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John Carbone Obituary
John was born in Brooklyn, NY to Gennaro and Christina Carbone on January 28, 1924. In 1951 he moved to Jacksonville, NC with his wife, Jean, and family to open the Brooklyn Spaghetti House. In January of 1958 he and Jean moved their family to Raleigh to open the legendary Villa Capri Italian Restaurant on Hillsborough Street. In 1967 they moved the restaurant to the Ridgewood Shopping Center and remained there until 1984 when their daughter Maria and her husband Michael House partnered with them to create the Casa Carbone Ristorante on Glenwood Avenue.
John was a faithful servant of the Catholic Diocese of Raleigh, donating his time and culinary talents to many diocesan events. During those years, he was a member of both Sacred Heart Cathedral and of Our Lady of Lourdes Catholic Church. In August 2004, Pope John Paul II bestowed upon John the Vatican BENEMERENTI Medal for his lifetime of dedicated service to the Catholic Church.
He was also a pioneer in the utilization of the North Carolina Prison Work Release Program and successfully mentored many in their transition back into society.
John was a prominent member of the YMCA on Hillsborough Street, where he was a gifted athlete who won several state and mid-state handball championships.
He leaves behind many friends and family whose lives he has touched and enriched with his gracious love of God and community. In addition to his loving wife of 60 years Jean, he is survived by his children; Ann Marco and her husband, Jim of Raleigh, John S. Carbone and his wife, Tammy of Daytona FL, Maria House and her husband, Michael of Raleigh, Gianine Carbone and her husband, Duncan Murray of Austin, TX. Also surviving are his eight grandchildren; one great-grandson; John's brother, Leonard Carbone.
He is preceded in death by his daughter, Michele Carbone.
The family would like to thank the dedicated and loving staff at Mayview Convalescent Center for their compassion and gentle care.
A memorial Mass celebrating John's life will be held 11:00 a.m. Saturday, March 1, 2008 at Our Lady of Lourdes Catholic Church, 2718 Overbrook Dr., Raleigh NC 27608.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to: Our Lady of Lourdes Catholic Church, 2718 Overbrook Dr, Raleigh, NC 27608 or Hospice of Wake County, 1300 St Mary's St, Fourth Floor, Raleigh, NC 27605.
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Memories and Condolences
for John Carbone
Patricia Campbell
March 13, 2008
Dearest Jean and Family,
The entire Gallagher family was saddened to learn of John's death. John, your family, Villa Capri and Casa Carbone are part of delightful memories from years past. Those were such wonderful times for all of us. My father held John in such high regrard.
Your family made a historic contribution to the culinary experience of the South! Raleigh was fortunate to have an authentic introduction to Italian food!
I will always have a picture of John in my mind, standing tall with a charming twinkle in his eye and a gracious welcome for all.
You have our thoughts and prayers.
Love to All,
Patsy Gallagher Campbell
Jean West
March 8, 2008
Dear Jean and Family,
Our entire family loved John. We were very sorry to hear about his passing. My husband Harold was a good friend of John's and enjoyed many happy times playing handball and racketball at the YMCA on Hillsbourgh St. John was an honorary pallbearer at Harold's funeral.
Your family has always been special to our family. We love you and are keeping you and your family in our prayers.
Jean West
Tom West
Harold West, Jr. and Sharyn West
Terry Kilmartin Roper
March 8, 2008
Gianine and Carbone family,
I am so sorry for your loss but wish that all the wonderful memories of your father bring you comfort. We also had many dinners at the Villa Capri and later at Casa Carbone, and remember not only the wonderful food but also the warmth and genuine caring of the Carbone family. I know it has been a while since we were in school together at OLOL, but know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and the whole family.
Larry and Nancy McCarthy
March 5, 2008
Dear Mike and Maria,
As they say in Ireland, he was a lovely man and he has left a legacy of love that will stretch into several generations. We will not see the likes of him again. Please know that you and your entire family are in our thoughts and prayers at this time.
Shoshana Katz
March 5, 2008
Dear Jean and family,
My name is Shoshana. I am the daughter of Leon Felgere. My parents were friends of yours in the Jacksonville days. I remember eating in the Brooklyn Spaghetti House. I remember picniking once, at the beach. I remember bringing Lenny's wife from New York.
