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John Mercurio Obituary

MERCURIO - John A. , Loving son of the late Michael and Anne. Beloved husband of Mary Ann (nee Giordano). Devoted father of Anne Marie Ciccarella (Joe), Laureen Podolsky (Kerry), Michael (Susan), John (Laurie), and Paula Rybacki (Ken). Cherished grandfather of Jim, Stephanie, Vinny, Cole, Ashley, Michael, Nicole, Joseph, John, and Diana. Adored brother of Carolyn (Joe) and Catherine. Reposing Mangano Funeral Home 1701 Deer Park Ave., Deer Park. Funeral Mass Monday 9:30AM at Saint Elizabeth's Church. Interment Saint Charles Cemetery.

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Published by Newsday on Jul. 21, 2007.

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Mary Ann Mercurio

July 21, 2020

13th ANNIVERSARY IN HEAVEN 7/19/07 - 7/19/20

My Dear John ,

These years have gone by like the blink of an eye, just like our years when we were together. No one can take the memories and the good times we shared during our time together. Now there are so many of our loved ones there with you, and not so many here anymore.

May you all rest peacefully in the Loving Arms of Our Precious Jesus and wrap your strong arms around me and hold me up through all the trials and tribulations from day to day.

Loving you Always,
'til then
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

December 27, 2019

12/25/19

MERRY CHRISTMAS - 13 YEARS IN HEAVEN

Dear John,

Missing you and wishing you a Peaceful & Blessed Christmas in Heaven. The years are flying by and yet it seems like yesterday you were here by my side. I hold our memories deep in my heart.

Give all of our loved ones who are there with you a hug and kiss from me.

Loving you always,
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

July 19, 2019

12th Anniversary in Heaven
July 19, 2019
Dear John,
It is hard to remember that last day 12 years ago. You closed your eyes right in front of me and I kept calling out your name. Someone called a code blue and you were whisked away.
Now you rest peacefully in the Precious Arms od Jesus & I still miss you each and every day. Love you always.
'til then,
Mary Ann

Phil Avellau

July 3, 2019

Can't tell you how I miss those late nighters and the other great times we shared! RIP Johnny boy

Mary Ann Mercurio

July 2, 2019

HAPPY BIRTHDAY IN HEAVEN 7/3/2019

It's been 12 years since we celebrated your special day together. You are loved and missed by me and so many.

May you celebrate with all of our loved ones who are there with you, embraced in the Precious Arms of Jesus.

Love Always & Forever
'til then
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

December 24, 2018

Merry Christmas in Heaven 2018

This is your 12th Christmas in Heaven. It seems like yesterday you were celebrating with us.

There has been a lot of turmoil in 2018, but also a few milestones. Michael Jr.& Jimmy both were married this year. And you became a Great Grandfather to Gianna -Nicole & Zacks baby. You would have taken such delight in these happy occasions.

Miss you and love you always
'til then
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

November 21, 2018

Thanksgiving in Heaven 2018

Dear John,
This is your 12th Thanksgiving in Heaven. I miss and need you more than ever.
I'll be back on a chemo drug because of some progression on the bone. It's times like this when I wonder where you are to hold my hand. Your shoulder was always there for me to lean on. Nothing can ever take that away from me.
We are going to John's for dinner Not everyone will be there. It can never be the same as it was when you were here.

Not a day goes by that I don't think of you. Rest peacefully.

Love Always & Forever
'til then
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

July 3, 2018

7/3/2018

HAPPY BIRTHDAY IN HEAVEN GREAT GRANDPA

You would be so proud to see our 1st Great Grand baby. GIANNA MARIE. Nicole & Zack are going to make great parents. And to think, our son, Michael is now a grandfather. Remember well when he was born. Our first son. Loving & Missing you always.

'til then,
Mary Ann

Dear John, Wishing you another Happy Birthday in Heaven. Love Always, 'til then, Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

July 3, 2018

Mary Ann Mercurio

June 17, 2018

6/17/18

HAPPY FATHER'S DAY IN HEAVEN

John, I wish you a were here to spend this special day with us. I miss you today and every day.
Ask Jesus to be with me on Tuesday when I walk into that doctor's office at Sloan. And please remember to hold my hand.

'til then Love, Hugs & Kisses Mary Ann

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Mary Ann Mercurio

April 1, 2018

4/1/2018

Happy 11th Easter in Heaven,

Dear John,

This photo is your College Graduation when we had all of our dreams to look forward to.

The years have flown by and we could never have imagined where life would take us. I still miss you every day.

Please place the turmoil that is going on in the Precious Hands of Jesus. Watch over us. Sending love, hugs and kisses.

'til then
Love Always
Mary Ann

April 1, 2018

Mary Ann Mercurio

December 25, 2017

11th Christmas in Heaven - 2017

Dear John,

Once again we celebrated Christmas Eve without you by my side. You were with us in spirit and we raised a glass to you.

In church there was an empty seat next to me (standing room only) and for some reason that seat seemed to remain empty for you. I could almost feel you holding my hand.

We got the most exciting news. Nicole and Zack will have a baby in July - Our First Great-Grandbaby. Both Jimmy & Trisha (December) and Michael & Dana (September) are getting married next year. Our family is growing in leaps and bounds.

So, my love, please watch over us and ask Jesus to Bless us all. Hug all of our loved ones for me.

