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Ramon Mabasa Obituary

Mabasa, M.D., Ramon A.
Ramon Albar Mabasa, M.D., 76, of New Milford, passed away peacefully November 6, at New Milford Hospital surrounded by his family who loved him deeply. He was the husband of Jan Grize Mabasa.
Ramon was born September 17, 1937 in Capiz, (later named Roxas City), Philippines, an American Protectorate. He was the son of the late Catalino Mabasa, a civil engineer and Antonia Albar Mabasa, a mathematician. When he was 4 years old the Japanese occupied the Philippines. His family fled their home to live in the mountainous jungle enduring many hardships and uncertainties. Once the war ended, his education began. Ramon went on to graduate from San Juan Letran Collage, Manila, then graduated from The University of the East, Ramon Magsaysay Memorial Medical College, Quezon City. He completed a fellowship in Internal Medicine at the University of the Philippines.
Ramon was recruited by Rev. Pelzer, SVD, missionary priest, to bring modern medicine to an isolated cultural community of indigenous peoples: the Tingguians, in Manabo, Abra. As there were no roads into the village to this remote area, travel was done during the dry season, using dried up river beds. Together, Father Pelzer and Ramon built the 20 bed hospital of Santa Monika. Ramon brought in x-ray equipment and laboratory equipment, which he assembled and operated. There he began performing small surgeries and treating traumatic injuries. At this time, he realized that his talents lay in the field of surgery. Once the Philippine Government made it mandatory for medical graduates to serve in rural areas, Ramon left Manabo to pursue a residency in General Surgery.
Ramon came to the United States, landing in New Jersey. Having no money, he hitched a ride with a kindly truck driver who brought him into New York City. He made his way to St. Clare's Hospital in Manhattan to begin his training, where he completed a rotating internship. He went onto a residency in General Surgery at Waterbury Hospital and trained under Dr. Sidney Luria.
In November, 1971, Ramon came to New Milford Hospital and joined Dr. John Haxo in the practice of General Surgery. Together they worked as New Milford Surgical Associates. Ramon was an extraordinarily gifted surgeon. He excelled in surgical procedures well beyond the scope of general surgery. These included operations in orthopedics, gynecology, hand, plastic/reconstructive and micro surgery. Ramon introduced laparoscopic surgery to this area.
Practicing well before the era of helicopter evacuations to Level 1 trauma centers, he proved to be excellent at the management of multiple trauma. Years later, a fellow surgeon, describing Dr. Mabasa said, "Not only does
Ramon do everything, he does everything well." He was loved by all who knew him and worked with him.
Together, Ramon and Jan supported and operated a home for parentless children in the Philippines for 25 years (International Alliance for Children), assisting children with rehabilitation, reunification and when necessary, adoption.
Besides his wife, Jan, of 45 years, Ramon is survived by his daughter, Abra Grize Mabasa, M.D., New Milford, his son, Reyes Grize Mabasa, Watertown, his daughter, Ryah Albar-Grize Mabasa King and her loving husband Thomas King, his beloved grandchildren, Abigayle,Alessandra, and Andrew of Middlebury. In addition, he is survived by family members in Canada and the Philippines, his sisters-in-law, Emelyn Grize, East Dennis, MA, and Nancy Grize, New Milford, nieces and nephews, loving cousins, and a myriad of special and close friends.
Also, he is survived by his family of colleagues: the doctors, nurses and staff of all departments of New Milford Hospital whom he loved and regarded so highly, and enjoyed working with for 35 years. He is survived by the now adult children, who passed through the care of International Alliance for Children and who benefited from his support. Ramon is sorely missed by his constant companion of the past two years, Lexi, his grand-dog.
Ramon lived by the Hippocratic Oath, and he espoused a deep and abiding Roman Catholic faith. He was a daily communicant, and leaves behind his church family of priests and fellow parishioners.
A Memorial Service and Celebration of Life will be held at 10:00 A.M. on Saturday, November 23, 2013 at: Saint Patrick's Church 50 Charles Street Waterbury, Connecticut.
To honor Ramon, Family and Friends are asked to perform an act of love and kindness. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to:
CLOSER TO FREE
P.O. Box 7611
New Haven, CT 06519-0611 or
Chase Collegiate School
565 Chase Parkway
Waterbury, CT 06708
Arrangements by the Lillis Funeral Home, 58 Bridge Street, New Milford, CT

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Published by Danbury News Times from Nov. 13 to Nov. 14, 2013.

