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Susie Feldman
August 24, 2025
Thinking of you today Mr. Davidson. Thank you for always brightening my day in high school and always making me feel accepted. You are missed and you made an impact on this world.
Adam Lubart
May 31, 2024
Brian was an amazing human. He helped me in HS through a pivotal life event, and I will forever be grateful. His memory came to me to day out of the blue, and I wanted to post how he made a big difference in my life.
Ginny Downer
August 13, 2022
I spent many years with Brian at Saints John and Paul and truly loved and admired him. I was a youth minister when he was in high school and he was always around willing to help others. There was always a smile in his face and he would be the first to volunteer. I know I will meet him again in heaven.
Andrew Wasserberg
August 24, 2018
I am so sad and sorry for your loss. I knew shadow from mhs and remember him so fondly, his large frame folded into the small chairs on the set of mhs info as he updated us on the latest sporting endeavors of our tigers. I would occasionally see Shadow ballin' at chatsworth where he ruled the court trash talking always in good fun. Though I haven't seen shadow for 20 years, my sister was a work colleague and kept me updated on what shadow was up to and how well regarded he was both in his community and professionally.
I can't imagine what his close friends and loved ones must be going through as I am personally so moved by his passing and I was a mere acquaintance. This makes no sense
Chris O'Gorman
August 23, 2018
Big D, will miss your smile, enthusiasm, and positive attitude. Peace brother.
-OG
Leo Meccariello
August 22, 2018
This news breaks my heart. While we did not stay close after LeMoyne, which I regret, I did always love BD. Man, he was a funny guy! When he transferred to LeMoyne, he lived in my suite and roomed with Dan "Fatman" Kraszinski. I will say we had our share of fun together.
I want to extend my sympathies to you, Brian's family. I cannot imagine your pain. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless all of you.
Leo
Karen Feld
August 22, 2018
Dear Davidson Family,
We are thinking of you and your loss.
Although we only knew Brian a very short time he was clearly a wonderful person.
Newkirt Family
August 22, 2018
My heart is heavy. Brain was a mentor to me and my family. May he Rest In Peace. My condolences to his family.
Rhonda Doctor
August 22, 2018
I offer prayers and condolences to Brian's family and friends.Brian was hilarious, thoughtful, and kind. It was truly a pleasure to work with him at Fox Lane Middle School. I am forever grateful to have known him. I pray that everyone's support and words offer some comfort during this difficult time.
Catherine McCarthy
August 21, 2018
I am so sorry for your loss. I worked with Brian a few years ago and he was always so kind and friendly. May he rest in peace.
Andrew Paul
August 21, 2018
So sorry for your loss Sharon, Emma, Olivia and Devin. Brian's kindness and enthusiasm had a wonderful effect on all my children at Fox Lane HS. His love for and pride in his family poured out during countless conversations we had about our children My prayers are with you Brian and your family.
August 21, 2018
Brian, rest in peace.
DJ and Sani Jennings
8 Cherokee Dr.
Brookfield, CT
Mark Shanz
August 21, 2018
so sorry to Sharon , Emma, Olivia and Devin, and all of the Davidson family - RIP Brian
Courtney DArcangelo
August 21, 2018
Mr. Davidson- thank you for lighting up my childhood with so many amazing memories. You always taught Katie and I that friendship was important, and to always love each other. I hold our memories on Cherokee near and dear to my heart forever. Mrs. Davidson, Emma, Liv, Devin, and the rest of the family you all are in my thoughts and prayers. Love you guys forever XO.
Joan Barickman
August 21, 2018
I remember Brian's kindness and affability with the ACES students and his helpfulness with me. He left a legacy of enthusiasm and empathy which will continue in the many students, colleagues and friends he touched.
Paloma Espinoza (Gutierrez)
August 21, 2018
I was terribly sad to receive this news, and thi is after being out of Fox Lane for 16 years. I can only imagine the heartbreak of his family and friends. Mr. Davidson was such a positive presence at Fox Lane, and I'm sure all students benefited from his personality and guidance in one way or another. Cheers and Rest in Peace.
