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William Sonner Obituary

William Henry Sonner, Sr

November 4, 1930 - August 14 2020

Raleigh

William Henry Sonner Sr. beloved father, grandfather, brother, uncle, professor, swimmer, athlete, contagious funnyman and Wolfpack fan was born November 4th, 1930 in North Providence, Rhode Island, died peacefully and by natural causes while surrounded by family at home on August 14th. William who went by "Bill" or more intimately "Coach" had a tremendous impact on many people across NCSU and the Triangle region. He was preceded in death by his father William C Sonner, mother Jeannette Mailhot Sonner, brother George Sonner, and sister Marilyn Sonner Grossi. William is survived by his sister Millie Langborg (husband Bob), of Lake Worth FL, his children William Henry Sonner Jr. (and partner Michael Gallaugher) of New Orleans, LA, Justin Boyd Sonner (wife Kelli Neustrom Sonner) of Pittsboro NC, Jill Sonner Boling (husband Jonathan Michael Boling) of Raleigh NC, and three grandchildren, Luke William Boling (6), Liberty Hayes Boling (5), Henry William Sonner (2).

Bill was raised in Lincoln, Rhode Island with two sisters and one brother. He set a splendid example of dedication and consistency during a competitive swimming career spanning 40 years. In his senior year in high school, he was named the number one backstroker in the United States. He first attended college in Boston on a swimming scholarship but was recruited away his first year to Ohio State by head coach Mike Peppe. Bill entered Ohio State University in 1949 and went on to win the 1950 NCAA Championship in the 100 yard backstroke, with record time, as well as a second and two third place finishes in NCAA competition. Bill was drafted into the Marine Corps in December 1950, where he was able to continue his training and competition. Bill would spend nine months in Annapolis MD training to qualify for 1952 US Summer Olympic Swim team. That year he competed in the Olympic trials in Astoria NY. He won four All-Service Championships in two years and placed in the National AAU Championships.



Upon completion of his service in the Marine Corps, NC State head swim coach, Willis Casey, recruited him to come swim and be assistant swim coach which brought him to Raleigh where he would raise his children. He got his master's degree in education at UNC Chapel Hill before starting his career as Professor in PE Department at NC State in 1954 where he taught for 36 years. He leaves great memories with many of his previous students who were privileged to take his scuba class and find retreat in Key Largo for their open dive swim. Others may remember his water safety class where he was notorious for near drowning experiences to teach students the importance water safety and the tools for recovery situations.

Bill continued swimming and won the 100 yard backstroke at the 1955 ACC Championships. In 1956, while swimming with the North Carolina Athletic Club, he swam to a world record on the medley relay team. Bill stayed active in his adulthood with both swimming and running by competing in Masters Swimming as well as competing at a high level in many Triathlon's, Marathons and Half Ironman, placing atop his age group well into his late 50's. Bill began and lead an exercise group at NC State for many of the professionals of the community to stay active and maintain fellowship. He would also impact many more swimmers across many local swim communities including Carolina Country Club, MacGregor Downs, Hayes Barton Pool and spending over 20 years at Seven Oaks Swim Club

Bill was inducted to both the Rhode Island(1988) and the North Carolina(1989) Swimming Hall of Fame.

The Raleigh Swim Association(RSA), was founded in April of 1959 by Bill, at that time the Director of Physical Education at NCSU. He would serve as the first Head Coach for 10 years, assisted by Willis Casey and Dick Fadgen, fellow NC State athletic staff members during the early years. On August 15, 2013, RSA purchased the former Candler Swim Club and after extensive renovation on September 3, 2013, the facility was officially renamed the William H. Sonner Aquatic Facility, where is legacy lives on.

So many people remember the impact of his teachings at the various pools throughout his life. Many would claim him as their 2nd Dad. He employed and inspired many and was known to be quite tough yet honest and fair. He expected hard work and commitment from others because he expected it of himself. He lived a simple life and was never attached to material things. You would often catch him jogging the hottest days of summer along busy streets, shirtless nonetheless, only to ensure people noticed his endurance and physique. He thrived on being fit. Bill coveted being around family and friends daily. He lived in the present and valued experiences. He will be remembered by the constant and contagious smile on his face as well as his jokester sense of humor. If he couldn't remember your name because he crossed so many people so often, he would graciously call you "Tiger."



The family will be hosting a celebration of life at Seven Oaks Swim and Racquet Club on September 14th from 5-8pm. In lieu of flowers, the family requests you make a charitable donation in his name to The Raleigh Swimming Association 1013 Jones Franklin Road Raleigh NC 27606 to support swimming for those who may otherwise never have the experience. We welcome any and all to share their memories by visiting https://www.tribute.co/bill-sonner/

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Published by The News and Observer on Aug. 23, 2020.

