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Robert P Weir
October 10, 2024
Just prior to Ryan´s birthday in 1993 we all went to opening day of the baseball season at Shea Stadium. Besides being the first game of the season for the Mets it was the first game that the Colorado Rockies would play. You can just imagine how that captured Ryan´s heart, "the new kid on the block", "the underdog", Ryan always supported the underdog. Although Ryan´s interest in baseball lessened his loyalty to the Rockies never did. That characteristic of loyalty was one Ryan´s strong points.
Dad
Jess
January 25, 2021
I don't remember how or why I found myself landing here. I do think about you from time to time, sometimes when I listen to Metallica, any time I'm on Hillside Ave, whenever I pass by your cemetery... Anyway, I just wanted to leave some love here in 2021.
Robert Weir
October 13, 2020
Ryan, I remember so clearly the the last day I saw, spoke and hugged you. I still feel the warmth of that day and moment. I love you.
Dad
October 26, 2019
Ryan P Weir
April 9, 1985 to October 8, 2005
Saddened as we all are as we remember our loss on this day, our spirits are lifted, and we are grateful as we remember the joy, happiness and love that you brought into our life and shared with us forever.
Love Dad
Joanne Weir passed away on the morning of October 7, 2019 a victim Pancreatic Cancer. Following a mass celebrated on Saturday October 12 at St. Luke Catholic Church in Whitestone Joanne was laid to rest at St. Mary's Cemetery in Flushing, next to her Son Ryan who passed away on October 8, 2005.
Robert P Weir
April 10, 2018
Ryan P. Weir
April 9, 1985 October 8, 2005
As we celebrate the anniversary of your birth 33 years ago, our hearts and minds are filled with memories of your life, and the joy and happiness that you gave to us.
Love, Dad
Megan Bestafka
April 9, 2018
You would have been 33 today. I miss you so much. I miss your silly antics and your smile. You will always remain in my heart and never be forgotten. I pray I see you again someday. Love alway Megan
D
May 15, 2017
Ryan you were such a funny kid I remember you talking about the chickens to be let loose as a prank with liz o. In 2003 In bayside high school in mr. Coders class you sat a few chairs behind me. I didn't know you well but I wish I did.
April 12, 2016
Ryan P. Weir
April 9, 1985 October 8, 2005
We remember with great joy the day of your birth 31 years ago and the 20 magical years that followed. The memory of your life continues to bring everlasting joy to our life.
Dad
October 14, 2014
Saddened as we are by our loss, we are grateful that you were part of life-we cherish and shareour memoriesof you with those that follow us-you will not only live forever in our heart-your memory is ingrained in the future. Love, Dad
Joanne
December 24, 2013
Ryan - Merry Christmas!! I pray that God's peace surrounds you and all who are with you this night and tomorrow.
You are my greatest gift, and I pray that I'll see you again, God willing. Love, Mom.
October 9, 2013
The memory of you is everlasting, it is as clear and bright as is the brightest star in the heaven's-even for those that only know of you through the stories and memories that we relate to them. Love Dad
Joanne
October 8, 2013
Ryan - Today God has given us a beautiful sunny day to think about you as opposed to all the rain that fell from heaven - and from our tears - on the day you left. All the memories you gave will never wash away. You will always be my very special child, and a very special friend to those lives your touched. I love you forever, and look forward to seeing you again, God willing. Love, Mom.
Allie
July 27, 2013
I went to elementary, JHS and high school with Ryan and I find myself thinking of him from time to time. I'm appreciative that his family left this guest book online. I loved being a class clown with him, he was so quick witted and smart and always knew the right thing to say to make someone smile. My best memory of him was when we were chosen in high school to make music videos as part of Mr. Rothman's film class. I never knew the extent of his true artistic abilities and focus. We're thinking about you, Ryan. I wish we could have known each other better as musicians, artists, and adults. You were gone too soon.
birthday cake for Uncle Ryan, Love Kayla
April 10, 2013
Kayla made this birthday cake for her Uncle Ryan
April 10, 2013
April 9,2013-
We celebrate the day you were born and mourn the day that you left us. The memory of the compassion and love that you shared with us and the joy that you brought to our life is as bright and never ending as the brightest star in the universe.
Love, Dad
December 25, 2012
The memory of your excitment and your laughter as you oppened your Christmeas gifts is etched in my mind. The memory of your excitment and your laughter as we oppened our gifts from you is etched in my mind. I give thanks that you came into my life.