Infiniti Bowie
August 20, 2018
I remember you were my biggest fan Mr. Davidson, always rooting for me at every talent show, play, and musical I performed in. I remember all the hard times I went through and you were there trying to help me out. You were always looking out for me, even if I didn't see it at the time. My parents loved you and appreciated you for trying to keep me on the right path, and so do I. I miss you Mr. Davidson. Try not to dress code the Angels too much! Stay in peace.
Diane Coughlin
August 20, 2018
We are praying for Brians family. He was a wonderful man that everyone loved .
Jesus will welcome him home
Jim Rees
August 20, 2018
Rest in Peace Shadow. You were a wonderful mentor to those who followed you in the MHS basketball program. You made us all better players and better people for having known you.
Kim Medici
August 20, 2018
Rest In Peace Brian.
Desiree Ellis
August 20, 2018
Brian was one of the first administrators I met when I came to work at Fox Lane High School. He was warm and welcoming. His personality was magnanimous. He will be dearly missed by all those who knew him. My prayers go out to his children, family and friends. When I think of the FLHS, Brian Davidson comes to mind.
Tommy Herbert
August 20, 2018
My heartfelt sympathies to Brian's family. I swam with Brian as part of the Brookfield YMCA Masters group. I immediately appreciated his down to earth manner and great sense of humor. I always enjoyed our chats after swim workouts and running into him at the Y. Such a likeable guy. I will miss not seeing him. May he rest in peace.
Saverio D'Arcangelo
August 20, 2018
For me and my family living next door to the
Davidson family on Cherokee Drive , getting to know
Brian and his family and making unforgettable
memories with them is one of the greatest gifts God
could have ever given us .
Brian ..We love you and we will miss you forever.
Saverio D'Arcangelo and Family
Ron Berkowitz
August 20, 2018
So sad to hear the news. I graduated from Mamaroneck HS with Brian. The shadow was truly one of the nicest guys around. My thoughts go out to his family.
Thomas LaPorte
August 20, 2018
So sorry for your loss. Brian was a great guy. I enjoyed playing basketball with him and just talking with him at the BHS girls basketball games. Very sad.
August 20, 2018
I worked with Brian a few times and he was always kind & helpful and had a great sense of humor. My condolences to his family. He will be greatly missed. Fran Smith (formerly FLMS)
Hannah Irwin
August 20, 2018
Brian always made me feel welcome from the very beginning, when Tom first brought me up to CT to meet the family. He would always crack me up with funny stories & impressions during family dinners. He was a great guy who suffered tremendously, and he will be sorely missed. My heart and prayers are with the whole family, especially Sharon, Emma, Liv and Devin. I love you guys so much. Xo
scott chernoff
August 20, 2018
I met Brian shortly after college and along with others rented summer homes in Fire Island, Hamptons and Jersey shore. In addition "The White Shadow", we also called him " Mr Activity" as he usually would get in a long swim, workout and hoops game before most of us woke up. We had so many laughs and great times.
I felt like the first time I met him he was one of my best friends and 28 years later he visited me in California to attend my 50th Birthday Party I feel happy I saw him then but am so sad right now thinking how we lost this great guy. RIP Brian, we miss your Burl.
Scott Chernoff " fellow NBA wanna be"
Janice Watson
August 20, 2018
I am saddened to hear of Brian's passing. My prayers and heartfelt thoughts are with the Davidson family and all those folks who were fortunate enough to have known him.
Kathy Worth
August 20, 2018
Brian and his family were our neighbors when I moved to Candlewood Shores. They were all so gracious and Brian always had a kind smile for us. The loss of Katie and now Brian is heartbreaking. Our thoughts are with your family.
