is shattered and I feel profoundly sad every minute of my life since your death...I love you and will miss you forever my special and only son---Irma, mother of Adam, Felicia, and Brianna
Brianna Fenty
January 4, 2010
Adam, I wasn't ready to let you go, no one was. So many words left unsaid, words meant to be spoken that never were. But it wasn't the words that mattered--what little we exchanged--it was the little things, the little glances from across rooms, the fact that you always picked up the phone when I was too sick to get it myself. I wish I could've been there for you as much as you were for me. It's too late and I'm sorry for that. You better enjoy yourself up there in the stars and the cosmos before I come up there and crash your party, bro. See you again someday, ashes to ashes, stardust to stardust--Love your little sis, Brianna.
Matthew Lichioveri
December 4, 2009
Im so sorry for your loss, Adam and I went to Boces together in islip and became good friends, Im crushed by this news, My prayers are with him and his family, may he rest in peace and his soul forever live on. Always in our hearts Adam.
Felicia I. Fenty
November 23, 2009
My beloved Brother,
This broken heart just won't mend,
I'm looking for a way to escape from reality,
To escape,
these beeping horns and these panicked faces;
and going back to the days when we were just kids.
No responsibilities, no regrets
free from karma, pain and a ruptured heart.
Guide me back to a place,
where life was still pure
and our minds were so young.
Back to a place,
where smiles weren't so rare; but rather,
came by the bunches, those similar to a dozen red roses.
Back to a place,
where we used to play in the streets until the sun
exploded across the sky.
And still in the end,
we'd all stay up all night
Trying to catch the fireflies.
It feels as though you've been hiding,
"hide and go seek";
and we're the "seekers"
You were always a great "hiding ninja".
Only this time we can't find you.
So won't you come out again and break the dawn,
And let those freshly cut green eyes light up our world again... <3
-Felicia I. Fenty,
a poem I wrote for my brother. Rest In Peace, I Love You.
end of hs waiting for the bus
November 23, 2009
Barbara Varrone
November 22, 2009
Dear Freddy, Irma, Felicia & Brianna,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of loss. May your memories of Adam bring you comfort. Remember his smile and find comfort in remembering all the happy times your family had with Adam. What a special boy. Please call if you need anything.
Love
Bobby, Barbara & Anthony Varrone
Jocelyn Barreto
November 22, 2009
Dear Irma, Freddy, Felicia and Brianna,
With all my deepest sympathy. I understand the feeling of your pain. Allow your heart to cry when in need. So every tear will carry you through time and time again. His Love will forever shine on your smile.
(Rest in Peace)
Your Cousin:
Jocelyn Barreto
Kisha Fenty
November 20, 2009
Adam will always be remembered as my handsome younger
cousin with the good looks, warm heart and lots of personality.
He was born on the 4th of July and it was not coincidence.
He was reserved but very approachable, fun and caring. It is
a TRAGIC loss to the entire Fenty Family. I will think of you and
celebrate your life in my own way. After learning some of our
favorite things, some will become my favorite things.
I wish that we had lived closer and knew each other better.
I am sending my love and condolences to my grieving family.
I will say a prayer that you rest in peace.
Your cousin,
Kisha Monique Fenty
November 17, 2009
You would always fall asleep in the sun, but you never burned.
November 16, 2009
Big Bass Fishin'
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Brass Rail friends at the Yankee Game
November 16, 2009
you loved sushi!
November 16, 2009
Rest In Peace, my favorite, and only, brother.
November 16, 2009
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Brass rail friends
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You loved to mess around in Brianna's wheelchair in Ohio, trying to pop-a-wheelie... until you fell. But you got up smiling <3
November 16, 2009
Our favorite bartender!
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You loved the Yankees
November 16, 2009
Loving father and son
November 16, 2009
Adam and Christina
November 16, 2009
Adam and Christina
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Frederick Fenty
November 16, 2009
My son was 23, he never got married, he never experienced the joy of having children or had enough time to succeed financially in life, but what he did succeed at was life; because of all the friendships he made throughout his life. Friends he made in elementary school, friends he made later on in life and friends he made at work .For all the love my son gave and the love he received in return from family and friends my son is my hero and I am very proud of him. Love you for ever. Dad
On the of of the world! Florence, Italy
Felicia I. Fenty
November 16, 2009
The hole in my body remains vacant... and no one can fill it but you. I love you, and the only thing that is keeping me sane is remembering our fond memories and just saying to myself that you'll be back very, very soon. Maybe not now, or tomorrow... but someday, I hope soon; I'll see you again.
Love, ?
Your First Sister,
Felicia I. Fenty.
A smile that lit up the room
November 16, 2009
Adam in Venice
November 16, 2009
You were always so curious
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Felicia I. Fenty
November 16, 2009
The hole in my body remains vacant... and no one can fill it but you. I love you, and the only thing that is keeping me sane is remembering our fond memories and just saying to myself that you'll be back very, very soon. Maybe not now, or tomorrow... but someday, I hope soon; I'll see you again.
Love, ?
