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Thomas Whitaker Obituary

Thomas Squires Whitaker, Jr.

March 3, 1989 - October 3, 2016

Wilmington

Thomas Squires Whitaker, Jr., 27, passed away on Monday, October 3, 2016. He was the son of Thomas Squires Whitaker, Sr. & Vickie Greeson Whitaker both surviving.

Thomas graduated from Catawba College in Salisbury in 2014 with a BA in History and was currently a student at Cape Fear College in Wilmington. He was a member of First Presbyterian Church of Raleigh.

Survivors include his son, Hudson Squires Whitaker of Dunn; parents, Thomas Squires Whitaker, Sr. and Vickie Greeson Whitaker of Burlington; sisters, Katie Overby and husband, Benjy of Burlington and Liz Powell and husband, Bob of Schwenksville, Pennsylvania; niece, Haley Powell and nephews, Benjamin Overby, Jr., Thomas Overby, William Overby and Tyler Powell; paternal grandparents, Homer and Louise Whitaker of Burlington and best friend, Ted Triantis of Wilmington and numerous aunts, uncles and cousins.

A service of Witness to the Resurrection will be held on Monday, October 10, 2016 at 2:00 pm at First Presbyterian Church by Dr. Ron Shive, officiating and Dr. Norman M. Whitney. The family will receive friends following the service in the Witherspoon Room and other times at his parents home.

Memorials may be made to a trust fund for Hudson Squires Whitaker, c/o Vernon Law Firm, P O Drawer 2958, Burlington, NC 27216 or Thomas S. Whitaker, Jr. Memorial Scholarship Fund at Catawba College, c/o Dr. Gary Freeze, 2300 West Innes Street, Salisbury, NC 28144.

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Published by The News and Observer on Oct. 9, 2016.

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Carol Willingham

October 24, 2016

Vickie, Tom, and family,
I was stunned and so saddened by the news that Thomas had passed away. Davis, Ed, and I will always have such fond memories of his great smile, his competitive spirit on the soccer field, and his love of his friends and family. May your faith sustain and comfort you all in the days ahead. Sending much love to you and your family.

George Ports

October 17, 2016

Tom,
I pray that God will grant you and your family his peace that surpasses all understanding and comfort to get you through this most difficult time.

Debra Weber

October 13, 2016

Thomas was kind and caring. I will always cherish his giant image posted on my refrigerator. Ms Debra

S Becoat

October 12, 2016

Mr.& Mrs. Whitaker,

Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this most difficult time.

Leslie Wolf

October 11, 2016

Dear Vickie and Tom and family,
My hearts go out to you and my prayers for comfort and peace continue. I am so sorry for your loss.
Leslie Wolf

Molly (Hammer) Hemphill

October 11, 2016

Praying for you and your family during this tragic time. Thomas was a nice young man taken too soon

Marse Crapster

October 11, 2016

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Marcia & Larry Hanks

October 11, 2016

Tom, Vicky, Katie and Benji,
I was so saddened to hear of Thomas' passing. Can't imagine your pain. May God surround you with His comfort and love.

The Ryals family

October 10, 2016

So sorry to hear of your loss! Our prayers are with you!

Camilla McClain

October 10, 2016

Mr. and Mrs. Whitaker, you have my deepest condolences on the loss of your son. Words can't say how sorry I am to hear about this. Your whole family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Betty Ann Boyd

October 10, 2016

Mr. Whitaker and family,

I imagine there is no more pain far-reaching and deeper than losing a child. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family at this difficult time.

Betty Ann Boyd

October 10, 2016

Mr. Whitaker and Family,
I imagine there is no more pain far-reaching and deeper than losing a child. My heart and prayers go out to you at this difficult time.

Verna Wade

October 10, 2016

Tom and Vickie

My heart and prayers go out to you and the rest of the family. I am so sorry about your loss. May God help you through this difficult time.

Be blessed.

