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Deborah Henderson Obituary

Deborah Exum Henderson

June 25, 1954 - February 18, 2018

Smithfield

Debbie Exum Henderson died on February 18, 2018, at SECU Hospice House, Smithfield, after fighting a brave ten-month battle with cancer. She is survived by her husband of 36 years, Jim Henderson; her two daughters, Sarah Lewis and husband Brant; and Jaime Beasley and husband George; and four grandchildren: Hannah Lewis, James Lewis, Charlie Lewis, and Kambell Beasley. The daughter of the late George Thomas and Martha (Pat) Lanius Exum, Debbie is also survived by her sister, Martie Exum Wentz.

A graduate of East Carolina University, Debbie dedicated her life to serving others. She spent 20 years as a maternal health social worker at the Johnston County Health Department, followed by 13 years as an adult services social worker at the Johnston County Department of Social Services. Debbie's favorite job of all was being a wife, mother, and grandmother. Her husband was her focus, her children her pride, and her grandchildren her fun. Debbie's unwavering love and support for her family was evident to all that knew her.

An active member of First Presbyterian Church, Debbie served as Sunday school teacher, youth group leader, Preschool Board Chair and Christian Education Committee Chair. She was also leader of a Bereavement Meal Team of the Presbyterian Women. Debbie lived her life of service with grace and dignity in all that she did. We will remember her smile and her genuine love for others.

A memorial service will be conducted at 11:00 a.m. Thursday, February 22, 2018 in First Presbyterian Church with Rev. Joseph Hester officiating. Burial will follow in Riverside Cemetery. The family will receive friends from 6:00 – 8:00 p.m. Wednesday evening at the church.

In lieu of flowers memorial contributions may be sent to First Presbyterian Church Building Fund, Attn: Church Treasurer, 215 South Third Street, Smithfield, NC 27577, or, a charity of one's choice.

Online condolences may be sent to the family at parrishfh.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The News and Observer on Feb. 21, 2018.

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Carol Edwards

February 21, 2018

So sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Beth Speight

February 21, 2018

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Bill and Alice Radford

February 21, 2018

We are very sorry to hear of Debbie's passing. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers during this time of loss and sorrow.
Bill and Alice Radford

Johnny Worley

February 20, 2018

Jim, we are sure sorry to hear about the passing of Debbie. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. Johnny & Betty Worley

Brenda Capps

February 20, 2018

So sorry to hear this. Debbie was an inspiration to many people. Prayers for the family.

February 20, 2018

Sarah, so sorry for your loss, our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family.
Danny & Connie Stanley

Hilda Cole

February 20, 2018

To Sarah Lewis and family;
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I pray for your strength during this difficult time.

Harriet and Tony Baker

February 20, 2018

Sarah and Brant and family, Tony and I are holding you in our hearts and prayers. We will pray daily for you. We love you.

Dewayne West

February 20, 2018

Jim and Family,
So sad to hear about Debbie. She fought a hard battle with dignity and grace. Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Dewayne and Judy West

Jessica Parker

February 20, 2018

Debbie was such a strong and beautiful woman. Sending our love and prayers to Jaimee, Sarah, Jim and the rest of the family during this tough time. We love you Aunt Debbie!

Betty and Doug Lewis

February 20, 2018

So sorry for your family loss!

Wanda Lee

February 20, 2018

Sarah,
I am so sorry about your loss. May God bless and comfort your family now and in the months to come.
Much Love,
Wanda Lee

Lori Barbour-Moore

February 20, 2018

So sorry for the loss of your mom, Sarah. Praying for you and your family.

Jackie Lee

February 20, 2018

Jim so sorry to hear of Debbie's passing. I was unaware that she was sick. Hoping the days ahead will be peaceful for you and the family as you reflect on the memories. Prayers for all of you.

February 20, 2018

My love to you all at this sad time... Debbie was a blessing in my life that I will forever be greatful.

Richard Self

February 20, 2018

Jim, Sarah and Jaime
We are so sorry for your loss of Debbie. She was a wonderful person and our thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this time and for times to come.
Richard and Becky

Garry&Beverly Jones

February 20, 2018

Thoughts and prayers are with the family.

Sharon Stover

February 20, 2018

Jim, I am so sorry to hear about Debbie. My thoughts and prayers are with you...

Butch and Deborah Warren

February 19, 2018

Jim please know that Butch and I loved that Debbie Henderson! She was a joy in so many lives. We share in your sorrow at this time. This world was a much better place with her in it. Our hearts are broken for you and you precious family.

John and Margaret Causey

February 19, 2018

Our love and thoughts and prayers are with you all at this sad time. May we all smile because we had the blessing of knowing Debbie. God grant you all peace and the comfort of knowing we WILL see her again on the other side of paradise. Blessings and hugs.

Dade Sherman

February 19, 2018

I grew up with Debbie and Marti in Fayetteville, N.C. We went to school together. What a nice family!! Sorrow I express in her death.

Rhonda Brown-Scott

February 19, 2018

Thoughts and prayers to the family during this time. Memories last forever in your hearts. Praying for you today and in the days/weeks ahead. Much love to all.

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