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Judy Harmon Obituary

Judy Harmon
January 1, 1945 – January 10, 2013
Raleigh
Judy Harmon passed away in Raleigh on January 10, 2013, surrounded by family and friends. The cause was metastatic breast cancer. She was a landscape architect known for her artistic sense of design. She was the only child of Malvern and Frances King, and was born on New Year's Day in 1945 in San Antonio, Texas. A city of graceful live oaks and river walks. She lived there until she was nine. She said that her love of art was shaped by growing up in a beautiful city. She was born Mary Vance King, but her hospital nurses called her Judy, the name she used for the rest of her life. When her parents divorced she moved with her mother to Houston, then to Durham, North Carolina, where she graduated from Durham High School in 1962. She attended Sullins College in Bristol Va. for two years, then transferred to UNC where she studied art, graduating with a degree in art education.
Judy then moved to Washington DC, enrolled in American University to study interior design, and began teaching elementary school in Charles County, Maryland. She lived in an apartment building at the confluence of Hunting Creek and the Potomac River. Her mother remarried to Leon McMinn, a prominent architect in Greensboro, North Carolina. At home for summer classes at UNCG in 1969, Judy threw a party for her North Carolina friends. Her stepfather recommended she invite a young architectural intern working for him, and that's how she met her future husband, Frank Harmon. After a year's courtship they married in 1970 and moved to New York City. There she worked for Saks Fifth Avenue as a returns clerk, once serving Ella Fitzgerald. She continued her art studies at the New School. In 1973 she and Frank moved to England, where she taught at the American School in London. In England she discovered a love of plants and gardening that was to shape her life. The gardens at Hidcote Manor, Sissinghurst, and Great Dixter were her textbooks and role models. She designed and built her first garden in Islington in 1976, the year her son William was born. In 1979, while Judy was pregnant with their daughter Laura, she and Frank left England for Auburn, Alabama, and in 1981 moved to Raleigh. In 1988 she enrolled in the Horticulture program at NC State University. Encouraged by her professors to further her artistic skills, she transferred to the College of Design where she received a Masters Degree in Landscape Architecture in 1992. After interning with Mark Robinson Landscape Architect, she opened her own office in 1996. Judy had an instinctive sense of place. On a trip to Texas two years ago, she found, simply by driving around, the small cottage in Port Aransas where she'd vacationed with her father over 60 years earlier. The places where she grew up in San Antonio -- her neighbor Hal's backyard, Brackenridge Park, the Japanese Tea Garden -- were constituent facts in her memory. Realizing the significance of these places made every place important to her, including the places she designed. Going on a trip with her was a delight. There was hardly a small-town historic district in the South that she did not detour to visit. Judy enjoyed being where she was and with whom she shared the experience. She was never in a hurry to get somewhere else.
While still a student, she built a house and garden for her family in 1991 on Brooks Avenue near the School of Horticulture at NCSU. With its walled garden, it became an oasis in the busy university neighborhood. Typical of her approach, she saved six 75- year-old trees and included them in her design. Her house and garden became a laboratory for plants, design, color, and texture, and was, for two decades, an oasis of calm and beauty for her family and friends. Sarah Susanka and Julie Moir Messervy prominently featured her home and garden in their book Outside the Not So Big House in 2006. Messervy praised her intuitive sense of beauty. She practiced in her office, Judy Harmon Landscape Architect, until her early retirement in 2009. She designed residential gardens in North and South Carolina and Virginia. Her non-residential projects include Millbrook Baptist Church, Farmville United Methodist Church, the North Carolina Pottery Center in Seagrove, NC, Falconridge in Chapel Hill, and a psychologist's office on Oberlin Road in Raleigh. The psychologist's office is an early example of sustainable native plantings chosen for their color and plant texture, reflecting Judy's background as a painter. Her work conveyed beauty, appropriate scale, and a sense of proportion. She was a master of strong aesthetic expression from the large context of her designs to minute construction detailing, while at the same time championing innovative sustainable design approaches that benefitted her clients and the environment. Her approach to design always began with particulars: a place for mothers to sit and watch while their children played, a lawn surrounded by flowers that could be a badminton court, a sunbathing area, or a space for dinner outdoors on a summer evening. After retirement, Judy focused much of her design expertise on the Master Plan Committee at the JC Raulston Arboretum in Raleigh where she was a leading voice for making the JCRA a much more aesthetically significant place. In all of these endeavors, she imagined she was giving beautiful places back to the world, like the place where she grew up in San Antonio. Judy was a mentor to students, architects, and designers, always finding something of value in their work and always giving them firm but encouraging advice. She was that way with her friends, who remember feeling better about themselves for being with her. She was an accomplished painter of still life and portraits of her family. Her painting of Pearl Poole, her children's principal, hangs in the Wiley Elementary School entrance hall. Judy served on the Board of Directors of Trees Across Raleigh, a non-profit organization dedicated to planting trees in public areas throughout the city of Raleigh, and on the Board of the JC Raulston Arboretum.
She is survived by her husband, Frank Harmon, her daughter, Laura Harmon of Brooklyn, New York, and her son, William Harmon of London.
On her dresser, she kept a poem about dogs, which she adored. Readers may also think that the poem could describe Judy:
Dogs are our link to paradise.
They don't know evil, jealousy or discontent.
To sit with a dog on a glorious afternoon is to be back in Eden,
When doing nothing was not boring,
It was peace.
A memorial service in her honor is being planned at a future date, to be announced.
Donations in Judy's memory may be made to: The JC Raulston Arboretum, North Carolina State University, PO Box 7522, Raleigh, NC 27695.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The News & Observer on Jan. 16, 2013.

