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William Clyde Friday
Chapel Hill
William Clyde Friday, a devoted husband and father who served for thirty years as president of the multi-campus University of North Carolina, passed away peacefully with his wife by his side at his Chapel Hill home on Oct. 12, 2012. He was 92.
His death came on University Day, the 219th anniversary of the laying of the cornerstone of Old East on the UNC-Chapel Hill campus. Many of those who attended University Day placed flowers around the Old Well as they left the commemoration. One mourner observed, "The sky is a little less Carolina Blue today."
Friday was best known for his long service as UNC president and for his forty years as the host of "North Carolina People," the UNC-TV program that aired every Friday night, where he characteristically interviewed those ranging from major public officials to North Carolina citizens from all walks of life. The University and the state of North Carolina were his vocation and avocation. His entire career was devoted to the University and to the state he loved, and upon his retirement from the presidency, he began a new career in public service. A prelude to this second career was his service as chairman of the Commission on the Year 2000, where in his final report he directed the attention of the state to the terrible plight of those citizens living in poverty. Immediately thereafter, he became Executive Director of the William Rand Kenan Charitable Trust, where he worked with its trustees in supporting the National Program for Family Literacy and a wide range of other programs devoted to education and the arts. Through all these years, he found his strength and his greatest joy in the loving support of his beloved wife, Ida, and their three daughters.
When he wasn't working, he enjoyed going to the farmers' markets in Raleigh and Carrboro, sharing his bounty with friends and neighbors. He cherished spending time with his family at Kill Devil Hills in the summers and had fun making peanut brittle to share with friends every Christmas. He was a lifelong learner, expressing an avid interest in all areas of life.
Born in Raphine, Va., to David Latham Friday and Mary Elizabeth Rowan Friday, he spent his boyhood in Dallas, N.C., where his father was a textile machinery company executive and president and owner of Gastonia Belting and Supply Company. In Dallas schools, he was a debater, played baseball and basketball, and wrote sports news for The Gastonia Gazette. He enjoyed the story told by his friend Dick Spangler that the proprieter of a country store and gas station remarked that if Bill Friday had stayed in baseball he might have amounted to something.
After a year at Wake Forest College, he entered North Carolina State College as a student in the School of Textiles, planning to follow in his father's footsteps. There he became class president and earned his degree in 1941. He was the first senior class president to be asked to speak at commencement exercises. In his senior year- on a blind date arranged by one of his friends- he met Ida Willa Howell, a student at Meredith College from Lumberton, North Carolina. She became the love of his life and they were married in 1942.
During World War II, Friday served his country for four years as a lieutenant in the U.S. Navy. Immediately after, he enrolled in UNC's law school. He was president of the Law School Association and graduated in 1948 in a class that included William Aycock; William A. Dees, Jr.; John R. Jordan, Jr.; Dickson Phillips; and Terry Sanford.
After graduating from law school and passing the state bar examination, he was asked to serve as assistant dean of students at UNC Chapel Hill. UNC President Gordon Gray later appointed him as his administrative assistant and then Secretary of the University. Impressed by his abilities, the Board of Trustees chose to make him acting president when Mr. Gray resigned to accept an appointment in Washington. In 1956, at the age of 35, the trustees elected him as President of the University.
As UNC president, he vigorously defended academic freedom, which he regarded as "the right of the university to exist." He worked tirelessly for repeal of the 1963 Speaker Ban Law. He oversaw the racial desegregation of the University. He helped mediate between student activists and state legislators during the civil rights movement. He believed strongly that the University must always be accessible to all students, regardless of their financial means.
He oversaw the expansion of the University of North Carolina. In response to increasing enrollments in higher education, he recommended to the state legislature the expansion of the University with the inclusion of UNC Charlotte in 1965 and UNC Wilmington and UNC Asheville in 1969. Two years later there was a special session of the General Assembly. That session enacted legislation making all public senior institutions a part of the University of North Carolina, with a Board of Governors and a president responsible for the governance and administration of the 16 institutions. President Friday was promptly chosen to be the head of the newly created 16-campus university.
President Friday was by this time a prominent figure in national affairs dealing with higher education. He was one of the members of the influential Carnegie Commission on Higher Education. He hosted the meeting of the commission in Chapel Hill in 1968. It was in a meeting in the faculty lounge in the Morehead Planetarium Building that the commission adopted a set of recommendations that led to the approval by Congress of the Basic Education Opportunity Grants, now called Pell Grants, promoting on the national level his lifelong goal of expanding access to higher education for all Americans.
His love of sports led him to lead a national effort to reform intercollegiate athletics. With the Rev. Theodore Hesburgh, president of the University of Notre Dame, Friday was founding co-chair of the Knight Commission on Intercollegiate Athletics, which worked to restore integrity to college sports. He was co-chair from 1989 to 2005 and remained a prominent national voice in defending the integrity of the university against abuses in athletic programs.
During the administration of President Lyndon Johnson, he played an important role in the creation of the White House Fellows Program. Later on, President Carter asked him to serve as an advisor on issues pertaining to higher education. He was sought after for many influential state and national education boards and commissions. He chaired commissions on poverty and literacy for two North Carolina governors. Working with Gov. Luther Hodges and business leaders, he helped in the creation of the Research Triangle Park, and later led efforts to bring the National Humanities Center to the Research Triangle.
Friday's numerous honors include the National Humanities Medal given by President Clinton, membership in the Academy of Arts and Sciences, the American Council on Education's National Distinguished Service Award for Lifetime Achievement, the John Hope Franklin Award, the NCAA's Gerald R. Ford Award, the UNC Board of Governors' University Award, and the North Carolina Award, the state's highest honor. In 1986, a Council for Advancement and Support of Education study ranked Friday as the nation's most effective public university president. He held more than 20 honorary degrees. Both he and Ida received the Order of the Long Leaf Pine award during a special session of the N.C. General Assembly in 2004.
Friday was predeceased by his daughter Betsy Friday and brothers David Latham Friday Jr., Rutherford Rowan Friday, and John Ralph Friday. Survivors are his wife of 70 years, Ida; daughter Fran Friday and husband Jack Mullen; granddaughter Miranda Shook, and husband Tristan Shook, 7 month old great-grandson Wiley Shook; and grandson Walker Mullen, all of Chapel Hill; daughter Mary Leadbetter and husband Jon Leadbetter, of Singapore; sister Betty Harris of Sumter, S.C.; sister-in-laws, Lila Friday of Raleigh and Mary Katherine Friday Lockett of Gastonia; and numerous nieces and nephews.
The family particularly wants to express its deepest appreciation to all doctors, nurses, therapists, and caregivers who provided Mr. Friday with the best possible care.
UNC-Chapel Hill will host a public memorial service in Memorial Hall on Wednesday, October 17th at 10 a.m.
In lieu of flowers, the family asks that memorials be made to one of the several scholarships previously established in President Friday's name. A full list will be available on the universities websites.