Love & Miss You
Always & Forever

'til then,
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

November 22, 2017

11/22/17

Dear John,

Tomorrow is your 11th Thanksgiving in Heaven. Where are the years going?

I came to visit you at your resting place today and started to reflect on the past. I am not thankful that you are not here with me, but started thinking about the things I am thankful for this Thanksgiving.

I am thankful for all of our years together and all the holiday celebrations we shared with our kids and extended family and friends.
I am thankful for all the good and not so good. For any mistakes we made along the way, we learned from them. I am thankful for each day we shared. I am thankful I still feel surrounded by your love.

Tomorrow as I sit at Michael & Susan's table, I will raise a glass to you.

Happy Thanksgiving In Heaven with all of our loved ones.
Miss & love you always.

'til then,
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

July 18, 2017

7/19/17

10th Anniversary in Heaven

My Dear John,

Where have these 10 years gone. So much has happened, both good and not so good.

I think about you every day and need you by my side to walk me through all the things that have been thrown my way.

So many health issues (mine and our family too) and family trials and tribulations. I try not to sweat the small stuff, but some of the stuff is not so small. And I wonder what you would do in certain situations. Your wisdom would really be a blessing to me.

Giving this all to you to place in the Precious Hands & Heart of Jesus, to help show me the way.

In many ways, those of us left behind move on, but there is always and empty place in our hearts and especially at our tables, where we had so many good times with family & friends.

You will always be loved and missed by many, but most of all me. Rest easy in the House of the Lord where there are many mansions. Watch over all of us.

'til then,
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

July 2, 2017

7/3/17
HAPPY BIRTHDAY IN HEAVEN
Dear John,
It has been 10 years since we sang Happy Birthday. July 3rd will never be the same again. How you loved celebrating & being surrounded by our whole family.
How I miss you and those family times.

My love always,
'til then
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

June 17, 2017

6/18/17

On your 10th Father's Day in Heaven.

Miss you every day. Wish you a Happy Father's Day along with our Dads, Joey & all of our cousins and uncles.

Love Forever & Always
'til then
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

April 16, 2017

4/16/17
HAPPY 10TH EASTER IN HEAVEN

Dear John,

Another Easter without you sitting at our table.

I visited you at your resting place yesterday and asked you to intercede to Jesus for all the needs of our family.

I have been finding pennies from Heaven so often, that I just can't think it is a coincidence. Keep watching over us.

Love & Miss You
Always & Forever

til' then
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

February 14, 2017

2/14/2017

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY IN HEAVEN

Dear John,

Here we are on our 9th Valentine's Day apart. Just thinking of the silly little things we did on this special day.

Your resting place is covered in snow and I couldn't bring my gift to you. But, I will as soon as I can get there.

I miss you more today than yesterday and less than tomorrow.

My love always,
Mary Ann xoxoxo

Mary Ann Mercurio

January 2, 2017

2017
ANOTHER NEW YEAR IN HEAVEN

Dear John,

One more year has slipped by without you by my side. Please hold the Precious Hand of Jesus and ask Him to bless me and our family with good health, peace and forgiveness.

Miss and Love You Always,
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

July 18, 2016

7/19/16

9th Anniversary in Heaven

My Dear John,

Remembering that fateful day when you closed your eyes for the last time.

You will be in my heart always & forever. Miss you and the strength I always drew from you. Most of all I miss your holding my hand and my resting my head on your shoulder.

Love Forever,
'til then
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

July 2, 2016

7/3/16

80th BIRTHDAY IN HEAVEN

My Dear John,

Miss you so much and I miss not getting ready for a huge birthday celebration in honor of your 80th.

I loved you then & love you now. Held you in my arms then and they are empty now.

May Jesus hold you in His Precious Arms on this your special birthday and whisper my greeting & love to you.

Your wife forever,
'til then
Mary Ann xoxoxo

Mary Annk Mercurio

June 18, 2016

6/19/16

9th Fathers Day in Heaven

My Dear John,

Wishing you a peaceful Father's Day in Heaven. It seems like yesterday that you were still here with us.
I know you will be holding my hand on Monday when I go for my PET scan. My thoughts are with you always, and more so when I go for these tests without you by my side.

My love to you and all of our dads in Heaven with you.

Love & Miss You Always,
'til then
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

March 27, 2016

9th Easter In Heaven

Dear John,

Wishing you a Happy Easter in Heaven with all of our loved ones.

May the Risen Christ always keep all of you in the Palm of His Hands.

Love always & forever,
'til then,
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

February 12, 2016

Dear John,
2/14/16

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY IN HEAVEN

Posting this a little early to be sure it gets to you on Valentine's Day.

Missing you as always & wishing I could feel your arms around me holding me up as you did all the time.

So much strife & turmoil & trying to think of what you would do. Send me a sign. I'll be waiting for it.

Love you forever,
Your Valentine
'til then
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

December 28, 2015

9th Christmas in Heaven 2015

Dear John,

I made an entry on Christmas Day but can't find it. Just so you know I could never forget you.
Merry Christmas with Jesus, the Angels and all of our loved ones.

Love,
'til then
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

November 25, 2015

11/16/15

HAPPY 9th THANKSGIVING IN HEAVEN

Dear John,

There are not any words to express how much I miss you at the Thanksgiving table. Always remembering how much you loved being in the midst of our family.

Things are very different with you gone. The holidays seem to have lost a lot of meaning. I visited your resting place today and wonder did you see me there.

