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Betty Schlein Obituary

SCHLEIN - Betty Goldman, an early leader in the modern feminist movement, died Friday of a severe stroke. She was 87. The deaths of local children hit by trains at unsafe railroad crossings in Merrick, Long Island propelled her from a traditional suburban housewife into local politics. But the oppression of minorities and the passionate purpose of the Civil Rights movement, and the Vietnam War lit a fire that turned into decades of political activism. She volunteered in the 1968 congressional elections, helping the charismatic anti-war activist Allard Lowenstein get elected to Congress. In the early 1970s, she became a leader in her own right, helping create movements for women's equality and against domestic violence. She helped found and later led the National Organization for Women for Long Island. In 1972, she became Vice Chair of the New York State Democratic party and then served as New York Governor Hugh Car-ey's top aide on Long Island. Schlein played a key role in pushing for the equal treatment of women among the delegates at the Democratic National conventions in 1976 and 1980. Along the way, she mentored and worked closely with a new generation of women politicians, including Vice Presidential nominee Geraldine Ferraro, Congresswoman Elizabeth Holtzman, and New York City Council President Carol Bellamy. She helped start and build the Long Island Community Foundation and the Women's Fund of Long Island, as well as working to restore Eleanor Roosevelt's home at Val-Kill and serving as a founding member of the Eleanor Roosevelt Legacy, which trains and supports women candidates for political office. Ms. Schlein is predeceased by her husband of 48 years, Richard Schlein and her son-in-law, Craig MacCallum. She is survived by her three children, Carol, Alan and Michael and her daughter in law, Jordan, four grandchildren and her partner of 15 years, Fred Weinberg.

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Published by Newsday on Jul. 8, 2018.

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Gerry Twombly

June 25, 2025

A tireless worker for good causes and a passionate advocate for social justice. She is dearly missed by all who knew her.

Gerry Twombly

June 25, 2022

Your voice for personal freedom and peace is dearly missed.

Gerry Twombly

June 25, 2021

Betty´s fight for justice, peace and a better world continues. Her leadership and passionate advocacy is her lasting legacy. She is missed by those who knew and worked with her.

Gerry Twombly

July 10, 2018

Betty and I met while working in US Rep. Al Lowenstein's LI office. Always kind and patient she was a tireless worker for social justice. I treasure many fond memories of her energy and determination as she fought and won many battles. She will be missed.

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