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Kevin Nelson Obituary

Kevin Nelson

Durham

Kevin Nelson, 59, of Durham, NC, died peacefully at home surrounded by his loving family on Tuesday, January 29, 2019.

Kevin was born July 17, 1959 to Ellis and Nellie Holmes Nelson in New Bern, NC. He graduated from New Bern High School in 1977 and East Carolina University in 1981 with a BS in Marketing.

Kevin was employed with Lowe's Home Improvement in Garner, NC and previously worked at Stock Building Supply and CP&L / Progress Energy. Kevin's humor will be remembered as one of his greatest attributes, and he always spread laughter to everyone he encountered. It was impossible to be in Kevin's presence and not smile. He enjoyed fishing, sailing, water-skiing, and most of all spending time with his family.

Kevin is survived by the love of his life, his wife, Sandra Mears; children, Brett Nelson, Bryan Mears (Sarah), Mandy Mears, and Michael Mears (Nicole); grandson, August Mears; siblings, Gregory Nelson (Jennifer) and Kara Nelson Joyce (Tim); parents, Nellie Thalmann (Charlie) and Ellis Nelson; and numerous nieces and nephews.

He is preceded in death by his beloved son, Trevor Nelson.

A celebration of Kevin's life will be held at Yates Baptist Church in Durham, NC on Saturday, February 9, 2019 at 1:30 PM. The family will visit with friends immediately following the service.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions in Kevin's name may be made to Animal Protection Society of Durham, 2117 E. Club Blvd., Durham, NC 27704 or online at apsofdurham.org.

Arrangements by Cotten Funeral Home & Crematory of New Bern, NC.

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Published by The News and Observer on Feb. 3, 2019.

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MJ Whaley

January 28, 2022

Miss my friend everyday! Thinking of his family today and always.

gc

March 11, 2019

My sincere condolences to the Nelson family. May your many fine memories of Kevin and loving words comfort family and friends during this difficult time and the days ahead (Isaiah 57:15)

S W

March 1, 2019

When someone we love falls asleep in death the memories we have of them become our treasure, may those cherished memories of a life well lived and Gods promise at John 6:40 bring you a measure of peace and comfort during this most difficult time. My deepest condolences to the family.

February 18, 2019

When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure. May the wonderful treasures fill your hearts with love and bring you peace. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. 1 Thessalonians 4:14.
BA.

DR

February 11, 2019

Deepest sympathy to the Family. It is so very difficult when we lose those we love who are gone from us much to soon. May the memories of Kevin and the comfort from God help you get through this very difficult time.

MJ Whaley

February 8, 2019

I am proud to say, Kevin was my beloved friend. He was a mentor and friend who has made my life richer for knowing him. I will always remember Kevin as an amazing human being. My prayers for comfort and peace to Sandra and the entire Nelson family.

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Lisa Smith

February 4, 2019

I worked for Kevin in the Marketing Department at CP&L. He was such a great boss and friend. He loved his family dearly, especially his boys. I never got to meet Sandra. One day at work Kevin called and said he was not coming back to the office, we were glad and thought maybe he was just going home early because he worked so many hours. He said he had been doing a presentation and the cap came off his tooth right during the presentation and he had to go get it fixed. The next morning we all took a box of raisins and covered our front tooth and smiled at him when he came into the office. He laughed and laughed at us. Kevin will certainly be missed on this earth but I bet he is celebrating with his son Trevor in Heaven now. My prayers to his new family and also to Lynn, my thoughts and prayers to you all.

Nathan Adams

February 3, 2019

Kevin was my first boss when I was 16 when he was President of the Garner Chamber of Commerce. There wasn't a day there that I wasn't always laughing and didn't want to come to work because of Kevin. He was my absolute favorite boss, and I'm sure he always will be- and an excellent President of the Chamber, breathing new life and energy to the organization and so many new members because of him. Anyone that knew Kevin could attest to his humor, kind heart, and genuine compassion for others. It was impossible not to smile when he was around. He left an indelible mark on the business community in Garner and will sorely be missed by so many in the Garner business community. I remember the time period when he was getting ready to marry Sandra. He was so excited he found the love of his life and spoke of how much he loved her and Trevor and Brett daily. My condolences to Sandra, Brett, his parents, Lynn and the family. He was truly one in a million. God bless Kevin Nelson.

Karen Stewart

February 3, 2019

I will miss your smile and words of encouragement. All my prayers for your family. Your Lowes family has been enriched by your presence and hard work.

Karen Stewart

Serena Holt

February 3, 2019

Condolences to the family. Kevin was a great guy. God bless.

Paula Smith

February 2, 2019

Remembering Kevin and the old CP&L Raleigh District office.

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