Search by Name

Search by Name

Carol Tolson Obituary

Carol Jean Tolson, 68, died on November 25, 2009 following a brave battle with cancer. She graduated from St. Mary’s School of Nursing and worked for over 40 years in various nursing positions. During later years in her life, she served on the Board for the Family Enrichment Partnership of Hatteras Island as well as volunteering for Dare County Community Health Care. A devoted wife, mother, grandmother, and friend, Carol will be remembered for her wonderful sense of humor, optimistic spirit, and loving heart. Born on January 22, 1941, in Appleton, WI, she was the daughter of the late Michael and Lucille Donnermeyer. She was also predeceased by her son, Remy Andre Perot. She is survived by her husband, Larris Tolson; two daughters, Suzanne Ackley-Perot and husband, Donald of Syracuse, NY, Annette Perot of Durham; two sisters, NorRita Corsmier and husband, Fritz of Appleton, WI, Mary Donnermeyer of Kaukauna; two brothers, Richard Donnermeyer and wife Carol of Waupun, WI, and Michael Donnermeyer of Manitowoc, WI; two grandsons, Bruce and Connor Ackley-Perot of Syracuse, NY; several nieces and nephews. A memorial service, honoring the life of Carol Tolson, will be held at the Church of Reconciliation in Chapel Hill, NC at 1:00 p.m. Friday, December 4, 2009 and at Little Grove Methodist Church in Frisco, NC on Saturday, December 12, 2009 at 10:00 a.m. A reception will immediately follow each service. Internment will be private. The family expresses heartfelt appreciation for the staff of Duke Hospital, Hillcrest Convalescent Home and Duke Hospice/Hock Family Pavilion for the loving, compassionate care they provided during the final days of Carol’s life. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Duke Homecare & Hospice (Office of Development, 4321 Medical Park Dr, Ste 101, Durham, NC 27704), Hatteras Island Cancer Foundation (PO Box 442, Hatteras, NC 27943), or Little Grove UMC (“Building Fund” in memo line, PO Box 310 Hatteras, NC 27943).

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The News & Observer on Dec. 1, 2009.

Memories and Condolences
for Carol Tolson

Not sure what to say?





5 Entries

December 1, 2009

larris and family
i can only think of the time carol came to nc.and stood in my living room at 4;30am and said i have just escaped.
her and fred.
we loved her and will miss her.
god bless.
larry @brenda

George &Ruby Good

December 1, 2009

Sorry to hear of your loss. May God be with you in your time of need and help you through these troubling times.

Mary Louise Perot

December 1, 2009

Remy and I are deeply saddened by the passing of Carol Jean. She fought very
hard and loved you all very much.
I recall seeing her this past June at
our grandson Bruce's high school graduation. She made the trip from
North Carolina to Syracuse, New York and this must have been very difficult
for her. I told her that she was in
our thoughts and prayers and she thanked me. I also mentioned to Bruce
that his grandma Carol must really love
him to make such a long trip to see him
graduate. We know that she will be
deeply missed by all her family and loved ones.

Mary Louise Perot ( Grandma Lou Lou)

Marilyn Simon

December 1, 2009

I am deeply saddened with the loss of your loved one. I share in your loss of my dear friend, who has without a doubt given me and countless others many many warm, fun and loving memories. Such a gracious lady. May all your loving memories sustain you now and in the years to come. Love to all, Marilyn.

December 1, 2009

Larris-

I've just heard the sad news about Carol and I wanted to let you know I am thinking about you.

My deepest sympathy to you and your family.

Sincerely,
Joe Morris
Beaufort

Showing 1 - 5 of 5 results

Make a Donation
in Carol Tolson's name

Memorial Events
for Carol Tolson

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

How to support Carol's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief

Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.

Read more
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
Ways to honor Carol Tolson's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more