Kathy, Emily and Jamie Worth
August 20, 2018
Dear Sharon, Emma, Olivia, and Devin,
Im writing you this letter to express our dearest and most profound sympathies for the passing of Brian. Words in this letter cant express the profound pain and despair that Chris and I feel over his loss and nothing compares to what you are feeling as a family right now. I wanted to write you this letter because I know that when we see you at the wake and funeral we wont know the right words to say.
I thought it would be good to share what Brian meant to Chris and I. Chris had always spoken fondly of Brian when we met over 13 years ago. He talked about how Brian was an incredible Assistant Principal who always had the rights words of encouragement. Chris spoke about how incredible Brian was with troubled students. When Chris was teaching social studies in the high school, Brian became a friend and not just a colleague. Brian became a mentor to Chris and was the one who had the pleasure of telling Chris he had made the job of Dean of Students. Chris worked hand-in-hand with Brian for almost 7 years helping the most challenging students at the high school to make better choices and become better people. I know Chris became a better dean, teacher, and person because of Brian. Chris talked endlessly of how much he learned from Brian.
We fortunately were married and able to buy a house down the road from you in Brookfield. I remember Brian and Steve coming to our house when we first moved in to check it out. Brian, being the charmer, complimented us on a good find and joked with us. From then on we went to a few of your family cookouts and you came to ours. He would pop by the house often with one of the kids to check-in. We would bump into one another at Stew Leonards and Brian would joke about how I was always at Stew Leonards. After our move to Ridgefield, Brian continued to visit us when he was in the neighborhood. We enjoyed his pop-ins and occasional visits for dinner.
While my time at Pound Ridge Elementary School, Brian always looked out for me. He would visit my classroom when he was visiting the building, he would shoot me an email to check-in or relay some funny joke about Chris, he was always there to greet me at FLMS when my fifth graders were going on their yearly tour. Each greeting was always a warm hug with great words. He often spoke of his wonderful children and how he loved watching them grow up. He also spoke of how happy he was for Sharon and how she has blossomed as a high school math teacher in Brookfield.
What stands out for me most was how incredibly charming and charismatic a person Brian was. He always knew the right things to say and knew how to make anyone feel comfortable in a situation that could feel uncomfortable at first. His gregarious personality never went unnoticed. People who met him who knew that I knew him would rave about him. Those who worked for him and students especially. He was a person who knew that nurturing a child and connecting with people was what mattered and that was how you could truly help another.
We are truly devastated over the loss of Brian and also know that people who knew and loved him are grieving just as much if not more. What gives me hope is knowing that Brian gave and gave to so many people and I honestly feel privileged to have known such an incredible person. I will take and remember all that he taught us knowing that one day we will see him again.
It is with the deepest of sympathies that I write this letter to you. We are so very sorry for your loss. Chris and I want to help in any way we can. Please reach out to us if you need anything you might need.
Sincerely,
Amy and Chris Coughlin
August 20, 2018
Dear Sharon, Emma, Olivia, and Devin,
I'm writing you this letter to express our dearest and most profound sympathies for the passing of Brian. Words in this letter can't express the profound pain and despair that Chris and I feel over his loss and nothing compares to what you are feeling as a family right now. I wanted to write you this letter because I know that when we see you at the wake and funeral we won't know the right words to say.
I thought it would be good to share what Brian meant to Chris and I. Chris had always spoken fondly of Brian when we met over 13 years ago. He talked about how Brian was an incredible Assistant Principal who always had the rights words of encouragement. Chris spoke about how incredible Brian was with troubled students. When Chris was teaching social studies in the high school, Brian became a friend and not just a colleague. Brian became a mentor to Chris and was the one who had the pleasure of telling Chris he had made the job of Dean of Students. Chris worked hand-in-hand with Brian for almost 7 years helping the most challenging students at the high school to make better choices and become better people. I know Chris became a better dean, teacher, and person because of Brian. Chris talked endlessly of how much he learned from Brian.