Love Dad
Joanne
December 24, 2012
Merry Christmas, Ryan. Please share some of your Christmas spirit with me. I love you, Mom
Jennifer Papanastasiou
April 9, 2012
Happy Birthday in heaven to my best friend. I still talk to you everyday and I know you help me through life as I would for you. I have never had a greater friend than you. I miss you so much and when ever I am sad, I think of your laugh and it stops my tears. When you left, my heart broke and I will never be the same because of it. You have made my life better, for I always think what you would advice me, or how you would make something better. I am honored to have had as much time as I did with you, and would never trade those memories for the world. You are apart of me and all of the lives you touched forever and always. You are one of the reasons I am a good person with a pure heart, because you never let anyone tell you your path, you paved it yourself. I miss the Dawson to my Joey. I miss your friendship, I have been so alone without it. We used to talk on the phone 10 hours a day, everyday after being in classes all day together. We spent our weekends in your room or outside on an adventure -- for life was always an adventure with you in it. I love you so much. Rest in peace, you were truly my Kermit the Frog, Kirk Hammett, Buddy Holly hero.
Robert P Weir
December 26, 2011
Remembering you at Christmas. Ryan, as we celebrate Christmas we remember the joy and glee you expressed as you opened your gifts and watch as we opened the gifts you gave us. Your laughter brought warmth excitement to us all. Love Dad
Joanne
December 24, 2011
Ryan - Merry Christmas!! You are the best gift I have ever been given, and you are forever in my heart. I love you, Mom.
Robert P Weir
April 10, 2011
Our family and friends share the lasting memories of our son Ryan who would be celebrating his 26th. Birthday on April 9. It was just yesterday that Ryan was a baby, and then a little boy and then a grown man. The years passed so quickly and then time stood still, however Ryan’s spirit continues to enrich our daily lives.
December 24, 2010
Merry Christmas, Ryan. Thank you so much for all the special, heartfelt gifts you gave me - those made with you hands and those given from your heart. I cherish them all. All my love is with you tonight, tomorrow, and forever. I can't wait to hug and kiss you again. God willing, that will take place some day. If you can find some time during your day, please touch all of us. I love you forever, Mom.
Joanne
October 8, 2010
Happy Anniversary, Ryan. I pray that God gives you a beautiful day with family and friends. As each day passes, I think of another piece of your life here on earth. You gave me and everyone you loved so many wonderful memories. Thank you for all of them. I love you forever, Mom.
Robert P Weir
October 7, 2010
Ryan, at just about 3PM every afternoon I look up from my desk expecting to see you coming through the front door of the Office. I visit the cemetery almost every day and I am shocked to see your name on the stone. When I talk to Samantha, Kayla and Andrew about you I share my thoughts and memories. I try not to be too long winded, of course as you know that is a problem. Five years ago tomorrow, and yet it seems like yesterday. I do thank God for the 20 plus years that you were with us and I thank God for our memories.
Love, Dad
Robert
April 9, 2010
Happy Birthday Ryan, so many memories, so little time. Love Dad
Joanne
April 9, 2010
Happy Birthday, Ryan. You are always in my heart. God bless you forever. Love, Mom
Joanne
December 24, 2009
Ryan - Merry Christmas!!! I pray that your Christmas is blessed and beautiful. I look forward to that day when we spend Christmas together, again. I love you and miss you so much. You're in my heart always. Love, Mom
Robert
October 8, 2009
Ryan, It seems like just yesterday that I last saw you. Kayla asked me today if you are happy in Heaven and if you can talk. I told her that I have faith that you are happy and I know that you are talking, we just can't hear your words. Thinking of you each day. Love Dad
Joanne
October 8, 2009
Ryan - Every moment you are in my heart. Although I don't see you, I believe you are here. My memories of you and dreams that you're in help ease the journey to the day that I'll see you again, God willing. I love you, Mom.
