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Herman Bershtein Obituary

Herman Bershtein
September 3, 2021
Attorney Herman S. Bershtein was born in New Haven on September 2, 1925. He is the son of the late William and Bessie Burke Gamm Bershtein, and the widower of the late Shirley Lufer Bershtein. He lived in Hamden his entire life. While at Yale, at age 17, he enlisted in the Army in 1943.
Mr. Bershtein, a WWII Veteran, attended The Infantry School, Fort Benning, Georgia. He served with the 86th Black Hawk Infantry Division; he later served as a lieutenant under General Douglas McArthur at General Headquarters, Allied Forces Pacific AFPAC in the Far East. Among his duties, he was responsible for the transportation and security of the International Prosecution Section, which prosecuted Japanese war criminals. After he was discharged from the Army in Japan, he remained in Tokyo as a civilian employee of the U.S. Civil Service.
He was also responsible for coordinating ground transportation and billeting for civilian United Air Lines crews, transporting cargo from California to Tokyo, and from Tokyo to Shanghai, China.
He attended Columbia University in New York City, University of South Carolina, Cornell University, and graduated from Yale University.
Mr. Bershtein was admitted to the South Carolina Bar in 1953. He was admitted to the Connecticut Bar in 1954, and was admitted to the Federal Bar in 1955.
He was the founder and senior partner of the law firm of Bershtein, Bershtein & Bershtein, Professional Corporation., d/b/a Bershtein Law Center.
Mr. Bershtein was a member of the New Haven County and Connecticut Bar Associations, and he was an arbitrator for the American Arbitration Association.
He served as a judge advocate for many years, for the Jewish War Veterans, Hamden Post 204, now associated with Levitow, Post #45, P.O. Box 150, Bloomfield, CT 06002.
In 1967, Mr. Bershtein represented the entire Hamden Fire Department. He successfully negotiated a 52 hour work week, - reduced to a 42 hour week-with Hamden's first Mayor, the late John DeNicola.
He was also involved in Hamden's acquisition of some of the acreage for The Laurel View Golf Course.
For many years, he was the attorney for the Paradise Country Club in Hamden. He was successful in obtaining a permanent injunction, and also damages against the Town of Hamden, which was diverting the natural flow of water to the Paradise Country Club recreational area, in order to irrigate The Laurel View Golf Course.
He served as the Co-Chair of the 60th, 65th and 70th year reunions of his 1943 Hamden High School Class.
He was a dedicated runner, having completed 19 marathons, including New York City, Bridgeport, Hartford, Mystic, Narragansett, Rhode Island, Boston, and Chicago. He was a previous member of the Yale Baseball Association.
He is a member of the National Registry of 'Who's Who of America".
He is survived by two daughters, Attorney Joy A. Bershtein of Branford, and Attorney Jan Bershtein of Bethany, and a son, Attorney Richard A. Bershtein of Madison, and ten grandchildren (William, Allison, Sheryl Leigh General of Branford; Marc and Alexa Cafasso of Bethany; Richard William, Hunter Sammy, Dylan James, Cody Sap and Shayann Shirley Bershtein of Madison). His five brothers, David Bershtein of North Haven, Alexander Gamm of Hallendale, Florida, Henry Gamm of South Carolina, James Bershtein of Hamden, and Morris Gamm of Wallingford predeceased him. He is survived by his dedicated companion, Lucy LaCava formerly of DePodesta Real Estate, and presently of Coldwell Banker.
He is also survived by great granddaughter, Jada Joy Lyman and great grandson, William General V, is due to arrive this month.
A Celebration of life will be held at Weller Funeral Home 424 Elm Street, New Haven, CT on Tuesday, September 7 at 10:00am. Burial services, to follow with Military Honors, will be held at Adas Israel Cemetery, Section "L" of Beaverdale Memorial Park, Fitch Street & Wintergreen Avenue, New Haven. Memorial contributions may be made to the Jewish War Veterans, Hamden Post #204, c/o Jewish War Veterans, Levitow, Post #45, P.O. Box 150, Bloomfield, CT 06002. To sign a guest book online, please visit www.wellerfuneralhome.com.
Friends, Hamden High School, and Yale classmates, are invited to join the family after funeral services for lunch at the Bershtein Law Center, 1188 Dixwell Avenue, Hamden. Parking is available in the lot across the street.

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Published by The New Haven Register on Sep. 4, 2021.

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Yamaguchi Family

September 24, 2021

Dear Joy and Bershtein Family,

We are deeply saddened by the passing of your sweet father. His smile and great stories will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers to you and your family. May his memory be a blessing always.

With Sympathy,
The Yamaguchi Family

Alphonse DelBasso

September 11, 2021

My deepest condolences to the family.

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Tish Cooper-Davis

September 7, 2021

Herman, I will never forget you, your work ethic, or the mutual respect we shared. Thank you for the opportunity to work for you and your family. It was a great experience and an opportunity to develop relationships that still exist. I will continue to stop by the office occasionally. My sincere condolences to the entire family. I have love for you all. Tish & Family

Barbara Esposito

September 7, 2021

Dear attorneys Richard Joy and Jan
My deepest sympathies to you all.
I once had the pleasure of. Meeting your
Dad may he Rest In Peace I worked at
Dr James Cianciolo Chiropractic for many
Years.

Donna Walton

September 6, 2021

Dear Joy, Richard, and Jan:
I send my sincere and heartfelt condolences to you and all of your family on Herman“s passing. I know he will be missed. In reading this beautiful memorial, Herman treasured and made the most of every minutes of every day, with his family at the center. A well-lived life. I wish you all peace and comfort in the coming days. Take good care.

Chris Garcia

September 6, 2021

I was looking for him today at the New Haven Road Race! He was always an inspiration to me. He was mentioned at the start of the race before the Star Spangled Banner. Our sympathies to Lucy and family and friends.

Dr. Carl DeLucia

September 5, 2021

Dear Family, I have know Herman for many years as he was the lawyer for many of my family elders. I would see him at the gym and we usually had a lively conversation about one thing or another. Not too long ago he called me to ask me about my return to the gym and if I thought it was clean and safe and I wished him well hoping to see him there once again. I am sure we will meet again. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Respectfully, Carl DeLucia DDS

Michael Amore

September 4, 2021

Rich, Joy and family
Condolences on the loss of your dad. It may sound cliche, but he truly was one of a kind. A great guy

My thoughts are with you
Mike Amore

Robert Megna

September 4, 2021

Jan, Joy and Richie
I am so sorry to hear Herman Has passed. He was a great man and a great legal mind and great friend. I know he and Shirley are together again. He missed her dearly since her passing. I can hear her voice this moment

Kathryn Foran Piascik

September 4, 2021

I am so sorry for your loss. Attorney Bershtein was not only my parents Attorney but also a friend to them. My thoughts and prayers to the family.

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