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Published by The News & Observer on Oct. 14, 2012.

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Gregory Leng

February 25, 2016

I was very sadden to see that President Friday had passed away. He lived a great productive wonderful life serving North Carolinian's and the students he loved. He was a man of great faith and I know he is at peace with our Lord & Savior Jesus Christ. I thank God for his dedication throughout his life to others. God bless.

November 7, 2012

My deepest sympathy goes out to your family. May the God of all comfort grant you peace during this difficult time.

AnnMarie

October 19, 2012

I was a Lucy Morgan fellow in 1999 and had the pleasure of being invited into the Friday home for lunch to celebrate the award they were sponsoring. What lovely, warm people who care about students at a very personal level. Thank you for the very lovely memory and your belief in me as a student.
Mr. Friday, you will always be remembered.

Charlotte Hawkins

October 19, 2012

The death of President Friday is truly a sad day for all UNC alumni. He was a friend of my parents Bill and Charlotte Smith. I was always told that Bill was one of the first visitors to come see me as a newborn in their apartment on McCauley St bearing a UNC Tarheels tee shirt to make sure I know where I would proceed to college in the future since I was actually born at Duke University Hospital in the midst of a snowstorm in February of 1948. I heeded President Friday's instructions and entered UNC-CH as a freshman in September of 1966. Like him, my Dad, Bill, who passed away several years ago, my blood will also always run Tar Heel blue. He was truly an inspiration for all those of us who had the pleasure to know him. Our prayers are with the family and I know there is a joyous reunion in heaven of those Carolina boys.

