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Jerry Midkiff Obituary

Jerry Edward Midkiff

June 27, 1947 - May 8, 2014

Raleigh

Jerry Edward Midkiff, 66, passed away at 4:30 Thursday morning, May 8, 2014 at WakeMed Raleigh Campus following a seven-year battle with cancer.

Jerry was born on June 27, 1947 in Danville, Virginia to the parents of Fred Ramsey Midkiff, Sr. and Georgia Parrish "Bobbie" Midkiff. He spent his childhood and formative years in the small town of Gretna, Virginia. An excellent student-athlete, Jerry lettered in four different sports in high school where he starred on the football, basketball, baseball, and track and field teams. Upon graduating high school, Jerry left Gretna to attend Elon College where he earned an athletic scholarship to play baseball. During his senior season, he was co-captain of Elon's baseball team. While in college, Jerry married his hometown sweetheart and love of his life, Patricia "Pat" Louise Shelton, on November 28, 1968. Jerry subsequently graduated from Elon in August 1969 with a degree in Physical Education. Jerry and Pat remained in Elon, where they celebrated the birth of their only child, Kevin Scott Midkiff on March 3, 1971.

Jerry and Pat then moved to Stoneville, NC, where Jerry taught physical education at Stoneville High School, and also coached the football and baseball teams. In 1973, the family moved to Raleigh, NC, a city that would be their home for the remainder of Jerry's life. Jerry worked as a Store Manager for Eckerd Drug Stores for a few years before venturing into the construction field in the late 1970s. He started working with Carolina Builders, now Stock Building Supply, on June 4, 1979, where he had a fruitful career that lasted for the next 31 years. Starting as a counter salesman, Jerry worked his way up to outside salesman, selling building materials to residential contractors. As a successful salesman, Jerry was then promoted to Sales Manager, which comprised the majority of his career, overseeing the team of salesmen of which he used to be a part. Ultimately, Jerry finished his long relationship with Stock Building Supply as their Triangle Pricing Specialist. He would retire on August 23, 2010.

Before and during his retirement, Jerry enjoyed travelling with his family, and attending football and baseball games at NC State University, where his son Kevin is an alumnus. Together, Jerry and Pat enjoyed collecting a menagerie of miniature ceramic homes and buildings that eventually incorporated itself into an impressive village within their home. Also, Jerry was a talented craftsman, who made many keepsakes and items of furniture that still stand today in the homes of his loved ones. Jerry was also especially proud of his immediate family, including Pat, Kevin, Kevin's wife Megan, and his 2 granddaughters, Emily and Victoria, on whom he constantly doted.

Jerry is survived by his wife, Pat Midkiff; his son, Kevin Midkiff and wife, Megan Bell, and their 2 daughters, Emily and Victoria Midkiff of Raleigh, NC; and his brother, Fred Midkiff, Jr., and his wife, Valicia of Blue Ridge, GA.

Services honoring Jerry's life will be held Sunday, May 11, 2014 at Brown-Wynne Funeral Home at 1701 E. Millbrook Road in Raleigh. There will be a visitation from 1-3PM with a funeral service immediately following at 3 o'clock. After the service, Jerry will be laid to rest at Raleigh Memorial Park at 7501 Glenwood Ave in Raleigh.

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Published by The News & Observer on May 10, 2014.

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Frank & Bobbie Campbell

May 23, 2014

We are saddened to hear about Jerry. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

Jill

May 16, 2014

I am so blessed to have called Jerry my uncle. I have so enjoyed his kindness, sense of humor, love for sports, knowledge about building, faith, and determination to "run this race with endurance". His love for my aunt since childhood is a great love story. May God give the peace that only He can give. Our deepest sympathy and love, Jill, Steve, Kaylee, and Zachary

Stuart Jones

May 15, 2014

Sorry to hear, it was a surprise. I knew him for decades at Carolina builders. Prayers for your family

Gail Midkiff

May 13, 2014

My fondest memories of Jerry are of growing up with him in that wonderful extended family in Gretna. We had such good times when we were kids. My boy cousins were the closest I had to brothers and I will always be grateful for them. As he grew up his drive and winning personality became evident. I will never forget that short little guy flying with that basketball all the way down the court over and over again. I can see it now. He provided lots of people with lots of excitement in GHS's long-ago rivalry with Altavista. As we grew older and left Gretna to make our ways in the bigger world, I didn't see him as much but the many friends he had and the wonderful things said about him make me know he carried that talent, hard work, great sense of humor and goodness with him into his career and family life. He left the world a better place. Jim and I send our deepest sympathy to Pat, Kevin and his family and Fred and his family. We will miss him, too.