Joanne
April 9, 2009
Happy Birthday, Ryan. I love you, miss you, hug you, and kiss you for your birthday and everyday. Someday - God willing - we'll see one another again. Love, Mom
April 8, 2009
Ryan-you were always so excited on your birthday. You made sure that everyone who was with you enjoyed the day. You left us with wonderful memories. We do miss you. Love Dad and Marie
Joanne
December 25, 2008
Ryan - Because you're in my heart, I know you'll be with me - maybe not all day, but I'm happy knowing you'll be here. Merry Christmas, Love Mom
Robert P. Weir
October 8, 2008
Ryan, as the months pass and the seasons change, tranquility decends, and although the well remembered footsteps will not sound again, nor do we hear the voice from the room beyond, there seems to in the air an atmosphere of love, a living presence. We remember and miss you. Love Dad
October 7, 2008
Ryan, Three years have gone by without you here, and everyday I learn more and more about the beauty inside you. This makes my heart feel better. I pray for your eternal peace and happiness. I love you. Mom
Joanne Papczynski
April 9, 2008
Happy Birthday Ryan. Thank you for all that you've given me. I pray that your day is beautiful, and that God's peace fills your heart. I miss you and God willing, I will see you again. Love, Mom
Robert P. Weir
April 8, 2008
Ryan, my birthday wish for you is that you have found peace. You brought so much love and joy to me and to our immediate and extended family. I still smile when I remember the look on your face as you tried to blow out the birthday candles on your birthday cake.
Love Dad and Marie
Joanne
December 24, 2007
Precious Ryan - I feel your kind spirit and love everywhere when Christmas is near. Although you know that makes me so sad because you're not here, I thank God for that. This Christmas you have Kitty to hug and kiss, and that makes me feel good inside because I know how much you love that little Kitty. I can see your face with Kitty close to you. I also know that you know my heart is with you always. All your special gifts of love are in my heart forever. I thank God for you in my life, everyday. Merry Christmas, precious. I love you forever. Mom
October 8, 2007
I love you Ryan. God willing I'll hug and kiss you again. Love, Mom
Robert P. Weir
October 7, 2007
Ryan, you are always in my heart and you are always in my thoughts, I wish you peace.
Love Dad
Dad
April 8, 2007
Ryan would have been Twenty Two on April 9, 2007. He was wonderful son, brother, uncle, nephew, cousin and friend. There are no words that can describe the emptiness that we feel, or the wonderful memories that we shared. Wishing you peace, with all our love.
April 7, 2007
I believe your Easter will be very special, and your birthday, too! I just wish I was spending time with you each day, everyday. I miss you and love you. Mom
Ashley
January 14, 2007
Just been thinking about you a lot lately, I love you.
December 24, 2006
Merry Christmas, Precious. Your Christmas spirit is forever in my heart. I'm going to watch The Muppet Christmas Carol and God willing, you'll be here, watching it, too. I love you forever, Mom.
Robert P Weir
December 23, 2006
Ryan, you gave all of us so many Christmas memories. And now we only have those memories, however they are wonderful warm and loving memories. You left your mark in so many ways. You are never absent from my day and never out of sight. Love Dad
Dad
November 22, 2006
Thinking of you as we get prepare for the holiday season. Love Dad
Robert P Weir
November 8, 2006
It is raining and I thought about you. Love Dad
October 7, 2006
Ryan - Happy 1st anniversary with God. Although I ache inside because you're not here, there can be nothing better than what you now experience. For that, I'm so truly happy for you. I love you forever, and God willing, I will see you again. Love, Mom
Relaxing at home
Robert P
October 6, 2006
It is one year ago to the date on a Thursday that I last hugged Ryan and said to him, have a great weekend (Ryan always had a three day weekend). Of course I never thought that it would be the last time that I would hug Ryan. While we grieve over our loss I am thankful for the wonderful twenty and one half years I had with Ryan. There were so many thoughts exchanged between us regarding what was important in life, there were even some that we did not agree on. Ryan believed in living for today and one of his favorite statements was, ”Dad I want one more summer”. The message through and from Ryan is that there are no guarantees and you should never wait for tomorrow. Ryan thank you, I still feel that hug.
June 29, 2006
I had a converstion with God yesterday and He confirmed it: you are my Angel. If you're my Angel, it's possible you're an Angel to everyone you love. That's what I believe!!! In my heart I want to believe that you will be with all your loved ones for the 4th of July. Not that it was one of your favorite holidays; but if you were with those you love, you made it a special day. Love to you now and forever, Mom.
