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Spotts, Doreen "Rose" Hoerrner Doreen Hoerrner Spotts, age 49 of Clinton, beloved wife of Michael Spotts, passed away on October 18, 2011. Doreen was predeceased by her father Ralph Hoerrner. Besides her husband, Doreen is survived by her mother Eleanor Hoerrner; daughters Rachel, and Sarah, and son Kevin,U.S.M.C. Sgt., all of whom she loved unconditionally. She will also be missed by her sisters Diane Hoerrner, Debbie (Paul) Marcuson, and Denise (Don) Antigiovanni; brother Dan (Joanne) Hoerrner, and many nieces and nephews. Doreen graduated Summa Cum Laude with a Bachelor of Science Degree from Southern Connecticut State College. A graveside funeral service will take place on Saturday, October 22, 2011 at 1:00 pm at Indian River Cemetery in Clinton. Swan Funeral Home is in charge of arrangements. Friends may leave messages of condolence online at www.swanfh.com. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the college fund for Doreen's daughters Rachel and Sarah at Liberty Bank. She will always be in our hearts.

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Published by the New Haven Register from Oct. 20 to Oct. 21, 2011.

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November 9, 2011

Deepest sympathy, Pat and Larry Cook

Pamela Gracey

November 1, 2011

Dear Mike and Family,

My deepest symaphy goes out to you and your family. Rose was a wonderful mother, I can still remember her bringing Sarah & Rachel to pre-school. She was a caring, loving, devoted sole. She will be missed by all.

October 29, 2011

Dear Mike and family,
We are so terribly sorry to hear of loss. Our prayers and sympathy go out to you and the children. May God Bless you all and give you strength and courage to endure your pain. We will keep you all in prayer.
The Konefal Family
Dave, Beth and Elizabeth

PEGGIE (HULL) SYPHER

October 28, 2011

To mike and your family...my deepest sympathy to all of you at a time when words cannot comfort you,,May time heal your hearts, and bring you peace in the months to come...

Steve & Eileen Haynes

October 27, 2011

Mike and family,

We are both so very sorry to hear of your terrible loss. May God comfort and sustain you.

October 26, 2011

Mike and Family,
With love, support,and light.
Know that you will always stay close to each other,Rose was a loving wife and mother.
We were unable to be at the graveside service as we had commitments in R.I.,but you all were in our thoughts and prayers,
Joanne and John McCarty

Roberta Travers

October 25, 2011

Mike,
You are in my prayers...hold tight. No words can heal only time.

October 25, 2011

Dear Mike, Kevin, Sarah and Rachel,
I send my deepest sympathy to you at this most sorrowful time. Rose will most surely be missed by all who knew her. You are all in my prayers! Pat Walton (Lake Hayward)

Denise (LaCroix) Cormier

October 24, 2011

Mike,
I am so sorry for your loss. I have been thinking of you and your family and my heart aches for all of you. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Wayne Baldwin

October 24, 2011

Dear Mike, Kevin, Sara & Rachel, there really are no words to express how deeply saddened we are for your loss. You know our dear Rose will be in our hearts forever. We had some good times. And the stories we could tell ! Our heartfelt sympathy to you all. With all our love and prayers, Wayne & Chris

PJ Pape

October 24, 2011

Mike - A great spirit has left us. I have great faith that Steve is right at the head of the line to welcome Rose. Everyone loves her. Holding a peaceful space for you and your family in my heart.

Bob & Sandy Voss

October 24, 2011

Mike & Family
Our deepest sympathy to you and your family at this difficult time. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Teresa (Tracy) Schmardel-Kennedy

October 23, 2011

Dear Mike,
I am saddened to hear of your loss. May you and your children be surrounded by much love and support at this time. You are in my prayers.
Teresa Schmardel-Kennedy

John May

October 23, 2011

Dear Mike, I am so sorry to hear hear about your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. John May (Clinton CT)

Mike Fanning

October 23, 2011

Mike and family,
We are so sorry for your loss. We hope you find strength and peace to help you this difficult time.
Michael, Amie, Mikey & Billy Fanning

Al (Waldo) Kingsley

October 23, 2011

Dan, Joanne and Faimly; so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and all your family.

Bob Schildge

October 23, 2011

Michael - Rusty & Robin would like to express their deepest sympathies for you and your family.

