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McLAUGHLIN - William, 34, formerly of West Islip. Billy passed away on September 3, 2009, after a long illness. Graduate of West Islip H.S. (1993) and Southampton College. Devoted son of the late Patricia, beloved brother of Tara McGuinness (Pete) & Kelly Farrell (Bob). Cherished grandson of Rene Conaughton and his late "Pop". Loved nephew of Matt & Eileen Conaughton. Uncle, cousin and friend. He especially loved his pets Myrtle & Connie. Donations in memory of Billy can be made to Suffolk SPCA (suffolkspca.org). Be at peace with Mommy & Pop.

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Published by Newsday on Sep. 8, 2009.

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ROCKSROY P BAILEY

September 3, 2025

Bill, you would have been 50 years old today. I do think about you from time to time, the memories seem fresh. Know that you're never forgotten, by those you touched and impacted. Bless you.

Tara

September 3, 2025

16 years without you.. so wrong..taken from us too soon. I hope you´re with Mommy, Rene & Pop. I feel your presence every day and miss you. XO

Diane

September 2, 2025

I can't believe you would have been 50 years old; that is too crazy to think about. I always thought you had physical similarities to my favorite actor Vince Vaughn..lol So anytime I see him in a movie I laugh, obviously because he is funny, but because it reminds me of you. Sorry so random this time, but its funny how random thoughts just pop in your head when this email comes in thats its been another year.

Tara

September 4, 2024

15 years of missing you Billy. So many memories but just wish you were with us to make more. So unfair. You´re spoken of & thought of every day. We´ll give Myrtle some extra TLC for you today. Your love for all creatures big & small lives on in all of us. Rest peacefully Billy.

Diane

September 3, 2024

In loving memory of a wonderful person. It's crazy how it's been 15 years.

Tara

June 25, 2023

Happy 48th birthday in heaven. You are so missed and loved. But there´s so much of you in Matt...he´s just like you. Bittersweet. Hope you´re celebrating today with Rene, Pop and mommy. Love you Billy

Sheadog

February 27, 2023

Murray- been thinking about you a lot lately, most recently when my Bruins spanked your Islanders, but always around St. Paddy´s Day. Wish you were still here, but appreciate all the laughs and good time we had together. Until we meet again.
Sheadog

Michelle

September 3, 2022

I still recall all the times we had. You were such a fun, passionate and vibrant person. You were always so full of energy and thoughts. You could talk for hours, it be hard to stop the conversation. I am still in disbelief that you are gone. I hope you are providing great convos with everyone up there. We all miss you. Until we meet again you are always in our hearts

Diane

September 2, 2022

I´m sure you are doing amazing things in heaven. Thoughts of you on this day always.

Diane

September 2, 2021

Hi Bill,
I just watched the new 9/11 documentary on Hulu and it made me think of you. I remember my brother telling the story of how you drove him and my grandfather home over the bridge at a million miles an hour as you were looking backwards towards the city while driving...they were too in shock to even say anything. Looking back at it they did laugh telling that story saying typical Bill driving...lol Hope you are keeping Chandler company :)

Michelle

September 2, 2020

Bill,
Every year this date comes and I still cannot believe you are gone. You were a big part of my sisters life and to our family. Tomorrow is my nieces birthday and we will celebrate knowing you are looking down upon my sisters family. Miss you!

Diane

September 2, 2020

I'm sure you found your place in heaven doing wonderful things with all the animal spirits :) I can't believe it's been 11 years.

Diane

January 11, 2015

5 years have passed but I still remember all of the good times and bad as if it were yesterday. My daughter was born on your day of passing, so I will have a happy memory each year in your honor.

Ed Hammer

September 11, 2012

Miss you buddy. Always feel you around me. I still remember the time when we went to see the K-Rock dysfunctional family picnic when we got to see all of the best bands from the front row. Still feels like yesterday when we got sprayed with chemical fire extinguishers after the Green Day drummer set his drums on fire. Always thinking of you. The times we went fishing off the babylon docks will always be cherished, and the time we all got together in the Hamptons with Shea, Andy, and all of our Marist buddies, was one of the best times ever.

Tara

September 3, 2012

Thoughts of Billy everyday, but especially on the 3rd anniversary of his passing. Sad day...miss him very much.

Rocksroy Bailey

June 29, 2012

Dear Bill, Rocks here wow Bro. I'am lost for words. You're were a great friend and mentor. I will also remember your smile and laugh. God Bless.

Michl Santino

July 22, 2011

Wow it's coming up to 2 years since you've been gone. I still think of you all the time. I hava a patient that comes in and reminds me of you. Never thought there would be a twin out there. lol Hope you are making everyone laugh up there like you did here!

