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Joseph Francis Santillo

1927 - 2022

BORN

1927

DIED

2022

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Meserole Five Towns Funeral Home

143 Lord Ave

Inwood, New York

Joseph Santillo Obituary

Santillo - Joseph Francis, passed away on October 16, 2022, at 95 years old. A devoted father, spouse, son and patriarch of his large, extended family. He touched so many lives through his caring, his strength and his generous spirit. Joseph was married to Alfredina DeMichael for 62 years and had three daughters: Joann, Susan and Patricia, five granddaughters and four great-grandchildren. Joseph was born in the small farming village of Pietrelcina in Italy on October 4, 1927, to Antonio Santillo and Maria Grazia Cardone. He moved to NY when he was a young boy and was grateful to this country that gave him a good life and many opportunities. He demonstrated this through his service to his country and his community. Joseph joined the US Navy and served as part of the fleet testing the atom bomb for use in World War II. He was a Nassau County police officer for 36 years working in the Five Towns and vicinity. He was very involved in the Veterans of Foreign Wars Post in Inwood, NY, the Sons of Italy in Inwood, NY, and was a Trustee of the Inwood Civic Association. He was awarded the Inwood Civic Association's "Man of the Year in 2015" and received Nassau County's 2017 "Make a Difference" Award in recognition of his years of community service. He was an active member of Our Lady of Good Counsel RC Church in Inwood, NY for over 60 years. Above all, Joseph was a loving father, grandfather and great-grandfather and will be greatly missed. The Visitation will be at Meserole's Funeral Home, Inwood, NY on Wednesday, October 26, 2022 and Thursday, October 27, 2022. The funeral Mass will be at Our Lady of Good Counsel R.C. Church at 10 am on Friday, October 28, 2022.

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Published by Newsday on Oct. 25, 2022.

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mario angrisani

October 19, 2024

I joined the NCPD in 1968 and was assigned to the fourth pct.I came to know many of the Italian police officers working in Inwood and it gave me a good feeling.Then I met Joe and the feeling of being Italian and hearing accents I had not heard since childhood warmed my heart for those days that I feel today.Joe gave me those memories.
Thank you Joe.
mario angrisani..

John Contino

February 8, 2024

So sorry to hear of Joe's passing. He was a great guy that had a wonderful family. I'm sorry that we have lost touch with Joe and our cousins over the years. Rest in Peace, Joe.

Phil Falzone Jr.

October 25, 2022

So sorry to hear about Joe's passing. A true gentleman who will be missed. It is my hope he joins Dad, Uncle Joe Palmese and the rest of the members in heaven and can get together at VFW meetings "up above". Phil Falzone Jr.

mario angrisani

October 25, 2022

Please accept my condolences...I joined the NCPD in 1968 and was assigned to the fourth pct where I met your father. There was a small group of us who were of italian decent and shared an unspoken bond....I was assigned to the Inwood car and always had a warm feeling towards your father...I think it might have been for his slight accent ..I 82 years old and living in florida.
Joe.rest in peace..

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