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Ericka Auer Obituary

AUER - Ericka Rose of Southold, NY was strong minded, strong willed and lived for 18 years with a debilitating disease before succumbing to the complications of Cystic Fibrosis on Nov 20, 2014. She had a petite body with a big heart and a lot of determination. She was a beautiful person inside and out. Ericka will be remembered as a gentle soul who had a deep and abiding love of family and animals. She adored her pets and brother Zac. She loved spending time in her canine careers class and spending time at the family cabin upstate riding her quad and roasting marshmallows by the fire pit. She also loved the yearly trips to Sanibel Island and spending time on the beach. Family and friends will forever remember the enormous fortitude that emanated from Ericka's diminutive stature during her life long struggle with Cystic Fibrosis. She will live on in our hearts and minds forever!! Ericka is survived by her loving parents, Janet and Erik; an adoring brother Zachary and grandparents, Carl and Honora Froelich, Suzanne Auer and Robert and Susan Auer, and many Aunts, Uncles, cousins and friends. Friends may call on Sunday from 2-4 and 7-9pm at DeFriest-Grattan Funeral Homes, Inc., 51400 Main Road, Southold, NY 11971. Funeral service, Monday 10am, First Presbyterian Church, 53100 Main Road, Southold, NY 11971. Interment Presbyterian Cemetery. Memorial donations to the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation, Greater New York Chapter, Long Island Office, One Huntington Quadrangle, Suite 2S13, Melville, NY 11747 or the North Fork Animal Welfare League, P.O. Box 297, Southold, New York 11971. www.defriestgrattan.com

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Published by Newsday on Nov. 21, 2014.

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Chuck Rayner

August 25, 2015

Chuck Rayner

Deeply sorry for your loss. May she rest with our Lord Jesus Christ in Heaven a waiting by he day we all shall meet her,family,friends,and me for the first time. RIP dear one.

Cousin Sonny

November 30, 2014

R.I.P YOUR ANCESTORS ARE Near BY.

November 23, 2014

My sympathy goes out to the family during your time of grief. May God's loving-kindness comfort you and help you through this difficult time. (Psalm 119:50,76)

Ericka's Friendship Quilt -- made and presented by FPC's church school students. Remembering Ericka with love!

Kathy Tylee

November 23, 2014

November 22, 2014

You are in my prayers.
Penny Liles
Deacon, Lutheran Church of Our Savior

Suzanne Auer

November 21, 2014

Ericka has given us faith, spirit and hope. She challenged us all to look at the big picture . Ericka told her story about CF on you tube. This beautiful grandaughter believed in making a differnce by raising money for the CF foundation in hopes of
finding a cure for Cystic Fibroids. ..Ericka you have left us a
huge challenge. You are loved and will be missed. Love Grandma Sue


Sue

Debbie Garcia

November 21, 2014

"Ericka Rose"
Beautiful Life Sprite
Sweet breath of Annabel's purrs
Alas Ericka Rose

Blessings to all of my "extended" family.

Maria Kandora

November 21, 2014

Our thoughts and prayers for the Auer family. Ericka will forever be in our hearts.

Carol Gavin

November 21, 2014

You are in my prayers. With deepest sympathy

November 21, 2014

Ericka Rose we love you and will miss you....you will live on in our hearts forever....love you to the moon and back!!!xoxoxo love mom, dad and zac, sasha, bow and annabel too!!!

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