Randi Byron

October 23, 2011

Mike and family,
We are deeply saddened to hear of Rose's passing. We loved her from the moment we met. She was truly a very special person and are honored to have known her.
Randi and Buddy Byron

October 23, 2011

Dear Mike and family We are so sorry to hear about Rose passing. She was a great person who will be missed by many.Our sincere sympathy goes out to you all. Travis,Robin and Steve Simpson.

Rose

October 23, 2011

Rose,
We didn't get to say goodbye
We're devastated that you're gone
We would have done anything to keep you here with us
Right here where you belong
We didn't know that life would take
Such an unexpected path
That you'd be separated from us so soon
Heartbreaking reality we struggle to grasp
And bitter though our losing you has been
And so profound is the pain that we bear
We're sadder still at no chance for goodbye
No final expression of our deep love and care
Yet believing that you're not too far away
That your Spirit still lingers quite near
We'll say our goodbyes in our words and our thoughts
Trusting that each one you'll hear
First, know that you were loved in the truest of ways
So deep that only our hearts can give expression
You'll be forever surrounded by our love
For we're sending it straight up to Heaven
Please know that you'll be cherished by each one of us
For your example and kindness we'll treasure
We understand now how your life was a gift
That was meant to bless us forever
And though we'll miss you terribly
We want your Spirit to be free
Free to enjoy all the wonders of Heaven
Not bound to us in our grief
So watch over us with happiness from Heaven !!
Miss you ! Rose

denise antigiovanni

October 22, 2011

The only words I have are "I LOVE all of you", please remember that.Whenever you need me, I'm here. All my love.

Michael Klatsky

October 22, 2011

I was so sorry to hear of Doreen's passing. Way to young. My deep sympathies and thoughts for her family.

Michael Klatsky
(FHS '80)

Lisa Neri

October 22, 2011

Mike, Rachel, Sarah and Kevin -
Find peace and comfort in the prayers surrounding you by so many. A whole community is here for you. Your mom was a strong, beautiful, funny and kind person. She will be forever in all of our hearts. God Bless you in this most difficult time.
The Neri Family
Bob, Lisa, Tim, James and Chad

Sally Cratty Ayers

October 22, 2011

Dear Mike, Girls and Hoerrner Family, Rose Doreen touched my life in a really important and special way. I know that is true for a lot of people as it was true to her nature. The light she brought shines on in so many varied ways. Peace and love to you all.
With deep respect,

October 22, 2011

Mike - Our sincerest sympathy to you and all your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers. -Laurel (Siegel) & Nick Iaccarino

October 22, 2011

Mike I am deeply saddened by the death of your wife Rose. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God bless you and your family. The Alberino Family.

October 22, 2011

Mike and family,
Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time. Judy & Jim McCusker

Nancy Carr De Genaro

October 22, 2011

Mike, In these times your loving family will be your greatest asset. So sorry for your loss, I just heard or I would have been there.

October 22, 2011

Dear Mike and family,
We are very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time.
Matt & Pam Dominello & sons

Ken, Michele and Robert Rowe

October 22, 2011

Our deepest sympathy is with all of you. May God bless you, and keep you comforted by the wings of his Angels. Your memories will always keep her alive in your hearts forever. We are keeping all of you in our thoughts and prayers.

Maryanne Reilly Mills

October 22, 2011

To the Spotts Family,

I recently reconnected with Rose (Doreen to me) via FB. We went to high school together and I'll always remember her smile and her warm personality toward everyone. On FB we became good friends and I will miss her funny comments and posts. My prayers go out to you. May the memories of good times help to ease your pain.

With my deepest sympathy,

Jeff LaMura

October 22, 2011

Dear Mike, Rachel, and Sarah. I was so saddened to hear of Rose's passing. You guys are in my thoughts and prayers, and I offer my sincerest condolences.

Steve Tefft

October 22, 2011

So sorry to hear about this, Spottsy. Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Donna and Jim Grieder

October 22, 2011

Dear Mike, Sarah and Rachel,
We were so sorry to hear of Rose's passing. We hope you can remain strong through these coming days. Rose will be remembered in our hearts.

Our thoughts are with you,

Donna and Jim Grieder

Peter Hull

October 22, 2011

Mike, Kevin, Rachel and Sarah - Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time. We are very sorry to hear of your great loss. Peace to you all. The Hull Family

Gail & Mike Flattery

October 22, 2011

Mike and family, our thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time - find the strength to keep on going. May the love of your family keep on going. Your mom was a great person....