Miss you always,
Love forever,
'til then
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

July 18, 2015

7/19/15

EIGHTH ANNIVERSARY IN HEAVEN

My Dear John,

I remember that day as if it were today.
The memory is burned into my brain. The sense of loss did not register at first, but as time went on, the reality set in that you weren't coming home to me.

You are now at home with Jesus. Free from pain, turmoil and fear. Rest peacefully & watch over all of us here.

Love you always,
'til then
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

July 2, 2015

7/3/15

HAPPY 8TH BIRTHDAY IN HEAVEN

My dear John,

Another Birthday that you are not spending here with me. Miss the celebrations & fun we used to have on this special day.

Life is very different without you in it. When I go for my Pet Scan on Wednesday, please ask Jesus to wrap His arms around me & keep me safe. Hold my hand while I'm having the test and pray for good results.

Now you have to add Paula to your requests & ask Jesus to bless her with good results from her Ultrasound.

May you be blessed with peace while celebrating your birthday with Jesus.

Love you always,
'til then
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

June 21, 2015

6/21/15

HAPPY 8th FATHERS DAY IN HEAVEN

Dear John,

Words cannot express everything that is in my heart.

Happy Fathers Day to you and all of our dads who are in heaven with you.

Love & Miss You Always,
'til then
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

April 5, 2015

4/5/15
8th EASTER IN HEAVEN

Dear John,

Wishing you and all of our loved ones a Happy Easter in Heaven.

Sending all my love to you while you celebrate with the Risen Christ.

Will raise a glass to you today & my wish will be for you to be at peace in the arms of Jesus.

Miss & love you,
'til then
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

January 1, 2015

1/1/2015

Happy New Year in Heaven

The day is coming to an end and I almost let it go by without telling you I miss & love you.

I have been sick for a week and hopefully am turning a corner today. I really could have used your strong shoulder to lean on.

We have some exciting news. Nicole & Zack got engaged last night at the stroke of midnight. The first one of our grandchildren to reach that milestone. Her ring is beautiful and sparkles so bright that you can probably see it from up above. Wish you were here to celebrate, but am sure you have bragging rights today.

Watch over all of us in this new year and ask Jesus to lead each and every one of us to where we should be, and for us to follow His lead.

Love always,
'til then
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

December 24, 2014

8th Christmas in Heaven

12/24/14

Dear John,

Here we are once again on this Christmas Eve without you. We will be gathering at Michael & Susan's again. They are the most gracious host & hostess.

Most of us will be together, but since you have gone, this, your favorite day of all, is not what it used to be.

I will raise a glass to you in celebration of all of our Christmases past. You will live in that special place in my heart forever.

Merry Christmas to you and all of our loved ones in heaven.

Love you Always,
'til then
Mary Ann

November 27, 2014

11/27/14

Eighth Thanksgiving in Heaven

Dearest John,

How fast the years are flying by. I remember well our last Thanksgiving together, never dreaming what was lying ahead for us.

Each year that goes by has more of our loved ones joining you. Nicky & cousin Al are with you now. Hope you all join hands with the rest of our loved ones and say a prayer for all of us here.

The holidays are not the same as when you were sitting at the head of the table, enjoying each and every one of our family. You always kept such a lively conversation going. Now we are no longer all together. That tradition stopped when you left us. Maybe when we are all together again, the tradition will start all over.

Tomorrow is your Dad's 48th Anniversary in Heaven. It does not seem possible that so many years have passed. I still see his smiling face and how much he loved our kids.

May you all sit around the table with Jesus and rest in the peace of His love.

Miss & love you always,
'til then
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

October 29, 2014

Dear John,

You have been in front of my eyes all night. I have been going through some of our treasures and miss sharing them with you. Remember when you got that perfect 25 shooting skeet.

I have to put them away now, because it is still so painful for me to see them, and not be able to share them with you.
As busy as I keep, at the end of the day I can't run away from myself.

Sunday I will attend the field Mass at St. Charles Cemetery. The Mass is said twice a year. On All Souls Day & Memorial Day. I will clean up the flowers I planted on Memorial Day.

Remembering and loving you always.

'til then
Your wife,
Mary Ann xoxo

Mary Ann Mercurio

July 19, 2014

7-19-14

7th Anniversary in Heaven

My Dear John,

It was 7 years ago today that you so peacefully closed your eyes for the last time. I called you over & over, but you couldn't hear me. The angels were singing and escorting you into heaven to be with Jesus. The time has slipped by so quickly & it is so very difficult to try to solve so many issues without you by my side. I always wonder what you would do.

I wish you peace in the light of Our Lord. Though I can no longer see you, your image and memory is alive in my heart.

Love Always,
'til then
Mary Ann

July 19, 2014

Mary Ann Mercurio

July 2, 2014

July 3, 2014

7th Birthday in Heaven

My dear John,

Remembering birthdays past and how you always loved celebrating with our family.

I miss you more than words can say. Nothing is the same since you went to be with Jesus. Please pray for us. We are a family in crisis.

Hold hands with all of our loved ones as they join hands with the angels to sing Happy Birthday to You.

Love you forever,
'til then
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

June 15, 2014

June 15, 2014

7th Father's Day in Heaven

Dear John,

Here is another Father's Day I can't share with you. Many thoughts of celebrations gone by.
I celebrate you in my heart, where you will always remain.

