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barbara hoffman
February 3, 2013
frank--
oh crap. she won't be in the garden anymore telling me what to do. hey! you know she always came out in the garden in the morning smiling and said well it's another beautiful day no matter how bad she felt. I couldn't help but think that she had spunk, ego and was dealing with 4th stage cancer even though she still had the strength to keep it all together. well, well, after all, she was born and raised in texas and possessed proud qualities, among them spunkiness and a strong will to still direct me in what she wanted her garden to be like that last summer, so she and frank could enjoy it. frank, after you left for work, 'bout 8:00 I would knock on the door and judy would come out and say, hmm. she would say' hmm, looks like a good day to go outside and have you plant 'somthin or clean out a bed or two or move this plant over there. hmm,i said yes,indeed, cuz it was a thing she longed to do but couldn't with her illness. she relied on me to carry out her wishes to make the garden flourish last summer because she couldn't at the time. her garden flourished throughout the season with beautiful yellows of goldenrod, green ferns near the fish in her pond and a myriad of colors designed for a gourmet palette. while she wouldn't do the work herself, she dearly wanted to.
well, i will always love her for her extremely kind ways and what she taught me in the garden on my way to become a pretty good gardener like she was . she made it to another birthday' but didn,t stick around til' spring planting. when you see her tell her i'm mad that she left you and me and bistro with all this damn work to do. when the purple crocuses come up in the spring she said this was her favorite flower of all. well, why what the hell was i doing all the work on her garden all that year when these suckers came up by themselves! love to frank, your son and daughter and bistro.
Bill and Joyce Fraley
January 26, 2013
Frank...really sorry for your loss. Your excellent obituary says alot about her very productive life and the legacy she leaves for all of us. Thank you.
Judy's Sunset
David & Terri Swanson
January 19, 2013
This sunset is my memory of our dear friend and colleague. Our condolences to all.
January 19, 2013
brian starkey
January 18, 2013
Frank:
Judy will be certainly be missed by the landscape architecture and design community. Our thoughts are with you and your family.
Peter Doherty
January 17, 2013
Frank, my condolences go out to you. We lost Joy to the same circumstances this year. The world will sorely miss these creative women.
Mark Robinson
January 17, 2013
Frank,
My deepest sympathies to you and your family. Judy was a gifted, sensitive designer who understood beauty in this world and how to bring it to light for others to see. It has been a pleasure and a privilege to know and work with her.
Evelyn Mullen
January 17, 2013
Frank, Laura, and William,
I came to love the generosity of Judy during the elementary years of Laura and William at Wiley International Magnet School. Judy had many demanding initiatives but each time that she came to our library she would say,"I have a few minutes, how can I help You?" ...and this extremely accomplished lady would begin to shelve books.
She leaves a legacy of service and generosity.
William Dodge
January 16, 2013
Frank, Laura, and Will
Our deepest sympathies go out to you all. Although this city has just lost one of its finest, she will most certainly never be forgotten.
My grandfather used to say that there were three great tragedies in life; living too long, dying too young, and never making a difference... Judy unquestioningly made that difference. She has left a lasting impact on the lives of so many and the world is a much better place for it.
Jeff Hurr
January 16, 2013
We are all better for having known Judy. Deepest appreciation of spirits like hers, and sincere sense of commitment to continuing her legacy of sensitivity to the world around us...especially the details. Thanks Judy and HAPPY TRAILS GIRL.
Joanna Lelekacs
January 16, 2013
Frank, my deepest sympathies go out to you. Judy touched many people's spirits through her gentle way and her artistic endeavors. I will think of her with the opening of each new blossom this spring.
Bert Sult
January 16, 2013
Frank,
Our hearts are with you and your family during this difficult time. We will remember you in our thoughts and prayers.
Bert Sult and Jackie Mizelle (Raleigh, NC)
Perry Cox
January 16, 2013
Frank, so sorry for your loss. I will be thinking of you during this time.
laRaine Papa Montgomery
January 16, 2013
Rest in peace, gentle spirit. You will be remembered always.
January 16, 2013
Frank,
My thoughts are with you all. Judy will be missed. She always had a bright smile and greeting whenever I saw her.
Angela Lord
Gwyn Gilliam
January 16, 2013
Frank,
My deepest sympathies on Judy's death. Her spirit and your love for each other are both inspirations to us all.
Gwyn
Faye Koonce
January 16, 2013
The write-up is a beautiful tribute to Judy. It was a pleasure to know and talk with her. Her bright smile and warm welcome will be greatly missed.
Love,
Faye Koonce
Lope Max & Aixa Diaz
January 16, 2013
Dear Frank, My deepest condolences on the passing of your dear Judy. My heart goes out to you and family in this hour of pain and sorrow.
Charles Serrell
January 16, 2013
It was in deed a pleasure to know and love Judy. She was the best host a cousin could ask for on the many trips to Durham to visit my grandparents. Good times and fond memoires last a lifetime.
John Sharpe
January 16, 2013
With deepest sympathy to Frank in his loss.
Anne Russell
January 16, 2013
Judy's magical garden at the Harmon home near NCSU is the essence of Judy, with winding pathways leading to visual surprises such as a shower of pink petals in a nook which invites a guest to stay awhile. Judy was this way, always welcoming yet also private, Frank's creative partner and co-parent of Laura and Will, but also Judy on her own terms. Howard Garriss and I shall miss this charming, valiant friend.
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