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Thomas Giles Obituary

GILES - Thomas Jefferson, 79, died on Tuesday evening August 19, 2008. Born in Baltimore, MD and raised there and in Philadelphia, PA, Giles was a respected Senior Project Manager for over three decades at SLCE Architects in NYC. He was a graduate of Penn State, class of 1949, and taught mathematics at Prairie View A & M University in Texas, then moved to NYC where he met and married Dorothy Aileen Dove. They were married for 47 years until her death in 1998. They settled in St. Albans, Queens in 1956, where they raised their seven children who survive him: Leland, of Brooklyn, Lorna, of Marthas Vineyard, MA, Jeffrey, of Manhattan, Dwayne, of Winsted, CT, Nancy, of Weehawken, NJ, Gilbert, of Jersey City, NJ, and Susan, of Hamilton, NJ; sonin-law Kenneth Armstead and daughter-in-law Gail Giles; six grandchildren: Julius and Carmen Lamont, Melora and Emelia Armstead, Jazmin Giles and Guy Guyton IV; one great-grandchild: Olivia Lamont; and dozens of nieces, nephews, friends and colleagues at SLCE, loving family members and dear friends. Viewing will be held this afternoon, Sun. Aug. 24th, at the John J. Barrett & Son Funeral Home, 424 W. 51st St. from 2-5 and 7-9pm. A memorial service will be held on Monday August 25th at 2pm at Christ & St. Stephen's Church, 120 W. 69th St. Burial will be private.

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Published by Newsday on Aug. 24, 2008.

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Charlene Carnell

September 9, 2008

You have my deepest sympathy at this time of sorrow. You may not remember me but I am one of Rev. Durant and Pearl Durant's granddaughters who lived a few houses away from you on 178th St. My mother (Peggy) would bring us over to your house when we were little and we used to climb the I guess you could say monkey bars, read and slide down the hill (driveway) in the winters. Vicky my cousin (deceased) was always with your sister Lorna and her friend Julie. I always remember the warmth and kindness from your Mom and times she came by to spend time with Nanny. I remember your Dad always had a book out or with him, he had a very strong and proud man he never said much to my cousin or sister but his presence loomed larger than life. The Giles were always there for my grandmother and when I moved to CA Nanny and Mrs. Giles kept each other company. Allow me now to express my deepest, deepest sympathy at the loss of your Mom a few years back and now at the loss of your Dad the world has lost two beautiful people that have passed their core values onto their children and those they touched over the years. I will forever remember them. Look to the sun during the day for they are smiling down at you and look to the stars at night for now your parents are together and they are twinkling with anticipation of all the wonders of night that they will share with you in your dreams. Memories are a precious thing and bring you through much. I pray that you hold your memories tightly and this will help you through it. From the Durant Family, Wright Familly, My Sister Christine Taylor and myself Charlene Carnell we wish you and your families much love now and forever.

Cindy,Ollie and Mrs Anita Perkins

August 24, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Dolores Dotson

August 24, 2008

Please accept our deepest sympathy for the loss of "Uncle Giles". Though distant, our memories of him are fond ones. Love, Dolores (Martin) Dotson and the Martin Family

Islah Abdul-Rahiim

August 24, 2008

We are family friends, but I never had the opportunity to meet Mr. Giles except through he lives of his exceptional family. Our two families have traveled a mysterious journey together this summer and your support and strength has been a blessing to us. Having had the privilege to know this exceptional man at this time of transition has been an honor and an inspiration.
Peace and Love to You All,

Islah Abdul-Rahiim and Family

Delcie Southall

August 24, 2008

Please accept my sympathy for your loss.
with love
Delcie Southall
Cousin

Sherry Eid

August 24, 2008

Hi Giles,
Will miss most of all your:
"whatevers."
You are the sweetest and kindest man. There is no past tense to put that in. Rest well my friend.

My condolences are extended to Tom's beautiful family.
your friend always, Sherry.

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