Gloira Dawson

May 13, 2014

What I remember best about Jerry was Jerry and Pat always!!! Prayers to you Pat and for your family. Love and prayers always.

May 13, 2014

Jerry, you were a few years younger than me but I still remember in high school at Gretna, Va. how much hustle and determination you had on the baseball field.
You took this with you throughout life and it inspired many people..
Dennis Craddock

Dawn & Matt LaBonte

May 12, 2014

We are extremely saddened to hear about the news of Jerry. He was a wonderful person and we have many good memories and he will be greatly missed.

Neosha Smith

May 12, 2014

Whenever I think of Jerry, I think of his bright smile and his easy-going nature. He was always a joy to talk to at your family gatherings. My heart goes out to you and your family. Peace and love to you all.

May 12, 2014

Pat I am so sorry for your loss. Jerry was so kind to Tal and I when he was sick. He always tried to make Tal laugh when he came over. He was a true friend to Tal and I will always appreciate it. You're all in my thoughts and prayers.

Arlene (Dink) Cundiff

May 11, 2014

Pat, I am so sad to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this sad time.

May 11, 2014

Pat, words cannot adequately say how sorry I am for your lost. I thought a lot of Jerry and enjoyed being his company. He knew how to make everyone laugh. I will continue to keep and the family in prayer.

Carolyn Dockery

Linda Rowland

May 11, 2014

Pat I am so sorry for your loss. It doesn't seem like it was too long ago when we were all in high school but it has been a lifetime ago. Jerry was a wonderful person and will be missed. May you and your family be blessed with all the wonderful memories of Jerry and find comfort in knowing he was loved by manny.

Dolly Dawson Tolson

May 10, 2014

So sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. I remember your whole family when we were growing up in Gretna. Nell and I were in same class. Prayers to all of you.

Joan Yeatts

May 10, 2014

Pat, my heart goes out to you. I am so glad I got to talk to you and Jerry at Frank's funeral last week. Know that my prayers are with you and that God will carry you through these days.

Joie Gunnell

May 10, 2014

Pat, my deepest sympathy to you and your beautiful family. May you find strength in your wonderful memories. Joie (Betty Farmer) Gunnell

Tom Mayhew

May 10, 2014

Pat, your loss is our loss and what good memories from a long time ago in high school.

Dawn (Mayhew) Basini

May 10, 2014

My love is with you, Pat. Such wonderful memories. Please accept my deepest sympathy. Dawn

May 10, 2014

Pat,
So sorry to hear about Jerry. I feel fortunate to have been able to reconnect with him electronically, even if it was for a brief time. Out thoughts and prayers are with you and the family.
Renny and Ann Shelton

Jean Carson-Parker

May 10, 2014

Pat, Thinking of you with much love.

Kay Andrews Thompson

May 10, 2014

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of loss. May our Lord God provide comfort.

May 10, 2014

Jerry will be missed, he always had time to talk to me at Stock and had many stories to tell. God bless you during this difficult time.Alan Wilkinson

Tara Start

May 10, 2014

I was so sad to hear the news about Jerry. I had the pleasure of working with Jerry at Stock. Jerry always made everyone in the office smile and laugh, simply with his smile or with one of his many stories. He was a wonderful man and he will be greatly missed.

May 10, 2014

Midkiff family...We remember Jerry fondly from the Carolina Builders years. God bless each of you as you navigate the days ahead. Kindest regards, David Millns and Henni Millns Corbin

May 10, 2014

I was fortunate to meet and work with Jerry for a few years at Stock Building Supply. He was always a helping hand with his knowledge of the business and more importantly, appreciating life. I'm sure he will be missed by family and his many friends.

Sincerely, Norm Davis

Keith and Amy Pendergrass

May 9, 2014

Pat, we are very sorry to hear of Jerry's death. Thoughts and prayers are with you. Keith and Amy Pendergrass

Melinda Nichols

May 9, 2014

I didn't know Jerry personally, but heard about him a lot from his mom, with whom I worked for many, many years. When you work closely with a person, their family becomes yours. So sorry to hear about his death and extend my sincere sympathy to the entire family.

Heidi Tucker

May 9, 2014

Thinking of you all and wishing you peace.

May 9, 2014

Thinking of your family during this difficult time. I am so sorry to miss his services. I am in California visiting my daughter. I thought the world of Jerry. My condolences to the family.