David Madigan

October 18, 2012

Met and interacted with Mr. Friday during the Martin Administration . Truly a real and great Tar Heel and will be missed . My condolence to the family

Mark Twilla

October 17, 2012

I never met him but did watch many of his shows. A fellow Tar Heel....I found myself crying when I heard of his passing. God bless his family and know he is in good hands at the side of the Lord.

M. Johnson

October 17, 2012

My deepest sympathy to the family on the loss of your loved one...In time, as your heart heals, you will find comfort and peace in the memories you have to cherish.(James 4:8)

Hasije Harris

October 17, 2012

I was blessed to have met Bill Friday in person during 2007 and 2008, when he presented his thoughts on leadership development for our Agency. (Prior to these meetings, I had always watched his show in complete awe of how he made people feel secure and at ease --even those he disagreed with!) For a small framed man walking with a cane, he had such a BIG smile and presence about himself. As he spoke, his disposition made it to where by the end of the presentation, you would think he was well over six feet tall…. His words not only lifted your spirit, it made your eyes dance in wonderment. My heart cries in sorrow for the lost of this great NC gem!!

May God Bless his family and provide them with comfort as they heal.

October 17, 2012

Dear Mary,
Jack and I send you, your Mother and your sister our deepest sympathy on the loss of your dear Father. We trust that our prayers will be of some comfort as you celebrate his great life. Love,Jean Miller

October 17, 2012

I will miss seeing him on unctv. Iam from Dallas also and new his relatives, Mr.& Ms. Grady Friday. Ms. Friday was my school teacher & Mr. Friday was our postmaster. All the Fridays that lived in Dallas, NC were liked & respected. My condolence to his family. Larry Rankin

October 17, 2012

i was not born in n.c. nor did i attend any of its colleges. but i loved mr. friday. i learned more about this state watching his pbs show, and i will miss him very much. his family is in my prayers. chris casey, raleigh

October 16, 2012

A gentle giant has passed away. Bill Friday will be missed in North Carolina.
Peace to his wonderful wife, and family. God bless all of you.

October 16, 2012

Bill Friday was a friend and a mentor to us when we are Carolinain the 50's. We will miss his sage advice and warm concern for us.

Saralyn and Gene Oberdorfer

October 16, 2012

I had the honor of knowing Mr. Friday from 2001 to 2007, serving him coffee from an on-campus coffeeshop twice daily and seeing him otherwise. To his wife and family whom I do not know, perhaps it is some consolation for you that those that pass on we carry with us in our memories as we remember them, with all their strengths and virtues, the rest of our lives. In that way, they never leave us, and we can be glad that we had them as long as we did. My condolences.
Helen Chasson, MSW

October 16, 2012

It's almost like I was a family friend
way back in the 70's as a staff employee
when I would encounter Bill Friday on
campus and he always stopped to say
"HI" but stopped, I mean, never continued to walk away. It made me feel very secure and happy to have
this wonderful man in my liftime.
My husband also felt the same way
as we both were secure in our positions
at the university.

GrGran Ellis, Tucson, AZ

October 15, 2012

What a blessing to our state. Peace to the family.

Susan J. Mottshaw

October 14, 2012

I will always cherish our conversations on education. May God bless Ida and family.

Eugen Merzbacher

October 14, 2012

Bill and Ida Friday were good friends. They joined us at every PTA meeting at Estes Hills Elementary and Guy B. Phillips Junior High School. There open-door policy at the President's mansion on Franklin Street was amazing. I cannot think of any instance in his public career where he made a mistake. His judgment and his heart were always in harmony. He was an active and crucial supporter of Carol Woods Retirement Community, where we now live.

Beverly Griffin

October 14, 2012

I feel truly blessed for having met this amazing man. He was compassionate, caring, humble and truly a friend to all. RIP, Sir. Your memory will live on in the hearts of those who knew you.

