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Jill Lobach Graybeal

1931 - 2025

Jill Lobach Graybeal obituary, 1931-2025, Cary, NC

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Jill Lobach Graybeal

April 1, 1931 - June 22, 2025

Cary, North Carolina - Jill Elizabeth Breinig Lobach Graybeal, age 94, a music educator, passed away on Sunday, June 22, 2025. She was born on April 1, 1931, in Akron, Ohio, to the late Titus Breinig Lobach and Katherine S. Lobach. After graduating from high school, Jill earned a Bachelor of Arts degree in Piano from the University of Richmond in Virginia in 1952. On July 18, 1953, in Akron, Ohio, Jill married John Patrick "Pat" Graybeal. They had two daughters, Sally and Nancy. Sally predeceased her in 2007, and Pat in 2024. Jill began her career as an educator in 1956 and later earned a Master of Science degree in Music Education from Radford University in Radford, Virginia, in 1968. She also completed various continuing education courses along the way. She taught special education and choral music for Henrico County School System in Virginia (1956-1959); physical education and music at Blacksburg High School in Blacksburg, Virginia (19591961); instructed grades 1-12 music for Christiansburg School System in Christiansburg, Virginia (1968-1971); served as supervisor of music and coordinator of fine arts for Montgomery County Schools in Virginia (19711983); and was director of personnel for Montgomery County Schools until her retirement in 1983. Throughout her career, Jill held numerous profesof Sigma Alpha Iota, the International Music Fraternity, Phi Delta Kappa, a professional education association; Phi Kappa Phi, a professional honor society; Music Educators National Conference; Virginia Music Education Association; and the Virginia Association of School Administrative Personnel. She served on various divisions, regional, and statewide commissions related to arts, curriculum development, teacher certification, student teachers, and personnel administration. Jill was also a guest lecturer at Radford University and Virginia Polytechnic Institute and State University. She was honored to present at the Sixth Annual Conference on Educational Research for the Virginia State Department of Education. In addition to her professional achievements, Jill was very active in civic organizations. She founded and directed the Christiansburg Community Chorus, co-founded and was a member of the Montgomery County Council for the Arts, served as Director of Music for the Bicentennial Celebration, directed the Montgomery County Handbell Choir, and was a member and Director of St. Paul United Methodist Church. Her civic volunteer work included fundraising for the American Cancer Society and the Girl Scouts. Jill is survived by her daughter, Nancy Graybeal, and her husband, William McNeil; son-in-law, Christopher K. Minnigh (Julia); along with other extended family and friends. They will remember her for her dignity, faith, her love of teaching, and kindness. She was an incredible wife and mother who will be deeply missed. A memorial service will be held on Wednesday, July 2, 2025, at 2:00 PM at Waltonwood, 750 SE Cary Parkway, sional memberships. During Cary, NC.

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Published by The News & Observer from Jun. 27 to Jun. 29, 2025.

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jan raisch

July 4, 2025

We knew Jill and Pat through our family. Jill was a gracious, caring lady and Pat was a true gentleman. Bill and I had a great deal of respect and admiration for both of them. Our hearts go out to Nancy as she grieves the loss of her dear mother.

Bill George

July 2, 2025

Jill Graybeal was a "special teacher" in my Hermitage High School years...as a new teacher, she was a sweet, attractive young lady who lead us to "Kittiwake Island and Magical Sea" in musical for the community....then she brought all her kitchen knives for me to sharpen...then during my VT years, I looked them up in C-burg and ended up at Thanksgiving dinner at the Graybeals...good memories !!!

Kai Duncan

June 28, 2025

Dear Nancy and Family - my deepest sympathy for your loss. Your mother was such a positive influence in my life. I will always remember her encouragement when I was a senior at Christiansburg High School. I also believe she had a fair amount to do with me being hired as the band director at Auburn and then made sure I had all that I needed for my students. I became the Fine Arts Supervisor at the end of my career and tried to follow her example. Wishing you much peace, Kai Duncan

Mary Ellen McConnell

June 26, 2025

Jill and Pat were dear friends of mine from the First Presbyterian Church on Hilton Head Island. My condolences to her daughter Nancy.
Fondly,
Mary Ellen

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