Annette Wetherington

Linda James

May 9, 2014

I remember how happy he always was. We both went to Elon, and we both played a lot of pool. He was good at it too, and always fun. Facebook reconnected us, and I have had him in my prayers for sometime. My deepest sympathy to all the family. Love is a beautiful thing, cherish the memories. Much love, Linda Quinlin James

Vergil Hedrick

May 9, 2014

As a former Gretnaterian and Elon Grad that knew Jerry for a number of years, I am saddened for his passing. I wish Pat and family strength through the coming days, and may God watch over and protect you.

Cher and Grady Moss

May 9, 2014

Pat, Grady and I are so very sorry to hear of Jerry's passing. You and Keven and the rest of your family will be kept in our hearts and prayers. May God bring comfort and peace to your heart in the coming days.

Rick Fleming

May 9, 2014

Our thoughts are with the Midkiff family at this most difficult of times. -Kevin's team at James Scott Farrin

Shannon Berndt

May 9, 2014

Pat and Kevin, I am so deeply saddened by the news of Jerry's passing. Kevin, it is impossible to know you without knowing how much your family means to you. I can only say that I am heartbroken for you, my friend, and that you all have my sincere condolences.

SHERRI CONNOR

May 9, 2014

Pat and Family I am so sorry to hear about the passing of Jerry. I am glad I got to see him at Uncle Franks funeral. Please know you all are in my thoughts and prayers every day. Love to you all Sherri

Michele Godwin

May 9, 2014

Pat and Family

Pat my heart goes out to you and your family during this difficult time of loss. You and your family are in my prayers.

Nan Scruggs

May 9, 2014

Pat, We are so sorry for the loss of Jerry. W. C. thought the world of him and always enjoyed getting reacquainted at the class reunions. I enjoyed being friends with him on Facebook. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Nan & W. C.

Linda Popple

May 9, 2014

Pat:

We are so sorry to hear of the loss of Jerry, You and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers. David and Linda Popple

Kerry O'Sullivan

May 9, 2014

Ms. Pat, Kevin, Megan, Victoria and Emily, you have our deepest sympathy. Mr. Jerry was a warm and caring man, who made us feel welcome each time we visited Snow Village. That kindness will not be forgotten, nor will he. Mr. Jerry will be missed. You have our love and sympathy (Kerry, George and Renna).

Lynn Perrigo

May 9, 2014

I am so sorry for your loss. I worked with Jerry over at Yonkers Rd and have always thought so much of him. Please know my heart and prayers go out to you in this very difficult time.

Christie Brown

May 9, 2014

My thoughts & prayers to your family. Mr Jerry was a cheerful man I was honored to meet at Carolina Builders.

Lee Becatti

May 9, 2014

Dear Pat and Family, So sorry for the loss of Jerry. I enjoyed our lunches talking about family, friends and health. My health will keep me from traveling for services. We will miss him and keep you in our thoughts and prayers. Lee

May 9, 2014

Pat and family, I was so sorry to hear about Jerry yesterday morning at Care and Share. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. May God bless you today and always with strength to get you through each day. With love, Gail

Ava Lee Bernish

May 9, 2014

Dear Pat and family, I am so sorry to hear about Jerry. So many wonderful memories of all of us growing up together. Since loosing my Bill 2 months ago, I know you are hurting. May God comfort you, Kevin's family, and all those who loved and shared in his life. Love you and thinking of you, Ava Lee

paulette fretwell

May 9, 2014

Im so sorry about Jerry. My heart goes out to the family. Prayers going out to all the family.

May 9, 2014

Dear Pat, Kevin, Megan, and family. You are in our thoughts and prayers. So sorry for your loss! Peggy Marchisello Pardue

Fay West

May 8, 2014

Condolences and prayers to you Pat and your family. I am so sorry to learn of Jerry's death.
Fay Dalton West

John Brown

May 8, 2014

You will truly be missed buddy. You were my inspiration and mentor when I first started selling. Thanks for pouring into me and seeing more than I could in myself. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Pat.

Larry Roach

May 8, 2014

I remember from Jerry from GHS was a Good Football, Basketball, Baseball player also Good at Track ,a GOOD GUY . Prayers for PAT and FAMILY.

Brenda Saunders Faulkner

May 8, 2014

Pat and family, I am so saddened by this news. I thought he was doing better from his postings on facebook. I remember both of you so fondly from GHS - he was always such a nice young man. Even though I haven't seen either of you for many years, I really enjoyed keeping up through facebook. I pray for peace and comfort for you and your family.

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