Much love,
'til then
Mary Ann

6-15-14 Memories of long ago. Happy 7th Father's Day in heaven. You are missed more than words can say. Forever loved. til then Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

June 14, 2014

Mary Ann Mercurio

April 23, 2014

Dearest John

This was your 7th Easter in Heaven. I went to visit you on Sunday, and when I got back, forgot to write to you.

Maybe I forgot to make my entry into your memory book, but I will never forget you. Still think about and miss you every day.

Our family needs a lot of prayers and intercession for their individual needs. Please go before Jesus and ask for us.

Love you always,
'til then
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

February 14, 2014

2/14/14

7th Valentine's Day in Heaven

Dear John,

Where are the years going. It seems like yesterday you were celebrating this day with me.
It is days like these that make your being gone too real.
Sending you a kiss and hug on this sweetheart's day. You will always be mine.

Love & Miss you,
'til then
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

December 25, 2013

12/25/07

7th Christmas in Heaven

Dear John,

It is exactly midnight and another Christmas is here without you. Times are changing and the eve will never be the same.

Michael is carrying on our tradition and we raised a glass to you once more. He and Susan open their home and hearts to allow us to feel you among us.

I visited your resting place today and again I left you a piece of my heart. No matter where the road may take me, I miss you not being by my side.

May Jesus hold you in the palm of His hands and keep you safe in His heart.

Love & Miss You,
'Til then,
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

November 27, 2013

Nov. 28, 2013

7th Thanksgiving In Heaven

Dear John,

It is so hard to believe that it has been 7 Thanksgivings since you went to Heaven. And it is your Dad's 47th anniversary. Where are the years going?

I go through the motions on the holidays, but these days have lost so much since you have been gone. These special days are so sad for me, without you by my side.

Ask Jesus to send His blessings to all of us.
Give a big hug to all of our loved ones there with you.

Love & Miss you,
'til then
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

July 19, 2013

July 19, 2013

6th Anniversary in Heaven

Dear John,

Six years ago was a fateful day for our family. God gained an angel to watch over us, but we lost your wisdom, strength, common sense and problem solving here on earth. I don't say we lost your love, because we will always have that.

Please watch over all of us. A lot of guidence is needed.

Miss and love you yesterday,
today, tomorrow & always.

'til then,
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

July 3, 2013

July 3, 2013

Happy Birthday in Heaven

Dear John,

Today is the 6th year celebrating your birthday with Jesus & all of our loved ones there with you.

I will celebrate you in my heart, and remember all the birthday gatherings you loved so much.

Watch over us and send your wisdom to all of us who need it.

Always & forever,
'til then
Mary Ann

June 16, 2013

6/16/13

Happy Fathers Day in Heaven

Dear John,
I miss you on your special day, but that is nothing new. I miss you every day.

Lots going on. We awarded another scholarship in your honor this past week. For the first time all 5 of our children were able to be there at the same time. You would have been so proud (as I was) to see them standing together when the presentation was made. I'm sure you were smiling from above.

Anne Marie had a decorated kite flown in your honor with the inscription "My Dad, The Wind Beneath My Wings". So you see, you inspire not only me, but all of us.

I'll be visiting you at your resting place in a little while to spend some time with you on your special day.

Love you always,
'til then
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

March 30, 2013

Sixth Easter In Heaven

My dearest John,
I have so much to tell you, but I'm sure you know it already.
You are spending another Easter with the Risen Christ.
When I visited your resting place today, I was overwhelmed with sadness that you are not here with me. Do you still see the tears I shed for you?
Did you see the beautiful celebration of my life that our children gave to me? How I wish you were here with us.
As we celebrate the Risen Christ, we will celebrate you also.
All that you were and still are to us.
Blessed Easter in Heaven with all of our loved ones.

My love forever,
Mary Ann

AnneMarie Ciccarella

February 15, 2013

Dad.....

Please watch over mommy.

I love you.

AnneMarie

February 14, 2013

2/14/13
MY ONLY VALENTINE
Dear John,

Another year without you on this special day.
Love & Miss you always.

Hugs & Kisses,
Mary Ann

January 1, 2013

1/1/13

Happy New Year in Heaven

Dear John,

Another holiday is upon us without you here. I know you have been watching over Laureen and through your intercession to Jesus, she got wonderful news. No cancer.

Now please keep interceding for me and hopefully I will get the same news. I know you will be holding my hand as I walk into the doctor's office tomorrow. You still are my strength and the love of my life.

Miss you always,
'til then
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

December 25, 2012

12/25/12

Six Years in Heaven

Dear John,

I sent you a message yesterday, but don't see it here yet.
You were really missed at Michael's last night.

Merry Christmas with all of our loved ones who are with you.

'til then
Love you,
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

December 24, 2012

Sixth Christmas in Heaven

12/24/12

Dearest John,

Another Christmas Eve is upon us & once again we will be gathered at Michael & Susan's.
As always, you will be sorely missed. These occasions are always bittersweet without you.
No one knows what is deep in my heart, except you and Jesus. You both know what I am praying for and really hope I get favorable answers to so many complex problems.
Give all of our loved ones a kiss and hug from me, especially cousins Rosalie and Jo Ann who came to be with you on 12/14/12.

Merry Christmas in Heaven.

Love & Miss You,
'Til then,
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

November 21, 2012

11/22/12

Sixth Thanksgiving in Heaven

My Dearest John,

Not a day goes by that you are not in my thoughts. It is hard to believe you are not here to share Thanksgiving Dinner again. Michael has stepped into your shoes, hosting the holiday.
There is an empty place at the table that matches the emptiness in my heart. Please join hands with all of our loved ones & send your blessings down on us.
Sending you a kiss & hug on Angel's wings.

