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David Wendt Obituary

SEPTEMBER 28, 1952 - JUNE 18, 2008
His greatest pleasures were his grandson, entertaining others, traveling, golfing, boating, soduku, shagging, beach music, fast cars, nice watches, dressing to the nines, and never ending pretty summer days on the water. Repairing everything was his passion. If it was broken, he could fix it. Whether it be something as simple as a small engine or as complicated as your dreams. If he didn't have the answers, he would find them. He loved to help others help themselves. There was no struggle too big, no mountain too high, and no river too wide for David. He was there for everyone with a helping hand, big heart, listening ears, friendly advice, and a big smile. David owned and operated Van Products, Inc for 34 years. His love of people and his profession shined through in their day to day operations. Due to terminal illness he retired in 2004. He took this time as an opportunity to enjoy a life of leisure both at home and on the shore.
Survived by his wife, Libby Weaver Wendt of 32 years; daughter, Lindsey Wendt of Raleigh; son, Lee Wendt; daughter-in-law, Elisha; grandson, Zander of Wilmington; mother, Lucy Wendt of Raleigh; brother, Bill Wendt III and wife, Marilyn of Raleigh; sister, Julie Miller and husband, Steve of Wilmington; nieces and nephew, Bill Wendt IV, Laura Wendt, and Lucy Miller; brother-in-law, Gary Weaver and wife, Jane of Wilmington.
He was predeceased by his father, William H. Wendt, Jr. We will miss them both.
Special thanks to Dr. Mark Yoffie and staff of Cancer Centers of N.C. and Polly Addison, RN of Hospice of Wake County for their compassion and care.
In lieu of flowers, donations are accepted to Hudson Memorial Presbyterian Church and Hospice of Wake County, 1300 St. Mary's Street, Suite 400 Raleigh, NC 27605.
The family will receive friends at home 6:00-8:00 p.m. Friday, June 20, 2008.
The memorial service will be held 11:00 a.m. Saturday, June 21, 2008, Hudson Memorial Presbyterian Church - 4921 Six Forks Rd. - Raleigh, NC 27609. Visitation following in Westminster Hall.
Arrangements by the Cremation Society of the Carolinas.
Online condolences can be left at www.cremnc.com

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Published by The News & Observer from Jun. 20 to Jun. 21, 2008.

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Gary Yellen

July 23, 2008

I had just heard about David's passing from my daugher Abby and wanted to send along my deepest sympathies for a fine man and his wonderful family. And I want to represent a small chapter in David's life, the Winnebow Indian Princess tribe. Bless you all.

July 17, 2008

I'm so sorry for your loss. Sandy Tucker Moseley is my cousin and her computer is down now. She asked me to let you know that she is thinking of you and will be in touch with you soon.

Randy and Joleen Dunson

July 14, 2008

Absolutely true, there was nothing David could not mastermind and somehow manufacture to make it all happen for someone. We first met David in 1978 through VanProducts. David became our friend. He understood our needs. NOBODY does it like David did! We extend our deepest and most heartfelt sympathy to all of the Wendt family. David wherever you are now you must know we have missed you since the day you retired and stories we have in our memory of you will always make us smile. Rest in peace.

Lauren Bland

July 8, 2008

Libby, Lindsey, and Lee-
A great man who I came to know and love. I will miss him he was an amazing man and a second father to me for many years. I am sorry to hear of your loss. I love all of you very much and I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

Barbara Cox-Rhoades

June 27, 2008

Libby and family,
You may not remember me, but Julie and I were close friends at Western Carolina University and while I lived in Raleigh then we parted ways when she moved to Wilmington. I enjoyed sharing some fun times with her and her family at the Wendt home in Raleigh. David was always a special part of the family. He made me laugh and always made be feel welcomed. My mother died of cancer eight years ago and the disease takes them away, but not the memories you treasure forever. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I'm sorry I missed the services and visitation, but I was just notified of David's passing and I do regret I did not make the services. Libby, you are a special person and David was too. You will care him in your heart forever.

Mary Nurnberger

June 25, 2008

To Libby & Family: The service for David was perfect. Nothing else would have expressed how we felt about David. Love to you Libby & all your family. Love Mary

Bob Kinney

June 23, 2008

Dear Mrs. Wendt
I am sending my condolences to you and your family,I feel that i was fortunate to deal with Dave as I always called him .
Little did I know that He went by David but ,he never corrected me
and maybe thats why he always smiled when I addressed him that way.On several occasions I would stop by his office,just say Hey Dave and take a seat,and he would politely
stop what he was doing and shoot the breeze .I also remember him saying that he was going on the boat and to hook him up with some snacks once in awhile.I can honestly say that I dont think that I ever passed him in the V.P. hallway without him stopping to say hello.
A man I wish I got to know better
In closing Mrs.Wendt I feel the following is all about David
The truest measure of a man is how he treats those who can do nothing for him
May GOD bless you until you see Dave again and spend Eternity with him in Paradise
Bob Kinney (snackman)

Lee Williamson

June 22, 2008

I have only seen David a handful of times over the last 10 to 15 years. However every time we happen to cross paths, it's as though he, Libby, Lee and Lindsey still live next door. David was a genuine soul devoid of pretense. There was never a doubt he cared about you and was truly interested in your welfare. David was a wonderful man and I will miss him dearly.

William Sears, Jr.