Ann and Bob Wyker

October 10, 2016

Tom and Vickie: Our deepest condolences to you and your family at this tragic time. Thomas was such a delightful young man who we were honored to know. Our hearts go out to you for your loss.

Jake Martin

October 10, 2016

Thomas, I really enjoyed our time together and I know it won't be the last.

Kaye Flood

October 10, 2016

Vickie and Tom
My thoughts and prayers are with you and all your family. Many fond memories of Thomas at soccer games. I am so sad and heartbroken for all of you. May God hold you in the palm of his hand through this difficult time.

Robin Robinson

October 10, 2016

I'm so sad and sorry to learn of Thomas' passing. I am a friend and judicial colleague of Katie and know how wonderful she is and how special her family is. My prayers for you all, that you will be cheered by your loving memories, that you will be comforted in celebrating Thomas' life and all the lives he touched, and sustained by the assurance of his life eternal.
My condolences and best wishes always,
Robin Wicks Robinson
District Court Judge

Samuel Wilson

October 10, 2016

I love you Thomas, miss you brother, I'll see you one day and I know you'll be with all of us from here on out.

Sandra Barbour

October 10, 2016

I worked quite a few years with Tom Whitaker (as Chief Counsel and Commissioner). He is a fine and compassionate man. I know he and his wife is heartbroken over the death of their son. No words can ease that pain, but you are definitely in my prayers and thoughts during this time and for a long time afterward. They say that God does not put more on us than we can handle; and at times like this, we wonder. But God will get you thru this; think of all the good times and remember and love his son will help you out. I just wished I could go something to help you during this time.

October 10, 2016

The Tom West family sends thoughts and prayers to your family. We all have fond memories of Thomas. Blessings to your family.
Dana, Tom, Katharine and Laura West
Raleigh

Judy Partin

October 10, 2016

Mr. Tom, so sorry to read this. May God be with you and your family.Judy P

Nia

October 10, 2016

May your memory be eternal.

Nia

October 10, 2016

I won't forget getting to spend time with you at the beach Thomas. So many memories with you and Ted - you will be missed. I only wish we could have done it again with our babies. Much love.

Michael Graves

October 10, 2016

Commissioner Whitaker, wife and family,

Words can not express my sympathy as words surely can not describe the incredible loss of your son. The only thing that i can say in this time of great loss is that the God we serve is able to see you through. My prayers is that our God will sustain you during this time and my the precious memories of your son flood your soul and provide you some peace in comfort in the days to come until you see him again.

Mary Noel Dodd

October 9, 2016

Dear Vickie and Tom,
You have been so much in our thoughts and prayers ever since we heard of your terrible loss. We will be holding you in our hearts.
Gene and Mary Noel Dodd

Sara (Crawford) Cockerill

October 9, 2016

Vickie and Tom,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. May the Lord grant you peace and comfort.

Teresa Rouse McLean

October 9, 2016

Vickie and Tom,

My heart is broken for you. Sweet Thomas! I have been thinking about our Broughton bleacher days and home much we loved watching our boys play soccer. I am so sorry. You are in my prayers. Stewart and I were together when Elizabeth gave us the news. We are all so very sad. I love you both, Teresa

October 9, 2016

Vickie,

Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Peggy Brantley

October 9, 2016

Tom & Vickie,
Sending you lots of prayers.
Anne Lasley

Debbie Greene

October 9, 2016

Tom, Vicki and family. I am so sorry to hear this about Thomas. I have many fond memories of when Tom would bring Thomas to the office and he would sit on my lap and play. I pray God will give you strength to get through this most difficult time.

Manfred Emmrich

October 9, 2016

Tom and Vickie,
Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of loss.
Manfred and Beverly Emmrich

Brooks and Darlene Wilkins

October 9, 2016

Vicky and Tom, our hearts are broken for you. We loved Thomas and Molly did too. You will be in our thoughts and prayers continually. We grieve with you. We understand the loss of your precious child. God bless you all and keep you in his care.

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