The Flattery Family

October 22, 2011

We are so deeply sorry for your loss. We are thinking of you during this difficult time. Don and Gail Webster

October 22, 2011

Mike and family - So sorry to hear of your loss - Our thought and prayers are for you in this time of great sorrow. God Bless you all - Keith, Edwina and Kirsten Hansen

John & Mizti Tuttle

October 22, 2011

Mike, Our sincere sympathy to you and your family. You are all in our prayers.

Anne Hartman Lemke

October 22, 2011

My deepest sympathy to the Spotts and Hoerrner families during this most difficult time. Doreen and I were childhood friends both living on Knollwood Road and I have fond memories of our times together.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.

btian hurlock

October 22, 2011

i am so sad to hear to hear this , we all got got along with doreen in school, her smile lite up a room,i think of her and she always was very kind of everyone RIP DOREEN HOERNER

Billy / Milo Welch / Hoffman

October 22, 2011

Denise and Family - It is with deepest sympathy that we send our condolences on the passing of Doreen. While she has been taken Home to be with her Creator, our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Billy Welch and Milo Hoffman

Dan&Bill Clark

October 22, 2011

sorry for the untimely loss of your wife.

Donna (Greene) Crowe

October 22, 2011

My Deepest Sympathies to your family, Mike, Although we've never met I've know Doreen since elementary school. I know no words can take away the Pain, but please take comfort in knowing you now have an Angel in Heaven watching over you all.

FHS - Class of 1980 - She will Always be in our Thoughts and Prayers!

Kathleen Skoczen-Hecimovich

October 21, 2011

Mike, Rachel and Sara; Your mom was a super nice person and one of my favorite people in Clinton. She was one of the first moms I met in town. I will really miss her. I remember how much she loved her kids and I know you will miss her very much, but you can always keep her alive in your hearts and memories. My family and I are thinking of you and holding you in our hearts.

October 21, 2011

Our deepest heartfelt sympathy, to Doreen's family, our thoughts are with you all, as you bid her farewell to begin her next journey. Close to our hearts she will always stay, loved and remembered every day. With love to Mike, and family, Deb and Paul, Dan and Jo, and families at this very sad time. Thinking of you all, Julie and Greg and Family from Australia.xx

Marla York-Ingalls

October 21, 2011

Mike and family,
As the days pass, may you find comfort in the memories you shared together and know you will always have support of your family and friends. Paul and Marla

October 21, 2011

Dear Mike, Sarah and Rachel, We were shocked and saddened to learn about Rose's sudden passing. We are deeply sorry and wish you strength in the days and months ahead. We will remember Rose mostly in her beachchair on the beach in Lake Hayward with a beautiful tan, always smiling, happy to be there and enjoying her third beach friends company. We will all miss her. With deepest sympathy, Al, Charlotte and Martin Andrews.

October 21, 2011

Mike, Rachel and Sarah,
Our hearts and prayers are with you during this difficult. We will always remember Rose's spirit, outgoing personality and her giving heart. I know she made us fell cared for, special and loved every time we crossed paths. May God give you the strength to get through this difficult time and the courage to carry on with the knowledge your mom and wife will be with you always.
With all our love,
Rick, Ally, Ricky, Julia and Carly Green

Regis Kennedy

October 21, 2011

"Everybody's just waiting to hear from the one
Who can give them the answers
Lead them back to that place in the warmth of the sun
Where sweet childhood still dances
Who'll come along and hold out that strong and gentle father's hand."
Mike, Rachel, Sarah, Kevin, and entire Spotts family-love you all so much. I will always remember Rose as beautiful, fun, friendly, a true gentle spirit. Keeping all of you in our thoughts and prayers. So many of us are here for you Mike,and family, as you have always been for us. With sincere condolences to you and the Hoerrner family, and much love, Regis and Chris

Katie and Craig (Marcuson) Betancourt

October 21, 2011

Debbie, Paul, Mike, Rachel, Sarah, Kevin and the entire extended Hoerner family:

We are keeping you all in our hearts and prayers. I know that Grammy and Auntie Alice are holding Doreen close in their arms tonight, and sending waves of healing peace to all those that miss her terribly. I'll remember her beautiful smile and comforting words during our own moments of loss. She was very special.

Love,

Katie and Craig

October 21, 2011

Mike & Family
You will always be in our prayers. Our Deepest Sympathy.
Nell & Jim McCusker

Sue Koseroski

October 21, 2011

Dear Mike and family, I am truly sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the girls through this difficult time. Stay strong Mike.

