BETHLEHEM - Constance A. Wheary, of Bethlehem, died peacefully, Monday, Oct. 9, 2023.
Constance was born in Shamokin, a daughter of Bronislaw "Ben" and Helen (Gryzbowski) Wisnewski. Her two great loves were her family and her Catholic faith.
Constance was educated at St. Stanislaus Kosta School and Shamokin High School.
Constance was happily married for 56 years to Jack Wheary, with whom she raised three children, Christine, John and Jennifer.
Constance's dream, which she worked tirelessly to achieve, was that each of her children would be a college graduate. Through hard work, creativity, tenacity and sheer force of will, she succeeded. For this her kids are forever grateful.
Constance was the proud and adoring grandmother of Karla, Jillian and Noah.
She never turned down a yard sale or a visit to Boscov's to seek out gifts for her three precious treasures. She also never turned down a chance to celebrate a family occasion by raising a glass with her daughter-in-law, Michelle, and son-in-law, Paul.
Constance kept her nieces, nephews and cousins close to her heart and in her prayers.
A lifelong bookkeeper, she worked at Lockett's Dress Shop and then began a 27-year career working for St. Stanislaus, St. Michael, St. Stephen and ultimately Our Lady of Hope parishes in Shamokin.
Constance traveled as much as possible upon retirement, visiting Mexico, Alaska, Aruba, Indiana, Nova Scotia, Scotland, London and Ireland. Unafraid of change and always up for an adventure, Constance began a new life moving to Bethlehem with her beloved husband Jack, in 2013.
Constance always endeavored to look her best. Her signature style was a brightly colored blouse and skirt, sparkly beads, rings on every finger and meticulously applied bright red lipstick. She possessed an unparalleled collection of attention-grabbing hats and wore one of them to Sunday Mass each week for decades. For anyone she cared about, Constance ended every conversation not with goodbye, but with the phrase "Bless you and I love you."
High spirited and ever faithful, Constance will be forever missed by her family and friends. Bless you and we love you, Connie.
WHEARY - Constance A. Wheary, of Bethlehem. A Mass of Christian Burial was celebrated at 10:30 a.m. Friday, Oct. 13, at Sacred Heart of Jesus Catholic Church, 210 E. Northampton St., Bath. Interment will be held privately with the family in Sacred Heart Parish Cemetery, Bath. In lieu of flowers, consider donating in Constance's honor to Holy Family Manor, 1200 Spring St., Bethlehem 18018, or at holyfamilysl.org. Arrangements are under the care and direction of the George G. Bensing Funeral Home LLC, Village of Moorestown-Bath.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
3 Entries
Louanne Drumheiser
November 2, 2023
I am so sorry to hear of Connie's passing. I have so many fond memories of our trips together. I will continue to keep Jack and her family in my prayers.
Follow
Get email updates whenever changes are made.
Send flowers
Consider sending flowers.
Add photos
Share their life with photo memories.
Plant trees
Honor them by planting trees in their memory.
Donate in Memory
Make a donation in memory of your loved one.
Share this page
Invite other friends and family to visit the page.
Nancy Readinger
October 21, 2023
My deepest condolences for the family who always made me feel welcome in their home.
Laura M. De Castro
October 16, 2023
The BenignHematology Section at UPMC and personally want to express ouur deepest condolences for the passing of Mrs. Constance. I got to know, like and admire Mrs, Constance through her dearest ddaughter Christine that always showed such a deep admiration and love from her mother. Peace to Mrs. Constance soul and blessing to the Wheary family especially Mr. Jack Wheary during these trial times.
Love,
Showing 1 - 3 of 3 results
Funeral services provided by:
George G. Bensing Funeral Home, Inc.2165 Community Drive, Bath, PA 18014-9503

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read more
We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read more
Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.
Read moreIf you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read more
Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read more
You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read more
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read more
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read more