Love You Forever,
'Til then,
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

October 5, 2012

Thinking of You
10/5/12

Hi John,
Here it is October and the days are growing shorter. As busy as I keep myself, there is a void that cannot be filled.
There is so much happening and I just remember how much it meant to me to hold your hand through all the trials and tribulations.
We here need your intercession. Join hands with all of our loved ones and ask Jesus to grant us all good health and peace of mind.
Love & miss you,

'Til then,
Mary Ann

August 18, 2012

Mary Ann Mercurio

July 18, 2012

7/19/12

Fifth Anniversary in Heaven

My dearest John,

For days I have been wondering what I can say that has not already been said. As I read what I have written here, so many memories that are still the same and buried deep in my heart. All I can add is that I have so much to thank you for.
THANKS FOR
All you did for me
All you gave to me
Fighting with me - it taught us how to
forgive & be humble
Being the other half of me
Our children - & teaching them to be
loyal, honest adults
Showing me how to stand on my own
Loving me in good & bad times
Being strong when I was weak
Holding my hand through it all
Most of all
THANKS FOR THE MEMORIES
Intercede to Jesus for us.

I'll see you in my dreams.

Miss you always & love you forever
'Til then,
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

July 3, 2012

7/3/12

HAPPY BIRTHDAY IN HEAVEN

Dear John,

It is a day to celebrate your life. Fourth of July was nothing compared to your birthday. How you loved being surrounded by our family. It was your favorite thing to do.

Celebrate with the angels and all of our loved ones.

Miss & Love You Forever,
'Til then,
Mary Ann xoxoxo

Mary Ann Mercurio

June 16, 2012

6/17/12

Fifth Father's Day in Heaven

Dear John,

It doesn't seem possible that you are not here to celebrate this special day with us. Sending you hugs and kisses. Happy Father's Day.

Love Always,
'Til Then
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

June 13, 2012

June 13, 2012

Dear John,

On this Feast Day of St. Anthony, another scholarship will be awarded in your memory to a graduating student at Walt Whitman High School.

I wish all of us could be there to honor your memory. It is a very sad time for me. It makes me more aware that you are not here with me. You are always in my heart.

'Til then
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

April 7, 2012

4/8/12

FIFTH EASTER IN HEAVEN

Dear John,

When I come to visit your resting place this Easter, I know the Risen Christ is holding you in the palm of His hands. Just as Jesus was not in His tomb, neither are you.

Watch over all of us from Heaven above.
Forever missed and loved.

'Til then
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

March 3, 2012

3/3/12

Dear John,

Today is my birthday and I just wanted to tell you how much I miss your spending it with me.

My love,
'Til then
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

February 14, 2012

February 14, 2012

FIFTH VALENTINE'S DAY IN HEAVEN

Dear John,

The thought of you being gone all this time doesn't seem to be possible. Life has changed so much, but one thing never changes.

I WILL LOVE AND MISS YOU FOREVER.
'Til then,
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

December 31, 2011

12/31/11

5th New Year in Heaven

Dear John,

Here it is another new year coming in and an old one going out. Just know how much you are loved and missed.

Embrace all of our loved ones for me. I'm rememering all the New Year's Eve celebrations we used to have. The laughter and the fun. My memories sustain me.

Be at rest and at peace.

Love,
'Til then,
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

December 25, 2011

12/25/11

ON YOUR FIFTH CHRISTMAS IN HEAVEN

Dearest John,

I wrote to you before and it seems for some reason it didn't get posted. So, here I go again.

We had our Christmas Eve at Michael & Susan's. They have been so gracious in opening their home for all of us.

This was your very favorite holiday and I still picture you sitting at the head of the table, loving every minute of having your family all around you.
My memories are deep in my heart. It seems that Michael, our eldest son, has taken over many of the things you used to do.

This is our first Christmas without Joey here with us. I know how Carolyn is feeling and hope a pray you are both watching over us. Words cannot describe how much you and all of our loved ones are missed.

Be at peace, my love, and may you be cradled in the arms of Jesus.

I will love & miss you forever.
'Til then,
Mary Ann

December 24, 2011

December 24, 2011

My dearest John,

Here we are five Christmas Eve's without you. This was your very favorite holiday, with all of your family around you. I miss you, more than any words can say, seeing you at the head of the table. As much as we try. it can never be the same.

Michael has been stepping into your shoes and having this holiday (and most others too) at his home. He & Susan have graciously been host & hostess.

As always, with a big family, there is always some kind of turmoil going on. Just have to take one step at a time.
Please keep us in your prayers.

Joey is spending his first Christmas in heaven with you and all of our loved ones. We have too many to name, and we will raise a glass to you all.

You will never be forgotten. I will love you til the end of time.

Merry Christmas with Jesus,
'Til then,
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

November 23, 2011

11/24/11

FIFTH THANKSGIVING IN HEAVEN

Dear John,

It almost seems impossible that this is the fifth Thanksgiving without you.
I am thankful for all the years we had together, and wish there could have been many more.

We need you to pray for us and watch over all of us. There are so many trials and tribulations, I wouldn't know where to begin.

Be at peace, my love, as you celebrate with Jesus and all of our loved ones.

