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Paul Ingrassia Obituary

INGRASSIA-Paul Joseph, of Mt. Pleasant, SC, formerly of Baldwin, LI, suddenly on August 20, 2005. Paul is survived by his parents Joanne (Massa) Gilmore and Peter Thomas Ingrassia, Sr. He also leaves behind his loving sister and brother Christine Ingrassia Ribes (Scott) and Peter Thomas Ingrassia Jr. (Kadra). Also survived by his stepfather Charles (Randy) Gilmore, his stepmother Denise Bagdei Ingrassia and grandmother of Jean Ingrassia. Loved deeply by his niece and nephew Caroline and Joseph Ribes, his soon to be nephew Peter David Ingrassia, his devoted pet Rhee and numerous family and friends. Paul was a loving son and brother and a loyal friend to many. No one ever heard him say an unkind word about anyone. Reposing Towers Funeral Home, Inc., Long Beach and Foxhurst Roads, Oceanside, LI, Wednesday 2-4 and 7-9pm. Funeral Mass St. Christopher's RC Church, Baldwin, Thursday 9:45am. Interment Holy Rood Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Paul's memory to the animal shelter of your choice.

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Published by Newsday on Aug. 23, 2005.

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Jim Johnson

August 29, 2005

Paul was the most honorable person that I will ever meet. He will be missed by all who he touch. My feelings got out to his family and Rhee. We will miss you and will always be in our hearts. With love, Jim, Rene, Gavin and ALexia Johnson.

Dan, Mary, Finn Connell

August 28, 2005

Paul, like the siblings and parents whom he has left behind, was one of those rare people who you meet and instantly become part of his family. He welcomed us into his life and we are better for it. Our condolences are matched only by our sorrow at his untimely passing.

Shannon and Tim McGillivray

August 25, 2005

For Paul's family, We cannot express how sorry we are for your loss. Paul was a loving guy who always had a smile and gave a big hug every time I saw him. Paul will be forever in our hearts. Thank you Paul for the love you shared and memories that Tim and I will always treasure. Remember all the laughs we shared together and pass them on up above. You always said you were going to be Shelby's God Father, now you can be her gardian angel. We will always love you and miss you dearly!

Tim and Shannnon

Vicki and Bob McGillivray

August 25, 2005

Bob and I knew Paul through his friendship with Tim and Richard. We are deeply sorry for you loss of a son, brother, and nephew. I know children all loved Paul. He was wonderful with them and also with his beautiful dog, Rhee. He will me missed by many. May God comfort all of you during this terrible time.

Phil & Shaun

August 24, 2005

The smiles we shared, the laughes we enjoyed will never be forgotten.

We were blessed with your presence, and will cherish the memories that we have.



Your friends,

laurie aka June Bug livingston

August 24, 2005

Thank you for a real good time. You will be missed dearly by us all. I love you brother.

Claire Robke

August 24, 2005

Paul, Your smile and laugh will always be in our hearts and minds. Heaven is lucky to have you there to entertain. I will miss you forever.

Love, Claire Robke

Harriett and Wally Brown

August 24, 2005

God has a new angel. He will watch over him and bless him forever. I called the funeral home yesterday and left a message for you, Jo. Know that you are in our prayers, thoughts and hearts...our hearts are in yours...may the happy and loving memories of this kind and outstanding young man you raised into manhood comfort and sustain you in the days ahead...we are here at ALL TIMES for you...may God bless you, comfort you, and be with you now and always...your faith and strength will help guide you during this time, and please accept the love and support that others offer...we love you so!!

Grace & Mike DePasquale

August 23, 2005

Paul - you were always an Angel on earth - so special - sweet, loving and innocent. I can't imagine the world without you. Rest in Peace forever. You touched many and many now are praying for you. You will never be forgotten and the love will never stop.

Christine DePasquale

August 23, 2005

My heart is saddened greatly by Paul's passing. I pray that he is in a place of peace, where he will be eternally happy.

My prayers go out to all of you so that you may have the strength to get thru this. You are my oldest and dearest friends. Paul will always be remembered as the boy who loved his veggies! I have many great memories that I will forever hold in my heart.

Terry Martin

August 23, 2005

What a terrible loss! Paul is at peace with God and his precious Anna! He will be missed by all who were fortunate to know him! May God keep you all under His care during this awful time! Love and prayers--Terry

Dave & Cheryl Ribes

August 23, 2005

You all are in our thoughts, prayers, and hearts during this difficult time. We love you all very much!!

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