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Ralph Marciante Obituary

Marciante - Ralph F., of Saint James, died December 24, 2023, unexpectedly after spending Christmas Eve with those he loved most in this world. He was 71 years old. Ralph was born April 21, 1952 and grew up in Miller Place, NY. After college he began his legendary career with State Farm Insurance as an agent in Centereach, NY. Ralph mentored new agents and found great joy in their success. He took pride in being a good neighbor, he was more than an agent to his clients he was a part of their families. Ralph found the most comfort and joy in spending time with his family. His love for them was apparent to everyone in the way he dedicated his life to their happiness. He loved to give to those in need without recognition and his generosity knew no bounds. Ralph is survived by his cherished wife, the love of his life, Laura D'Agostino

Marciante; his two beloved daughters: Nicole Marciante

Petrocelli and Michele

Marciante; his son-in-law who he considered a son, Jeff

Petrocelli; and his two grandchildren: Mason and Piper. Funeral services will be held at the Saint James Funeral Home on Tuesday, January 2, 2024 and Wednesday, January 3, 2024 from 2:00pm until 9:00pm both days. He will be laid to rest after 10:30am mass at Saint Patrick's R.C. Church in Smithtown, NY on January 4, 2024.

All are welcome to come to celebrate Ralph. Come as you are and wear color instead of black. He will be in his Tommy Bahama shirt, he never cared for suits.

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Published by Newsday from Dec. 30 to Dec. 31, 2023.

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John

July 31, 2024

I just found out Ralph passed after directing my in-laws to contact his office. I unfortunately joined my wife´s insurance when we married a couple of years back, but I was planning on returning to Ralph once I could. It bothered me to have to leave. I felt heartbroken hearing Ralph passed away. He was more like a friend before ever being a business man. People could learn from how Ralph treated the people who had the pleasure of knowing him. I´m sad I could not attend his services, but I hope he knows he is in my thoughts and prayers, and I hope his family is doing well. Thank you for Everything Ralph. You were the best!

Lauren Bernstein

January 12, 2024

I am saddened and shocked at the passing of Ralph. What a great human being, helping so many people thank you for helping me fly high Ralph.

Lauren Bernstein

Cam H

January 11, 2024

I am very saddened to hear this news, my condolences to Ralph's family. Ralph was a wonderful and SUPER nice person he will be missed greatly. He has been my insurance agent for 50+ years. I can still remember the day I walked over from Hustedt Chevrolet all those years ago. I was a 16 year old kid at the time who had just purchased his first new car and needed insurance for it. Ralph has been my agent ever since. Rest easy my friend.

Pat Kelly

January 9, 2024

Ralph was always good to us. He was a good man. Was more of a friend than businessman.
Pat Kelly and family

John Mailinger

January 8, 2024

I´m very saddened to hear about the passing of a great man. I´ve been a client for over 40 years always willing to listen and help. John Mailinger

Karen Grossi

January 7, 2024

My family is so very sorry for your loss. Ralph took care of me and my family when I bought my 1987 Thunderbird and all the years since. He was a kind and warm and generous man. We considered him family. We will miss his calls and his jokes. May he watch over all of you always. The Grossi Family.

Pete Vath

January 4, 2024

Laura, so sorry I just found out this morning when I went to the office. Broken hearted. such a good man and friend. please reach out to me when you can. Pete Vath

Michael Fishlow

December 30, 2023

I bowled with Ralph at State Farm late 90's early 2000. Great guy! So sorry for your loss

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