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Mary Kompass

November 7, 2024

This reminder came to my email this morning. We all were blessed to have such a kind, giving, and talented surgeon in our lives. I know he is in heaven watching over his family and friends. RIP dear Dr. Mabasa.

Barbara McGiver

November 7, 2021

Ramon Mabasa will always be remembered as a kind, selfless, person and a great and gifted surgeon. He touched hundreds of lives and saved many. I will always hold him close to my heart. This man truly sits at the right hand of God.

james rettino

April 5, 2014

i am so sorry to hear of the doctor's passing.. the date is April 5th 2014.. i was just going to send the doctor a hello and a thankyou.. today is the 25th annaversary of my surgury by the doctor.. cancer free for 25 years because of the doctor... thoughts and prayers

Conor Scott

December 26, 2013

I have the honor of knowing Ramon's son Reyes! He seems to have been a great guy. May he Rest in Peace!

Luanne Convery

December 9, 2013

I had the honor of working with Dr. Mabasa as a Nurse Manager at New Milford Hospital. He was a gifted surgeon and a magificent human being. His bedside manner was kind and caring and his patients and the hospital staff respected him and loved him. For all those that have had him as their physician and for all those that have known him as a colleague .... we are blessed and are better for it. Thank you, Dr. Mabasa ... we will always remember you.

LouAnn Bloomer

December 7, 2013

Ramon was an exceptional person and I am grateful to have known him. A skilled surgeon, a good friend and a gentleman. My sincere condolences to his wife, Jan, his children and grandchildren.

Randall & Reggie Breeckner

December 3, 2013

December 3, 2013
Ramon was our friend, doctor, our daughter's Godfather and our constant inspiration. He operated on me three times and saved my life, or at least the quality of my life. Six times I had the experience of meeting Ramon in his surgical scrubs (three times going into surgery, three times afterwards), and each time he was all smiles, jokes and full of good cheer.... all at no extra charge! Ramon's joy in his work, and its healing effect on his patient, were all part of his comprehensive spirituality. What a wonder, marvel and privilege it was, and still is, to be this man's friend!! His intellect, his matchless skill, his gentleness, his kindness and his faith were all so seamlessly blended, each enhancing the other. As a bonus, Reg and I enjoyed a window to Ramon's family life, witnessing his bottomless love for Jan, his kids and his precious grandchildren. Time with Ramon and Jan allowed us, on occasion, to play Fred and Ethel to Ramon and Jan's Ricky and Lucy in an ever-running episode of "I Love Lucy". Lots of laughter, lots of love and never to be forgotten.
Now, Jan and Ramon's family and friends, talk to him through the veil that separates our lives from the next, receiving his gentle wisdom, humor and kindness through our hearts rather than our ears. As Deacon Roland Miller so aptly put it, we must remember to pray to, not for, Ramon. He has joined our Savior and will serve, if we allow him, as physician to our souls. Thank you God for the gift of Ramon Mabasa.

Angela Blank

November 28, 2013

Dr Mabasa was one of the kindest people I have ever met and it was a privilege to know him. My thoughts and prayers go out to Jan and the whole Mabasa family for peace and comfort.

Michelle Faraci, and dog, Yoshi

Michelle Faraci

November 26, 2013

I was very lucky to be adopted from the Manila, The Philippines. I was very fortunate to have the privilege to come to the U.S.A. I was reading the obituaries in the Watertown Town Times Newspaper, and I came across Dr. Mabasa's. I was very saddened to know that he is no longer with us here on Earth. However, his legacy will live on. The people that he had encountered throughout his years will always be grateful for his unyielding attention and caring personality. Thank you, Jan, and the rest of the Mabasa family for establishing such a wonderful agency to place orphaned children with families. I am so blessed to have my family, friends, and colleagues, as part of my life. Thank you a million, Dr. Mabasa, and may you Rest In Peace. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