Edward Hammer

September 8, 2010

Dear Bill,
We used to talk five times a day every day until the end. But even though there is no phone number where you are now, I still hear you. I think about you every day. It comforts me to know that when it's my time to see my mom and dad again, that you''ll be right there with them to welcome me. I miss you and I love you with every ounce of my being. See you later brother,
ED

Michl Santino

September 5, 2010

Dear Billy, I started to write to you the other day, but I was at work and couldn't. I wanted to say you are truly missed and your are never forgotten. Hopefully before the end of the month we will make over to visit you.

matt conaughton

September 4, 2010

dear billy,
happy first anniversary in heaven with mommy and pop.
we are still very sorry.
I hope you would have approved of most of my handling of your belongings/affairs.
love,uncle matty

matt conaughton

September 4, 2010

dear billy,
happy first anniversary in heaven with mommy and pop.we are still so sorry.I hope you would have approved of most of my handling of your belongings/affairs.

love,uncle matty

Tara

September 3, 2010

Can't believe Billy's gone a year. Glad we shared a laugh together before he passed..even if it was at my expense. Miss him.. his life was not what it should have been. He should be here with us. I put a bouquet of yellow flowers on his grave today.. yellow is for peace.. I want for him to be at peace... not fighting the fight he fought in the end. Peace and love to my brother Billy. xo

Michl Santino

July 24, 2010

At times something happens and I'm reminded of you, today is one of those days. Miss you!

Valerie and Tom Ryan

September 11, 2009

Our meetings were brief but we knew you were a special person. You will be missed. Valerie and Tom Ryan

Janet Santino

September 11, 2009

Bill, We want to thank you so much for helping us on Sept,11,2001.You located my Son Robert on that day & for that we will be Eternally Greatful for your kind act.Love Janet & Bob Santino.You will be Cherished in our Heart's always.Rest in Peace with God.

Janet Santino

September 11, 2009

Bill, will always remain in our Heart's.He found our Son Robert alive on 9/11/2001.God Bless Bill for this Heartfelt act of kindness. Janet& Bob Santino. You will be remembered always.

Erin Conaughton

September 11, 2009

Billy,
You were such an awesome cousin. I miss you so much and I know your in a better place. I will always remember how much fun we had and myrtle =). You were the most incredible person and I could not have asked for a better cousin. I'll never forget you and I will always miss you.

Love always,
Your cousin,
Erin

Brian Young

September 11, 2009

Tara and Kelly -

So sorry to hear about the loss of Billy. Your families will be in our thoughts and prayers.

All the best,
Brian Young

Diane Santino

September 10, 2009

Dear Bill -
I am at a loss for words at this moment; so many emotions running through me right now. I honestly can not believe this day has come. We had many ups and downs in our 4 years together, as any couple does; You will always be remembered and missed.

Edward Hammer

September 10, 2009

Bill was one of the best friends anyone could have hoped for. He was as much as a member of my family as anyone. When I lost my mother in April to cancer she was still asking him to move in with my family so he could be with loved ones. When my father passed away this past October Bill called my mother and talked for hours and it really meant so much to her. His gentle and caring nature was the biggest attribute given to him by his mother. Bill, I miss you every moment of every day and I wish we could have had more time under better circumstances. You will be forever in my heart and mind. I am so sorry to all friends and family that were close to him because he was such a special person.
With all my love and prayers, may you be at peace with your mom and pops.

Ed Hammer

Michelle Santino

September 10, 2009

Hey Bill,
My family truely loved you and wished nothing but the best for you. I remember when you first met my sister. She told me that you called about your samples and kept talking to her, till it was 5pm and she had to leave work. She was like Bill ummm its after 5pm and I was suppose to leave, do you want my cell? And then boom you were living with us! Lol! Chandler says hello! There are so many memories, I could sit here all day writing them, but it won't bring you back. We know you went through a lot of ups and downs with your health. You will be missed.

Nancy Zink

September 10, 2009

I knew Billy in his early stages of life and remember him as a cute, smiling young boy.
You were taken away, way to young but it is comforting to know you are now pain free and with your mom and pop.
Rest in peace Billy.
My prayers are with the entire family.

Michelle Rusk

September 10, 2009

I met Murray (Bill) when he flew to Arizona to be a groomsman in our wedding. He arrived a couple of days before the wedding, and I was a bundle of nerves. He made it his mission to make me laugh the entire night. That was the beginning to a very special friendship. Murray- Thank you for always being there to listen, for all of the laughter, for being Uncle Murray to the kids, and for your heart of gold. We love you so much and miss you terribly.

Maureen Louney-Heffernan

September 9, 2009

I am so sorry for your family's loss. I only met Billy a couple of times when I was at Marist with Tara, but I remember how much Tara cherished him as her brother. I'm sure he is up there with your mom now and watching over his loving family. Please know that my family and I will keep you all in our prayers. God Bless!

John O'Brien

September 9, 2009

I went to high school with Bill and will always remember the smile he had on his face every day and that he was always laughing and making people feel better. He was a great guy and will be deeply missed. My sincerest condolences to Bill's family.

September 9, 2009

Elizabeth McCarthy

September 9, 2009

Hey Bill - -We had some Great times over the years - -thanks for being such a good friend to me. You will always have a piece of my heart.
Love always, Liz McCarthy-Woods

To his friends: please be sure to visit his facebook page:

http://www.facebook.com/home.php#/profile.php?id=624214874

Regina Bellisari

September 8, 2009

We knew Bill from the MTA and would stop by and visit every once in a while in Staten Island. He was a great guy and will surely be missed.

Our deepest sympathies for your loss.

Steven and Regina Bellisari

Tim Conaughton

September 8, 2009

Rest in Peace Billy. The Wonk will always be in my thoughts and prayers. Love your Cousin Timmy

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