David Massee

October 13, 2012

I am so proud that President Friday's signature is on both of my diplomas. My son was able to visit him at his home. Thank you President Friday for touching so many lives in North Carolina.

Robert L. Costello, Jr.

October 13, 2012

I will always cherish the diploma I earned (class'73) containing
Dr. Friday's signature. Truly a giant in the field of higher education in our country.

Lyston Peebles

October 13, 2012

I will miss him and his advice. I am greatful for the influence he has had on my life for over 45 years. My favorite quote, " always make other people's problems your problems and you will be a happy and successful man".

BLN,Concord, NC 28027

Billy L Nail

October 12, 2012

I'm so graceful forwhat Bill Friday did for my son. He made it possible or my son to become a very successful labor attorney by attending UNC at Chapel Hill.

Ken Pearson

October 12, 2012

President Friday , You are one of those once in a lifetime people that North Carolina was lucky to have you at the helm!!!I only wish I could have given you some of my years to continue on with one fantastic acomplishment after another!!Thank you in no way is sufficent for all you have done!!! Thanks Again, Ken Pearson

Mark Hamrick

October 12, 2012

Friday AND University Day. Thank you and God bless.

Mary Davenport

October 12, 2012

We as North Carolinians have lost one of our greatest treasures. He was such a great representative of our state. I never met him, but feel his loss already. His statue and presence will be sorely missed. He had a ready smile to go with his intelligent commentary.

Ken Sanford

October 12, 2012

We could say of Bill Friday as he said of some others, "He is a noble spirit." It was my good fortune to associate with him as a student, as a staff member at UNC Charlotte and as one who appreciated his great leadership of the UNC system. His like shall not pass this way again. Ken Sanford

Dennis Knapp

October 12, 2012

As North Carolinians, we are all feeling his passing. He was a rock who understood communication and although I never had the chance to meet him, I will miss his interesting and colorfull conversations on PBS. I would have been proud to have met him.

Henry Britt

October 12, 2012

It was a warm Carolina Blue day as the Women's Soccer Team played State in 1979 behind Carmichael and the Wolf Mascot head just happened to be beside the cute girl wolf as she cooled. A group of Marine Options in the stands quickly planned and executed Operation Wolf's Head led by our fearless leader, Bob Noxon. As our best looking, John Keirs, chatted up the young lady, the fastest of our group, Louie Abraham, swooped in, snatched up the Head and headed down the track toward the Law School with the entire Wolfpack Cheerleader Team in pursuit. They almost caught Louie but were suddenly slowed with some trash cans rolled onto the track by flanking Marines. At the hill top the Head was thrown into a Yellow Cutlass as the Marines piled in and it speed off to Golf Course Road and slid into the driveway of the surprised brothers of ZBT House. A raucous party ensued and the Wolf's Head took part in several nefarious deeds and acts which were immortalized by photos and by the signing of our names into the Wolf's Head (this was not smart even for Marines!). Somehow President Friday found out who had taken the Head and in short time our Commander along with a now very humble gaggle of wantabe Marines were invited to The House. President Friday was truly gracious as we ate, had some sweet tea and then he simply said to return the head and that being fine officers and gentlemen we should have no problem cleaning Kenan Stadium after the next football game. I think his words were spotless and gleaming! President Friday was a great one and there are some very sad Marines today remembering the day they met this fine gentleman and grand scholar. Fair winds and following seas Sir! Major Henry Britt USMCR (ret.)

Lynn Daniel

October 12, 2012

Our state has lost a great leader

October 12, 2012

May God bless the family and friends of a good and faithful public servant with peace. RIP Bill

Steve Ashley

October 12, 2012

President Friday,may you rest
in peace. You will be missed.

TOBY WEBB

October 12, 2012

MAY THE GOOD LORD BLESS YOU FOR ALL YOUR GOOD WORK AND REST YOU IN PEACE!

Don Edwards

October 12, 2012

Mr. Friday, You were a true gentleman and their are not many like you. You are one of a few that care more about education than sports and many past and future students would be wise to remember that. Rest in peace Bill and my deepest condolences to your family

Thomas Cochrane

October 12, 2012

You were truly a great man. May God Bless you and may you rest in peace.

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