My mother died in 1976. Daddy in 2006. He always talked about Johnny with tremendous affection.
I shall be in North Carolina in December of this year. I live in Israel. I shall try to phone you and see you and fill you in on the intervening years.
With heartfelt best wishes, Shana
The Ledbetters
March 3, 2008
The Ledbetter girls hold in their hearts some of their fondest memories from Mr. Carbone at "Villa Capri". As a family, we dined there weekly, while growing up in Raleigh. Please know that the Carbone family is in our thoughts and prayers. Our mother, Mary, died recently on February 9th. Both of these extraordinary individuals will be greatly missed by all.
Kaye Stott
March 3, 2008
Ann and family
It was with a very heavy heart that I read of the passing of your Dad. It has been many years since we walked the streets from your house to mine in Ridgewood but they are remembered fondly. The warmth of your family was something I will always cherish dearly. Much love to your family and many warm , caring prayers at this time.
Kaye Vann Stott
Eleanor and Pamela Parlakian
March 3, 2008
Our sympathy and prayers go out to Jean and the entire Carbone family.
Judith Miller
March 3, 2008
Ann, Jim and Carbone Family, My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Take comfort in all the wonderful times you shared during your dad's life. Love, Judith
Celeste Barone
March 3, 2008
Over many years, my father (GEORGE BARONE) has told me stories and provided updates about his cousin John and his family who moved down south and opened a fabulous Italian restaurant.
John and my father were close growing up in New York City and whenever my father speaks of John, it is with great warmth and fondness.
It is with deep saddness when we heard of his passing. May God be with you during this difficult time.
Michael Finelli
March 3, 2008
Dear Jean, Maria, and family - I am so sorry to learn about John's passing. From the time he helped my grandmother come to the US from Italy after WWII to when I relocated to NC from NY and he so graciously helped me in my move, I will never forget him, his love of life, and his genuine kindness. I am very honored and blessed to have known him, even if for just a few years.
God Bless you All,
Michael
Ernest G. Charles
March 3, 2008
John Carbone gave so much love and warm hospitality to his family and friends throughout his life.
A man's success can sometimes be measured by his effect on those to whom he dedicated his life. John's family members are
testaments to his loving success.
My friendship with Michael, Maria, and Timothy House is very dear to me and to my family.
May God bless the soul of John Carbone and all of us to His service.
Sandy Wilson Jackson
March 2, 2008
I'm so sorry to hear about John's death. Our family had dinner in Villa Capri every week in the 60's & 70's. My father also was an active member of the YMCA during those years. We had many happy memories of those evenings. But the most moving of all, is the night after our Mother had died. John & Jean prepared dinner with all the Family in the Restaurant. That memory has meant so much since her death. I know our Fathers are playing handball on the courts of Heaven. All my best to the entire family. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Becky and Jimmie Crowder
March 2, 2008
Casa Carbone is our all time favorite restaurant. Our friend, Bill Clement, introduced us to it and has spoken so very highly of your entire family. You have our most sincere sympathy.
Dean & Faye Craghead
March 2, 2008
Jean, Maria, Michael & Family
We were so very sorry to hear/read about John. He was truly a gentleman as well as a very gentle man. We always looked forward to our visits to the "House of Carbone" when we lived in Cary as well as our many trips back to Raleigh when we moved to the DC area. I will always remember those huge gentle hands of John's. He was always such a nice guy!! He is now with the Master Bread Maker!! Please accept our deepest and sincere condolensences.
You are in our prayers.
Cyretha Irving Knobloch
March 2, 2008
Dear Carbone Family,
I was sadden to hear of the lost of your husband/father. Please accept my deepest sympathy. I will always remember our time together at Catherderal.
Susan Lamoreaux
March 2, 2008
Carbone and House Families,
My mother taught Michelle, Ginine, and Jane House. I was in the same grade as Ginine and remember Michelle's tragic death. I always loved when my family went to eat at the best Italian restuarant in Raleigh. We followed you guys from Ridgewood Shopping Center to Glenwood Ave. Catholics believe that death is not a end but a celebrated beginning.
