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1942
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2026
Susan Bury Obituary
Susan Jayne Bury, 83, of Carlsbad, CA, passed away peacefully on January 27, 2026, with her daughters by her side.
Susan was born on June 28, 1942, in Minneapolis, MN, to Mary Jayne and Paul Barcelow. She met and married the love of her life, Bill Bury, in Minnesota. Shortly thereafter, they moved to Bethel, CT. In Bethel, Sue was an entrepreneur and an award-winning professional photographer. She was very involved in the community and volunteered at Danbury Hospital.
Upon retirement, Sue and Bill moved to Hilton Head, SC, where they enjoyed golf, beach walks, bridge and dancing. She also loved to needlepoint.
Susan was known for her beautiful smile, warm personality and generosity. She traveled extensively and especially loved multiple African safaris with friends. She always had a camera ready to capture that special memory and her home was filled with photos of friends and family. Her love of music and ability to recall lyrics brought her much joy as she participated in singalongs even in the late stages of her illness.
Susan is survived by her daughters, Julie Thomas (Steve) and Chris Merullo; her grandchildren, Matt Merullo (Gabriela), Mackenzie Merullo (Hayes), Melissa Thomas, and Samuel Thomas; great-grandson, Jack; son-in-law, Steve Merullo; brothers, Mike Barcelow (Heidi) and Kris Barcelow (Jane); and many nieces and nephews.
She was preceded in death by her parents, Mary Jayne and Paul Barcelow; and her husband, Bill Bury.
The family would like to thank the caregivers at La Marea Memory Care in Carlsbad and AccentCare Hospice for their loving care of Susan.
A celebration of Susan's life will be held at a future date.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations in her memory be made to www.scottyfund.com , a charity near and dear to Susan's heart.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
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Jeremiah Damura
February 26, 2026
Mat she RIP. A real class lady!
Jan Maria Jagush
February 14, 2026
Susan was such a lovely person and always willing to get involved and be helpful. She did some lovely pictures for me over the years.
Sharon Siegel
February 11, 2026
Chris
I am so sorry to hear of your Moms passing. She was a wonderful lady.
May loving memories always be with you.
Susan and Michael Lohle
February 11, 2026
So sorry for the loss of Susan. She was our wedding photographer back in March 1993 in Shelton CT during the storm of the century! Our photos and memories are priceless thanks to Susan. Rest in peace.
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Nancy Sappington
February 9, 2026
Lloyd and I always looked forward to seeing your mom at your home in Fairbanks for holidays and other gatherings. She was so happy and easy to talk to. May you and your sister process the loss of your mom, knowing how well you cared for her. Love, Nancy and Lloyd
John Marasco
February 7, 2026
sorry for your loss. I was Sue and Bill's mailman the whole time they lived in Bethel.Sue did a photo shoot of us when she first started in busine
Allyson J Bernard
February 6, 2026
My Mom, Alyce Jane Bernard, and Susan were friends during her time in Bethel. When my mom was finished with her chemotherapy Susan suggested they do a fun "boudoir" session. It helped to make my mom feel like a woman again. She treasured those photos and so do I. As I type this I can see one of her photos, from that session , that hangs in my private office. Not only was she an incredible photographer she was a good friend. May she RIP and fly with the Angels. Allyson Bernard
Stephen Griffing
February 6, 2026
I remember enjoying many rounds of golf with both Sue and Bill at Rock Ridge Golf Club many years ago. Condolences to the family. They will both be missed.
Joseph Calzada
February 6, 2026
So sorry to her of Susans passing. We connected in Bethel Ct many years ago at The Rock Ridge Country Club. I vividly recall her warm and caring nature. When she learned of my grandmother coming to the UAS from Cuba at the age of 92, She immediately offered to do a photo shoot. It was a lovely day. I am certain she has connected with Bill and will again be part of a loving couple.
May she rest peacefully.
Joseph Calzada
New Fairfield Ct
John and Joyce Sarver
February 5, 2026
Dear Julie and Chris,
Deepest condolences to you and your families. I loved watching your mom jogging up Linda Lane with your dog, her faithful running companion. We are privileged to have a Susan Bury family portrait in our living room. I think of her
often when I see it. Her memory will live on. May you find peace in the wonderful memories you have.
Marilyn Caravetta
February 5, 2026
Dear Julie and Chris: I was saddened to hear of my long time friend Susan's passing. I have tried to reach her after the Christmas letters stopped. She must have moved. I will always remember her with warm thoughts and treasure our friendship and all the good times we had. She was the best and loved our time together when Paul and Bill were with us too! Please know what a special and delightful person to have as a friend and such a loving Mother to you both. I know how much she loved and was so proud of you. Sending love to you and your families!
Jan Vaughan
February 5, 2026
Chris and Julie: I am very sorry to hear about your mom. Susan was a close friend when we all lived in HH. I have great memories of our fun times with both Bill and Susan.
Mary McKenzie Nimer
February 4, 2026
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this sad time. I was blessed to have Susan in my life. I have so many beautiful pictures of my family thanks to Susan.
Sincerely,
Mary McKenzie Nimer
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