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Charles Boyette Obituary
March 6, 1935 - March 13, 2016
Belhaven
Dr. Charles Otis Boyette, age 81, a resident of Belhaven, NC, died Sunday, March 13, 2016, at his home.
A celebration of his life will be held 2:00 p.m. Saturday, March 19, 2016, at the Wilkinson Center, 144 West Main Street, Belhaven, NC, officiated by Rev. Cris Noble and Rev. Craig Hagen. Burial will follow in Belhaven Community Cemetery. George Boyette III, Ed Boyette, Nicholas Cristiano, Ryan Boyette, Alan Batchler, Tim Johnson, Rod Lancaster and Russ Lancaster will serve as pallbearers. Honorary pallbearers are Bryson Boyette, John Jones, Nelda Jennette and Paul Batchler.
The family will receive friends 5:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m., Friday, March 18, 2016, at the Wilkinson Center.
Dr. Boyette was born in Chadbourn, Columbus County, NC, on March 6, 1935, son of the late George Otis Boyette, Sr. and the late Kiva Brown Boyette. He was a 1953 graduate of Chadbourn High School where he lettered in football, basketball and baseball. Following high school, he was awarded a scholarship to the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill where he majored in history and pre-med. In college he was captain of the wrestling team and also participated in football and track. After graduation in 1957, he attended the UNC School of Medicine, receiving his doctorate in 1961. He next served his country as a U.S. Navy Flight Surgeon until 1964. Dr. Boyette then relocated to Belhaven and established the C.O. Boyette Medical Clinic where he served the area until his death. He recently celebrated his 51st anniversary of practicing medicine in Belhaven.
Dr. Boyette had many professional and medical affiliations which included President of North Carolina Academy of Family Physicians; President of Beaufort County Community College Foundation (since 1985); Member of North Carolina Medical Society; Member of North Carolina Institute of Medicine; Member of Governor's Commission on Infant Mortality; Member of North Carolina Medical Directors Association; Medical Director of: Hyde County Health Care Units, Hyde County Health Department, Hydeland Home Health, Hydeland Hospice, Hyde County EMS, and Cross Creek Healthcare Facility. He was Chief of Staff at Pungo District Hospital for 19 years and active medical staff for 48 years.
On a political level, he served as Chairman of the Belhaven Democratic Precinct, Council Member of the Town of Belhaven and member of Beaufort County Democratic Executive Committee. He was Mayor of the Town of Belhaven for 30 years and former Chairman of the Beaufort County Mayor's Association.
His awards include Belhaven Chamber of Commerce Citizen of the Year, North Carolina Family Physician of the Year, Governor of North Carolina Order of the Long Leaf Pine, National Family Physician of the Year-Runner-up, and Honorary Fireman of Belhaven. The award he was most proud of was the United States Country Doctor of the Year, as his patients meant as much to him as he did to them.
Dr. Boyette was a long-time member of Trinity United Methodist Church in Belhaven. He was also an Honorary Member of the Belhaven Fire and Rescue Department. His hobbies included gardening, swimming, boating, water-skiing, wildlife conservation and improving the Belhaven community and area.
Survivors include a son: Charles O. "Chuck" Boyette, Jr. and wife Melissa of Wilmington; three daughters: Marie B. Cristiano of Greenville, Cherryl B. Sullivan and husband Troy of Alexandria, VA and Carla Boyette of Charleston, SC; a brother, James O. Boyette of Bigfork, MT, and seven grandchildren: Nicholas Cristiano, Ryan Boyette, Alissa Boyette, Bryson Boyette, Colin Sullivan, Evan Sullivan and Nathan Boyette. Dr. Boyette was predeceased by three brothers: George O. Boyette, Jr., William O. Boyette and Robert O. Boyette.
In lieu of flowers the family kindly requests donations be made in support of the efforts to re-open the hospital in Belhaven, a cause Dr. Boyette was very passionate about. Checks can be sent to Pungo Medical Center (PMC), P.O. Box 220, Belhaven, NC 27810, or to the charity of one's choice in his memory.
Dr. Boyette's video tribute may be viewed and condolences may be offered to the family by visiting www.paulfuneral home.com
Paul Funeral Home of Belhaven is honored to serve the Boyette family.
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Memories and Condolences
for Charles Boyette
N B
February 19, 2022
He was a great doctor, and grandfather.
I miss him so bad that I still go to his Grave and talk to him
Tammy Williams
March 24, 2019
I miss him so bad that I still cry over him and that I still go to his grave and talk to him .
