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Lawrence Greenspan Obituary

Lawrence Greenspan
Lawrence Greenspan of New Milford, CT died March 18, 2019, age 84. Larry was born October 3,1934 to Arthur and Lillian (Fein) Greenspan. He grew up in Manhattan and graduated from the Franklin School at the age of 15. In 1957, he met the love of his life, Patricia Pendergast, a graduate of Queen's College. Nine months later they were married and soon had 2 children, Paul and Vicki.
Larry graduated from Hofstra University in 1972. In 1976 their family moved from Long Island to New Milford, CT where Larry began contributing to the town in many ways. He was on the Town Council and the Zoning Commission where he fought for "smart growth" land use regulations, farmland protection, and open space acquisition. He was President of Merryall Community Center and President of New Milford Trust for Historic Preservation. He was a lifelong Democrat and a member of St. John's Episcopal Church. A true renaissance man, Larry worked as an administrator of a psychiatric hospital, an inspector of radio wave towers atop NY city skyscrapers, a cigar salesman, and as the Director of the Martin Luther King Community Health Center.
Larry enjoyed hiking the western CT trails, crisp fall weather, and splitting logs. He was a member of Mensa, did differential calculus to relax, and could complete the Sunday New York Times crossword puzzle, in pen. Larry was a lifelong fighter for justice. He was a champion of the underdog, rooting for the NY Mets from their first season in 1962 when they went 40-120. He loved his children and grandchildren, Beethoven, horrible puns, dark chocolate, Henny Youngman jokes, his Mets and Giants, Winston Churchill, Civil War history, travel, raw bar, and bone-dry Tanqueray martinis. Larry hated bigotry, genealogy, pretentious people, his middle name, Klezmer music, the Yankees, and cucumbers.
Larry is survived by his best friend and wife of 62 years Patricia, his son Paul and daughter-in-law Christine Wisniewski of Wellfleet, MA, his daughter Victoria and son-in-law Jack Newton of Austin, TX, and his four grandchildren, Sophie and Eli Greenspan and Alexandra and Emmett Newton. Larry's family thanks Dr. Tyler and the staff at New Milford VNA Hospice and New Milford Hospital who cared for Larry.
A funeral service will be held at 12:00 on March 23 at St. John's Episcopal Church at 7 Whittlesey Ave., New Milford. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations to St. John's Episcopal Church or to VNA Hospice (68 Park Lane Rd., New Milford, CT 06776).

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Published by Danbury News Times on Mar. 21, 2019.

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Andrea Rush

March 15, 2020

Larry will never be forgotten for his commitment to New Milford and a better way for all of us to behave. Both Larry and his wife Pat consistently showed up to give us inspiration to be better people .

Mary Rutkowski

May 31, 2019

Mrs. Greenspan, Paul, Chris, Vicki and All,
My deepest sympathy... just heard this news. May your husband, father, granddad and father-in-law soar free from Earthly pain. He will be sorely missed, I know, by all of you. Love, Mary R.

MoRon Shiver

April 16, 2019

We met Larry and Pat through their wonderful children, Vicki and Jack. Larry is one of the most interesting people you could ever meet. It was an honor and a pleasure. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family, particularly Pat, Vicki, Jack, Alex and Emmett.

Steve Basile

March 23, 2019

I came to know Larry through his wonderful kids, and am so happy to have known him and Pat and Paul and Veek. He was man of passionate conviction, on the side of justice and equality all his life. He lives on in his children and grandchildren, an inspiration to us all. Wishing Pat and the family the strength that comes from knowing so many share your sadness, and the comfort of many happy memories.

Be not sad that such a man has passed, rather celebrate that he was here with us for a time, and that we shared in his life.

Andrea Rush

March 22, 2019

In memory of a wonderful man with uncounted sensibilities who consistently championed the right causes, no matter the personal fallout. THANK YOU Larry, for all you did for so many

Chris Pruss

March 21, 2019

Larry will be missed. May your memories sustain you through this time. My heart and prayers are with you

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