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Andrew Verderame Obituary

Verderame, Andrew F. "Butch"
Andrew F. "Butch" Verderame, 79, of East Haven, passed away peacefully in the early morning of Monday, November 16th, 2020 at Apple Rehab in Guilford. He has been the loving husband of Gail (Frank) Verderame for the past 58 years. He was born in New Haven on March 25th, 1941 to the late Salvatore and Anna (D'Amato) Verderame. Andy worked together with his beloved brother, Anthony, in the lobster industry for more than four decades. Both were the owners and captains of lobster fishing boats with their dock on Ferry Street and then Chapel Street in New Haven. He retired in 2006 after an incredible lifetime on Long Island Sound doing what he loved so much. If you enjoyed a lobster dinner in Connecticut anytime from the 1960's to 2000's, there is a good chance you were eating a lobster caught by Andy or his brother.
Andy was also very involved in East Haven politics. He was elected to the very first Town Council and served as a captain for the Democratic Party for many years, ultimately rising to the position of Democratic Town Chairman. Additionally, he sat on the Board of Finance for ten years and was appointed as a Police Commissioner in 1985 and then served as the Chairman until 1993. A man who truly loved his community, Andy served his town proudly and faithfully, always putting the citizens first. His work ethic, loyalty and honesty are what allowed him to serve the people of East Haven for multiple Democratic and Republican administrations.
To know Andy is to also know his overwhelming love for his family. Even more than his life on the water, he was proudest of his life at home. Besides his beloved wife, he is survived by a son, Andrew Sal (Karen Brown) Verderame of Branford; a daughter, Sally Ann (Mark) Ballantoni of North Branford; a brother, Anthony (Valerie) Verderame, a sister Roseann (Rick) Miceli, and a nephew and godson, Anthony Jr. (Michelle) Verderame, all of East Haven. Andy is also survived by five grandchildren whom he cherished deeply; Andrew (Laura) Verderame, Mark Ballantoni, Matthew Verderame, Candace Ballantoni and Brett Ballantoni. He was also predeceased by his sister, Serafina "Dottie" Verderame, whom he is now peacefully reunited with.
Andy's family would like to sincerely thank the staff at Apple Rehab of Guilford for their remarkable care over the years. His family finds peace in knowing how well he was taken care of and how much he enjoyed his time there.
Calling hours, with appropriate social distancing measures being observed, will take place at East Haven Memorial Longobardi – Brennan Funeral Home, 425 Main St., East Haven, 203-467-1708, Sunday, November 22nd, from 2:30 to 5:30 p.m. A Memorial Mass and Interment of Ashes will take place in the spring. More details and another notice will be posted prior to those services. Memorial contributions may be made to the Dan Cosgrove Animal Shelter, 749 E. Main St., Branford, CT 06405. Please visit Andy's memorial page at easthavenmemorial.com and sign his guest book. Updates for his services will also be found on his page.

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Published by The New Haven Register on Nov. 19, 2020.

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Pilar Ciravolo

December 7, 2020

Dear Andy and Family, I'm very sorry to hear of the loss of your Father. He sounded like a special Father and a person that touched many lives. I will be thinking of during this very difficult and sad time.

Debbie and Brian Brozek

November 23, 2020

Dear Anthony and Val, our sympathies to you and your family.
Debbie and Brian

michael anastasio

November 21, 2020

Dear Roseann, Anthony and family, I am so sorry for your loss, Butch sounded like a very interesting guy, Respectfully, Mike (Red ) Anastasio

Bob Quartiano

November 21, 2020

Top shelf person !!!and a great family too go along with it mr verderame thanks for all the tips about life and being a success deepest condolences to the family ...bob cord and family

November 21, 2020

Sally, Gail and Anthony, My condolences on you loss, my prayers are with you all, Dorothy Brangi Makula

Terry Athans

November 20, 2020

Sorry to hear about Butch Condolences to you and yr family

annette lavelle

November 20, 2020

To the Verderame Family: I was a classmate of Andrew's at St Michael Grammer School. He was a decent person even then. Years later we met again at The Hospital of Saint Raphael. I was there in the Emergency Room with my young daughter Amy who had fallen and cut her head. I remember wearing a yellow skirt which was covered with blood. I was so frightened for my daughter I had no idea how strange I looked. As I sat there frantically searching for change to call my husband Bill, I heard a calm, quiet voice ask if I needed help. We recognized each other and Andrew reached into his pocket and pulled out a handful of change and gave me the money to call Bill. I never thought to ask why he was there and I hope it was nothing serious. I never forgot his random act of kindness. He never knew how much I appreciated what he did. I hope I thanked him enough. My family will keep Andrew in our prayers.

Marie Affinito

November 20, 2020

Dear Gail and Family, Clem and I want to extend our deepest sympathy in the loss of Andrew (Butch). May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief. All our love, Marie and Clem Affinito

John Esposito (Dicky)

November 20, 2020

To Anthony and Butch’s Family,
We are very sorry for your loss,I can remember the generous gifts of fish and lobster from your family when we lived on Olive St and many years after. I hope Butch has find happiness with God! May He Bless the rest of your family .

Edward Malone

November 19, 2020

So sorry for your loss,Anthony and val

Valerie Villano

November 19, 2020

So sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you Gail and family

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