Miss you always,
'Til then,
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

August 6, 2011

My Dearest John,

Today we celebrated Michael & Susan's 25th Wedding Anniversary and know you were with us in spirit.

I cannot express how much I missed you by my side, especially in the company of most of the 90th St. gang. We went back to John's house & I told our kids they were only getting a taste of what we all shared with one another.

Michael broke out the last bottle he bought you that was unopened until tonight. And amidst our tears we toasted you once again.

Missing you now and forever,
Love always,
'Til then,
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

July 18, 2011

July 19, 2011

Fourth Anniversary in Heaven

My Dear John,

When I think back to four years ago, I never thought you were going to close your eyes for the last time. I often wonder what went so terribly wrong.

I was ready to sit by your bed another night, trying to make you comfortable. Instead I went home to an empty house, needing to be alone with my thoughts.

I carry on each day without you and always try to remember the good times. Whenever I attend a family function, the void is even greater.

Life is very different without you, and I still love and miss you everyday.

'Til then,
Mary Ann

July 3, 2011

I don't know how I typed in July 11, 2011
July 3rd is etched in my mind and heart.
Sorry about that.
Love,
Me xoxo

July 2, 2011

JULY 11, 2011

HAPPY 75th BIRTHDAY IN HEAVEN

My dear John,

What a celebration we would have been having for this special birthday, but it was not God's plan for you.

As time passes by and I try picking up the broken pieces, my memories become so vivid. Sometimes I imagine you walking through the door, or sitting across the table from me, or watching TV, or sitting at the computer, or lying beside me as I drift off to sleep.

In my minds eye I touch your vanished hand and in my ear I hear the sound of your voice. Memories are all I have of you.

I wish you heaven's peace and am sure I could never compete with the celebration the Lord has prepared for you. I visualize all our loved ones singing Happy Birthday to you.

Happy 75th Birthday to my love.

Miss you always,
'Til then
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

June 19, 2011

JUNE 19, 2001

HAPPY 4TH FATHER'S DAY IN HEAVEN

Dear John,

Don't know if you are going to get two Father's Day greetings from me, but the one I sent last night didn't come through.

Just want you to know you are in my thoughts every day, more so today. May you celebrate your day with the angels and all of our departed dads.

Love and Miss You,
'Til then
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

June 18, 2011

June 19, 2011

Fourth Father's Day in Heaven

Dear John,

The years go by, one by one, and if it is possible, I miss you more all the time.

A fleeting thought, a song, a glance at your picture, mention of a memory or any number of things bring my thoughts back to you.

Death may have separated us, but our love will keep us together forever.

Happy Father's Day.

Love Always,
'Til then,
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

May 20, 2011

May 20, 2011

Hi John,

No special occasion and none is needed to think about our life together. I have been listening to the music we loved and just thinking of sharing the songs with you.
I know life has to play out according to God's plan, and I do go on. But not a day goes by, that I don't think of you and miss you by my side.

Love you always,
'Til then,
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

April 23, 2011

April 24, 2011

4th Easter in Heaven

Dearest John,

The years seem to be flying by since you went away. Another holiday that
you will not be sharing with us. It seems our family will never be united without you at the head of the table.

I wish you a Happy & Blessed Easter and may Jesus continue to hold you in the palm of His hands.

Love and Miss You,
'Til then,
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

February 13, 2011

February 14, 2011

4th Valentine's Day in Heaven

My Dear John,

Here is another special day without you. I miss our silly little gifts to each other, especially the beautiful cards you always got for me. I still have them and read them from time to time. They are among my treasured memories.

I brought flowers to your resting place, and wish you were still here with me. Catch my kiss and hug.

Missing you always,
'Til then,
Mary Ann

December 31, 2010

12/31/10

Dear John,

Once again it is time to wish you a peaceful New Year in Heaven, your 4th one away from us.

Our family has had much going on this year, and we still need your prayers & guidance.

Please get together with our parents and all of our loved ones and say some special prayers for all of us who need them, especially Joey.

I'm sending you my New Year kiss and hug on the wings of an angel, along with my everlasting love.

Forever in my heart,
'Til then,
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

December 24, 2010

December 25, 2010

FOURTH CHRISTMAS IN HEAVEN

My Dearest John,

How changed this day is from years gone by. Christmas morning was such an exciting time when we were all together opening presents and celebrating Jesus' birthday. Christmas eve was your absolute favorite and this year we were at Michael's again. He is stepping into your shoes, and you would be so proud of him.

Remembering what used to be is so bittersweet. Just wish with all my heart you could be here by my side. I hold our special memories in my heart and miss you always.

My love forever,
'Til then,
Mary Ann

PS Give all our loved ones a kiss and hug from me.

Mary Ann Mercurio

November 24, 2010

11/25/10

HAPPY 4TH THANKSGIVING IN HEAVEN

Dearest John,

Time is flying by and yet it seems like it was just yesterday you were sitting at the head of the table, keeping up that lively conversation.

You always loved having family and friends around you, enjoying those never ending talks. We never ran out of things to say to one another. Now there is that empty place, that no one can fill.

You are missed by all of us. Kiss our families for me.

Til then,
Love forever
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

September 12, 2010

Hi My Love,
Just wanted to tell you I attended a Mercurio reunion, and met with Si Ang's family. Sr. Maria Dominic was there along with many members of that part of the family tree.