Wena Adams
March 23, 2019
Time has gone by and you are missed more each day. You were always there for my family. Love you Dr. O.
Ray Russell
July 24, 2016
I was a teammate of Charlie's on the University of North Carolina wrestling team. Charlie was the captain of the team my freshman year. What a fine teammate and fine person, a model as an athlete, intellectually, and as a human being. The most down to earth solid person you'd ever want to meet.
Steve Wilson
April 8, 2016
My prayers are with the entire Boyette family at this difficult time. I first met Dr Boyette in the late 70's as a brand new Glaxo Pharma drug rep. Dr Boyette treated me with such kindness and great respect. We continued our friendship for many decades thru NC Acd of FP and other organizations. I last saw him in Chapel Hill at the UNC-Duke football game this fall with most of his family with him. I will always remember him as a vigorous advocate for Belhaven in general and a friend of all who value "small town values."
Connie Adams
March 30, 2016
Our deepest Sympathy for the loss of Dr. Boyette. He was a wonderful person and will be greatly missed. I would see him at Cee Bee's marina and yes, he was so passionate about saving the hospital in Belhaven. We spoke about this often. May you find some peace knowing he was loved by many.
Sheri Merrill Baack
March 21, 2016
My condolences to the entire Boyette family. Your father was our family doctor for as long as I can remember. He cared for my parents, we three kids, and even my own children when they had accidents, or the occasional case of pink eye while visiting their grand parents. My mother, Carolyn, enjoyed every minute that she worked along side Dr. Boyette. He was one of those people that you thought would live forever! My prayer is for you to be comforted during your grieving.
Judith Buckamneer
March 21, 2016
My prayers for Dr. Boyette and his family, friends and coworkers. We will all remember him in our special ways. He has done so much to and for all that concerend him. I thank Dr, Boyette for all the medical help he has given to my husband during his elderly years. I've known him for a very short time, but for others it has been many years. My sincere condolences to his family, during this time of greiving. Remeber the good years and the ones you will behold in the future. Dr. Boyette will have a special place in all the hearts that he has touched over the many years of his servive. From what I understand he truly was a trooper all the way around. He will be missed and has been touched by many. He may have passed in body but his memories will live on for the future to behold. Bless the footprints of his life and legacy. Peace be with the family.
William Buckamneer
March 21, 2016
In 1973 I was involved in a terrible car accident along with my four children. We all suffered serious unjuries. Dr Boyette was there for us and saw that our injuries were healed. In 1975 I aquired bladder cancer and again he was there. I have very high blood pressure that he had been treating since 1975. I was born in 1934, Nov.,25, 1934. I am four months older than he. My heart is so sad that I can't do the same for him. He has my prayers and I don't know what I'll do without him. He was a wonderful doctor, a big credit to the medical field.
Delphia Williams
March 20, 2016
Your father was a special man. May God be with all the family at this time. He will be greatly missed by everyone and the town. He will never be forgotten.
george and paula elliott
March 20, 2016
Dear Family,
Just know that your father will surely be missed. May the Lord bless and give peace to you upon great loss. May God guide and keep. Love George and Paula
Elliott
Matthew Jennette Jr
March 19, 2016
Chuck and Cheryl I am sorry for the loss of your father. You and the family are in my prayers. Dr Boyette will be missed by many.
Oran,Jeannie Benson
March 19, 2016
So very sorry.We have lost such a good doctor.
Judy Arthur
March 19, 2016
A man with many titles, but one spirit. "Doc" will be missed by all whom knew him personally or professionally. His works will remain a part of Belhaven for as long as life remains and the history of the Town's most honored and highly regarded and prominent citizens is passed on from generation to generation. My prayers and thoughts are with his children and their beautiful mother at this time. The bike has been parked and the stethoscope has been permanently retired and it is time for you to rest eternally in peace with God. Thank you for so many jobs well done, "Doc".
Peggy Satterthwai
March 19, 2016
Dr. Boyette has been my doctor since I was 18 an I am now 71. He was always good to me and I loved him also. Dr. B, as I called him, was the greatest physician I could ever know and I don't know what I will do now. My prayers go to all his family and I am so sorry I couldn't make it to the funeral, but I really wanted to go.
Robin Halsey
March 19, 2016
Of course my condolences go out to Dr. Boyette's family, friends and colleagues; but also my thoughts are with the townspeople of Belhaven. The loss of Dr. Boyette is a also huge loss to the community where he fought so hard to improve not only the health of the citizens, but also the economics, among other needs. He will be sorely missed.