November 26, 2013

To All of the Mabasa Family, we are sorry to read of your loss. We, too, as others have written found Dr. Mabasa to be a caring, competent doctor and humanitarian. May you cherish your memories and years you shared with him.
Suzanne and Bill Burley

Susan DaCunha

November 25, 2013

To the Mabasa Family-
I had the privelege of working with Dr. Mabasa both as Director of the infirmary at The Gunnery as well as an RN in pediatrics and nursing supervisor at New Milford Hospital. Dr. Mabasa stood out as an excellent surgeon to all ages. His kind, gentle, and patient approach to people was evident in the numbers that sought his help. He worked day and night and even when not "on call" people reached out for him and he never turned them away. His dedication to others was not only evidenced locally, it extended across the globe to those far less fortunate. Thank you, dear Dr. Mabasa, from me and my colleagues and from all those in New Milford, in the United States, and around the world who you reached out to, touched, and healed. You will always be remembered.

Katherine Devine

November 25, 2013

It was my honor to work with Dr. Mabasa during my tenure as Nurse Manager at New Milford Hospital. He was a gifted surgeon that cared for his patients and their families with compassion and love. He cared for almost all of the surgical patients in the hospital during my time there - everyone selected him to do their surgery because they realized his skill and referred him to others. Despite a very busy schedule, Dr. Mabasa always remained patient, kind, respectful, and appreciative of his colleagues and co-workers. He was a man who practiced acts of kindness every day - he was an example to us all. Thank God for sharing your talents, your beliefs, and your life with us - we reamin grateful. May you rest in peace.

November 23, 2013

Jan & Family: Ramon was a joy to work with. His kindness and his compassion were a constant in his practice. He had great empathy for everyone he came in contact with, staff as well as patients. He was a wonderful man and surgeon. God Bless you Ramon.
Patricia A. Lawrence,RN

Janice Szigeti

November 23, 2013

Dear Ramon was one of the most compassionate persons I had ever met. I remember his thoughtfulness with patients and other medical staff that filled his life at Waterbury Hospial and New Milford Hospital. Besides being an excellent Surgeon he was an excellent Human Being! My sincere condolences to Jan and family.

Elaine Ashley

November 21, 2013

Jan and the entire Mabasa Family,
We were so sorry to hear of the passing of Dr. Mabasa. His compassion and caring for not only his patients but for the staff working with him was unsurpassed. He will truly be missed.

Nancy Peloquin

November 21, 2013

Dr Mabasa's compassion, honesty and humor endeared him to our family with our first encounter. He will be missed!

Gerri Romaniello RN

November 20, 2013

My deepest sympathy to the Mabasa family.I had the priviledge of working with Ramon for over 20 years at NMH. He was a wonderful human being and a fantastic surgeon. He will not be forgotten. May he rest in peace.

New Milford Healing Circle

November 20, 2013

To Jan, Reyes, and family-

We send you our care, compassion, and love. Dr. Ramon has touched so many of us and our families as he used his special skill to heal our bodies. In addition, he demonstrated courage and his consistent faith in God as he confronted recent challenges to his health. What a magnificent teacher to us all. Thank you.

Barbara McGiver

November 20, 2013

Jan, Abra, Reyes, Ryah, Tom, Abigale, Allie, and Andrew-

What a great privelege it has been for me to share in Ramon's life. He was a humble man who will always be remembered for his unconditional devotion to God, his outstanding skill as a surgeon, his compassion and care for people, his many, many acts of kindness to everyone, his generosity especially to those less fortunate, his gratitude for his life and his special gift, and his appreciation and deep love of his family. He has been honored as a "hero" by some and known as a "savior" by others; needless to say, he has been a "role model" to all.
Ramon examplified the meaning of the word "friend" and "colleague." He consistently reached out to others, trusting, comforting, believing in others, and always hoping for the best for them. Ramon made a difference in the community and in the world ... he made it better. What a magnificent journey his life has been ... a job well done, my dear friend!

To all of you I send love, light, and blessings.