I relayed to her the stories you used to tell me about your time in school with her. You were sorely missed, and I still find it so hard to attend these things without you.

There were quite a few people and I don't remember all of their names. One just celebrated his 100th birthday, and he knew you as John, the lawyer. I was proud that so many remembered you. I suppose you just made an impression on people in general.

Missing you as always,
'Til then,
Mary Ann

PS. Watch over Anne Marie. She needs you now, more than ever.

AnneMarie Ciccarella

July 19, 2010

Another year? I can not believe that today marks three years. The hurt hasn't gone away, it just doesn't constantly cripple me.

The milestone events, there is always a glaring absence... but then, there are the mundane. I was running errands the other day and we just leased a new car. I recall thinking, "I am turning in the old car and dad never even saw it and now I have a different car.... that's two cars he never saw." It's the stupid stuff that elicits the strongest emotions. I guess it's when my guard is down.

And, especially in the summer, every time I am in the yard, it upsets me when I recall how you joked with Joe about building Roman baths. That was the last time I saw you in your home. One of Steph's friends commented that we made a "little slice of heaven" with the plants and the pool and YOUR columns. I've had butterflies out there since May. My huge yellow swallowtail has been around frequently. It's my constant reminder I have a massive amount of loved ones watching over me and our entire family.

A month ago, we awarded your memorial scholarship at Walt Whitman HS. The recipient this year lost BOTH of her parents within 11 days of each other. Both cancer victims except her mom didn't even know she was sick until days before her dad passed away and then she, too, was gone and this young girl was younger than your four oldest GRANDchildren. I believe this happened when she began her sophomore year in high school. As Michael and I presented the scholarship, every person in attendance was on their feet by the time she approached the podium. EVERY person. Mom saw a few people crying. I just received a beautiful note from her thanking our family for our generosity. I know you will get the gang to watch over her.

There is a black cloud (literally) over my head at the moment and the skies are ready to open up. Before the first thunder clap, I want to close before I lose this to a power surge.

I've meandered... I am still battling with concentration issues-chemobrain... an ongoing reminder of my own little event... and it keeps me from stringing together cohesive thoughts, written and verbal. So, if I've rambled, that's where my brain took me.

Just know this: I love you and I miss you more than I can ever convey.

AnneMarie

July 18, 2010

7/19/07 - 7/19/10

Third Anniversary in Heaven

Dearest John,

It was 3 years ago you closed your eyes for the last time. I called your name over and over to no avail. Our life together here on earth was to be no more. Jesus came to take you to your heavenly home.

I think of what could have been. My memories make me sad, but at the same time comfort me. I'm thankful for all of our years together. Every bump in the road that came our way made our bond stronger.

You are in my thoughts every day and I pray you are at peace, somewhere in the great beyond. Ask Our Lord to watch over all of us.

Love always and forever,
'Til then
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

July 3, 2010

July 3, 2010

My Dear John,

Here is the third birthday you are celebrating with the angels. As I look up to the sky, I can picture you high on a cloud, with all of our loved ones who are with you, singing Happy Birthday to you.

Wish you peace and love on your special day and always.

Forever in my heart,
'Til then
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

June 19, 2010

June 21, 2010

Third Father's Day in Heaven

My Dear John,

This is the 3rd Father's Day that I had to visit you at the cemetery. These holidays don't have much meaning any more. My life is changed beyond imagination.

Happy Father's Day to you and our dads.
Watch over all of us, and pray for our good health and peace.

Missing & Loving you always,
'Til then,
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

April 3, 2010

April 4, 2010

3RD EASTER IN HEAVEN

Dear John,

Here is another holiday that you will not be spending with us physically, but I know you are somewhere out there watching over us.

We have had so much going on since the beginning of the year, and are overcoming hurdles one at a time.
This year it is Paula's time for needing you to watch over her. It seems all of our girls have to go through something that I thought I did for them years ago. Every day I offered to God what I was going through to preserve my family from having to endure this. But, I guess He has another plan for us.

I miss you each and every day. Keep praying for all of us. Give all of our loved ones an Easter kiss for me.

Til then
Love you always,
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

February 13, 2010

February 14, 2010

3rd VALENTINE'S DAY IN HEAVEN

Dear John,

If today were just a yesterday,
Or perhaps a yesteryear,
Surely you would be
Right here next to me.
But God had another plan for you,
He had much for you to do
Helping the Angels watch over
Each and every one of us.
It's another lonely Valentine
But, you will always be mine.
Although physically we are apart,
You are forever alive in my heart.

Happy Valentine's Day
Til then,
Love Forever,
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

January 1, 2010

January 1, 2010

HAPPY NEW YEAR IN HEAVEN

Dear John,

I can't tell you how much I missed you nudging me awake at midnight to give me a New Year's kiss and greeting. How could we know that 3 years ago would be your last New Year with us.

May God, in His mercy, hold you in the palm of His hand and always watch over you. Please ask Him to grant us peace and good health in this, and the years to come.

Hope you catch my kiss and hug to you.

Til then,
Love Always,
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

December 24, 2009

December 24,2009

THIRD CHRISTMAS IN HEAVEN

My Dear John,

Here it is, another Christmas Eve, without you by my side. At 4:30 this morning, my dear friend, Adele, joined you in Heaven. Please hug her for me.

Those of us who will be together tonight are gathering at Michael's. Our kids are trying to hold onto the tradition you & I started so many years ago. This was such a special night for you. A time for you to see all of your loved ones together. I even got you to take over dressing as Santa a few times, and it delighted you to see the looks on the little ones faces.

