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John Young Obituary

YOUNG - John W. of West Islip, NY, on August 29, 2015. Beloved husband of Kathleen. Loving father of John (Tonimarie Paladino), Christopher (Bettina) & Cynthia (Christopher) Smith. Cherished grandfather of Jackson & Hudson. Adored son of Lorraine & the late John W. Young. Dear brother of Dianne Burke (John) & Rosemary Galioto (Francis). Fond brother-in-law of Michael Melia (Julia), the late Richard Melia (Terri) & Thomas Melia. John was a lifelong athlete, an avid boater and a true family man who lived life to the fullest. He is also survived by many loving cousins, nieces, nephews, great-nephews & wonderful friends. Reposing at the Fredrick J. Chapey & Sons West Islip Funeral Home, 1225 Montauk Hwy. (1/4 mile west of the Robert Moses Cswy.). Visiting Monday 2-4:30 and 7-9:30 PM. Celebration of the Liturgy of Christian Burial, Tuesday 9:45 AM, at St. Joseph's R.C. Church, Babylon, NY. Interment St. Charles Cemetery,Farmingdale, NY.

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Published by Newsday on Aug. 30, 2015.

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Dennis Stewart

September 1, 2022

On the occasion of our 50TH high school reunion it was brought home how awfully sad it was not to have his smiling face among us and how I wish he had not been taken from us so soon. John was a very special person whose caring nature and sincerity was obvious to all, even during our high school years when such qualities are often neither common nor appreciated . I will never forget the encouraging words he had for me at our 20th reunion when I was going through some difficult times. We had not seen each other for years but he spoke with so much sincere empathy and kindness. I wish his loved ones condolence and peace and hope they can draw solace from the fact that John, while taken far too soon, was a positive force in the lives of so many and was truly loved by all who had the good fortune to know him and the even better fortune to have called him a friend

Paul Perry

August 24, 2022

John always had a smile and an attitude that was always positive.

September 4, 2015

Kathy and family I am so sorry for your loss. John was a great person and although I only caught up with you at reunions, I was always so glad to see you and John -- all these years you were together. A big hug to you and my prayers always. Marian McComiskey Hartle

Paul Perry

September 2, 2015

John was a wonderful man who, with his wife Kathy, we always had a great time, including our time together in Athens for the Olympics. Our very best to Kathy and his family.

Mary Gibbons

September 1, 2015

Dear Kathy! I am so sorry for your loss of John! I have many great memories of John in high school. He was funny, kind and always in love with you!! Although, I loss track of you and John - other than running into you at Splish Splash - I know what a great man he was. Again, my deepest sympathies, Mary Gibbons

Stephen Roche

September 1, 2015

John was a true professional and mentor. He pushed me to be the best I could. He did everything first class and today's professionals could have learned lots from John. I will greatly miss him and my wife and I pray for the Young family.

Cyndy Strong

September 1, 2015

John was a great boss and mentor to me. But above all he was a wonderful person. He was a very kind man with the utmost integrity, who loved and cherished his family. My deepest sympathies to the Young faimly.

September 1, 2015

My condolences to the Young Family. John was my first boss in ad sales and taught me many things about the business that I still rely on today. He was smart, firm but fair and a good man.

-Steve Helm

Gregg Hano

August 31, 2015

John taught me how to be a human being in the business world - something many people will never understand. He had a profound effect on my personal and professional life. Jill and my love goes out to all in the extended Young family.

August 30, 2015

We are so sorry for your loss. We wish your entire family comfort in the many loving memories you share.
Skot and Maxine Siegler

Terri Melia

August 30, 2015

I will miss Johns contagious laugh, I can hear him now, the way he lit up room when he entered it. His eyes so full of joy. His unconditional love to all that crossed his path. A true gentlemen, a wonderful Uncle, and best brother in law EVER. I will miss him with all my heart. All my love always Terri

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Aug

31

Visitation

2:00 p.m. - 4:30 p.m.

Fredrick J. Chapey & Sons West Islip Funeral Home

1225 Montauk Hwy. , NY

Aug

31

Visitation

7:00 p.m. - 9:30 p.m.

Fredrick J. Chapey & Sons West Islip Funeral Home

1225 Montauk Hwy. , NY

Sep

1

Liturgy

9:45 a.m.

St. Joseph's R.C. Church

Babylon, NY

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