Luther Davis
March 19, 2016
Beaufort County has lost one of its most active citizens and his legacy will be long remembered. It was my good fortune to know him and serve with him on the Foundation Board at Beaufort County Community College. We both loved the college and served for many happy years together.
Rebecca Ivey
March 19, 2016
Prayers for all who knew and loved Dr. Boyette. We lost a truly special man.
David Dickson
March 18, 2016
Dr. Boyette was a client and a friend for over 20 years. He was an inspiration to me and my family on what a physician could and should be. He was tough as nails and yet as compassionate a person who ever lived. I have never known a finer gentleman and community champion. We have all lost a treasure and Belhaven has lost its favorite son. Condolences to all who knew and loved this fine man.
Joy Shepard
March 18, 2016
In loving memory of an amazing physician.
JoAnne Eure
March 18, 2016
The passing of a leader has taken place, leaving a void causing many to feel lost. Dr. Boyette loved the patients he cared for and his community. Eastern North Carolina has lost a dear friend.
Melissa Davis-Green
March 18, 2016
Am true example of what a doctor is. You will truly be missed. Prayers are with the family.
Ken Hawkins
March 18, 2016
Many doctors have saved many a life but " Doc saved mine". Is a simple "Thank You" sufficient, probably not, but that was all Doc expected. He had the gift of making one feel like they were his only patient when you were in his presence. Thank you Doc for my college entrance physical in 1965 and for taking care of me all these years. Maybe now you can rest in peace knowing you did all you could for your patients, your community, your state, and your country.
Tommy and Myrtle Kirk
March 18, 2016
We will miss you Dr Boyette.
Sandy and Jimmy Everette
March 18, 2016
Finding the proper words to express our grief in the death of Dr. B is one of the harder things I have done. He was our doctor and friend for 45 years. He found Jimmy's cancer in 1983 and he kept us going, even when we were in the road.
Our prayers and thoughts are with Marie, Chuck, Cheryl and Carla and with his staff. Wanda, Sharron, Lisa and Hook are also in our prayers as they were his staff and friends for years.
Belhaven has lost a fighter and friend. His patients have lost their Dr. B. Educators have lost a great friend as he loved his teachers and appreciated all they have done to help children.
Rest In Peace, Dr. B.
Jimmy and Sandy Everette
Sonya and John Jones
March 18, 2016
A void that will not be replaced but a man that will never be forgotten. Thank you Dr.Boyette for teaching me and showing me how its done. Thank you for being a true friend and caretaker to us all. Thank you to the Boyette family for sharing him with all of us. Rest now, thou good and faithful servant.
Dr. Boyette's 80th Birthday Party at the office (Room 4)
Karen Bell
March 18, 2016
I pray because I KNOW GOD is in control, I cry because my heart is breaking! I have had the honor and privilege to work with Dr. Boyette as his scribe for the past 16 months. He has taught me more than I could even begin to describe. He loved his patients and did every thing he could to make them better. He was their friend, psychiatrist, podiatrist, oncologist, neurologist, urologist, nephrologist.....and the list goes on! If he couldn't fix it, he would send them to a specialist. He could talk to everyone in such a way to make them feel special. He was my friend and I loved him dearly. I feel lost.....I'm not sure what God has planned for me, but I don't think there will EVER be another doctor like him! I pray that God will be with his family (in which he bragged on all the time). He was very proud of them (especially those grandkids)! I also pray for the ones he was very close to (his co-workers, friends and patients)! May God give all of us peace and comfort at this very difficult time!! We love you Dr. B!!!
David Hollowell,RRT,ARCP
March 18, 2016
My condolences to the entire family of the loss of a great man. Dr. Boyette was a great doctor,humanitarian,and did public service for the greater needs of the community. I worked along side him at PDH for a few years but he was my familys personal physician for many years. My mom worked for him and my dad was a great supporter of Dr. B. In turn, Dr. B. was a great support of my dad and our family. He encouraged me to go to Repiratory school in Durham and now ive been a Duke for 20 years. I wouldn't have done that without Dr. Boyettes influence. I honor you sir with your service to our country, your commitment to your patients and you community based efforts. There is not many people like you. May God bless you and now you earned your reward and may you rest in peace.
Bea Dillon
March 18, 2016
What can you say about a man that was bigger than life....I've thought and thought and only one thing comes to mind, "well done, good and faithful servant." So glad you came our way.