John Strain

November 20, 2013

To the entire Mabasa family-
My deepest sympathy to each of you. Dr. Mabasa was a gifted surgeon who was there for me and my family whenever we needed his skills. He will be forever in our thoughts -a good person with a great faith, extreme kindness, and charity to all.

ma. consuelo almonte-shaffer

November 19, 2013

Ramy is my contemporary. Of the same age and first cousin we almost grew up together in the Philippines. Mark joins me in praying for the repose of his soul.

Mary Jane Fast

November 19, 2013

Our Condolences to Dr. Mabasa's family on the passing of their beloved Ramon. We will all miss him terribly; and will always remember the wonderful care and love that our family shared with him! Sincerely,
Mary Jane & Kevin Fast; and Eileen & George Fast.

Colleen Mongillo

November 18, 2013

Dr Mabasa was the best surgeon and human being I have ever had the pleasure to have met. His skill as a surgeon was unsurpassed. His compassion and love of humanity was unequaled. It was always about healing and loving people. Never did that loving surgeon even ask about payment. He saved my husband and thousands of others with his skill and medical knowledge. He was always a friend. It was indeed my pleasure to have known and worked with this man for 25 years. Rest in peace my friend.

Carol Daudelin

November 18, 2013

Doc working for you was a pleasure. Your wit and smile every day will be in my thoughts. There really arent enough praises anyone can write about you. Your blessed hands & skills can 't be matched. Your smile in the office put us all in a wonderful mood. There is no doubt that God will put you in his arms.
I can still hear your accent when you would tell jokes in the office. It's impossible to count the people you have saved with & without insurance. The long hours, the skill you showed, the compassion, the comfort you extended to all that had the good fortune to meet you will never be matched or forgotten.
Rest now Doc you have earned a seat next to God

November 17, 2013

Dear Jan, Abra bad Family

I am deeply sorry about Dr. Mabasa's passing. It was a great pleasure knowing him and I had a lot of fun working with him in the or he was the best he taught me a lot. I loved him very much and he will be in my heart forever. Love Bambi Bahr

Mary Kompass

November 16, 2013

To All of Dr. Mabasa's family,
He was by far the most dedicated, caring, and devoted doctor I ever had the pleasure of working for. He always had the kindest of words, for his coworkers, family, and patients. His wonderful smile will be missed by all. My sincerest condolences,
Mary Kompass

November 16, 2013

R.I.P. Dr Mabasa

Penny, Marty and Jackie Randall

November 15, 2013

It is rare to find a competent professional in any field. It's also rare to find a person who is gentle, kind, compassionate and connected to others. It's almost impossible to find one person who embodies all of these characteristics and yet is humble and sensitive to the needs of others. Ramon was such a person and will forever remain a twinkling star beckoning each of us to reach deep to be all we can be. If each of us could follow in his footsteps, our spirits would soar and the world would be a more loving place.

We love you all for sharing Ramon.

Love and Hugs!

Tammy Zinick

November 15, 2013

Jan and Family ~ My sympathies are with you but how blessed you were to have such a great man in your lives...

Judy Arndt

November 15, 2013

Jan and family, My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. I feel privileged to have known and worked with such a gifted surgeon and caring man. May God Bless you and your family.

November 15, 2013

Dear Mrs Mabasa
I am so sorry for your loss Dr Mabasa was a very big inspiration in my life at the age of 13. He was caring and giving like no other he even taught me how to play chess. Thank you so much for sharing him for he touched many.

Douglas J Wood

Linda & Len Kennan

November 15, 2013

Dear Jan, Abra and family -

I am deeply sorry to hear of Dr. Mabasa's passing. He was a wonderful, kind man. He performed surgery on everyone in our family at some point over the years. Jan - you were always supportive when my children were in the office for procedures and I thank you for that.

I also had the pleasure of working at New Milford Hospital with him for a short time and was impressed with his abilities and patience.

Now I am privileged to be a patient of his daughter, Abra.

Dr. Mabasa touched many lives and he will be missed. May God's peace fill your lives and give you comfort. God bless your family.

Wendy Wassong

November 15, 2013

When I think of what a doctor should be and how they should treat their patients I think of Dr. Mabasa...he has operated on many of my family members including my mom that would have died from a burst appendix if he had not realized what was wrong so quickly....I also think of what our hospital use to be like with dedicated doctors checking in on patients first hand..he was always a smiling face greeting all his patients while making rounds....a bygone era......you will be missed...RIP...