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barbara hoffman

February 3, 2013

frank--
oh crap. she won't be in the garden anymore telling me what to do. hey! you know she always came out in the garden in the morning smiling and said well it's another beautiful day no matter how bad she felt. I couldn't help but think that she had spunk, ego and was dealing with 4th stage cancer even though she still had the strength to keep it all together. well, well, after all, she was born and raised in texas and possessed proud qualities, among them spunkiness and a strong will to still direct me in what she wanted her garden to be like that last summer, so she and frank could enjoy it. frank, after you left for work, 'bout 8:00 I would knock on the door and judy would come out and say, hmm. she would say' hmm, looks like a good day to go outside and have you plant 'somthin or clean out a bed or two or move this plant over there. hmm,i said yes,indeed, cuz it was a thing she longed to do but couldn't with her illness. she relied on me to carry out her wishes to make the garden flourish last summer because she couldn't at the time. her garden flourished throughout the season with beautiful yellows of goldenrod, green ferns near the fish in her pond and a myriad of colors designed for a gourmet palette. while she wouldn't do the work herself, she dearly wanted to.
well, i will always love her for her extremely kind ways and what she taught me in the garden on my way to become a pretty good gardener like she was . she made it to another birthday' but didn,t stick around til' spring planting. when you see her tell her i'm mad that she left you and me and bistro with all this damn work to do. when the purple crocuses come up in the spring she said this was her favorite flower of all. well, why what the hell was i doing all the work on her garden all that year when these suckers came up by themselves! love to frank, your son and daughter and bistro.

Bill and Joyce Fraley

January 26, 2013

Frank...really sorry for your loss. Your excellent obituary says alot about her very productive life and the legacy she leaves for all of us. Thank you.

Judy's Sunset

David & Terri Swanson

January 19, 2013

This sunset is my memory of our dear friend and colleague. Our condolences to all.

January 19, 2013

brian starkey

January 18, 2013

Frank:

Judy will be certainly be missed by the landscape architecture and design community. Our thoughts are with you and your family.

Peter Doherty

January 17, 2013

Frank, my condolences go out to you. We lost Joy to the same circumstances this year. The world will sorely miss these creative women.

Mark Robinson

January 17, 2013

Frank,
My deepest sympathies to you and your family. Judy was a gifted, sensitive designer who understood beauty in this world and how to bring it to light for others to see. It has been a pleasure and a privilege to know and work with her.

Evelyn Mullen

January 17, 2013

Frank, Laura, and William,

I came to love the generosity of Judy during the elementary years of Laura and William at Wiley International Magnet School. Judy had many demanding initiatives but each time that she came to our library she would say,"I have a few minutes, how can I help You?" ...and this extremely accomplished lady would begin to shelve books.
She leaves a legacy of service and generosity.

William Dodge

January 16, 2013

Frank, Laura, and Will

Our deepest sympathies go out to you all. Although this city has just lost one of its finest, she will most certainly never be forgotten.

My grandfather used to say that there were three great tragedies in life; living too long, dying too young, and never making a difference... Judy unquestioningly made that difference. She has left a lasting impact on the lives of so many and the world is a much better place for it.

Jeff Hurr

January 16, 2013

We are all better for having known Judy. Deepest appreciation of spirits like hers, and sincere sense of commitment to continuing her legacy of sensitivity to the world around us...especially the details. Thanks Judy and HAPPY TRAILS GIRL.

Joanna Lelekacs

January 16, 2013

Frank, my deepest sympathies go out to you. Judy touched many people's spirits through her gentle way and her artistic endeavors. I will think of her with the opening of each new blossom this spring.

Bert Sult

January 16, 2013

Frank,
Our hearts are with you and your family during this difficult time. We will remember you in our thoughts and prayers.

Bert Sult and Jackie Mizelle (Raleigh, NC)

Perry Cox

January 16, 2013

Frank, so sorry for your loss. I will be thinking of you during this time.

laRaine Papa Montgomery

January 16, 2013

Rest in peace, gentle spirit. You will be remembered always.

January 16, 2013

Frank,
My thoughts are with you all. Judy will be missed. She always had a bright smile and greeting whenever I saw her.
Angela Lord

Gwyn Gilliam

January 16, 2013

Frank,

My deepest sympathies on Judy's death. Her spirit and your love for each other are both inspirations to us all.

Gwyn

Faye Koonce

January 16, 2013

The write-up is a beautiful tribute to Judy. It was a pleasure to know and talk with her. Her bright smile and warm welcome will be greatly missed.

Love,

Faye Koonce

Lope Max & Aixa Diaz

January 16, 2013

Dear Frank, My deepest condolences on the passing of your dear Judy. My heart goes out to you and family in this hour of pain and sorrow.

Charles Serrell

January 16, 2013

It was in deed a pleasure to know and love Judy. She was the best host a cousin could ask for on the many trips to Durham to visit my grandparents. Good times and fond memoires last a lifetime.

John Sharpe

January 16, 2013

With deepest sympathy to Frank in his loss.

Anne Russell

January 16, 2013

Judy's magical garden at the Harmon home near NCSU is the essence of Judy, with winding pathways leading to visual surprises such as a shower of pink petals in a nook which invites a guest to stay awhile. Judy was this way, always welcoming yet also private, Frank's creative partner and co-parent of Laura and Will, but also Judy on her own terms. Howard Garriss and I shall miss this charming, valiant friend.

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