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Patricia Louise "Patti" Picha

1954 - 2025

Patricia Louise "Patti" Picha obituary, 1954-2025

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Patricia Picha Obituary

Sept. 20, 1954 – Oct. 5, 2025
Patti Picha has followed in the footsteps of her paternal grandfather, Mike Picha, in many ways. He came to Alaska during the Klondike gold rush to help Puyallup farmer friends, the Richters, with their store in Skagway. This included drumming up customers when ships arrived with a new batch of greenhorns and protecting the store safe at night by sleeping next to it. He also tried his hand at mining near Dawson City. Mike eventually returned to Puyallup with funds to support his own farming efforts, plus a gold nugget that Patti and her sisters shared wearing as a pendant.
Patti was born in Puyallup to Warren and Jean (Grimme) Picha in 1954, the youngest of four children raised on the family berry/rhubarb farm near Puyallup. Before she was old enough to work in the fields with her family, Patti often spent her days entertaining herself, within eyesight, in the many mud puddles. Farm life honed Patti's strong work ethic, and time spent outdoors developed and nurtured her love for wild places.
After graduating from Puyallup High School, Patti earned an undergraduate recreation degree from Central Washington University and a graduate degree in student personnel administration from Western Washington University. During her college summers, she worked with teenagers in the U.S. Forest Service-sponsored Youth Conservation Corps (YCC) programs in Washington State. In 1977, while assisting with a pilot year-round residential YCC program at the Cispus Environmental Center near Randle, Washington, she met her future husband Barry Whitehill.
Career wise, Patti first spent a couple years at Centralia Community College as student activities director, followed by 11 years at Whitman College as Coordinator of Outdoor Programs. There were a couple of "missing years" as she put it, in Kearney, Nebraska, outside of higher education but this ultimately led to a position as Director of the Student Union Building at Mesa State University (Colorado Mesa University) for seven years.
Like her grandfather before her, in 2001 Patti offered to quit her job at Mesa State, sell her home in Grand Junction, and move to Alaska to help her friend Barry raise his young sons, Callison and Kai, after the death of Barry's wife Betsy. For someone who never pictured herself as a mother, this proposal was monumental. Her decision led to wrestling, basketball, soccer, sleep-over, and PTA commitments. It also facilitated Patti's return to college careers, along with marrying Barry in 2007. Patti eventually became the Director of Career Services at the University of Alaska Fairbanks (UAF), retiring from that position in 2014. Almost immediately, she was rehired as an adjunct academic advisor at the UAF Community & Technical College. Patti continued working with students until a few months before her passing.
With the exodus of kid activities, Patti branched out to regular donations of her coveted O negative blood to the Fairbanks Community Blood Bank; volunteering weekly at the Stone Soup Cafe; floating numerous remote rivers in Alaska, the Lower 48, Finland, and Latvia (her favorite was the Ivishak River within Arctic National Wildlife Refuge); dipnetting sockeyes on the Kenai with her good friend Doug Downs; hosting a variety of friends, family, and travelers to Alaska at the home she shared with Barry; and catering to Tink, an aging, anxiety-ridden German wire-haired pointer hunting dog that Patti often referred to as her "albatross".
Like her grandfather, Mike, and his daughter, Verle (her aunt), Patti succumbed to pancreatic cancer. She is survived by her husband, Barry Whitehill of Fairbanks, Alaska; son, Callison of Brighton, Utah; son, Kai (Greer) of Davenport, Iowa; her sister, Linda (Larry Sharpe) of Ellensburg, Washington; brother, David (Kay) of Colfax, North Carolina; and sister, Beth (Frank Hesketh) of Olympia, Washington.
Special thanks to the myriad of family and friends who hosted Patti as she received chemotherapy at Virginia Mason Hospital in Seattle since October 2023; all the neighbors who provided food, overflow rooms for visitors, and snow removal; Dr. Picozzi's pancreatic cancer team at Virginia Mason; and the Foundation Health Partners Hospice Services in Fairbanks.
Donations in Patti Picha's honor can be made to Bread Line, Inc. at breadlineak.org to support the Stone Soup Cafe and help fight hunger in Fairbanks or to Backcountry Hunters and Anglers at backcountryhunters.org/get-involved/donate.
A celebration of her adventurous life will be held at 5 p.m. on Monday, Oct. 20, 2025, at Gather, 714 3rd Avenue in downtown Fairbanks. Everyone is welcome to bring and share potluck dishes, nonalcoholic drinks, and their special stories and memories of Patti.

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Published by Daily News-Miner on Oct. 10, 2025.

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Steve Adams

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My condolences on the loss of Patti.

Jamie Hamilton

October 16, 2025

Patti will always live in my heart. She is one of the most gracious and generous people on the face of the earth and in the womb of creation. Her spirit is alive with her beauty. Even though I live on the east coast, far from Alaska, our college time as friends at CWU was the best and those memories, especially those graced with laughter and discoveries, carried us into keeping contact over all these years. I was blessed to see her this summer and to witness her courage and tenacity and love as she made it clear she was going to attend her family's reunion and then after that see what was in store for her. In typical Patti fashion she was committed to the here and now and grateful for her wonderful life, full of blessings. Thank you Patti for you,
With love,
Jamie

Robin West

October 14, 2025

Barry, I can't begin to imagine what Patti's illness and loss has done to your family. Know that your friends are many. Shout if you ever need anything.

John Redifer

October 13, 2025

I absolutely loved Patti. She was such a great friend and coworker. I hope she did not suffer.

Bob Parr

October 12, 2025

I worked at CTC where Patti was one of the student advisors. Most days I would drop by and say hello and maybe have a short chat. We would often talk about one of the students we both worked with. Patti always had a smile and kind words for faculty, staff, and students. I retired in 2018 and occasionally would run into Patti at a local store. Smiles and a hug. My condolences to the family and other friends.

Jim Brader

October 11, 2025

Barry,
My condolences on the loss of Patti. She was such a wonderful person and had such a positive impact on so many. May we cherish our memories of her.

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Marlee Khastou

October 10, 2025

Patti has been a warm wonderful fun adventurous and always interesting long time friend. I will miss her hugely.

Hannah Hill

October 10, 2025

Patti was one of the first volunteers I met at the Bread Line. Working alongside her was a gift - hearing her stories & laughing along loudly started my mornings right. Patti shone so bright & Stone Soup Cafe was lucky to have her. This whole world was lucky to have her. All our love to all of hers.

Bruce Wiseman

October 10, 2025

Barry and family,
I'm so terribly sorry to hear the sad news of Patti's passing. Prayers and condolences to you all. Barry, know that our door is always open on your journeys south.

Tim

October 10, 2025

I spent 3-4 days with Patti. We were passing through on an expedition to the Brooks Range and stayed in the Yurt. She was the nicest women, took us out to run some errands we probably weren't supposed be out running. She understood we were exhausted either from our flight or coming back from our adventure with Barry. What an amazing experience to spend time at their house, they were both so inviting. It will be a memory and life changing experience and I will soon bring back my family to visit and remanence. Rest in peace Patti, we'll cross paths again in the future.

Don Foley

October 10, 2025

My sincere condolences to Barry, Cal and Kai as they deal with this tragic loss. Patti simply warmed up a room the minute she walked into it, and wanted to help everyone, in any way she could. She had a special ability to connect with people across a broad spectrum of beliefs.

Patti's kindness, and willingness to do anything for anyone, are attributes that the world needs more of. She has definitely left her positive mark on the world, and will be missed. Smile and laugh with someone today, that will honor Patti's spirit.

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