Hal and Jan Kamm

November 15, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with all of the Mabasa family. Ramon was certainly a gifted surgeon, a caring physician and respected colleague who was always available when the need arose. He will not be forgotten.

Margaret McDonagh

November 15, 2013

My thoughts and prayers to the family. He saved my daughters life.. without him, today, there would be no her. I am forever thankful to him for the gift I still have today.

Valerie Adams

November 14, 2013

Dear Jan, Abra, Ryah,& Family
I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. I am thankful I had the pleasure of knowing such an awesome gentleman who will be truly missed by so many whose lives he has touched as well as saved. He helped bring both my boys into this world with his skilled surgical hands as well as perform several life saving surgeries on my mother. May your fond memories help ease your sadness during this difficult time. I pray God gives you peace and fills your hearts with joy knowing Heaven has another angel watching over you. God Bless.
Luvs & Hugs

Tanya LaPoint

November 14, 2013

Dear Jan, Abra and family,
I'm sorry to hear about Ramon! I hope you are all doing ok -despite his passing. I'm sure he's got plenty to do up there though, God had plans for him! Truly an angel in the flesh here on earth, and now he gets to spread his newly acquired wings!
I do hope that you all find peace and solace knowing he's pain free and no longer suffering, and that that may comfort you all during the toughest of times. God bless you all!

Helen Rossi

November 14, 2013

I have know and loved the Mabasa Family for many, many years. The New Milford Community as well as family and friends will truly miss him. He and Jan have raised a beautiful family and have done so much for other families world wide. My deepest condolences to Jan, their Children and Grandchildren for their loss. Helen Heaton Rossi.

Patty Jacobson, RN

November 14, 2013

My deepest sympathies to the Mabasa family; may you be comforted by your memories and the knowledge of what an incredible human being Ramon was. He would do anything for anyone at anytime. I loved working with him at NMH. He was one of the kindest people I have ever known. We were all blessed to have known him.

Ginny Smith

November 14, 2013

A true humanitarian. My love & prayers to Jan & family. Lovingly, Ginny Smith & family.

The Leibe family

November 14, 2013

Jan and family, we are so sorry for your loss.

Susan Geib

November 14, 2013

My Dear friend Jan, and the Mabasa family. Some people are put on this earth and never know why, how blessed were we to know why Dr. Mabasa was here, he was here to heal and comfort the sick.. and he did that like no other. He saved many many lives, too many to count. He saved my sister's life when her appendix ruptured. God Bless You Dr. Mabasa. As you stood before the Lord, waiting for your judgment ..seeing you life's work replayed out before you..HE then smiled on you and said " You did good my child, Welcome home"

Amy

November 14, 2013

One of the best,He operated on my son, me and my husband, very sorry for loosing him.

Wanda Gonzalez

November 14, 2013

To the whole family, the world is a poorer place without Ramon Mabasa in it. I worked with him for 14 years and found him to be humble, kind, and extremely talented. He will be sorely missed. I send you my heartfelt condolences. What a good man he was!

sue Krager

November 14, 2013

Dear Mabasa family, please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. Dr. Mabasa was a great doctor and a man with a heart of gold. He will be missed by all.
our deepest sympathy,
Bob and Sue Krager

Mari McIlrath

November 14, 2013

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Christina Trepanier

November 14, 2013

my deepest condolences. he did many surguries on my exhusband and was always quick to put you at ease even when they were grave. he was amazing. he will be missed!!!

J

November 14, 2013

A truly amazing man an amazing surgeon. Not only was caring, loving and intelligent also so very funny! I remember having a mole removed he was so excited that I would be the first to accept taking it home with me and told everyone. Dr. Mabasa encouraged me through nursing school told me I can do,it and he had faith in me, and I was gonna be great! Thank you for encouragement and love that you did not have to give thank you for being you! We love you, and you will be missed beyond any words that I can express! Thank you to your family and my heart and prayers are with them! May God Bless you.