We fortunately were married and able to buy a house down the road from you in Brookfield. I remember Brian and Steve coming to our house when we first moved in to check it out. Brian, being the charmer, complimented us on a good find and joked with us. From then on we went to a few of your family cookouts and you came to ours. He would pop by the house often with one of the kids to check-in. We would bump into one another at Stew Leonards and Brian would joke about how I was always at Stew Leonards. After our move to Ridgefield, Brian continued to visit us when he was in the neighborhood. We enjoyed his pop-ins and occasional visits for dinner.
While my time at Pound Ridge Elementary School, Brian always looked out for me. He would visit my classroom when he was visiting the building, he would shoot me an email to check-in or relay some funny joke about Chris, he was always there to greet me at FLMS when my fifth graders were going on their yearly tour. Each greeting was always a warm hug with great words. He often spoke of his wonderful children and how he loved watching them grow up. He also spoke of how happy he was for Sharon and how she has blossomed as a high school math teacher in Brookfield.
What stands out for me most was how incredibly charming and charismatic a person Brian was. He always knew the right things to say and knew how to make anyone feel comfortable in a situation that could feel uncomfortable at first. His gregarious personality never went unnoticed. People who met him who knew that I knew him would rave about him. Those who worked for him and students especially. He was a person who knew that nurturing a child and connecting with people was what mattered and that was how you could truly help another.
We are truly devastated over the loss of Brian and also know that people who knew and loved him are grieving just as much if not more. What gives me hope is knowing that Brian gave and gave to so many people and I honestly feel privileged to have known such an incredible person. I will take and remember all that he taught us knowing that one day we will see him again.
It is with the deepest of sympathies that I write this letter to you. We are so very sorry for your loss. Chris and I want to help in any way we can. Please reach out to us if you need anything you might need.
Sincerely,
Amy and Chris Coughlin
Jim Davidson
August 20, 2018
Brian was simply the BEST ! nothing beats a laugh out of Brian D. We shared so many laughs and great times together.
In all the years I knew him, never saw him
angry. always with a smile.
Richard Bell
August 20, 2018
I will miss seeing you at the pool Brian.
Swim Fast my friend!
Rich
The Lamorte Family
August 20, 2018
Brian was very kind to our sons, John and Steve. We are so sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you.
Sarah Fay
August 20, 2018
Brian was someone whose door was always open, and who you could talk to about anything. He was perceptive, funny and caring, and the world was a better place when he was around. May he rest in peace.
Missy, Tom , John, Lynn, Rip and Ed Diefenbach-Wey Family
August 20, 2018
There are no words to describe Brian, except to say : he was a bright light in the lives of our Diefenbach-Wey family. We will dearly miss him, but find comfort that He is at peace in the capable arms our Heavenly Father, his beloved Katie and his parents. Prayers and Blessings on Brians family and friends.
I believe as I did as a child; that life has meaning, a direction, a value. No tear is lost; each suffering counts, each drop of blood; that the secret of life lies in:
DEO CARITAS EST...GOD IS LOVE.
Diana N.
August 20, 2018
Mr. Davidson was so loved and held in such high esteem by students and faculty alike. What a tremendous loss. My prayers are with his family during these extremely difficult time.
Michael gucci Trangucci
August 20, 2018
So sad to hear we lost Shadow. Always went at it on the courts at chatsworth school and mamaroneck high. Great guy. God Bless!!
Deborah Hardy
August 20, 2018
Brian was a colleague and a mentor. His caring demeanor for all, parents, students, and colleagues was amazing. He will be missed.
Dr. Hardy
Peace Be With You Always.
Patti Savastano Davies
August 20, 2018
To The Davidson Family: please know that our hearts, prayers, & thoughts go out to all of you at this difficult time. God's blessings for strength, comfort, & guidance as you continue to keep all of Brian's memories tucked in your heart. Brian was met not only by Our Lord, but by Katie, and now you all have 2 wonderful angels looking out for you always. ALWAYS ON YOUR MIND, FOREVER IN YOUR HEARTS.
