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Thurman Mercer "Tim" Nelson, Jr.
Greenville
Thurman Mercer "Tim" Nelson, Jr., 64, passed away Friday, May 6, 2011 at The Service League of Greenville Inpatient Hospice.
A memorial service will be held Monday at 11:30 am in The Memorial Baptist Church officiated by Rev. Rick Bailey. Private burial with Masonic Rites will be held prior to the memorial service.
Tim, a native of Shreveport, Louisiana, served in the United States Marine Corps during the Vietnam War. Following his military service he was employed with the Ohio State Patrol before beginning his career with the North Carolina State Bureau of Investigation (SBI) in 1977. He continued his education throughout his career and received a B.S. in Criminal Justice from East Carolina University and a Masters in Health Law from Nova Southeastern University in Florida. In 2002, after 25 years of service with the SBI, he retired as a Criminal Specialist in Human Resources. Following his retirement Tim began a second career with Pitt County Memorial Hospital, first in Risk Management and since 2007 as Police Chief and Public Safety Director.
Tim was a member of The Memorial Baptist Church where he taught the Koinonia Sunday School Class and served as a Deacon. He was a member of the Crown Point Masonic Lodge #708 A.F. & A.M. He was active in the United Way of Pitt County where he served as Chairman of the Board for two terms. He held memberships in the International Association for Healthcare Security and Safety serving as NC Chapter Chairman in 2009 and 2010. He served on the board for the Pitt County Law Enforcement Officers Association, and Crime Stoppers as well as serving as an instructor for the Management Development Program at PCC.
He was preceded in death by his parents, Thurman M. and Jean Heflin Nelson; and his son in-law, Stuart Kornegay Ward.
He is survived by his: wife of 24 years, Paula Bailey Nelson; son, Trey Hawkins and wife, Stacey, of Shreveport, LA; step-daughter, Michele Ward, of Morehead City; granddaughter, Mary-Stuart Bailey Ward;
grandson, Chase Hawkins; sister, Donna Lang, of Columbia, SC; nephew, Nelson Lang; niece, Jessica Lang.
The family will receive friends Sunday from 5 to 7 pm at his home 318 Pinewood Road.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to the Service League of Greenville Inpatient Hospice, C/O PCMH Foundation, P.O. Box 8489, Greenville, NC 27835-8489 or to the American Cancer Society, 930-B Wellness Drive, Greenville, NC 27834.
Arrangements by Wilkerson Funeral Home and Crematory, Greenville.
Online condolences at: www.
wilkersonfuneralhome.com

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Published by The News & Observer on May 8, 2011.

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Sheryl Lawrence Basinger

May 20, 2011

I am so very sorry that Tim has left us, but, just for a while. I knew Tim since Jr. High. He was just always the nicest guy ever, with such a big smile for everyone. He grew into a wonderful man who served others. To his wife Paula, and all the family may you be at peace knowing he is with our Lord. and one day there will be the biggest reunion ever. Love in Christ, Sheryl Lawrence Basinger.

Jeff Dial

May 12, 2011

Words can't begin to express the sadness I feel as a good man, great friend and devoted husband recently enter the presence of an almighty and faithful saviour. The world is definitely a better place because of Tim's commitment to improve the quality of life for all; regardless of race, ethinicity or gender. Paula thank you for sharing him with us. Heaven is a little brighter now.

May 10, 2011

My wife and I are very sorry to hear of your loss. Our prayers are with you in this difficult time.
Sincerely,
Jim & Patti Bennett

Tamara Lindsey

May 10, 2011

Chief Nelson was a good and honorable man and it was my pleasure to have worked for him. His family and friends are in my thoughts and prayers.

Johnnie Pegues

May 10, 2011

Tim was a great guy, brought lots of laughs to us when we were in school as kids. He leaves, with me, a legacy of fun and joy.

May 9, 2011

Tim was a friend going back further than high school. He was a good man, and I hope the comfort of knowing he is with God now(and laughing I'm sure) will bring comfort to his family.

Jan Hopkins

May 9, 2011

'For the passing of a friend is something that we mourn,
But angels throng about him saying, "A man is born!" '

I only saw Tim once since high school and that was just last year. But I will remember his kind and gentle manners and conversation. He remained an easy man to like.

Peace to his wife and family.

Jan Hopkins

Scott Welborn

May 9, 2011

I only knew Tim through a business association but always knew him to be a man integrity and manners. I've met his wife Paula but do not know the family. My heart goes out to each of you for your great loss. I am a Sunday school teacher like Tim and I admire him for sharing God's word. Please know that prayers for peace will be answered.
Scott Welborn
Tech Systems

Joyce King

May 8, 2011

Paula and Family: My heart was deeply saddened to hear of the passing of your beloved Tim. I remember when you two first got together and how happy you were. I know that 24 years of marriage has etched memories of the heart that cannot be removed through the passing of time. You will always have Tim with you because you were a part of each other. Please cherish those memories for a lifetime. I am praying for you and your family. May the peace of God dwell with you both now and in the days to come.

May 8, 2011

Sending heartfilled condolences to his wife and family. As a high school classmate I shall always remember his smiling face. May he rest in the arms of our Savior now, as we look forward to the day when we will see him again.....Charlotte Hudson Ewing (Baton Rouge, LA)

Ann Abney

May 8, 2011

Tim was my good friend and I'm so happy he had such a wonderful life. Ann Bartholomew Abney

May 8, 2011

I am so sorry to hear about Tim's passing. I always enjoyed working with Tim during the time we worked together at the SBI. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your families.

Pam Reid Summerlin

May 8, 2011

So good to know that Tim grew into such a fine man with a wonderful career of service in his community and beyond. I'm proud to have known him, and extend most sincere sympathy to Paula and the rest of his family and many friends. Semper Fi, Tim - may you rest in peace.

Sue (McFerrin) Richards

May 8, 2011

I am so sorry to hear about Tim's passing. I haven't seen him since high school, but will always remember him as a lively, fun-loving boy. May he rest in peace with our Lord. Peace and comfort to the family.
Sue McFerrin Richards

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