Charlotte Thompson

November 14, 2013

Jan I am so sorry to here about dr mabasas death. He did so much for me over the years, I even had faith in him doing surgery on me that he had never done befor. The two of you were like family to me. He will be missed terrably.

November 14, 2013

Words can't express what the town of New Milford loss with the passing of Dr. Mabasa. He was always there to help and never asked question and he trusted in the lord to assist when his medical knowledge just wasn't enough. He took care of my parents with pure love and compassion. My prayer to Jan and the family.
Nancy and Jerry Gawel

Sandra Anderson RN

November 14, 2013

My sympathy to you, Jan, and all the Mabasa family. I have many wonderful memories of him and will always cherish them. He was one of a kind!

Cheryl Bauer

November 14, 2013

I will miss him.he had Hands Of Gold.Miss You Doc <3

Lynda Wellman

November 14, 2013

Dear Jan, Abra and family - We were so sorry to learn of the passing of such a compassionate and caring doctor and humanitarian. You are in our thoughts and prayers and we send our deepest sympathy. Bill & Lynda Wellman and family.

Karin Saresky

November 14, 2013

Dear Jan... your husband saved my life. I remember it clearly - it was the day before Chrismas Eve many years ago. I was walking around in pain for a week, working through it - but I just couldn't take it anymore and called my husband Mike - you need to get me to the hospital. They looked at me immediately - sucked down my Barium drink... had my CAT Scan.. and I was in surgery that afternoon. I was in the hospital for Christmas and remember Dr. Mabasa checking on me and making sure I was doing ok..always looking in on me. I was bloated for days and uncomfortable but when I learned how well Dr. Mabasa took care of me on the operating table, I knew I was blessed. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family...Please know I asked my late husband Mike of two years yesterday to show him the ropes up there! God Bless...Love, Karin

Bobbi-Jo Baldwick

November 14, 2013

When I needed surgery many years ago Dr. Mabasa put me right at ease and made me feel very comfortable. He was a wonderful and very kind man. He will be missed.

Karen & Robert Shimko/Gallup

November 14, 2013

Sincere Sympathy for the Passing of a Kind and Loving Man,Doctor,Husband,Father,Grandfather and a Great Friend. He will be sorely missed!! So sorry for the pass of a Magnificant Man.

Cathy Blonski

November 14, 2013

Dear Jan and family,
Peace to Ramon and you. He was such a special man. Working with him at New Milford Hospital for many years was an honor.

Marion Kallenbach

November 14, 2013

God bless Dr. Mabasa and his family.

Kristen Burrell-Buffington

November 14, 2013

32 years ago I was in a horrible car accident. Dr. Mabasa was the attending surgeon when I was taken to New Milford Hospital. Needless to say....I had so many cuts and head trauma. Now 32 years later the scars I obtained so long ago are basically invisible because of the work of Dr. Mabasa. I will always be grateful to him for his outstanding medical skills. I will never forget what you do for me so many years ago. My prayers are with his family............

November 14, 2013

Deepest condolences..to the Mabasa family..Dr. Mabasa-A Beautiful and caring Man..

Laura Rothe Swett

November 13, 2013

Prayers for his family and friends. Not only was he a wonderful doctor but I have fond memories of him being very giving to his family. I went to school with Abra and sweetly recall birthday parties at their home and him sitting by with laughter as all of us jumped in the swimming pool at the inn/restaurant near Lake Waramaug (if memory serves correctly, I'm a little unclear about the location) But what I do know for sure is he was dedicated to his family and to his patients. Peaceful rest, Sir and prayers for all that loved and admired him.

November 13, 2013

Dear Cousin Jan and Family,
Ramon's passing leaves all of us with a huge void! I feel so privileged to have known him, and believe he will live on in all of us in our cherished remembrances of him!
Love,
Rosemary

Alfred & Rose Cretella

November 13, 2013

Ramon touched the lives of many people. He was responsible for innumerable acts of kindness only a small number that will ever be known. God Bless you Ramon.

Trudy Thomas

November 13, 2013

I was so sad to hear this. Everyone in NMH OR loved that man. An incredibly gifted surgeon. He will be missed.