April 7, 2006
Happy Birthday, Precious. I know this birthday is a very special one for you. I miss you so very much and I know everyone whose life you touched also misses you with all their heart. Our plans for your birthday will never take place; they were never meant to! We make the plans; God breaks the plans! I was told that by many people at different times in my life. I know your love will surround us all even though you will not be here, physically. You will always be in my heart. I always thank God for you being my son. You are #1 to me and such a special child. I love you forever and ever. XOXOXOXOXOXOXO - Love, Mom
Robert P. Weir
April 4, 2006
As we approach the date Ryan was born there are so many memories. Just prior to Ryan’s birthday in 1993 we all went to opening day of the baseball season at Shea Stadium. Besides being the first game of the season for the Mets it was the first game that the Colorado Rockies would ever play. You can just imagine how that captured Ryan’s heart, “the new kid on the block”, “the under dog” and Ryan loved the uniform colors of the Rockies. Through the years Ryan’s interest in baseball lessened as his interest in other things grew, however his loyalty to the Rockies never lessened. The characteristic of loyalty was one of the strong points in Ryan’s personality. Love Dad.
February 14, 2006
Of course the snow reminds me of you. You were out in it before it stopped, picking up your friends, persuading them to get their sleds. I love that about you - so childlike and excited, not concerned about shoveling yourself out or about getting stuck somewhere. There's always the AAA to pull you out!!! When you came home, the look on your face said it all - not to mention the all the YEAHs!!! and AWESOMEs!!! you let out. Your hair all frozen never phased you for one moment. You went straight to the computer to talk to everyone you were with about all the crazy fun you had, and to rub it in to those that didn't go how much they missed. Thank you for these wonderful winter memories. Happy Valentines Day to the most precious son a mother could be blessed with. I love you Ryan!
December 25, 2005
Merry Christmas precious. Here's a hug and some kisses. Me and the girls miss you today and everyday. I see the smile on your face and I feel your excitement giving all those you love, their gifts. I know how much you loved to watch our faces when we'd open our gift from you. And speaking of gifts, you are and have always been my very special gift from God. I love you forever. Mom
Ryan and Samantha Christmas 2004
Dad
December 24, 2005
Ryan, Christmas memories are memories of you.
As we prepare to celebrate Christmas I reflect on your life and all of the wonderful times we all had with you. Ryan you were many things to so many people, a wonderful son, brother, uncle and friend; you created music and produced film that will never be duplicated and will never be forgotten. We remember you as a writer, poet, musician and appraiser, however what we remember most is your unconditional love and friendship.
Dad
November 24, 2005
Thanksgiving for Ryan was having dinner at his Grandmother's house and in later years at his Aunt and Uncle's house. When Ryan was very young he could not wait to dig into his Grandmother's cooking. I know that this year the ride to Long Island will be a time for memories and reflection for Joanne. I know that the dinner table will look different. I know that I will not hear Ryan tell me about all the great food that he ate.
I do give thanks that we, his family and friends, have each other for support during these difficult times.
November 22, 2005
Happy Thanksgiving, precious. Your feast, I'm sure, will fill you up for eternity. Hold some on the side for me. I love you forever.
Ashley Lemma
November 12, 2005
Ryan,
You are my brother. I love you more than anyone could possible imagine. I think of you everyday and smile, I have not one unhappy memory of you and I. You always put a smile on my face and made me laugh. You will be with me like a handprint on my heart. I love you and I know you are always standing right beside me.
Sarah Grimes
October 16, 2005
I realize I haven't known Ryan nearly as long as everyone who has signed this so far, but the time I knew him definitely constitutes as some of the best times I've ever had in my life. I met Ryan in 2001 before we had winter break from high school. Instantly we clicked and got along so well. He was so great to talk to. We talked about almost everything there was to talk about. He was so intelligent and absolutely hilarious. He could make me laugh no matter what I was feeling at the time. His presence in itself was enough to make me feel better if I was upset. I loved being around him and I loved being with him. There was such a different side to him that no one else really saw and I'm so grateful that I had the opportunity to see it. I'm so glad I had the opportunity to love him and care for him. We had our share of difficult times and periods of time where we didn't even speak because I was just upset about what had happened when we had gone out in high school. It was childish at the time but more than anything, I'm so very glad that I had the urge one day to contact him again. And since that day almost a year ago, we have spent almost everyday together. And I really couldn't ask for anything more. He went out of his way for everyone he knew to make sure that they were happy and do anything he could to help them. It was so amazing to be able to see how generous he was. I will always be grateful for every moment I spent with him. I'm also glad I got to become closer to his mom. And that I also had the opportunity to meet his father and brothers and all of his other family. It was really wonderful meeting all of you. And I hope we can all stay in touch because even if we didn't get to know each other very well since we only met such a short time ago, hopefully I'll get to know you all and see how wonderful you all are too. Thank you Joanne and Bob for raising such an absolutely beautiful person who has touched so many people. I love you Ryan. I know one day I will see you again and it will be a day that I will look forward to so very much. Until that time, just know how much I love you angel.
