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Harry Kellam Obituary
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for Harry Kellam
May 4, 2010
Jancye, I recognized your dad's picture immediately in the paper, before I saw his name. I'm so sorry for your loss, but also so happy that he was such an extraordinary person, and he was your dad. I have so many happy memories of you and your whole family, re-kindled by your dad's thoughtful words. I read recently that memories may be our greatest gift. I know your family blessed you with many great ones, and they'll bring you much comfort. Best to all of you.
Peggy (Schmeitzel) Wilson
April 24, 2010
Although we never officially met, I feel as though we could have been good friends. Harry and Beverly raised a wonderful daughter, Jancye, and she is a reflection on the kind of parents they were. Our condolences to the family on the loss of their father, brother, and grandfather. What a beautiful tribute to the life of Harry Kellam, Jr.
Paul and Carol Mandalin
vivian e [Betsy] mcmahon
April 15, 2010
Uncle Harry, You have left a hole in my heart. but a soul to look up to. I will always hear my mothers laughter talking with you on the phone, and the cards you sent eachother. You have influenced my life forever. I love you and will be talking to you offen. Maybe you can help me with my spelling? Love Betsy
Cathy Lieberman
April 13, 2010
For all of the children, grandchildren and great grandchildren, I am so sorry for your loss. You were so blessed to have such wonderful parents and I have always treasured the wonderful times I spent with your family as a young woman and remember all of the love that they always showered on me as they made me a part of the family. Your Dad was a special person who will be greatly missed and his obituary says so much about what was important to him....Cathy (Carey) Lieberman, Fishers, IN
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April 12, 2010
To the family of Harry V. Kellam,Jr. ,,I am inquiring of the history of the KELLAM or KALLAM family; if there is any publication or information available, please notify me. My grandmother was a KALLAM from Madison, NC (north of Greensboro,NC) and one professor wrote a rather extensive history of this family... SO sorry for your loss of what sounds like a wonderful man.
eddie browning
April 11, 2010
Jeff,My thoughts and prayers are with you.May the good Lord lay a gentle hand on your shoulder and guide you through this moment.If you need an ear to bend im here.your friend......Eddie
Ellen Mason
April 11, 2010
Kellam Family
May your sweet memories help you through this time of loss.
Sincere condolences
DIANA DAVIS
April 10, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
I'm so sorry for your loss.
Diane and Flemming Jensen
April 9, 2010
We stopped at your home in Raleigh many times when we would take our children on a vacation to the Outer Banks or to Nana's house in Hendersonville. Your Dad let us park in your driveway . We had a great time with you all. When we moved from N.Y. we sort of lost touch . Yor Dad was a wonderful man and will be deeply missed. God Bless You All ......
Diana Bradham
April 9, 2010
Jeff, we know you but not your dad - our hearts are saddened by your loss - but reading your dad's obituary was a treat - what a gift he gave to you and your entire family... We know you will miss him greatly and we will be thinking of you and praying for you in the days and weeks to come. Ray and Diana Bradham
Wendy Franzese
April 9, 2010
Dear Family,
I'm so sorry I couldn't join you today for Grandpa's services. I loved him dearly and was so happy to see him in January, smiling and enjoying my boys. I wish we lived closer so the reunions could have been more frequent. I still have his last email to me in my In Box as a graceful reminder of the loving exchanges of greetings and thanks for sharing photos and events. We are lucky to have shared his life.
Much love,
Wendy, Jeff, Ryan and Tyler
Diane Peters
April 9, 2010
Jill and family,
I am so sorry for your loss, he was a great man. What a special message he left. He was an excellent example of a loving husband and father. My prayers are with you and your family. I am sorry that I am not there to be with you.
Love, Diane
Ray McAllister
April 9, 2010
Harry, what a great way to go out. I didn't know you -- I do know Jeff and Joan, to whom I offer my prayers and best wishes -- but I would have liked to. What a rewarding life you have lived and what a wonderful legacy you have left. Well-played, sir. Well-played.
Chrissy Pressley
April 9, 2010
I married Harry's grandson, Matt Pressley, in 2001. I have been blessed with an absolutely wonderful family-in-law of which Harry & Beverly Kellam were a big part. I have not had grandparents since 1978. Harry and Beverly were a loving "grandparent-like" force in my life with their acceptance, humor and warmness. Harry was amazing; an open, intelligent, liberal man for his generation I believe. What I learned of his life was inspiring to me: the businesses he began, his writing, his humor and his strength (some call it stubbornness!).I will miss him greatly, but will always have fond memories of him.
David Hindman
April 8, 2010
Dear Jeff and other family members,
My sincere condolences to you in your time of grief and loss. Your dad seems to have been a self-effacing, funny and wise man. I hope you will be blessed with good memories and a confident hope that death does not have the last word in a world graced by God's love and peace.
Blessings on you all.
April 8, 2010
Family members, my thoughts and prays are with you all as you heal from the loss of your Father and Grandfather. Harry was a great man and will be deeply missed. Love and Prays, Jean Warfield (Endicott, NY)
Mary June Jones
April 8, 2010
I am another one of those folks out there who read of Mr. Kellam's passing in the paper this morning and felt I had to respond. Never have I read an obituary that touched me so deeply as his. What a special man he must have been. His message to us is clear - there is so much in life that gets in the way, but the most important thing is our families and our love for one another. May you all be comforted by special memories and God's peace and strength.