October 21, 2011

Mike, Rachel, Sarah, Kevin,

We are saddened to hear about Rose. Our deepest heartfelt condolences go out to you and your family. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.

With deepest sympathy,
Lynn, Rod, Scott and Shawn Bernier

Mimi Kolb

October 21, 2011

My family and I loved Rose very much. My heart breaks for you, Michael and Sarah. I will always bve there for you in any way you need me.

Kate (Kolb) Brennan

October 21, 2011

Rose, You were such a wonderful woman and left your lasting impression on the lives of those around you with your beautiful smile, infectious laugh, and creative spirit. My prayers are with you and Mike and your beautiful kids.

Scott Emmons

October 21, 2011

I grew up with Doreen in the highlands of Farmington and just recently had her to my work in East Hartford. It was great to see her - she was still that beautiful person I remember from growing up. My sympathy to you all for losing such a special person.

Rich, Pam, Andrew, Kristen, and Katie Desrosiers

October 21, 2011

Mike and family,
We are so very sorry for your loss. Rose was a beautiful person. Praying that God will give you strength and peace to help you through this difficult time.

Susan Pavao, AGC Flat Glass

October 21, 2011

Dear Mike and family, May you find strength and courage to get through the difficult days ahead. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

October 21, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with you thru this difficult time. May the strength of god, family and friends carry you thru. Remember the good times always. Love, Nick, Cheryl and Anthony Maiorino (Branford, CT)

Caroline Dawson

October 21, 2011

Our hearts are broken. Rose was so loved and will be missed by so many people. You are in our thoughts constantly. God Bless You All...
Love, Caroline, Tim, Lily and Jen Dawson

October 21, 2011

mike and family, so sorry for your loss.rich and tina bannister

Pam Vincelette

October 21, 2011

Mike,Kevin,Rachel and Sarah,
May happy memories replace the sadness in your hearts.. Our thoughts and prayers are with. hugs.. Tom,Pam,Nicole and Melissa Vincelette

Linda English

October 21, 2011

We knew Rose from many years ago through our friendship with Mimi and Dewey Kolb. I am heart broken for all of you. She was such a lovely person in so many ways.
Our Deepest Sympathy, Linda and Tom English

Caroline Dawson

October 21, 2011

We are heartbroken. Rose was so loved and will be missed by so many. You are in our thoughts constantly. God Bless you all...
Love, Caroline, Tim, Lily and Jen Dawson

October 21, 2011

Dear Michael, Rachel, Sarah and family - your are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. With deepest sympathy and love - Maria, Briana and Michael Callahan

Mark Edmonds

October 21, 2011

Dear Debbie and Paul, Dan and Joanne and all your family, our thoughts are with you all at this sad time, may her new travels take her to beautiful places. Mark And Pla Edmonds

Bonnie Burns

October 21, 2011

Dan, Joanne & Family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time.
Love, Tim, Bonnie & Kendall Burns

Paul Patren

October 21, 2011

Mike and family,
Our deepest sympathy for your loss. Please know you are all in our thoughts and prayers always. Find peace in your
hearts that she is at peace and cherish all your memories.
All our love, Paul & Robin Patten

Sandy Brown

October 21, 2011

Michael,

I'll hope and for the healing of your broken hearts.

Sandy Tucker Brown

Bob Schildge

October 21, 2011

Dear Michael, Rachel, Sarah, Kevin and families of Rose ~ Please know that we are keeping you close to our hearts and in our souls at the most difficult time in your lives. We pray that you find peace in the love Rose shared with you all. Please call if you need anything, anytime. We love you so very much and are here for you. Bobby & Cat

Melissa Mitko

October 21, 2011

Our deepest and most sincere sympathies at this very sad time. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Greg, Missy, & Brian Mitko

cindy and don biancamano

October 21, 2011

Dear Mike and family,
Just to let you know that your "Lake family" is thinking of you at this sorrowful time.
Cindy and Don Biancamano and all of Lake Hayward

October 21, 2011

Dear Mike, Sarah, Rachel, and Kevin
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May God wrap his arms around you and give you strength at this most difficult time.

Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal. ~From a headstone in Ireland

Meg Wright
Jack and Jean McGowan

Patty Dow

October 21, 2011

Dear Sarah & Rachel,
The wonderful MEMORIES you have of your mom will help you endure the pain of missing her. Please know we are all here for you if you need us.

