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DUBIN - Ken, 66, of North Patchogue NY, on July 23, 2008. Proud Navy veteran of the Vietnam Era and retired Suffolk Co. Police Officer (Marine Bureau). Beloved husband of Carol Ann (nee Pavacic). Loving father of Michael. Cherished son of Valentina Plocke. Arrangements entrusted to the Ruland Funeral Home, Inc. (South of LIE Ext 63) 500 N. Ocean Ave., Patchogue NY. Family to receive friends Sunday from 2-4pm and 7-9pm. Mass of Christian Burial 10am on Monday at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel R.C. Church in Patchogue, NY. Committal services with military honors to follow in Washington Memorial Park, Mount Sinai NY. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Salvation Army (1-800-SAL-ARMY) or to a Veterans Organization of your choice.
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for Ken Dubin
Karin Frey
December 23, 2008
Dear Ken,
I can't wait until tomorrow. My little granddaughter is coming. She is 2 and that is the cutest age! Little kids makes life worth living. I have so many gifts that I could not wrap them all. I hope you are happy in heaven. Yours, Karin
Karin Frey
December 18, 2008
I just finished reading the book "Keeping Secrets" by Suzanne Somers. She had a rather hard life. I enjoyed the book. Karin
Karin Frey
December 17, 2008
Hello
I put up my tree today! It looks pretty. Karin
Karin Frey
December 14, 2008
Dear Ken,
It is getting cold. I miss going to the beach. I love the ocean. Karin
Karin Frey
December 13, 2008
It is cold, but very sunny. I am going for a long walk later. Karin
Karin Frey
December 12, 2008
Hi Ken,
I love to play Santa Claus. I have several packages wrapped and ready to be sent to my son and daughter in law in California. I sent flowers to my youngest daughter in law yesterday. I hope it is not too late for the angel tree at church. I have not gotten to get there yet. If it is, I have gift cards for the church. Wherever you are, I hope life is good. Karin
Karin Frey
December 11, 2008
Hi Ken,
I am starting to miss the ghost that was here! As long as it stays out of my bedroom, I don't mind if it wants to visit my home...Karin
Karin Frey
December 10, 2008
Dear Ken,
It is almost Christmas! I have sent out a lot of cards and gifts, BUT I still have some to send to my family.
Karin
Karin Frey
December 8, 2008
Hi Ken,
I am getting ready for Christmas! I bought lots of toys for my grandkids. I have 3 cute grandkids, Derreck, Jennifer, and Lynetta. I can't wait to see the baby. She is so much fun to play with! Karin
Karin Frey
December 7, 2008
Aloha
Another really beautiful place to visit is Hawaii! We were there for Glen's and Mamiko's wedding. It is so peaceful there. You could walk on the beach.....Karin
Karin Frey
December 7, 2008
Hi Ken, Did you get to see Nancy and her Mom again?????
Karin Frey
December 5, 2008
Dear Ken,
If you run into my friend, Linda, please say hello from me. I miss her a lot. Not a day goes by that I don't think of her. We were friends for 34 years! Karin
Karin Frey
December 4, 2008
Hi Ken,
I just want to tell you that I sent a Christmas card to Carol. Karin
Karin Frey
December 3, 2008
I still feel very sad about your going to heaven. Karin
Karin Frey
December 3, 2008
Hey, Ken, are you the ghost that has been in my house? So many things were moved around! I think you could find a lot better places than my house, though. How about visiting Russia again? Karin
Karin Frey
December 1, 2008
Hi Ken, I still feel so bad about your going to heaven! I bet you looked really cute in your policeman's uniform. Hank and I have just celebrated our 41st anniversary. He is a wonderful man and I am very happy! Karin
Karin Frey
November 30, 2008
Ken, how are things in heaven? Karin
carol dubin
August 10, 2008
Thank you all for your reminiscences and kind words. Ken had fond memories of his days at PMHS - particularly Mr. Disibio's (sp?) English class.
Regards,
Carol Dubin
Phil Benincasa
August 9, 2008
Deepest symphany on Ken's passing. I met him shortly after he arrived in Patchogue. He actually taught me to cuss in Russian. A great guy whose life was well spent.
David Jenkins
August 2, 2008
I am sorry for your loss. Ken was in several of my Patchogue High School classes. He was a very nice classmate. The class of 1961 will miss Ken.
Hello from a little chatterbox, Lynetta, my granddaughter. Karin Frey
August 2, 2008
Frank Mooney
August 1, 2008
Mike, I am sorry for your loss. I know you and your Dad did not have the easiest relationship, but I know you each found common ground in these past few years and you were both better for it. I am sure that was a comfort to him in the end. Be comforted that both your Mom and Dad are looking after you now from Heaven. Be well!
Muriel Swenor-Pfeiffer
July 31, 2008
I also was in many of Ken's classes but especially remember the biology class with Miss Craig he kept us laughing. Sorry for your loss but the guy upstairs always has a good reason. I also graduated in the class of 61.
Karin Frey
July 30, 2008
My sister liked Ken. She thought he was very cute.
Karin Korber Frey
July 30, 2008
I will miss Kenny's e-mails. He was sending me jokes since the last reunion that he was not able to attend..........Irene Undermark (Roth)
Classmate of '61
Karin Frey
July 28, 2008
Dear Carol Ann,
I forgot to mention but I want to thank you for the great support you have been to Ken. I am truly amazed at his sucess. I am sorry for the hard time you must face now but I hope many friends support you. You can reach me at [email protected]. Regards, Karin (Korber) Frey
Ellen Budd Garafola
July 27, 2008
I remember Ken from my English class. He had such bright, intelligent eyes. I never got to know him, but wondered, as with many of the people I graduated with, what he had done with his life.
Bob Rustmann
July 26, 2008
I am sorry about your loss. Ken and I were in grade school at Tremont Avenue in Medford. We also graduated from Patchogue High School in 1961.
Ken was a nice person and will be missed.
Karin Frey
July 26, 2008
I am crying right now. I am too sad to say anything else. Good by Kenny. Nancy will be so happy to see you in heaven. She has been waiting for a long time.
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