Lessie Cuthrell
March 18, 2016
Thank you for the wonderful care you gave me. My family is very grateful.
Lessie Cuthrell and family
Cross Creek resident
GARY T. BRIGHT
March 18, 2016
THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS TO MARIE AND FAMILY
Celeste Price
March 17, 2016
My deepest condolences to the family of Dr. Charles O. Boyette. I could never conjure words to describe his proficiency in medicine and politics. Rest Well Dr Boyette... Job well done
Marion Blount
March 17, 2016
To the Boyette family. I pray that God will strengthen you in this most difficult time.
Ashley Chase
March 17, 2016
I have enjoyed living down the road from Dr Boyette the past several years. My kids and I have spent many days visiting with the emus and the beautiful peacocks as well. My thoughts and prayers are with the family of Dr. Boyette. May he rest in peace.
March 17, 2016
To one of the finest physicians and men a young physician could ever encounter! Dr. Boyette was a mentor, role model, colleague and friend to me during the 7 years I worked in the Pungo District Hospital as a younger physician from 1993-2000. I still have the "key to the city" he gave me hanging in my office. This key still brings me many fond memories of working in Belhaven and with Dr Boyette and his patients.... Ralph J DeFriece M.D.
Michael Braddy
March 17, 2016
Dr. Boyette was a doctor and a friend for over 20 years and will never be forgotten. The world needs more people like him. Prayers to his family and friends.
Robin Keech
March 17, 2016
I am still in shock over the death of Dr Boyette. I guess, in my mind, he was someone you never thought of dying. Belhaven has lost a great asset! He has been my physician ever since I can remember. He took wonderful care of my children, husband, mother and grandparents. I could never thank him enough for his dedication to his profession, Pungo District Hospital, and to the people and town of Belhaven. Dr B you have truly made a difference in so many lives and leave behind a tremendous legacy. You will be sorely missed. RIP now sir.
Abbie Hopkins
March 17, 2016
There are no words that I can say,except we all are heartbroken over losing our Dr B....he is family to me....been with my family for over 45 years...my ,,my doctor....my friend......
Ronnie & Jean Clark
March 17, 2016
What a great man & Doctor! Thank you Dr. Boyette! Praying for your family, friends and PDH!
Genia Bryant
March 17, 2016
Sending our prayers to the family during this time
Gilbert & Lila Everett
March 17, 2016
Thank you for your service to your country, your community, and to your fellow man.
David Draughn
March 17, 2016
Condolences to family and Belhaven community. You've lost a one of a kind community leader. I learned a lot from Dr. Boyette during my time working for the Town of Belhaven.
Beverly and Anthony Waters
March 17, 2016
You all are in our thoughts and prayers. Praying for comfort and peace during this very difficult time and in the days ahead.
Debbie Foster
March 16, 2016
May God grant the family comfort and peace in the upcoming days weeks, and months. I have been blessed to know and work with an amazing physician blessed by God.
scott and teresa rose
March 16, 2016
marie, chuck, cheryl,carla and families thinking of you through this difficult time. scott had the pleasure of knowing dr. b along time. I however met him after scott and i got married. when I was 18 and went in the hospital on march 19, 1978 to have our oldest child and Belhaven had a ob dr at the time but he was out of town so dr boyette came to see me and took care of us during that time. dr b cared for our family along time with many more memories. I also was privileged to work for him and some of you and so did scott's mom for many years. he did so much for the town of Belhaven and his patients-- he will be greatly missed.
Carla Jo Simpkins
March 16, 2016
My condolences to the Boyette family and the Belhaven Community. Dr. Boyette was a very patient and caring physician. SIP Dr. Boyette and thanks for naming me Carla Jo.
Annette Smith
March 16, 2016
My condolences to the family. He will be truly missed by many. My doctor all of my life a great man. Rest in peace Dr. B..
Dawn Hamilton
March 16, 2016
I light this candle from my husband Tal who passed away last September and myself for Dr. Boyette was our doctor and friend.
Lydia Barrow
March 16, 2016
A good man and good doctor.... Sip
Calena Davis-Smith
March 16, 2016
I'm so sorry to hear about Dr. Boyette. My prayers are with the family.
Dawn Pinkham
March 16, 2016
Dr. Boyette was one of a kind. I do not know any doctor that was as dedicated to his work as he was. When no one else had an answer, he would always find one. He helped our family for many years. He will be missed so very much.