God Bless,
Susan Lamoreaux
Gregor Krisulewicz
March 2, 2008
your father will allways be an inspiration to me.god bless you all.
Jim Godfrey
March 1, 2008
Ann,
I was so sorry to read in the N & O the death of your father. My memories of having dinner with my family at the Villa Capri are some of my fondness. It has been a long time since our days at Cardinal Gibbons. Our thoughts and prayers are with your entire family.
David & Nancy Thornton & Family
March 1, 2008
Dear Jean, Maria, Michael and Family,
We are so sorry to hear of John's death. We saw the write-up in today's paper. We have really fond memories of spending so many birthdays, anniversaries, Mother's Days and the just no occasion great meals with you all during the last 45 years. Our deepest sympathy goes out to each of you.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Nancye Dudley
March 1, 2008
Maria,
Many, many years ago, when I worked at the picture framing shop at Oak Park on Glenwood Avenue, my coworkers and I always looked forward to dinner on Monday and Wednesday nights when our shop was open late. We would walk down to your restaurant and indulge ourselves in your spaghetti with meat sauce and marinara sauce. Your father always met us with an outstretched hand and kind words. I know he will be missed. My condolences to you and yours.
William Tiffany
February 29, 2008
Greay guy who provided excellent Italian cuisine with a unique flair and culinary exquisiteness! Good friend of our family!
William S Tiffany Jr
Theresa Ashmore
February 29, 2008
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Mary C Redfern
February 29, 2008
Dear Mike and Maria, I periodically check my hometown newspaper and saw today with sorrow of Mr. Carbone's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Sincerely, Mary Claire Redfern (Earl's sister)
Regina Stehlik
February 29, 2008
Thoughts and prayers to the House family as you mourn the loss of a life well lived! May your memories bring you comfort and your friends surround you with love. God bless you all.
Pat & Pam Lejman
February 29, 2008
Mr and Mrs. Carbone were friends with our parents since we moved to Raleigh in 1970. We went to school at Cardinal Gibbons with his children and remember the wonderful meals we had at the Villa Capri. Rest well Mr. Carbone, we will miss you.
Julia Dixon Jackson
February 29, 2008
My thoughts and prayers to the family, especially Mrs Carbone, Maria and John. Mr Carbone was gracious and kind and I remember his smile.God Bless.
Ida Andruzzi Stephens
February 29, 2008
My prayers and thoughts are with the Carbone family. I remember with great fondness spending time at your home... Michele was very special to me and now you will be with her in heaven. God bless you all!
Rhoda and Harry Weiss
February 29, 2008
Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
Lisa Whitney
February 29, 2008
My sympathies to the Carbone family. I have fond memories from long, long ago of walking up to the Villa Capri in Ridgewood S/C (with Michele) and enjoying the wonderful food.
God bless you all,
Lisa (Geraghty) Whitney
Cathy Betz
February 29, 2008
I have such fond memories of kindheartedness that Mr. Carbone and your Family would give to my family when we (the Betz Family) were be able to venture out for one of your famous meal's, at the Villa Capri Italian Restaurant. I'm sure Mr. Carbone is in Heaven receiving a huge reward for all the kindheartedness he shared with many. Your families are in my thoughts and prayers.
DEBBIE-JO GUARGLIA AND FAMILY
February 29, 2008
ANOTHER ANGEL HAS BEEN SENT TO HEAVEN.I THINK THEY NEEDED SOMEONE TO MAKE BREAD!FROM ONE GREAT ITALIAN FAMILY TO ANOTHER OUR LOVE AND HEARTFELT THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU.
John Krisulewicz
February 29, 2008
God bless you, Mr. Carbone. I will never forget you or your family. I still remember Michele fondly. Peace be with you.
Karen Pappas
February 29, 2008
It is an honor to know Mr. Carbone and his family. I pray you all share your love and strength during this sad time...Our heartfelt condolences and with much love, Karen & Mike
Stan Walkuw
February 29, 2008
Uncle John,
You were my favorite out of all the Uncles.
Stan and Debbie Walkuw and Kids
Donna Zygmon
February 29, 2008
The loss of one so dear is always difficult. I send hugs and prayers to each of you at this time. Accept my warmest regards-Love,
Donna
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