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Evan Pickering Obituary

Evan Michael Andrew Pickering

April 20, 1985 - March 13, 2016

Chapel Hill

Evan Michael Andrew Pickering, 30, of Chapel Hill, NC, and Minneapolis, MN, passed away on Sunday, March 13, in Minneapolis, MN. Born in Fremont, California, on April 20, 1985, he spent his earliest years in California and then England, where by the age of five he had mastered a perfect British accent. He moved after that with his parents, Sandra Jane Pickering and Jeffrey Paul Pickering, to Chapel Hill, NC where Evan attended local schools, including East Chapel Hill High.

When he died, Evan was completing a course in computer engineering at Century College in White Bear Lake, MN. Like his father he loved working with computers and often volunteered his time working to refurbish computers for charity.

Evan was a gifted musician-singer, songwriter and guitarist-who often performed locally in Chapel Hill and Minneapolis. He was an accomplished writer. Evan had considered a career in linguistics and had studied French, German, Spanish, Russian, Japanese, Korean and Chinese. Evan was a voracious reader known for his poetic skills, keen insight, generous nature and dry wit.

He is survived by his parents and sister, Sarah Rachael Pickering. He is also survived by his aunt and uncle in Carrboro, NC, Linda and Cliff Haac and their daughters, Anna and Bryce. He is survived as well by his grandmother, Barbara Pickering; his grandfather, Dick Pickering; his aunt Jill Solem; his aunt and uncle Sharon and Fritz Johnson; and cousins Nicole, Kristina, Lisa, Mathew and Davin; all from the greater Minneapolis area.

Evan was a member of the Chapel of the Cross in Chapel Hill. A memorial service will be held April 2, 2016 at 2 pm. In lieu of flowers contributions may be made to Street Youth Ministries in Seattle, WA or the Salvation Army.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The News & Observer from Mar. 27 to Mar. 30, 2016.

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Kate Phillips

April 14, 2016

My heart broke when I heard the news of Evan's passing. I will always remember Evan's kindness, sense of humor and strength in desiring more for himself. Our sincere condolences on your loss and prayers for your family during this time from all of us at Street Youth Ministries.

ELLEN O'BRIEN (Virchick)

April 2, 2016

Dear Sandra, Jeff and Sarah, I was so sad to read that your son has passed away. You are in my thoughts. What a beautiful young man. I'm so sorry.

Sam P

March 31, 2016

Evan was smart and snarky and funny. I'll miss you E.

March 30, 2016

I was so sorry to hear about the loss of Evan. He will certainly be missed. Think back on all the fond memories you shared with him, and may the God of all comfort and peace be with you during this time.
Romans 15:3

Josh Ravitch

March 30, 2016

We are so sorry to hear of this tragic event. He was a good friend to Alex for many years. Our condolences to the whole family.

March 24, 2016

I am a friend of Evan's in the fellowship.My sympathies to his family and other friends on the loss of such a beautiful young man. Sally

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