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Brian Ellsworth Whitlock, 45, passed away January 22, 2016 in Sweden surrounded by loving family shortly after being diagnosed with cancer.
He leaves his devoted wife Anna Karin Strinnholm and beloved daughters Maya and Emelie.
Brian was born September 21, 1970, the son of Gilbert and Regina (Santuro) Whitlock of Bethel. He attended Bethel schools and graduated from Bethel High School in 1989. Brian received a degree in history from Western Connecticut State University after spending a year abroad in Amsterdam where he met his wife. He later received a Master's Degree in education from Sacred Heart University. Brian was a well-liked and respected teacher and colleague at VRG High School in Stockholm where he taught history and English.
Sadly missed by siblings Regina (George Bachman), Gilbert, Mary-Jo (Michael Walsh) and Jennifer of Bethel. He leaves his nephews and nieces: Jonathan, Melanie (Regina); Jason, Ashley, Anthony (Gilbert); Zachary (Mary-Jo); and Avery (Anthony) as well as numerous aunts and cousins; and friends on both sides of the Atlantic Ocean.
He loved cooking for family and friends, good food, music and wine, history, running and the outdoors. He combined his interests in running and history when he ran the 2,500th marathon in Athens, Greece.
A mass in Brian's honor will be held June 25 at 9:30 at St. Mary's Church in Bethel. A reception will follow in the church hall. His ashes will be scattered in the Atlantic between his two homes.
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for Brian Whitlock
Joe De Vito
June 17, 2023
Peace Be granted onto your soul and family. "As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord." (Joshua 24: 15)
Joe De Vito
June 17, 2022
Dear Anna Karin, Maya and Emelie I remember Brian fondly as a man of character and integrity. The world has been diminished by his passing. My sincere condolences. Peace be with you and in your house.
Joe De vito
March 10, 2022
I just found out of the untimely passing of Brian. I am, truly, sorry. Alice and I will remember him, fondly and will pray for the happy repose of his soul.
Susan (Mccarthy) Tiso
July 18, 2016
To all the Whitlock family, especially my childhood friend, Jennifer, I am so sorry to hear of Brian's passing. He sounds like he lived a wonderful life, certainly cut way too short.
My family and I send prayers and love your way.
No words can take away the pain of your loss but please know, we mourn with you. ❤
donald sturges
July 2, 2016
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Sue and Art Paulsen
July 1, 2016
Dear Regina, Gibby and family. You are in our thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry for your loss! I so remember him growing up and sharing "children" stories with you, Regina. So very, very sorry!!
Dave Goncalves
June 27, 2016
Dear Gil & Regina,
Wishing you my warmest condolences.
God Bless.
Jean Smith
June 23, 2016
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Mary Ellen Montesi Oswald
June 23, 2016
To the Whitlock family, I am so sorry to hear of Brian's passing. He was such a wonderful kid back in the days on Whitlock Ave. He will be missed...
Ron & Marie Trudel
June 23, 2016
To the Whitlock Family, our hearts and prays are with all of you. We remember Brian so well growing up in this neighbor hood with our children. Brian was always such a great young man and always ready with a funny remark. May the love of family and friends help you though this difficult time.
June 23, 2016
To the Whitlock family, I wish to express my condolences for your loss. May God give you the strength to move on with your lives while holding dear to your hearts the memories of Brian.
Peggy Troy
June 23, 2016
Dear Mr. And Mrs. Whitlock and family, I am so very sorry to hear of Brians passing. If there is anything I can do for anyone please let me know. Your family is in my prayers. Love, Peggy Troy
Sara Stubinski
June 23, 2016
Brian was a wonderfully smart and so silly man. I am truly saddened to hear of this huge loss, it is crushing. I do pray for him and everyone who is feeling this open wound.
Joni Montesi-Stankaitis
June 23, 2016
Gilbert, Regina, Jinx, Gil, Mary Jo and the entire family- my deepest prayers for all of you at this time. I remember Brian when he was born and growing up - until I moved away. He was always such a sweet child. I know he will be missed by all who knew him
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