Dan & Judy Flynn

October 21, 2011

Mike & Family, So very sorry for your loss, Our thoughts and prayers go out to all of you. Take comfort in knowing you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Peter, Deirdre and Annie Horton

October 21, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

sandra breault

October 21, 2011

Rose,our hearts ache for you and yours-We will always rememember the care and compassion you and Mike gave to our son Bruce.God called you home to soon- He must have needed a special angel.RIP Love Jerry. Sandy, Bruce and Lance

Kristen, Brian & Ciarra Vanderveen

October 21, 2011

Mike, Rachel and Sarah,
May you find solace among family and friends and may you always be surrounded with the love and laughter in which Rosie blessed us all.

October 21, 2011

Our deepest, heartfelt condolences to you Mike, Rachel, Sarah and Kevin, for your loss. May you remember always how much she loved you all.

Prayers and Peace~
Sarah and Ed Laird, Olivia and Sophia

October 21, 2011

Mike, Sara, Rachel, Our thoughts are with you during this horrible time. We are so incredibly sorry for your loss.
In sympathy,
Meredith Phillips
Rebecca Farrow

Brian, Kristen and Ciarra Vanderveen

October 21, 2011

Mike, Rachel and Sarah,
May you find solace from friends and family during this time and continually feel the love and laughter in which Rose blessed us all.

October 21, 2011

Dear Mike and family, we are very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

The Granfield Family

Patti Hawkins

October 21, 2011

Dear Joanne, Dan and Family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts, prayers and love are with all of you in this difficult time. May God give you strength to get through this terrible time. All our love,
John and Patti Hawkins

Michael Buskey

October 21, 2011

To Mike and his family,

I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you.

(formerly Clinton, CT residence)

October 21, 2011

DEAR MIKE AND FAMILY.....OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO YOU ALL. ANYTHING YOU NEED, PLEASE CALL ON US.
NANCY & ANDY BERLINER

Shane, Beth, Gabrielle and Jack Holveck

October 21, 2011

Spotts Family ,
Please accept our deepest sympathy during this difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Anne Vece-Rohrberg

October 21, 2011

Dear Mike, I am so sorry for your loss. I wanted you to know I am thinking of you and your kids. I hope you can find comfort in your memories. You have a lot of people who love you.

Pam & Brian Collagan

October 21, 2011

We are so saddened to hear of Rose's death. Please know that you and your family will remain in our thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time.

Karen Gasparini

October 21, 2011

Mike, Praying for you and your children, that God gives you strength and peace to help get you through this difficult time. Please accept our deepest sympathy on the passing of your beautiful wife/mother. God Bless. Jeff and Karen(Christiana) Gasparini

Liz, Jim, Casey and Tori Vickerman

October 21, 2011

Mike, Rachel, Sarah and Kevin,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Words cannot express the profound sadness we are feeling and cannot console. May you find some peace in the memories of this wonderful woman, one we were lucky to call friend.

October 21, 2011

Mike and girls,
We are so sorry for your loss. You're in our thoughts and prayers.
Rich, Lynda, Jess and Rayann Hampson

October 21, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time. Rose will be in your hearts always.

Our deepest sympathy,

Chris & Casey Clark
Tyler & Samantha Anglin

Beverly Elliott

October 21, 2011

This candle shines for you Rosie.

Joan Rondini

October 21, 2011

So very sad to hear the news. May you rest in peace and may God give your family the strength to cope with such a terrible loss. You, and that beautiful smile of yours, will be missed by many. xo

October 21, 2011

Mike, I've been thinking of you constantly, I'm so sorry. My love is with you and your family.
Chuck Bernier

October 21, 2011

Mike and family,

Our thoughts and prayers go out to you. May the special memories you hold dear comfort you at this most difficult time.

With deepest sympathy,

Janice Foley Lane and family

October 20, 2011

Mike,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss.Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in your time of grief.

~ Anita Scott, Kristian and Trevor Getman

Paula. Ed. Eddie, P.J. Tautkus

October 20, 2011

To Mike and his family, we are very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you all. Remember all the wonderful memories and carry them with you always. The Tautkus Family

Linda and Samantha Stevens

October 20, 2011

You are in our thoughts and prayers. While no words can take away your pain, may your fond memories help you through this time of sorrow.

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