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Paul Bouche Obituary

Paul Edmond Bouche passed away peacefully in his home on January 28, 2008, after a lengthy illness with Alzheimer's.
Paul was born December 6, 1934 in South Bend, IN. He graduated from South Bend High School in 1953 and then served in the U.S. Army for two years. Paul graduated in 1959 with a degree in Electrical Engineering from Tri-State College, in Angola, IN.
Paul started with IBM in Kingston, NY in 1959 upon graduating college and worked in several IBM locations throughout New York. In 1978, he transferred with IBM to RTP in Raleigh. In 1967, Paul received an Outstanding Contribution Award for a computer program that he developed. Paul retired from IBM in May 1990 after 31 years of service.
He is survived by his wife of 39 years, Grace Cumming Bouche of Raleigh; sons, Jon Bouche and his wife, Julie, and Andrew Bouche, both of Raleigh; his daughter, Judy Bouche of Washington, DC. Other survivors include: his twin brother, Ernest Bouche and his wife, Marilou, of Valparaiso IN; along with four grandchildren, Brandon, Phillip, Mathew, and Valerie; along with many nieces and nephews.
Paul was predeceased in death by his daughter, Nicole Bouche in August 2002, along with his parents, Ernest and Anne Bouche, who were originally from France before settling in South Bend, IN, and his sister, Colette Konkol of Wisconsin.
The family would like to thank Paul's caregivers, Donna Sousa and Mary Kamdtho, for their wonderful and caring support during his illness, along with Hospice of Wake County.
A memorial service will be held 1:00 p.m. Friday, February 1, 2008 at First Reformed Church of Cary.
The family will receive friends at their home at 4:00 p.m.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to: Hospice of Wake County, 1300 St. Mary's Street, Suite 400, Raleigh, NC, 27605.

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Published by The News & Observer on Jan. 30, 2008.

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Larry Giantomas

February 2, 2008

Iwent to Central High with Paul and we were in the Comet's Club together and great friends.. I always felt he was one of the nicest guys in school and a life long friend My deepest sympathy

Jim Moritz

February 2, 2008

I am always saddend when hearing about the passing of one of my schoolmates. I clearly recall the days when I attended Holy Cross School with both Paul and Ernie. We all enjoyed playing pick up football games and watching professional wrestling on the Bouche's small screen black and white TV set. My deepest sympathy to all of Paul's family and loved one's.

Martha Huggins

February 1, 2008

Asking God's comfort for you and your family during the coming days.

Pam Barefoot

January 31, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with the whole family. I knew him a short while, but I know how hard it's to let go of a special person, but GOD will be with us all...Love Always

Rose and Dick Lagatore

January 30, 2008

My dearest friend of many years...Dick and I were truly saddened to have heard of Paul's passing..he was a fine man and a wonderful husband and father and we know that he will be missed by you and his children, family and friends. Dick and I wish we could be with you at this time...but you will be in our heart...God Bless you dear friend of mine...I love you dearly. Rose...May your guardian angel watch over you and yours at this time.

Lisa Gullette

January 30, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with each of you. My God give you peace and comfort. I have great memories of Paul that I will hold dear forever and share with his grandchildren and someday his great-grandchildren.

D Konitshek

January 30, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Michael Marshall & family

January 30, 2008

Bouche family,

We just wanted you to know that each of you are in our thoughts and prayers. Although we realize that this is a difficult time, rejoice in the knowledge that he is in a far better place. If you need anything, please let us know.

Wayne & Jennifer Kearney

January 30, 2008

We are terribly sorry for your loss. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

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