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Lucille Duffy Obituary

DUFFY - Lucille, 94, of Old Bethpage passed away on March 6, 2009. Lucille was a long time resident of Old Bethpage. She was active in the local civic association for years and was an avid gardener. Lucille was born in Sanford, ME on February 11, 1915, the oldest of three children. She moved to New York City where she met and married Thomas J. Duffy. They moved to Long Island where they raised five children. Lucille loved her family and her long time friends of the Old Bethpage sewing circle. In addition to her five children, Lucille was blessed with 15 grandchildren and 13 great-grandchildren. Her most memorable times were spent with her extended family. Lucille is survived by four of her children: Patricia Ludwig of Morehead City, NC, Richard Duffy of Kapaa, HI, Robert A. Duffy of Woodford, VA, Kathleen Duval of Old Bethpage, NY and her many grandchildren and great-grandchildren. She was preceded in death by her husband Thomas J. Duffy, son Thomas F. Duffy, granddaughter Erin Duffy, brother Edward DeMers, and her sister Delores DeMers. The family will receive friends Thursday, 2-5 and 7-9pm, at the Arthur F. White Funeral Home, Inc. 315 Conklin St. (Hempstead Tpke.) Farmingdale, NY 11735. Memorial contributions may be sent to Madonna Heights, 151 Burrs Lane, Dix Hills, NY 11746. Lucille will be remembered for her great love for life, her love for her family and her exceptional ability for making people feel comfortable in her presence.

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Published by Newsday on Mar. 10, 2009.

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Kate Hummel

March 11, 2009

Lucille Duffy had an inspiring joy for life and set a beautiful example in the way she genuinely cared for others. She will be greatly missed, but also remembered with extraordinary fondness.

Russ Hermann

March 11, 2009

Very sorry to hear about Lucille. She was a very special lady and a one of a kind neighbor in Old Bethpage. There are so many memories that I have of all the Duffy family. A smile will always come to my face when I think of her. My heartfelt sympathy goes out to all the family.

Robert Hermann

March 10, 2009

Deepest sympathies to the Duffy family from Robert Hermann(of Delmar NY) who lived across the street from Lucille..Lucille and my late mother would spend countless days at the beach together;perhaps they are now reunited.

patricia ryan

March 10, 2009

Our sincere condolences to Lucille's family. Special she was and will be missed. She was one of a kind.
Sincerely, The Ryan Family
Formerly of Old Bethpage.

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