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Steve Kerchner

September 25, 2021

No wonder he's been on my mind lately. He was such a great instructor and friend to me during my time at NCSU, '67-'71. Dang it, I should have gone to visit him and say thanks. He sure enjoyed a good laugh. I recall his VW bug had a sticker saying something about not opening the windows over 100 mph. He was so patient with kids who were terrified of the water. Back then you had to swim over and back to be able to graduate. There would be students in their last semester, trying and trying, and he was as calm and patient and encouraging as could be. I needed extra hours working as a lifeguard to pay for my last three semesters, he let me pick and choose, then got me a job at the Y on Hillsboro St, too. What a guy.
Steve Kerchner. class of '71

Jerry Baker

March 15, 2021

As a student at State, coach was involved in two of my "favorite" memories...one in passing intermediate swimming, I had to pass a process called "drown proofing". I cheated in the process, did not admit it and Coach put me back into the pool for another extended period of suffering. You did not mention it, but Coach was an outstanding handball player and ...so was I. Undefeated, Coach decided it was time that I learned a little humility. He was a bit cocky and told the class that if I beat him, everyone in the class would get an A. He sent everyone up to observe the beating he expected to give me...my memory tells me that he eventually won 21-17...lets simply say that I made him earn the victory. The last time that I saw coach was at a nursing home on Dixie Trail. I was there visiting another friend from Western Boulevard Presbyterian Church and saw Coach's name on a door as I passed by. Contrary to his calling others "Tiger", when I knocked on the door and was called in, as soon as he saw me, he yelled out BAKERRRR! I will never forget the man I grew to admire....to respect and look to. While I am saddened that I did not know of his passing, I am thrilled that he now is in the place he so richly deserves residence, peace and joy.

Banks C. Talley

August 25, 2020

Privilege is something I think about often. When I saw my former Swim Coach's obituary in the N&O today, it reminded me (again) what a fortunate and privileged life I have led. How many kids get to have a 2-time ACC Champion, Olympic Qualifier, Rhode Island and North Carolina Swimming Hall of Fame member and NCSU PE Director as their Swim Coach? Not many. I thank my Dad for knowing him. Coach Sonner was a tough and demanding teacher (and yes, he was a former Marine...with a flat top) but he also loved kids and teaching them how to swim (a sport he thought was the BEST lifetime sport). I remember being (around ) 4 years old when I was staring at the deep end of the pool (9 feet) and wondering if I was going to sink when I first jumped in. My parents had me in the water as a baby (at Atlantic Beach and the Faculty Club) but learning to swim strokes was different than just paddling around. "Coach" taught us freestyle and backstroke (his specialty) first. I spent hours and years in the water mastering those 2 strokes. Later on, we learned breast stroke, side stroke, (the dreaded) butterfly, elementary backstroke and the trudgen crawl (a stroke most folks have never heard of). "Coach" would yell instructions from the side of the pool BUT he would also spend hours in the water doing demos and leading by example (ground school on the deck with a kickboard happened too). I remember asking him why we started in the deep end and he said, "You'll just touch the bottom in the shallow end!" I swam laps every day....until I got it right. I liked competing in Swim Meets and winning ribbons (a thing that went on for years at the CCC and the YMCA).Years later, at NCSU Sports Camp, I remember Water Safety class....and throwing those knotted pants over my head....again and again...just to keep them inflated. Thank you "Coach" for giving me a lifetime love of the water and showing me the best "lifetime sport." I hope by teaching "Swim for Life" at the YMCA, I have "Paid it Forward" a little bit (You were right, the look on someone's face when they learn how to swim is the best). RIP "Coach" Sonner

Jimmy Seay

August 24, 2020

Condolences to the Sonner family. Billy, your dad was like an action hero, strong and just. Rest in Peace Coach Sonner.
Jimmy Seay

Susannah Stewart

August 23, 2020

He was wonderful! This is Susannah Stewart, Jack's youngest. I think the last time I saw Bill, Dad and I had gone to the faculty club to join him for a Thanksgiving lunch. He and Dad seemed to share a very special bond.

Susannah

"Cupcake"

August 22, 2020

In memory - and in celebration -
of someone who made the world a better and brighter place. You'll always hold a special place in my heart. Rest in peace sweet man.

Mrs. Darlene Nelson

August 19, 2020

Dear Dr. Jill & family- In loving memory of a wonderful person. I treasure the days I had with Bill Sonner at Morningside of Raleigh. A very special person who touched so many lives. Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers. Mrs. Darlene Nelson, Hospitality Director Morningside of Raleigh

Michael Gagliano

August 17, 2020

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Many years with many great memories. Especially with my sons. You will certainly be missed and always remembered.
Rest in peace,
Michael & Lisa Gagliano

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