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Debra Chalker Obituary

Debra Lynne Chalker, 47, of Salisbury, died Sunday, May 18, 2008 at the home of her mother Mitzie Boley McKinley and her stepfather Bill.
Born December 30, 1960, in Morgantown, WV, she was the daughter of Mitzie Boley McKinley of Salisbury and the late James Otis Boley, who died September 30, 1990. She graduated from high school in Brazil. Mrs. Chalker was previously employed by Fletcher Fairview Health Care in Asheville as the office manager.
She was of the Baptist faith.
Survivors include: her husband, Charles John Chalker of Salisbury; children, Shannon Nichole Nizer of Winterhaven, FL, Eric James Chalker of Ft. Myers, FL, Jessica Leann Chalker of Salisbury; brothers, Gerald Alan Boley of Raleigh, and Joseph H. Boley of Salisbury.
A memorial service will be held 11:00 a.m. Thursday at Summersett Memorial Chapel, with the Rev. John Hills, retired minister, officiating. Entombment will follow at Rowan Memorial Park.
The family will be at the home of her brother, Joey H. Boley of 1234 Hurley School Road, Salisbury.
Memorials may be made to The Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis (ALS) Lou Gehrigs Disease, 120-101 Penmarc Drive, Raleigh, NC 27603.
Summersett Funeral Home is assisting the Chalker family.
On line obits at www.summersettfunerahome.com

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Published by The News & Observer on May 21, 2008.

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Jim Boley

May 25, 2008

Always loved, never forgotten. Debbie was always very kind and generous to me. She will be missed by all.

Tim and Dawn Kepler

May 25, 2008

Deb will be missed by so many people from all over. She seemed more like a sister than a friend.

We will always miss you..

Alice Zink

May 21, 2008

Charlie and Family,
The Zink family just wanted you all to know how much we loved Deb and miss her. She was a very kind women who touched many hearts here in Candler, NC including our family on the hill. We will never forget her. Our love and prayers are with your family through your loss. We miss our neighbors in the blue house. You all were such great friends. May God bless you and help you through. We love you all. Deb may you rest in the hands of our Dear Lord.

Love,
The Zink Family

Bob Taylor

May 21, 2008

Deb will be missed by so many. She touched countless people with Her kindness. Rest in peace.

Cathy Merrill

May 21, 2008

Charlie and family,
May God comfort you all in this time of sorrow. We will never forget Debbie's wonderful sense of humor and all the good times we shared.
Cathy Merrill & family

Roger Floren

May 21, 2008

Charlie & family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of deepest sorrow.
We will miss her smiling face and all the jokes. We laughed and cried and through it all, Debbie was an inspiration to us all.
May God Bless and keep you until we meet again.

Roger Floren, Judy Floren, Cheri Mitchell, Susie Cole, Lisa Dee

Cheryl VanArsdall

May 21, 2008

To the Chalker, McKinley, & Boley Families:

I want to express my deepest sympathy for your loss. Debbie was always a kind and caring stepmother to my daughter Shannon Nicole Chalker Nizer.

THE BROKEN CHAIN

Little did we know that day, that God was going to call your name.

In life we loved you dearly, in death we do the same.

It broke our hearts to lose you, but you did not go alone; for part of us went with you, the day God called you home.

You left us peaceful memories, your love is still our guide; and though we cannot see you, you will always be at our side.

Our family chain is broken, and nothing seems the same; but as God calls us one by one the chain will link again. Author Unknown

Hilma Tomblin

May 20, 2008

Mitzie and family--so sorry for your loss. Debbie was such a pleasure to know and she will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Angie Butler

May 20, 2008

Mitzie and family , I am so sorry for your loss ...Deb was one of the most sweetest , humble, loving person I know . I will miss her beautiful smile and the warmth that each of us felt from her heart

donna cooke

May 20, 2008

My deepest sympathy to all the family. My thoughts and prayers are with you. God bless.

May 20, 2008

Bill, Mitzie, Joey & Family,

Your family has our deepest sympathy for your loss. God bless you all. Our prayers are with you.

Joey & Jane Melton

Barbara Chester

May 20, 2008

Dear Bill, Mitzie and Family; All of the "Woods" clan will keep you in our prayers. May God bless and comfort each of you. Love, Barbara & Glendon Chester

Herbert Love

May 20, 2008

So sorry to hear of Debbie's death. Bill always kept me informed of her condition, pretty much weekly. To Bill and Mitzie you were great caretakers and we will never know what all you have been through. Remember you and the family was prayed for today.

Sondra Stiller

May 20, 2008

Eric, Jessica and family, We are so sorry about your Mom. We didn't know she was sick. I was your sitter a few years ago, and think of you often. Sondra and Dennis Stiller

Jacqueline Cooke

May 20, 2008

I'm writing this for Bo and sue cooke. Are thoughts and prays are with you and your family at this time. Debbie will be greatly missed bye all who knew her.

Joe and Nancy Boley

May 20, 2008

Debbie was one of the most generous and courageous people it has been our pleasure to know. She spread sunshine to anyone she touched. We will miss her.

Joshua & Amanda Nettles

May 20, 2008

To Joey and the rest of the family, our thoughts and prayers are with you concerning your loss. May the Lord grant you strength during your time of need.

John McDonald

May 20, 2008

Joey,

My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. I pray that God gives all of you strength and courage to get through this very difficult time in your lives.

Dawn Hensley

May 20, 2008

Charlie and family you are all in our thoughts and prayers. Debbie was really liked and will be very missed. With love Dawn Hensley

Rhonda Robinson

May 20, 2008

I will truly miss Debbie, she was more than my friend, she was family. My heart and prayers are with you Charlie, Jess, Eric and the rest of the family.

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