Your First Sister,
Felicia I. Fenty.
November 16, 2009
To my dearest friends , as a parent I could not begin to know the pain you are feeling at this time. In the past two weeks a day has not gone by where I haven't asked why this has happened to such a loving and wonderful family.I've had to reach into my faith and believe without a doubt that Adam is in the loving arms of our father,and looking down on us with his absolutely beautiful smile..As I attended his services it was quite obvious by the attendance ,Adam had touched many lives.I'm sure through all of those hearts he lives forever..I love you like my own blood family and if there is anything I could do for you never hesitate to call on me. You are forever in my heart,love you always... Janet L. Hart, Staten Island, New York
Adam with Uncle Joseph
November 15, 2009
Adam & Felicia in Florence, Italy, summer 09
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Adam & Felicia in Florence, Italy, summer 09
November 15, 2009
Adam & Bree visiting Grandpa
November 15, 2009
Adam & Mom
November 15, 2009
Summer vacation, Cedar Point, OH
November 15, 2009
Adam beachcombing, Lake Erie, OH
November 15, 2009
Adam & Daddy
November 15, 2009
Summer vacation at Lake Erie, OH
November 15, 2009
Irma M. Fenty
November 15, 2009
My precious first-born, I felt your spirit and loved you from the moment we knew we were expecting a baby. My gentle, loving boy, so full of life, kind to animals, loving of nature, gifted photographer and excellent bartender. My heart yearns for you my son, forever broken. I don't understand why this has happened... I miss you, I love you. God bless you my child, rest in the loving arms of God the Father until one day I can hold you again...one day I will look into your beautiful green eyes and feel whole.
Suzanne Mulhern
November 5, 2009
Dear Irma, Words cannot express how sorry I am for the tragic loss of your precious Adam. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
November 5, 2009
"you will always be in my heart and memory adam. you were a great friend and you will be turly missed." Mohamed Ally
Miriam Montalvo-Pitter
November 2, 2009
My precious Adam, from the day you were born til forever in my heart, love you. your Titi Miriam.
Rebecca Manzano
November 2, 2009
A life was taken but his spirit remains in our hearts. This time now will be a hard one but just remember that he is now watching over all of his loved ones.
My thoughts and Prayers are with you.
Saiedah Rose
November 2, 2009
I am so sorry to hear about your loss Felicia.My heart has been heavy since I heard the news..I remember us being good friends in elementary school and even though we lost touch I never would have imagined that this tragedy would take place..Your family is in my thoughts and prayers
November 2, 2009
Dear Irma,
There is basically nothing I can san except my prayers are with you and your family on this terrible tragedy.
Love,
Pat F
November 2, 2009
Dear Irma,
There is basically nothing I can say except my prayers are with you and your family on this terrible tragedy.
Love,
Pat F
Vilma Toranzo
November 2, 2009
Dear Irma, Freddy, Felicia and Brianna,
Words can not express the sorrow and pain we all feel for the loss of your beloved Adam. I wish you much comfort and peace during this time of sorrow. I also pray and hope that the fond and precious memories you have of Adam will help you gain strength to continue with the road ahead in your everyday lives. I remember a picture Audrey shared with me where Adam was with Ray's niece in a Sweet 16 photo or a prom photo (I don't recall) and I remember telling Audrey how handsome he looked. That is the picture I remember. Audrey always spoke so highly of all your children. We are all suffering with you. God bless!!!
Many, many blessings!
nathaniel gardner
October 31, 2009
hello
god bless you and your family.
i am a friend of wawa. god bless
Emely Herrera
October 31, 2009
Fenty family, stay strong. He might be gone physically, but his spirit and liveliness will remain forever. Know that the love that was exchanged during his lifetime is something nothing can break. You're in my thoughts and prayers.
October 31, 2009
We were so sorry to hear this news. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
You have our deepest Sympathy.
~The Perci Family~
Allison Martinez
October 30, 2009
Dear Irma and Family-My thoughts and prayers are with you during these tough times. I am so sorry for your loss. May God be with you and your family.
October 30, 2009
With deepest sympathy in your time of loss, our thoughts and prayers are with you.
~Brian and Liz Campbell
Laura Habbershaw
October 30, 2009
Dear Irma, I know there are no words to say that can ease the sorrow you must be feeling...Just know that you and your family are deeply in my prayers and the prayers of many, many others. Adam looks like a beautiful young man and I'm sure he is now in the comforting arms of Christ.
Christine Liell
October 30, 2009
Felisha,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Gods plans are not always visible, but know that he has one and keep the faith. He will carry you through this time in your life and can be a great comfort if you lean on him.
October 30, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of loss. Adam was a great guy, and we will miss him much-- The Newman Family
Tricia Rotert
October 30, 2009
I am so sorry for your lost. Adam was a great guy. My prayers are with you all in this difficult time.
October 30, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
With deepest sympathies,
Mr & Mrs. Robert Campbell
October 30, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. If there is anything we can do, please let us know.
With Love,
The Vecchione Family
~ No bond is as great as that between a parent and child ~
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