I remember our last Christmas, when we were keeping a secret that you were not well. We wanted everyone to enjoy what turned out to be your last Christmas. Who knew what lied ahead?
There are many changes, and without you the tradition will never be the same.

You are with our parents & so very many of our family members who have gone home to Jesus. This Christmas I wish all of the the peace and love that can only be found in heaven.The years have gone by in the blink of an eye and I miss all of you.
A special kiss from me to you.

Til then,
My Love Always
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

November 25, 2009

November 26, 2009

3rd Thanksgiving in Heaven

Dear John,
Here is one more holiday that we are apart. Life has changed in so very many ways since you left to be with Jesus. It seems that every day a different memory crosses my mind. Some are happy, and some are sad. What I wouldn't give to have those days back.(Good or sad)

Give our parents and all of our loved ones a big kiss and hug from me. Wishing all of you a Blessed Thanksgiving with all tha Angels and Saints.

My Eternal Love,
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

October 4, 2009

Dear John,

No special reason is needed to let you know how much I still miss you.
You are always in my heart & just a breath away.

Love always and forever,
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

August 22, 2009

Hello My Love,

I dreamt of you this morning, right before I awoke. It was a very jumbled dream, except that you came back from a business trip and looked wonderful. Dressed as you impeccably as you always did when you worked.

You said you missed me, and gave me a hello kiss. Then just as I awoke, you called my name, Mare, just as you used to. I open my eyes to reality and you are gone, gone, gone.

Miss you so much,
Always and forever,
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

July 18, 2009

July 19, 2009
Second Anniversary in Heaven

My Husband, My Love, My Life

Never did I think there would be one day without you at my side, but here two years have gone by so very fast. Just as fast as our years together are
forever gone.

My heart and my mind are so full of memories of our life together. No matter how I try to put the pieces of my life back together, there is a void no one can fill. Not a day goes by that I don't miss you.

It is said that two become one, and now I am half of one, because the other half of me is gone. Watch over our family and ask for God's healing where there is hurt.

Forever in my heart,
Mary Ann

P.S. Give my mom a birthday kiss for me (7/22) and tell her I love and miss her.

Michele Fiorito

July 4, 2009

Dear Uncle Johnny,
Happy 2nd Birthday in Heaven...we miss you more with each passing year! Please watch down on us and know that you are forever in our hearts!
Sending you all my love,
Michele xoxox

Mary Ann Mercurio

July 3, 2009

July 3, 2009

Dear John,

I wish you a Happy 2nd Birthday in Heaven with Jesus and our loved ones.

I wish more that you were here so we could celebrate with you. It always was such a special day, but that has become one more of my memories.

I will celebrate you in my heart.

Love, Hugs & Kisses,
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

June 20, 2009

June 21, 2008

Second Father's Day in Heaven

My dear John,

Happy Father's Day. You are missed by all of us, especially on a day like today, when there would be such lively conversation around the table.

I visited you today and planted a flower in your memory and to honor you.

Be at peace, my love, and rest in the arms of the Lord. Give our Dad's a kiss for me. (Our Moms too)

Love & Miss You,
Mary Ann

Michele Fiorito

May 26, 2009

Hi Uncle Johnny,
Last night Giana and I were flipping through some pictures on the computer. We came across a picture of you and the family at Giana's 1st birthday party. I remember how you'd always ask my mom if you'd wondered if she forgot who you were while you were sick because she hadn't seen you for a long time. When I asked her who you were, at first she hesitated, then she said, "that's Uncle Johnny"...I remember he used to play that thing you put in your mouth. Puzzled, I asked her, what do you mean a harmonica...she said no...I said, a flute...she said no "a trumpet". Amazed, I just felt comforted knowing that you are an angel watching and praying over all of us. Thank you for that pleasant reminder of strength, support and love in our lives....I know you are watching over us all!
Love and miss you,
Michele xoxo

Mary Ann Mercurio

May 24, 2009

Hello Again,
Just a correction. The date is 2009, not 2007. My brain must be asleep.
Love once more,
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

May 23, 2009

May 23, 2007

Dearest John,

Today was the end of another time in my life. I moved out of the last home I shared with you. It was very hard walking out of that door and closing another chapter in my life.

Mike and I raised a glass to you. It was the last thing we did in that beautiful home you took me to. And it was the first thing we did when I got to the new house.

Please help me adjust to this move. It is so strange to be fixing up a home without you in it. I will miss you always and love you forever.

Your wife,
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

April 11, 2009

April 12, 2009

My Dear John,

This is your second Easter in heaven with the risen Christ. Here is another holiday that we are without you sitting at the table with us.

We need your prayers for so much that is happening. I can only hope that you, along with our parents, and all of our loved ones, are stamping your feet for some answers.

It seems it is now Laureen's turn for what this family has been through. Please ask the Lord to bless her with good health, and maybe she will be spared what Anne Marie and I had to go through.

No one can know how much I still miss you, and how much I need the strength you always gave to me.

Forever in My Heart,
Your Wife
Mary Ann

Mary Ann Mercurio

February 13, 2009

To My Valentine,

This is our second Valentine's Day apart. It is a day for sweethearts, and you will always be mine.

Catch my kiss, and I will catch yours against my cheek in the breeze as it passes me by.

Missing you forever,
Mary Ann

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