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Thomas LALLY Obituary

LALLY - Thomas J., of Oakdale, LI, on May 16, 2014. Beloved husband of Eileen Lally. Devoted father of Thomas (Muriel) Lally, Suzanne (Richard) Barry, Jeremy (Jennifer) Lally and Brendan (Amber) Lally. Fond step-father of Philip (Christine) Della Rocca and Deirdre (Frank) Scalise. Cherished grandpa of Morgan, Tommy, Scott, Jake, Frankie, Joey, Gianna, Nicole and Jesus. Dear brother of seven. Proud owner and proprietor of The Jon Thomas Inne, Brightwaters, LI, with his business partner and friend John Hickey. Reposing at The Fredrick J. Chapey & Sons West Islip Funeral Home, 1225 Montauk Hwy. (1/4 mile west of the Robert Moses Cswy.). Celebration of the Liturgy of Christian Burial Monday 10:00 AM at St. Patrick's R.C. Church, Bay Shore, LI. Interment to follow at Calverton National Cemetery, Calverton, LI. Visiting Saturday 7:00 PM until 9:30 PM and Sunday 2:00 PM until 4:30 PM and 7:00 PM until 9:30 PM. In lieu of flowers, donations in Thomas' name may be made to Make-A-Wish Foundation, 1 Comac Loop, Suite 1A1, Ronkonkoma, NY 11779.

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Published by Newsday on May 17, 2014.

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Paul

May 11, 2021

Hey did Tom like lobsters? How ironic that JH doesn’t eat them. Tom is enjoying our dilemmas with his watchful eye.❤

Paul

May 11, 2019

Tommy, did you see that Kentucky Derby? We would have had some day with the pools!❤

May 22, 2014

Just heard the news. Tom and John had a special connection with our family since the beginning of JTI. Rest in peace

Dianne and Bill Bendernagel

May 21, 2014

I am so sorry to hear about Tom. I worked for JTI during a personally difficult time. Tom showed me compassion and humor. I pray that the entire Lally family can find peace. God bless the Lally,s and Godspeed.

Elizabeth Barry

Sean O'Neill

May 20, 2014

My condolences to the entire Lally family.

Donna Kolb

May 19, 2014

I am so sadden by the news of Tom's passing. He was a friend to many that called Jon Thomas Inn home. I feel so, my condolences to his family. ~DK

Paul Solaski

May 18, 2014

Thanks for making us feel so special when it was you all along.
Paul & Myrill Solaski

Chris & Janine Malone

May 18, 2014

I met Tom when I started washing dishes for him at the JTI when I was sixteen in 1980. A very cool boss and even a better man as I continued to see him continually throughout the years. God Bless his family during this time of sadness.

Edward Albrecht

May 17, 2014

So sorry to hear about Tom. Knew him from School. He graduated in between and and my brother Billy. May you rest in peace.

Mike Arena

May 17, 2014

I just heard this terrible news. My deepest and sincere condolences to Eileen and all Tom's children and family, and John too. Tom was a true gentleman and proprietor in the classic tradition; probably had more laughs and good times at the JTI than any other establishment I've been in. Rest in peace, my friend; you will be missed by many.

John Higgins

May 17, 2014

Very sad to hear of Tom's passing. I grew up with Tom in Valley Stream.

Rich Pallonetti

May 17, 2014

We will never be able to forget Toms friendship, generosity, humor, and compassion. Great times were had at the JTI, his home, & Fire Island boat condo. The Pallonetti family expresses the deepest sympathy to Toms family & friends. Gone to soon, rest in peace.

John Sposato

May 17, 2014

You will truly be missed. Thank you for the friendship and the memories.

bart ackerson

May 17, 2014

good friend, you will be missed

Rusty & Barbara Stevens

May 17, 2014

Thanks for your friendship and all the great memories. Rest in peace. Our condolences to Eileen and your wonderful family. You will be missed.

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