June 21, 2008

David was the finest gentleman that I have ever had the pleasure of knowing. I knew there was something special about him the first day I met him at school in 1968. His compassion and invaluable assistance to the physically disabled changed the lives of his clients for the better. My deepest sympathy to the entire Wendt family.

Jack Stark III

June 21, 2008

I would like to have just one more hour with David like we had when he
would come by my office after work.
David's smile was contagious and could make anyone feel good.David
did like to help others help themselves I know because I'am one of them.I have many fond memories of our skiing and fishing trips.My prayer for Libby, Julie, Bill and all the
Wendt family is that David was welcomed with outstretched arms
into our Fathers Mansion.

Holly Gatling

June 21, 2008

To the Wendt family and all the staff of Van Products, we send our prayers and condolences. May David's soul rest in peace. Sincerely,
Wayne Cockfield, Florence, S.C.
Holly Gatling, Columbia, S.C.

Demetra Ferrell

June 21, 2008

Libby, Lindsey, David, our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. I know when someone has been sick for a long time you try to prepare for the worst but when it comes it is still never easy to accept. Cherish your times as they will always be in your memories and heart and will always be your guardian angel watching over you. With our deepest sympathy, Kimbery, Carol, Demetra and Randy Ferrell

Jerry Black

June 21, 2008

To the family of David Holmes Wendt my condolences goes out to them in their time of sorrow and I hope they can find true comfort in the bible scripture I share with them andit's at Revelation 21:4 and it reads: And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes and death will be no mre, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away... And also at Isaiah 51:12 which says: I-I myself am the One comforting you people... We can always approach our heavenly father Jehovah in prayer knowing that he hears us and he will comfort us in all of our tribulations.....

Fran Smith

June 21, 2008

Libby, Lucy, Julie and all the families...David was a special soul and your lives were all enriched by him. Cherish those memories as you move ahead and know that his spirit will always envelope you.

Jan Denny

June 20, 2008

Libby, Ray and I are so deeply saddened by David's passing. Our prayers are with you and Lindsey and Lee in these times. Some of our fondest memories of the times we all spent together at "the club"!
Jan and Ray Denny

Morgan Grainger

June 20, 2008

Lindsey and Family- I'm so sorry for your loss. Cherish the years and memories you have and remember there are holes in the floor of heaven...

SHERRY TIMBERLAKE

June 20, 2008

The mangement and staff of Leith Mercedes Benz Raleigh would like to extend our deepest sympathy. Several of us have known David for many years. We will truly miss him. He was a loving person and we loved him. Our prayers are with his family.

Joel and Peggy Brothers

June 20, 2008

Please find comfort in knowing that we are praying for you in this time of
loss. David was a special person. We have nothing but fond memories of
our every encounter with him.

Kristin Lichtner

June 20, 2008

David was an upbeat, fun, compassionate and loving person whose smiling face, positive attitude and sense of humor could brighten anyone's day. To the Wendt family, may all the memories you have of him and all the joy and happiness that he has brought to others carry you through this time of grief.

Thom Balcome

June 20, 2008

David was a respected member of the Raleigh community and truly made a difference to many people.

Jane Capps

June 20, 2008

With deepest condolences and prayers that the Father will strenthen you through this time of great mourning.

Mark and Julie Fisher

June 20, 2008

Libby, Lee, Lindsey, and all of the Wendts, you are in our prayers. We will always remember David just as he was described in the obituary. We are thankful to have known him, even if it was only on occasions, over the past 30 years. We have wonderful memories of dinners with Bill, Marilyn and all the kids, listening to beach music, skiing on Kerr Lake, and a great trip to the Wilmington house. David certainly lived life to the fullest and he was never more happy than when he was with friends and family. We should all hope to be able to say that we lived life that well. God bless you today and in the coming weeks. We will think of you all often. Love to you all.

Ivey and Becky Stroud

June 20, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of sorrow. Good memories of David will live on in everyone that knew him. He will be greatly missed but never forgotten. Let's dwell on the joys of knowing David and celebrate life as optimistic as he did. May God comfort Libby and the entire family.

Patricia Cotton

June 20, 2008

We who grew up with David may not have seen him as frequently as in the "old" days, but over these past few years, we witnessed his exemplary refusal to allow Cancer to rob him of one ounce of living life to the fullest. His passing reminds us all of how temporary this life is, and because of David's example, we will take heart, and live more courageously. His presence among us will always be missed. Our prayers are for his family.

Bruce and Pam Barker

June 20, 2008

David's smile, energy and sense of humor always brightened any occasion. My all the wonderful memories you have of times spent together, forever keep him close in your hearts.

Dianne Creech

June 20, 2008

My heart goes out to you and your family during this difficult time. May you find comfort with memories of great times David shared with his family, grandson and best friends.

Andy Shook

June 20, 2008

I always remember that whenever I would see David, he was always upbeat, smiling, and happy to be around people.

Terry Carlton

June 20, 2008

I wanted to pass along my condolences on your loss. I truly enjoyed having the opportunity to meet and work with David. I respected him on both a professional and personal level and will miss him.

John Gaither

June 20, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Dana & Jayme Swinson

June 20, 2008

What a legacy...we will miss David's contagious smile and his loving personality. Our prayers are with the Wendt family during this time. May God wrap his gracious arms around each of you and comfort you in ways only He can. Wish Much Love,
Dana and Jayme Swinson

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