Our deepest sympathy,
Patti & Bernadette Davies
Joe Mannion
August 20, 2018
Such sad news. Played pick up basketball games with Brian. Great guy, a true gentleman.
Joe M.
August 20, 2018
Played pick up basketball with Brian. Great guy, a true gentleman!
Alex Luckett
August 20, 2018
Brian grew up the street from me in Larchmont and we were in the same class. He was the reunion chair for the MHS 25th reunion. Although I only attended MHS for two years, he reached out personally to ensure that I still attend. When I saw him at the reunion, he was so filled with life and joy. I will remember him fondly. Sending love and prayers to his entire family.
Christine O'Connor
August 20, 2018
More than anything, his sense of humor is what I will always remember. He always had a kind word and a smile for everyone. I'm praying for his children, that they find strength. RIP, Brian.
Connie
August 20, 2018
I am sorry for the loss of Brian Davidson.
He will always be in our hearts and memories.
Karen Gryzlo-Wagner
August 19, 2018
Brian and I graduated from Mamaroneck High School together in 1983. Although life took us in different directions, I remember his bright smile, kindness, and love for basketball. I'm sad to hear of the loss of such a special person. My prayers are with his family , friends, and all those who's lives he touched. You will be missed!
Paul Garcia
August 19, 2018
I'm so sorry to hear of Brian's passing. I remember him well from LYC and MHS. His smile, laughter, and good nature were ever present. My deepest sympathy to the entire family.
Anne Marie and George De Stefano
August 19, 2018
Brian, we pray that you are enjoying eternal life with your daughter
Katie and the rest of your family members.
May the angels and saints welcome you with open arms.
May our Lord and Lady comfort your family.in this time of profound sadness.
God rest your soul and Katie's, too.
The D'Arcangelo Family
August 19, 2018
Brian.. you will be terribly missed.. you were a wonderful neighbor and a great friend... your easy nature and way with the kids will never be forgotten. Remembering you playing basketball in your boxers and messy hair was only the beginning of many neighborhood memories... we love you and will miss you.. praying for strength for Sharon..Emma.. Livvie and Devin...
August 19, 2018
His Halloween costumes were always the best! He was Mr. Incredible once :)
Mary Beth OSullivan-Brady
August 19, 2018
My sister, Karen, and I worked with Brian at Iona. He was always kind to everyone he met and he went above and beyond for his students. Even though he left this earth too soon, his legacy will live on in the lives he touched. God bless his family. I know he will be their guardian angel.
Brad
August 19, 2018
I knew Brian at St. John and Paul back in the late 1970's. He was always the jokester of the group. Multi talented, and very athletic. We were in a couple of musicals together. His fun loving nature and work ethic was super present even back then. I am saddened to hear of his passing, and all thoughts and prayers to his family at this difficult time.
Nat Picco
August 19, 2018
Mr. Davidson you were one of my favorite people at FLHS. Thank you for everything.
Bill Leverence
August 19, 2018
You were an amazing person and the time you spent on earth was a gift to everyone! I feel so privileged to have played basketball and tennis with the white shadow. Heaven has gained another angel. I love you Brian!
Catherine Corsino
August 19, 2018
Great Loss of a Great Man
Mr. Davidson made a difference in so many lives. Inspiration to all those knew him. Rest in Peace you wonderful soul. Thoughts and Prayers are with you all. Love the Corsino Family- Cathy,Jose,Brittney,Samantha and Josh
Joey Calderazzo
August 19, 2018
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Virginia Downer
August 19, 2018
I will always remember Brian's wonderful smile. He was a memorable part of the teen club at Sts. John and Paul. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
The Donnellys
August 19, 2018
One of my very favorite people in the whole world. My heart aches at the loss of Brian's smile, bright light, and constant kindness. We are holding the Davidson family in our hearts, wishing you peace, comfort, and healing, and sending you love.