Love always, Sarah
Andrew and Barbara Adams
October 16, 2005
Ryan, you are so truly missed and your memories treasured by us. Our times together, holidays, birthdays, though for 20 short years, were wonderful events we shared and enjoyed. Just trying to imagine these times without you, is heartbreaking for us. Your smile and zest for life will always be remembered. We know how special you are and will hold your spirit close to our hearts until the next time we meet. You are in our prayers. Love, Uncle Andy, Aunt Barbara, Jeff, Amy, Christopher, and Christian.
Robert P. Weir
October 16, 2005
Ryan Philip Weir was born to Joanne Papczynski and me on April 9, 1985 and died on October 9, 2005. Twenty years and six months is such a short lifetime. Ryan was intelligent, creative and a caring person. His achievements in music, poetry and film were incredible. I thought that Ryan had so little time to leave his mark in this world, however I was wrong. In speaking with the more than 70 friends and teachers from grammar school and high school who attended his funeral it became obvious that Ryan had affected so many people in positive way. Ryan did not feel that it was important for people to know how he had helped or influenced someone. That is not to say the Ryan did not want to be a leader, however he believed that his achievements would propel him to greater heights. He wanted people to respect him for what he accomplished and not for what he said he would do or for what he said he had done. Actions were important; words were for those who could not take action.
Joanne Papczynski
October 15, 2005
Precious Ryan, I always told you how special you are - now I'm sure you finally believe. No one leaves this earth at your age without a special purpose from God. All of us left behind can only imagine what it is. You did such a good job here. You know I am so very happy that God chose me as your mom. Thank you for your smiles, your tears, your stories, and your songs. I'll safeguard it all until we meet again. Love forever, Mom.
Jeffrey Weir
October 15, 2005
Ryan,
I miss you so much. You had the greatest laugh that always made me smile. We had so many wonderful times together, from playing hide and seek when you were a little kid, to playing video games when you were a teenager, to you being my best man at my wedding. (remember the corny pictures?) If we hadn’t talked in a while, I always knew I could find you online and we could get caught up through instant messenger (your screen name was the best!) I’m sorry that we didn’t spend more time together but I am grateful for the great memories that I have of you. There was always a magical feeling when you, Rob, and I would get together. We always made each other laugh with our inside jokes that only brothers shared. Every time I play Risk and video games, watch the
Colorado Rockies, see Kermit the Frog, listen to Metallica, see Samantha, watch our wedding video, (the list goes on and on) I will think of you and smile. I’m so proud to say you are my brother and I wish the whole world knew you because you are that special. Until we meet again…
Love,
Jeff & Stacey
ryan and samantha 1st. birthday
October 14, 2005
Rob and Maureen Weir
October 13, 2005
Ryan, I wish I had more time with you but I am so proud to call you my brother, you had an affect on more people than most people could ever imagine. I wish I could hug you one more time and tell you that I love you, I just hope you know how much I do. I will always tell Samantha about her Uncle Ryan and show her the pictures of you and her on Christmas and her first birthday. She loved you so much and everyone could see how you loved her. I am so glad that I could spend time with you and you could be best man at my wedding. I was so proud of you and Jeff that day and glad we had the time together that we did. I will never forget you pulling your socks off as a baby on our trip to California, or the cigarette butt in the Calimari at Dad's birthday dinner, or the food fight on our dinner cruise, I was so lucky to sit next to you that night. Hearing and seeing the way your friends loved and cared for you made me so happy. You were truly special, I will keep you alive in my thoughts and I know that you are there in spirit. You will always be in our thoughts and prayers,
Love,
Rob, Maureen, Billy, Nick, Tommy and Samantha.
Susan Luvera
October 13, 2005
My deep heartfelt condolances to Ryans family. He was a wonderful young man loved by his family especially his niece Samantha
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