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John Demko Obituary
John W. Demko, age 90, of Rutland, VT, died Tuesday June 4, 2013 at The Meadows at East Mountain. Born August 13, 1922 in New Britain, CT, son of the late John and Elsie (Wagner) Demko, he lived most of his life in Danbury, before relocating to NC and then VT. He is predeceased by his wife Esther (Wehmeyer) Demko. He served as a B24 Engineer in the Army Air Corp during WWII, based in Mendlesham, England. Along with his brother Ted, he operated Drake Engineering in Danbury, a business started by their father. A former Commodore of the Danbury Yacht Club, John loved nothing more than entertaining a crowd. He is survived by his daughter Louise and husband Mark Lauf of Rutland, VT, grandson Andrew (Stephanie) Lauf of Wilmington, NC and granddaughter Megan (Scott) Collins of Elkton, MD, as well as several nieces and nephews. Memorial service will be held 11 a.m. Monday, June 24th at Immanuel Lutheran Church, 18 Clapboard Ridge Rd, Danbury, with visiting hours immediately preceding the service at 10am. In lieu of flowers memorial donations may be made to the Independence Fund (assists wounded combat veterans) 290 Callaway Dr, Pensacola, FL 32505 independencefund.org or Rutland Area Visiting Nurse and Hospice, PO Box 787, Rutland, VT 052702-0787.
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Harold Evans
June 22, 2013
Louise, my deepest condolences and sympathy to you and the family. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Eric Bush
June 21, 2013
When I think of Uncle John I remember roast pork with his own sauerkraut or thanksgiving dinner and lots of jokes and laughing and making my mother Gertrude (his sister) scowl, but always heading for home wanting more...
Jean Voss
June 19, 2013
Karen just let me know today. So glad to learn John has joined your mom again. He had to get there to keep the bunch laughing untill we all arrive. Love you dearly and happy to know I will be rising on the last day right by their sides when Jesus comes again. Jean Voss
Lou Ginsberg and family
June 17, 2013
We fondly remember both John and Ted coming into Ace Industrial Hardware every day for a cup of coffee and to chat! We are very sorry for your loss.
Jim & Deanna Repko
June 16, 2013
We want to extend our deepest sympathy. I worked for John & Ted for over 30 years & you couldn't ask for two better people to work for. They were not only employers but also good friends. Our thoughts & sympathies go out to John's family.
Doris and Al Gollenberg
June 16, 2013
We send our sympathy to the family on the death of John. Both Esther and John were close friends of ours. Esther and Al both attended Zion Lutheran School in Bridgeport. We enjoyed our friendship over the years. John and Esther are now once again together and we rejoice for them.
Doris and Al Gollenberg
Carol Schweitzer-Schilling
June 16, 2013
Mr. Demko as an employer was second to none. My father worked at Drake Engineering for over 25 years. They were like a family. That is the best compliment you can give any business.
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