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Raymond Urban Obituary

URBAN - Raymond J. Sr., of Farmingdale, on October 26, 2007. Beloved husband of Marie. Devoted father and father-in-law of Raymond Jr. and Laura, and Susan and Sean Miles. Loving brother of Walter and Silvia Kubis, Joseph, Johanna and Robert Decker. Fond brother-in-law of Rosalie Citrano, Salvatore and Loretta Citrano, Roy and the late Helen Citrano, Joseph and Ethel Citrano, John and Helen Citrano, and Richard and Alberta Citrano. Cherished grandfather of Jessica, Raymond, Kyle, Julia, Victoria and Amanda. Also survived by many nieces and nephews. The family will receive friends Monday and Tuesday 2-5pm and 7-9:30pm at The McCourt & Trudden Funeral Home Inc., 385 Main Street, Farmingdale. Funeral Mass Wednesday 9:45am at St. Kilian RC Church. Interment St. Charles Cemetery.

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Published by Newsday on Oct. 28, 2007.

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Ann Martin

November 6, 2007

We worked at AIG together, always a gentlemen. my sympathies to the family

Dennis Coyle

November 1, 2007

I am so sorry, I was just informed of Ray's passing. I worked with Ray in Highway. A finer gentleman it would be hard to find. My condolences to his family.
Dennis Coyle retired Highway 3

carol kelly

October 30, 2007

mr urban you were a great neighbor and we will miss you forever.

Bob Gunsher

October 30, 2007

Stand up guy and loyal colleague. You will be missed Ray. If you're up there looking down, watch over Jimmie and Bill.

Jeannie Citrano

October 30, 2007

My heart goes out to you all in this time of loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Markey Pappalardo

October 29, 2007

I'll always remember Uncle Ray's great sense of humor and how he always made me laugh. The loss of someone so close is difficult to bear. We share your grief. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Brian Citrano

October 29, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers go out to you during this difficult time. Uncle Ray was a good and well respected man.

Debbie Cummiskey

October 29, 2007

My Favorite Uncle who helped me find my car while he was on the job with the NYPD and I was attending a Broadway matinee with my mother, Honey Citrano - I will never forget that day and I will never forget Uncle Ray.

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