April 8, 2010
To Uncle Harry's family, my thoughts are with you as you deal with the loss of your father. Thoughts and prays are with you .
Donna Ambra ( Warfield ) , Endicott, NY
Emmett Wiggins
April 8, 2010
As a 19 year old kid in 1965 "Mr. Kellam" was one of the first people I had the pleasure of meeting in the business world and he help set the foundation for my 30 year career at IBM and beyond. He epitomized the professional of the business world and I will always remember him. Rest in Peace Harry.
Mckenzie Hatch
April 8, 2010
My thoughts are with you all as you deal with the loss of a loved family member. I have been through this process more times than I'd like to admit and I know that though there is loss, there will also be healing in time. Put my thoughts and prayers in your pocket, so I can be with you through your healing. Love to the Pressley Family, who are still in my heart, always.
Marie & Larry Holland
April 8, 2010
To Harry's children and grandchildren...Harry was my cousin by marriage and I will always be glad that I could call him family. He was a dear man and I am so sorry for your loss. You all had a great role model in Harry.
Much love to you all, Marie Warfield Holland
April 8, 2010
Time spent in the Kellam household as a high school student is one of my favorite memories. Mr. Kellam was always interested in what was happening and was fun to be around and he and I shared a birth day (2/ll). My deepest sympathy to the entire family. Carol Heindl Pyle (Wendell, NC)
Keri Rush
April 8, 2010
To the family of Harry Kellam,
When my husband and I read your fathers self written obit today, I was moved to tears at his clarity, honesty and courage. Traits which we are sadly lacking these days. His words and handsome picture is on our fridge as a reminder that there is and always will be good people in the world. While Im sure you are devastated at his loss, you must remember also, how lucky you were to have had him.
Rest in peace Harry and thank you for sharing your final goodbye by telling us what you learned on your journey for those of us still humping the backpack up and down the hills and valleys of life on our own search.
; Very Sincerely,
; Keri Rush
Danny Warfield
April 8, 2010
As a young boy many of my best times were at uncle Harrys home on Liberty St. in Endicott.Sunday nights with that big family gathered around the table was something I never forgot while growing up It truly was fun time. He will be greatly missed but I am sure aunt Bev cant wait to hold his hand and cook him one of those good Sunday dinners again. With love to all of you. Dan Lori and the girls
Delia O'Connor
April 8, 2010
Wow. I missed out by not meeting Harry! This is the most poignant obituary. I am so touched by his words and his ability to so eloquently express his final life reflection & learnings. Amazing man. I am one of Vivian Kellam McMahon's grandchildren - daughter of the late Mary Louise O'Connor. I'll bet my mother adored her Uncle Harry! Wow, he is Beautiful.
Blessings and Love to Harry's children and grandchildren.
Linda Sterling Bull
April 8, 2010
My dear uncle. What a dear gentle man blessed with so much charm and wit. I have so many fond memories of you in my childhood. Mom cherished you so, and I'm sure she welcomed you there. Bless you and your family. Linda
Karen Archer
April 8, 2010
I did not know Harry Kellam, Jr. personally so I hope I am not out of line with this entry. I read his, the most meaningful, poignant touching obitiuary I have ever read, today in the Binghamton Press. It sounds like he was an extra "ordinary" person, with a refreshing love and respect for life's tender mercies and the sanctity of family. My sincere condolences to his surviving family, and my wish that he has experienced the glorious reunion with his precious wife that he had hoped and prayed for.
Sharri Gaines
April 7, 2010
Jancye, I send my deepest heartfelt wishes for comfort and peace for you and your family at this time...I'm glad we were neighbors!
Helen davis
April 7, 2010
What a wonderfull piece that he wrote for you to remember,he must have been a wonderfull man ,just remember the good time Helen Davis
April 7, 2010
Farewell to a good friend and former manager.I shall miss having you in the same world. All the best to the family.Lillian H. Beacham
Dorinda Davie
April 7, 2010
Oh Harry, I'll miss you. Thanks for the talks at home and trips to Ruby Tuesday. I'm glad I got to talk you on your birthday. Say hi to Tom McMahon for me.
David Hall
April 7, 2010
We were so sorry to hear about your father and grandfather! He was a great person and will be missed. Love to you all.
Susan and David Hall
April 7, 2010
I remember doing business with Harry and his son, Kim, thirty some years ago in Raleigh. He was always friendly, concerned about doing a good job and delivering printed materials on time. The world needs more individuals like Harry Kellam.
Bill Fitzgerald
Billie Brightwell
April 7, 2010
What a wonderful sharing of a wonderful life. It's clear where you got your way with words, Jeffrey, and your quest to help everyone be gentle with others and themselves. I'm glad to have met your mom and dad (and some of the siblings) and wish the peace of Christ to be with you all in this sad yet celebratory time, given what your dad wrote above. Grace to you. Billie
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