Vicky Cutrell
March 16, 2016
In loving memory of a great and caring country doctor! Enjoyed working with Dr. B at Cross Creek Health Care. He will be so greatly missed! I pray that his hard work to save the hospital will not be in vain!
Wade & Ollie Allen
March 16, 2016
We send our thoughts and love to his family...
Lola Jones
March 16, 2016
To the family of Dr. Boyette you all are in my thoughts and prayers. May God strengthen your during this difficult time.
Ms. Lola M. Family,
Gull Rock, Engelhard,NC
Kathy Grooms
March 16, 2016
Nick,
Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
SYBIL TURNER
March 16, 2016
NICK AND FAMILY
I am so sorry for your loss. Your co-workers at Highland have you in their thoughts and prayers
Sybil Turner
Catherine Causey
March 16, 2016
DR BOYETTE NEVER FORGOT HIS HOMETOWN OF CHADBOURN, NORTH CAROLINA. THE CAUSEY'S ARE DEEPLY SADDENED TO HEAR OF HIS DEATH!! PRAYERS FOR THE FAMILY. HE WILL BE SO GREATLY MISSED !!!
Vickie Dotson
March 16, 2016
Nick so sorry to hear about your Grandfather. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Claudette Spencer
March 16, 2016
Thank you for all you contributed to the city of BELHAVEN and surrounding cities. Your dedication and professionalism will not be in vain. Thank you for taking care of the Gibbs-Harvey-Mann-Spencer family for greater than 50 years. Hebrews 10:35-36. To the family God will strengthen you. RIP Dr. Boyette. You were on your post 24/7. Thank you.
Pope
March 16, 2016
May the fond memories be with you through this difficult time and always. Celebrate Life
Marilyn Smithwick
March 16, 2016
Heartfelt thoughts and prayers to the family of Dr.Boyette..He was our family doctor for many years and he will never be replaced.....
Mac and Nicole P Daniels
March 16, 2016
You will be greatly missed.
Mildred Bowman
March 16, 2016
A candle lite just like he was a light to our town and the people that he thought so much of. You will be missed.
Mildred Bowman
March 16, 2016
My deepest regrets and praying for the family of a great man, he was one of a kind Wesley and I thought a lot of this man. It is a sad time,but we all have the memories that we will never forget, a laugh or the smile he had on his face when someone did something he like. He may be gone but he will never be forgotten as long as we have our.
Connie Sanders-Guy
March 16, 2016
Didn't no him personally & have never seen him in person but I have heard so much abt him. At the time wen he came 2 Belhaven, I was a little girl & our family dr was Dr. Wright. My condolences 2 his family & the town of Belhaven. May he SIP/RIP
Paul Cunningham
March 16, 2016
We will miss you Charles.
I send sincere condolences to the Boyette family from his professional colleagues and friends here at the Brody School of Medicine in Greenville.
God Bless.
Frank(ie) Whitley
March 16, 2016
Thank you for being a friend
John Chrystal
March 16, 2016
What a truly most interesting man! His passing will leave a void in Belhaven that will be very difficult to fill. The winning of the NCAA Wrestling title when in College, was a tremendous feat that should acknowledged by the community along with all your other great accomplishments!
Sonja Foster
March 16, 2016
I will miss him very much. He was a great man,loved by many. Belhaven will miss him. May you find peace in your loss. May God give you peace.
March 16, 2016
A FINE DR AN ANOTHER VETERAN ,AN GREAT AMERICAN ALL AROUND GOOD PERSON HAS LEFT US.
Dawn Hamilton
March 16, 2016
You were a blessing to our community,as a doctor and friend and my prayers go out to your family and all those whose lives you touched.
Lorie Ramsey
March 16, 2016
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Janice Burnette
March 15, 2016
Marie and Nick, so sorry for your loss.
JC, Janice, and Justin Burnette
Veda Potter
March 15, 2016
The town of Belhaven will miss him. He was a great Doctor. When my son got shot by a deer hunter, he was there and new what to do to help save his life. And that's why he will always be great in my eyes. God be with the family and comfort them.
Terry Gibbs
March 15, 2016
Condolences to the family.
Aretina Spencer Artis
March 15, 2016
In memory of Edward and Ethel Gibbs. They trusted and believed in his services.
Wendy Smith
March 15, 2016
A memory for Belhaven that will shine forever. Giving thanks for his impact on my life and on the town of Belhaven. Thanks Dr. B..... You lived a splendid life. Go rest high.
Billy & Martha Baynor
March 15, 2016
Words can not express just how much this man did for this area. He touched many, many lives and will be truly missed.
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