Denise and David Mariconda

November 13, 2013

Dear Dr Mabasa family,
Our profound sorrow for the loss of a wonderful and spiritual man and gifted surgeon. The Mariconda's formerly of New Milford CT

William Stevenson

November 13, 2013

Great doctor we'll be missed!!!

Deborah Doenias

November 13, 2013

Dear Jan & Family,
We're so sorry to hear of Dr. Mabasa's passing. Perhaps this was no coincidence: Sean's cauliflower ear returned that same day that Dr. Mabasa passed! I think Dr. Mabasa was laughing in Heaven, telling Sean, "I told you to wear your headgear & take it easy!"

May our Savior and Best Friend, Jesus, through His Holy Spirit, comfort you, Jan, now and in all your days ahead.
Our sincerest condolences. -The Doenias Family, Stew, Debbie & Sean

Ed and Janice Strait

November 13, 2013

We will always remember Dr. Mabasa as a truly wonderful, and remarkable caring surgeon who saved the life of our 6 year old son in 1979.

November 13, 2013

Our deepest sympathies to the Mabasa family. Ramon was a true humanitarian and a gifted surgeon.
Joe and Sue Gallas
The Villages,Florida

Bob Martin

November 13, 2013

I have lost a wonderful friend. Ramon, God bless you.

Kathy Vermilyea

November 13, 2013

Dr. Mabasa was an extraordinary man who performed countless acts of charity. We have a new intercessor in heaven. God bless Jan and the Mabasa family. Kathy and Pete Vermilyea

Marie Kluge

November 13, 2013

We will miss him greatly but a new angel is now present in heaven. Cousin Marie and Erica

Pat Gallo

November 13, 2013

Jan and family. Am so sorry to hear of this. Ramon was a SPECIAL person and a WONDERFUL doctor. I so remember MANY MANY hours working with him at NMH and he never had a harsh word for anyone. He will be missed greatly by so many.

Katie and Leanne Golembeski

November 13, 2013

It was my privilege to have worked with Ramon. In the OR we called him "Dr Nose-to-Toes" because he could do it all and do it exceptionally well. Ramon was a humble man who never underestimated the power of faith, prayer and love. I have never met a more compassionate person. May this wonderful man rest in peace. Jan and family, our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

November 13, 2013

Jan, Deepest sympathy to you and the family at this time of great loss. Love, Betty Lou

November 13, 2013

Jan and family - heartfelt condolences - he was a true Christian and a wonderful surgeon - thinking of you and hoping you find a healing peace. You are in my prayers - Janet Passineau

November 13, 2013

Dr. Mabasa was a wonderful man and doctor. My sympathies to his family.

Sandra Calabrese

November 13, 2013

What a wonderful doctor Dr. Mabasa was. He did surgery on me several times, and my daughter. The sad part of leaving Ct to move to Mass, was leaving the doctors and dentist that I entrusted myself with, and he was one on them. RIP Dr. Mabasa.

Donna smith

November 13, 2013

He was a fantastic doctor very gentle and loving.

Kitty Arnold

November 13, 2013

My thoughts go out to you Jan, and the children. I think of the years we worked together at IAC, and the many times we spent together. My thoughts are with you. hugs, Kitty

Susan Gabriele

November 13, 2013

I always remember his caring, gentle manner when he examined me, and another time my mother, in the emergency room.

November 13, 2013

Jan and family, Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Marty and Kathy Schaffmeir and family

Loretta Kretchko

November 13, 2013

Prayers for his family. Dr. Mabasa was an amazing man. Our community has suffered a great loss. May he rest in peace.

Joyce Espitee

November 13, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers go to Jan Mabasa and everyone in the Mabasa family. Dr. Mabasa was an excellent surgeon and a very compassionate person. He will be missed by everyone who knew him.

Rhonda Scribner-Cable

November 13, 2013

Thoughts and prayers go out to the family, he was a wonderful man and an amazing doctor. He will be missed. May you R.I.P. Dr Mabasa.

betty lockwood

November 13, 2013

Dear Jan and family love and prayers sent to you - Ramon was very special to all of us love

Betty Lockwood RN -Florida

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for Ramon Mabasa

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

Funeral services provided by:

Lillis Funeral Home

58 Bridge Street, New Milford, CT 06776

How to support Ramon's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

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