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Paul Vetrano Obituary

Vetrano - Paul J., of Commack, NY, on January 14, 2025, at the age of 86. Beloved husband of the late Hildegarde.

Cherished father of Paul

(Isabel). Adored grandfather of Nicholas, Gabrielle, and Francesca. Retired teacher from the Hicksville School District. Reposing Friday, 2-4pm and 7-9pm, at Commack Abbey Inc., 96 Commack Road, Commack, NY. Mass of a Christian Burial Saturday, 9:30am, at Christ the King R.C. Church, Commack, NY. Interment St. Charles Cemetery, Farmingdale, NY.

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Published by Newsday on Jan. 16, 2025.

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Thomas Folan

January 25, 2025

My sympathy for the Vetrano family. Rest in peace Paul Vetrano.
Sincerely, Thomas Folan

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John Ebbecke

January 23, 2025

I am retired in SC and a friend mentioned your dad's passing. Mr Vetrano was a teaching pro. One of a few this introverted teen woke up and paid attention to in an oversized high school. His Media class was light years ahead in how the news manipulates instead of telling the news. If I had been fortunate enough to know he belonged to CTK parish as I did for forty years, I would have sought him out to tell him. As he wrote in my yearbook, to "one of my favorite fellow Mets fans"..."I hope I opened doors of awareness". Well, they had a good last year for him and yes, he opened those doors for me. May your dad rest in eternal peace, and your family have comfort in the good he did for his pupils
- John Ebbecke HHS class of '72

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January 23, 2025

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January 23, 2025

Here are some recent pictures of my dad below...

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Wayne Lyons

January 21, 2025

I still remember him as one of the best history teachers from my time at the high school. I graduated in 1966...so to remember him from that long ago shows what an excellent teacher he was. sorry to hear of his loss....

Paul Vetrano

January 20, 2025

Thank you for sharing all the beautiful thoughts regarding my dad. He truly loved teaching and cherished his students. May God continue to bless you for the rest of your lives. Cheers!

Eileen Rehn

January 20, 2025

Sending warm condolences to you Paul Jr., Isabelle and family. I will always remember Uncle Paul and Aunt Hilda with love.

Janet Sagona

January 20, 2025

`72 I had the privilege of taking Mr Vetrano´s Contemporary World Problems class in 12th grade. Excellent and fair teacher. Enjoyed taking his interesting class.

John Field

January 19, 2025

I worked with Paul as a fellow teacher for 30 years in Hicksville High School. I admired Paul as an excellent teacher, his values, family man, Christian, and his behavior as a person. He was always pleasant, considerate, polite, in control and an excellent role model for a young teacher
Hicksville High school was blessed to have him on staff, and I was blessed to know him and work with him.
Paul will be missed by his family, many students and other teachers such as I.
God bless you Paul.
Requiescat in pace.
John Field

Ilene Wolfson meister

January 19, 2025

My condolences to the family. Mr. vetrano was a great person and teacher .My older brother had him as a teacher .

Joan Cornelius Kani

January 19, 2025

Mr Vetrano was one of my very favorite teachers. Thank you for making learning fun.

Mary Lombardi Blaney

January 19, 2025

A great teacher and one of a handful decent people that I met in Long Island. He made my stay there more tolerable. I know he is in heaven with his wife and parents. He will always be remembered by the thousands of students whose lives he touched over the years of his career. Descanse en paz.

Mary Lombardi Blaney
Hicksville High School - Class of 1986

Rick Russo

January 18, 2025

RIP Mr. Vetrano. One of my favorite teachers from Junior and Senior HS in Hicksville. A great teacher and a gentleman!

Rick Russo
Class of `70

Peter Lehman

January 17, 2025

Rest in peace Paul! A true gentleman! Kind, smart , a man of true faith!
I was a student in Hicksville who graduated in 1970 and had the pleasure of knowing Paul through my dearest friends Ken & MaryAnn McGinniss! May your memory be a blessing!
Marilyn and Peter Lehman

Linda Blanchfield

January 17, 2025

Sending my condolences to the Vetrano family. From being a student in Mr. Vetrano´s class to teaching his own grandchildren many years later, my heart is full for all of you.

Mark E. Cacamis, PE

January 17, 2025

Class of '73-I Mr. Vetrano for Contemporary World Problems, he taught me how to think critically, and made comments to me that have stuck with me my entire life. I am in his debt.

Warren Klein

January 16, 2025

Your father was one of the best teacher I ever had. My girlfriend and I both had him for Social Studies and we reminisce about him all the time.

Patricia Valentino Kennedy

January 16, 2025

He was the best teacher!! A real gentleman...
Sending sincere sympathy to family..May he rest in peace..

Tom Lawlor

January 16, 2025

Wonderful History teacher. Rest in Peace. Tom Lawlor. Class of 72

Bill Knack

January 16, 2025

Paul Vetrano was a good man and a remarkable teacher. He was a positive influence on me and countless others in our early lives.

Jackie Spitzer

January 16, 2025

Rest in peace. Great teacher

Christina Tucker Cleary

January 16, 2025

I´m so sorry to hear of Mr Vetrano´s passing. He was an awesome teacher!! I had him back in 1985 as my Social Studies teacher. I loved history and he made it even better. He was gentle and funny and I truly enjoyed him as a person and educator. I´m so sorry for your loss!

Carol Ann Luisi

January 16, 2025

Great great history teacher. Hicksville High School Class of 1975 RIP

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Reposing

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