Barbara Zelnick
August 19, 2018
Brian was a very special person who showed great caring to many people. I knew him first as a parent and later as a friend. He was a steady and kind influence for my sons who attended Fox Lane High School. My thoughts are with his family and close friends at this time. You can be very proud of him.
The Patterson Family
August 19, 2018
It was clear that Brian never met a stranger. He was warm and welcoming to parents and students, and will be truly missed, but never forgotten, in the halls of Fox Lane. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. God Bless you all.
Susan Caico
August 19, 2018
Brian Davidson was a great mentor and friend to my children and will be greatly missed. Our deepest sympathies.
The Caico Family-Andy, Sue, Drew, Brenna & Dean
Connie
August 19, 2018
Thank you Mr. Davidson. You helped so many of our families. I wish we could have helped you and been there for you like you were for us. SIP
Jane Brown
August 19, 2018
All of us at Le Moyne College send our sympathies and prayers to Brian's family. It certainly appears that he "went forth and set the world on fire."
Alice Marrano
August 19, 2018
RIP, Brian! You touched the hearts of many. A great loss to your children & your BCSD family!
Colleen Woelfel
August 19, 2018
There are no words. We are praying for God to give all of you strength and that Brain has found peace. We love you all. The Woelfel Family
Kerry , Pete , and Keira Irwin
August 19, 2018
Brian will always be remembered for his wonderful smile, laugh, and love for his family. He will be missed .
August 19, 2018
Barb and I are saddened by Brian's passing. He was a great guy and friend. Loved the times shared playing basketball with Brian. We will miss you.
Maher family
JoAnn Dann
August 19, 2018
The Dann family mourns your loss. We
wish you strength, love, and understanding.
Stefanie Scala
August 19, 2018
He was such an amazing man and so funny I remember him from being a guidance counselor and then becoming the assistant principal at the high school he was so happy
Noelle Feldman
August 19, 2018
God bless you.
And may God bless and comfort your family.
Thank you for your many kindnesses towards my Bobby and Susie, and all the kids at Fox Lane HS.
You will surely be missed.
May you rest in Heavenly peace.
Bonnie Schwartz
August 19, 2018
You made a positive difference in the lives of so many students. Your compassion and understanding not just as an administrator, but as a person had an impact that will be felt for many years to come. You will be sorely missed!
Sarah Best
August 18, 2018
Oh my! Me. Davidson was quite a mentor to me. I would often meet him in his office and we would have lunch together and chat. He always made sure everything was going well for me. Whenever would pass each other in the hall He waved hello or since my last name is Best he would always say best in show he passed me!
Jennifer Torres
August 18, 2018
God bless his family. He was a great assistant principal over at FL. My condolences gone too soon.
Julian Driver
August 18, 2018
Mr.Davidson
Thank you for everything you did for me. You went out of your way to correct the pernicious path I was on in my youth. If not for you my life wouldve had a very negative outcome. I know I was probably one of the most difficult kids you encountered, thank you from the bottom of my heart. You will be missed.
August 18, 2018
Brian, your loving and gregarious nature have made their impact on our students, colleagues and community. I value the life lesson you brought to me about confronting challenges and admire your positivity in the face of your own uphill battles. Your spirit, energy and kindness cannot be forgotten - I wish you all the peace and loving comfort you can find on your next journey- lots of and gratitude to you, friend. ♥ Jennifer Fuenzalida
Christina Holloway
August 18, 2018
Brian you will be missed by so many.You had such an impact on any one who you met.my daughter son and Goddaughter were lucky enough to have you as a counselor and a principal.my heart aches knowing you left this earth to soon.May you be at peace..
Carol
August 18, 2018
Emma - so very sorry for this tremendous loss for you. So unfair for you to have to go through this. Hang on to your friends, they love you dearly. Our prayers are with you - Mrs. Clarke, Erin and Patrick
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